Mafunso 20 Omanga Ubwenzi Wapamtima Ndi Ubale Ndi Wokondedwa Wanu Pamlingo Wozama

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Chibwenzi sichimakula pakati pa mapepala, chimakulanso pakati pa mitima iwiri. Mutha kugonana mwachidwi koma m'mawa wotsatira, koma ngati mutachoka m'nyumbamo popanda kupsompsonana kwabwino m'mawa, zikuti chiyani za mgwirizano womwe mumagawana nawo? Ndipo ngati simumauzana zakukhosi n’kulola kuti mavuto anu aziunjikana, kodi mukuganiza kuti mungapitirizebe kukhala pachibwenzi mpaka liti popanda kusonyezana chikondi?

Sibwino kuganiza kuti mukakhala pachibwenzi, cholinga sikungobereka ana, kusonyeza maonekedwe a anthu, kapena kucheza ndi kupita kumalo odyera. Mukufuna kukhala ndi bwenzi la moyo wanu wonse. Mukafuna chinthu chatanthauzo kwambiri, muyenera kuyesetsa kuchisamalira. Popanda kuyesetsa komanso kusasinthasintha, ngakhale maulalo okongola kwambiri amatha kapena mutha kukhala osungulumwa pachibwenzi.

Ngakhale ubale wanu utakhala wosangalatsa komanso wabwino, mutha kuyesetsabe kukulitsa chikondi chanu ngati banja, ndikuwongolera kulumikizana kwanu kosiyanasiyana. Ichi ndichifukwa chake tili pano lero, kuti tikupatseni mndandanda wamafunso oganiza bwino kuti muwonjezere kukondana. Apatseni mwayi ndipo mupeza mbali yatsopano kwa okondedwa anu.

Kodi Ubwenzi Wapamtima N'chiyani?

Pamene okwatirana asonkhana pamodzi kuti azikhala, kuseka, ndi chikondi, ukonde wovuta wamalingaliro umapangidwa, womwe umathandiza okwatirana kukhala oyandikana wina ndi mzake. Mphamvu iyi mu chiyanjano ndi chiyanjano chamaganizo. Kulumikizana, kuyandikana, ndi chitetezo ndizo zigawo zake zitatu zofunika kwambiri. Maanja omwe ali ndi zinthu izi muubwenzi wawo ndipo nthawi zonse amayesetsa kuti azikhala bwino kuti azikhala ndi mgwirizano wabwino. Ndiye, mumapanga bwanji kugwirizana maganizo ndi munthu

Zimachokera ku kumvetsetsana ndi kumverana chisoni wina ndi mnzake. Anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi amagawana zomwe akufuna ndipo ali okonzeka kuthandizana kukwera. Kulumikizana kwawo kuli kotero kuti amatha kulosera maganizo ndi zochita za wina ndi mnzake. Amadziwana bwino lomwe ndipo ali mabuku otseguka kwa wina ndi mnzake. Ndizotheka kukhala ndi ubale woterewu ndi wokondedwa wanu pofunsa mafunso angapo apamtima omwe amakulolani kuti mumudziwe bwino mnzanuyo.

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Kodi kulumikizana kwamalingaliro ndikofunika bwanji makamaka ngati palibe ubwenzi wapamtima?

Ubwenzi wapamtima ndi msana wa ubale. Popanda izo, mutha kumverera kutali ndi mnzanuyo. Simungayembekezere kufufuza kuthekera konse kwaubwenzi wakuthupi ndi mnzanu pokhapokha mutalumikizana nawo m'malingaliro pamlingo wina. Zimakhala zofunikira kwambiri kukhazikitsa mgwirizano wamalingaliro pamene banja likukumana ndi vuto louma.

Kutalikirana kukhoza kukhala chifukwa cha kukangana kwapakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, mwachitsanzo, ngati asiya kukondana pazifukwa zina. Kapena zikhoza kukakamizidwa, zomwe ndi zomwe zimachitika ndi okwatirana akutali omwe alibe chochita china koma kukhala kutali. Mulimonsemo, sitepe yoyamba yothetsa kusiyanako iyenera kukhala kudzera mu chikondi, chikondi, ndi kugwirizana kwatsopano.

Kudzimva-odzipatula-kwa-mnzako

Tsopano mukudziwa chifukwa chake nkhani zamaganizo kukhala ochulukirachulukira muukwati wopanda chikondi ndi chifukwa chake ali ophwanya mgwirizano kwa ambiri aife. Mu izi nkhani, ofufuza apeza kuti pakati pa anthu 90,000 omwe adafunsidwa, 91.6% ya amayi ndi 78.6% ya amuna adanena kuti adachita chigololo m'maganizo. Wina phunziro zikuwonetsa kuti amayi amatha kutha chifukwa chosowa mwayi wofikira kwa okondedwa wawo.

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Ubwenzi wapamtima ukhoza kugwirizanitsa okwatirana pamene akusowa mawonekedwe a thupi

Kodi kusakondana kumachita chiyani paubwenzi?

Kusakondana kungachititse kuti chibwenzi chithe. Pamene maanja omwe akhala limodzi kwa nthawi yayitali asiya kuyesetsa kupanga maulalo atsopano mkati mwa equation yawo yomwe ilipo, atha kuyamba kudzimva kuti ali kutali wina ndi mnzake ndipo pamapeto pake amapatukana. Chikondi, chisamaliro, ndi nkhawa - chiyambi cha mgwirizano wamalingaliro - zimatuluka.

Monga momwe mwana amafunikira kugwiriridwa, kukumbatirana, ndi kulankhulana, muubwenzinso, okwatirana ayenera kuchitira zimenezo wina ndi mnzake kuti akulitse ubwenzi wawo. Studies kusonyeza kuti si kokha kusowa kwatanthauzo kugwirizana ndi okondedwa amakula zisudzulo, komanso kumabweretsa zochepa ubwenzi ubwenzi ndi wakale bwenzi pambuyo kutha.

Pofotokoza ululu wa munthu amene ali ndi njala m'maganizo, a Reddit wosuta akuti, "Zikuwoneka ngati kumbuyo kwa mutu wawo pamene akusewera masewera a pakompyuta ndipo mumangofuna kukambirana nawo za tsiku lanu. Zikuwoneka ngati mkwiyo chifukwa mwanjira ina simunathe kuwauza zomwe zikuchitika, ndipo tsopano akukwiya chifukwa mumakwiyira iwo chifukwa chosakuthandizani. Zikuoneka ngati thupi lawo logona pabedi chifukwa asankha kuwalanga kuti akulepheretseni kukhala ndi zosowa zanu zamaganizo. "

Ubwenzi watsopano uli ndi gawo lake la kuyambika kwachikondi ndi kukambirana kwapamtima. Koma ngati ogwirizana alephera kumanga pa izo ndi lumikizanani pamlingo wozama, danga lalikulu likhoza kuloŵa pang’onopang’ono pakati pawo, limene lingathe kuwagaŵanitsa kosatha. Umu ndi momwe ubale kapena banja lopanda chikondi limawonekera:

  • Mwasiya kugawana moyo wanu wina ndi mzake
  • Kukhudza kosagonana ndi mawu achikondi ndi manja palibe
  • Simukhalanso nthawi yabwino limodzi
  • Mwayi mlatho wolumikizana pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu wagweratu
  • Simukumva kukhala otetezeka kukhala pachiwopsezo kapena kumasuka zakukhosi kwanu kwa wokondedwa wanu
  • Mumadzimva kuti muli kutali, osalumikizidwa, komanso wosungulumwa pachibwenzi
  • Kusamvetsetsana kochuluka, nkhani zokhulupirirana, ndi zongoganiza zimakula mumgwirizano wanu
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Kusoŵa ubwenzi wapamtima kungachititse kuti mupatuke kwambiri

Tengani mafunso awa okhudza ubwenzi

Tisanalowe m'mafunso ozama paubwenzi, nayi mafunso kuti muyese kulimba kwa mgwirizano wamaganizidwe ndi anzanu. Ngati mupeza 'inde' wopitilira asanu, mukukulitsa chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo mgwirizano wathanzi. Zina zilizonse kuposa zimenezo ndi nkhani yodetsa nkhawa. Ndipo muyenera kuganizira mmene mungakonzere ubwenzi wapamtima pakati pa inu ndi mnzanuyo.

  1. Kodi mnzanuyo amayamikira malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu pazinthu zofunika? Inde / Ayi
  2. Kodi mungafotokoze mnzanuyo ngati womvetsera wabwino? Inde / Ayi
  3. Kodi mukuyembekezera kudzakhala limodzi kumapeto kwa sabata? Inde / Ayi
  4. Kodi nthawi zambiri mumalankhula za mapulani amtsogolo omwe amaphatikiza nonse? Inde / Ayi
  5. Kodi mumamva otetezeka kugawana malingaliro anu osatetezeka, kusatetezeka, ndi mavuto wina ndi mnzake? Inde / Ayi
  6. Kodi mukukumbukira kuti ndi liti pamene munauzana kuti “ndimakukondani”? Inde / Ayi
  7. Kodi mumakumbatirana pafupipafupi? Inde / Ayi
  8. Kodi mumamenyana mwaulemu popanda kutukwana kapena kutukwana? Inde / Ayi
  9. Kodi mumamukhulupirira mnzanuyo? Inde / Ayi
  10. Kodi simukumva kufunika kongoyendayenda mozungulira iwo? Inde / Ayi

Monga tidanenera, ngati muli ndi ochepera asanu mwa khumi pamafunsowa, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito mafunso akuya pang'ono kufunsa mnzanu kuti mulumikizanenso nawo. Komabe, ngakhale mphambu yanu inali pafupi kwambiri, sichifukwa chongokhalira kumasuka muubwenzi. Yesani kugwiritsa ntchito mafunsowa kuti muyambitse zokambirana zakuya, zapamtima pamasiku anu atsiku kapena kupanga masewera osangalatsa kuti mugwiritse ntchito bwino Lamlungu masana, ndikumudziwa bwino mnzanuyo.

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Mafunso 20 Oti Mufunse Kuti Mumange Ubwenzi Wapamtima

Chifukwa chake, tiyeni tiphunzire momwe mungapangire ubale wapamtima ndi mafunso ena kuti mufunse ena ofunikira. Banja lililonse (kaya litakhala pachibwenzi chongoyamba kumene kapena kukhala pachibwenzi) liyenera kuyang'ana kwambiri zaubwenzi popanda kugwirizana mwakuthupi kamodzi kokha kuti chikondi ndi kutentha zizikhalabe muubwenzi wawo.

Ndipotu, ikhoza kukhala imodzi mwa izo zinthu zabwino kuchita ndi chibwenzi chanu kunyumba mukakhala kunyumba Loweruka mvula madzulo kapena kungofuna kuthera Loweruka ndi Lazing pabedi, kulankhulana wina ndi mzake. Tili ndi mafunso abwino oti timufunse mnyamata kuti alumikizane naye.

Tsopano izo sizikutanthauza kuti onus ntchito kwambiri ubwenzi mafunso kulimbitsa maganizo kugwirizana lagona ndi akazi okha. Anyamata, inunso mutha kugwiritsa ntchito izi kuti mulumikizane (kapena kulumikizananso) ndi okondedwa anu. Ndikukutsimikizirani kuti zipanga kulumikizana kosangalatsa komanso kofunikira kwambiri ndi SO yanu. Yang'anani ena mwa mafunso abwino kwambiri kuti mupange ubwenzi wapamtima:

1. Ndiuzeni za ubwana wanu

Ngati munakwatirana kale kapena muli pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali, mungadziwe zambiri za ubwana wa mnzanuyo. Komabe, ngati mukadali pachikondwerero chaukwati, kuphunzira za ubwana wa mnzanu kungakhale njira yabwino yolimbikitsira mgwirizano wanu. Kupatula apo, zomwe takumana nazo paubwana wathu zimapanga zomwe tili akulu.

Ngakhale kuti zochitikazi sizimatifotokozera momveka bwino, nthawi zambiri, zimatha kufotokoza zambiri za makhalidwe athu. Mwachitsanzo, kuchitiridwa nkhanza ndi mlendo kapena wachibale kukhoza kukhala ndi zotsatirapo za nthawi yaitali pa umunthu wathu kapena kugwirizana kwanu ndi omwe akukusamalirani kwambiri. attachment style. Kumudziwa wokondedwa wanu komanso kumvetsetsa zomwe zidawapanga kukhala momwe alili ndikofunikira pomumvera chisoni.

2. Kodi mumadzikonda?

Research watsimikizira kuti anthu amene amasonyeza chikondi kwa iwo eni ndi amene amadziona kuti ndi abwino amapanga zibwenzi zabwino. Izi zimapangitsa kukhala limodzi mwamafunso ofunikira kufunsa ena ofunikira kuti amvetsetse kupezeka kwawo muubwenzi. Funsoli limakakamiza wokondedwa wanu kuti alumikizane ndi momwe akumvera komanso kusatetezeka kwawo, ndipo izi zingakuthandizeni kuti mugwirizane nazo.

3. Kodi mumakonda chiyani za ine?

Kufunsa izi kwa wokondedwa wanu kumatha kubweretsa mayankho osangalatsa komanso ozama. Othandizana nawo nthawi zambiri amati, “Ndimakukonda” kapena “Ndimakukonda”, mwanjira zosiyanasiyana koma nthawi zambiri anthu samayesetsa kuyamika mikhalidwe yofunikira ya umunthu wawo. Ili ndi funso limodzi lomwe lingakupangitseni inu ndi mnzanu kusilira wina ndi mzake mobwerezabwereza. Zili ngati kuwerengera madalitso anu ndipo kungakhale kopindulitsa pakutsitsimutsanso ubwenzi wapamtima ngakhalenso wakuthupi pakati pa inu nonse.

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4. Kodi zosoŵa zathu za m’maganizo ndi ziti?

Kukambiranaku ndikovuta, kotero tiyeni titsimikizire zomwe sizili. Uku sikukuitanani kuti muziuzana zomwe mungakhale mukuchita 'zambiri'. Sichikondwerero chotsutsa kapena choyambitsa chomwe chimatsogolera kukuloza zala ndi ndewu. Zomwe zokambiranazi zikukhudza, komabe, ndi zomwe nonse mukuganiza kuti mumafunikira m'malingaliro.

Izo zikhoza kukhala kukhulupirika muubwenzi, malingaliro a chiyamikiro, chiyamikiro, ulemu, mawu owonjezereka osonyeza chikondi, chisamaliro chowonjezereka, chisamaliro chochepa, ndi ndandanda ingapitirire. M'malo mofunsa mnzanuyo kuti, "Kodi ndingachitirenso chiyani?", afunseni, "Mukuganiza kuti mukufuna chiyani kuchokera kwa ine?" Idzakupatsirani nonse chithunzi chomveka bwino cha zomwe mumaziona kukhala zofunika kwa inu nokha.

kupeza kugwirizana maganizo pofunsa mafunso
Funsani wokondedwa wanu za zosowa zawo zapamtima

5. Kodi mungatchule zokumbira kukhala zokumbira?

Ngati nonse kapena mmodzi wa inu akuona kuti ubwenzi wanu uli pamavuto, kodi mungayang’ane popanda kunyalanyaza maganizo a mnzake? Kodi mungakhale ndi zokambirana zosasangalatsa popanda kuyatsa gasi, kuwongolera, kapena kuyesa kukhala ndi dzanja lamphamvu? Kodi mwina mwa inu mukukana zavuto la ubale wanu?

Choyamba njira yothetsera kusamvana ndiko kuvomereza kuti pali vuto osatembenuka mwachinyengo. Kutha kutero kungakupangitseni kuchoka kumagulu awiri otsutsana kupita ku gulu limodzi motsutsana ndi vutolo. Ndipo ndichifukwa chake ili ndi limodzi mwamafunso oyenera kufunsa kuti mukhale paubwenzi wozama.

6. Kodi ndi zinthu 10 zotani zimene mukufuna kuchita pa moyo wanu?

Ili ndi funso lalikulu kufunsa mnzanuyo kuti mukhale ndi mgwirizano wamalingaliro. Mudziwa ngati kupita ku Peru, kukhala CEO wa kampani, ndikupuma msanga, ndikukhala ndi famu yawoyawo ndi gawo la mndandanda wa ndowa zawo. Izi zidzakupatsani chidziwitso pa zokhumba zawo ndi maloto awo. Mutha kudziwa momwe mungakwaniritsire mapulani awo komanso momwe mungawathandizire.

7. Ndi mafilimu ati omwe amakupangitsani kulira?

Akhoza kunena kuti samatengeka mtima kuonera makanema kapena akhoza kusokoneza mndandanda womwe ungafanane ndi wanu. Ndiye inu mudzadziwa zimenezo forrest gump ndi filimu yawo yotonthoza kapena Cholakwika M'nyenyezi Zathu ndi zomwe zimatulutsa bokosi la minofu. Kulankhula za mafilimu ndi njira yabwino yolumikizirana. Ngati mumakonda mafilimu amtundu womwewo, ndiye kuti mumagawana kutalika kwamalingaliro, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti pali mwayi wolumikizana kwambiri. Mafunso oti apange ubwenzi wapamtima sakuyenera kukhala ozama komanso ozama; nthawi zina ngakhale maululidwe osalakwa kwambiri angakupangitseni kumva kukhala pafupi ndi mnzanu.

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8. Kodi mungakhale bwino kugawana nane zowawa za ubwana wanu?

Uku kungakhale kutha kwa agogo, kuchoka panyumba yaubwana wawo, kapena kusudzulana kwa makolo awo. Kapena kungotaya chiweto chawo pangozi yapamsewu kukanasiya chilonda chowopsa chomwe amabisa mosamala kwa aliyense, ngakhale inu. Mudzadziwa mozama za momwe wokondedwa wanu akumvera komanso kupsinjika maganizo akamalankhula za kukumbukira ubwana zomwe zimakhala zowawa kwambiri. Inde, zinakutengerani nthawi kuti muphunzire za chinthu chovuta kwambiri chimene mnzanuyo anapirira ali mwana, koma tsopano mukudziwa, safunikiranso kupirira ululu yekha.

9. Kodi ndi mnzanu uti amene mumaona kuti mumamukonda kwambiri?

Wokondedwa wanu akhoza kukhala munthu yemwe ali ndi awiri kwambiri mabwenzi apamtima kapena abwenzi khumi akusukulu omwe akhala nawo pamavuto ndi pamavuto. Koma nthawi zonse padzakhala bwenzi limodzi limene amamva kuti ali ogwirizana kwambiri. Mukadziwa chifukwa chake ubwenziwo ndi wapadera kwambiri kwa iwo, mudzakhala ndi ulemu watsopano kwa munthuyo ndipo mudzatha kumanga ubale ndi munthu amene ali wofunika kwambiri kwa inu.

Ndi funso lokhudza maganizo, mukhoza kumudziwa bwino mnzanuyo. Kudziwa zambiri za bwenzi lomwe amamukonda ndikukhazikitsa kulumikizana naye kudzakulitsa kulumikizana kwanunso. Ndipo ngati mnzanuyo avomereza kuti ndinu bwenzi lamtengo wapatali lomwe amamusunga kwambiri pamtima pake, zidzangopanga tsiku lanu!

10. Kodi lingaliro lanu la tsiku langwiro ndi ine ndi chiyani?

Iwo akanatha kunena zambiri. Izo zikhoza kukhala mwachizolowezi mafilimu ndi chakudya chamadzulo, ndi ulendo wa banja lachilendo kumapeto kwa sabata, tsiku la spa, kapena zakumwa pa bar yosambira. Izi zikumveka kale. Yankho lawo likhoza kukupatsirani njira zambiri zomangira paubwenzi muubwenzi. Tikukulimbikitsani kuti musamangokhalira kumangodziwa zambiri, m'malo mwake mugwiritse ntchito kukonzekera mausiku apadera ndi okondedwa anu, momwe amakondera.

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Kodi ili ndi tsiku labwino?

11. Kodi nchiyani chimene chinasintha moyo wanu kosatha?

Pafupifupi aliyense wakhala ndi zokumana nazo zosintha moyo. Zitha kukhala zokhumudwitsa kapena zitha kukhala kukumbukira kupambana kwa mpikisano wadziko lonse wolemba zaluso zomwe zidawakankhira ku ntchito ya utolankhani. Zomwe anganene zidzakupatsani chidziwitso m'miyoyo yawo asanakumane nanu komanso zomwe zidawapangitsa kukhala momwe alili masiku ano. Ngati mukuyang'ana mafunso ozama kuti mufunse chikondi chanu, iyi ndiyabwino.

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12. Kodi ndi zinthu ziti zimene mumayamikira kwambiri?

Ngati inu, kamodzi, mukufuna kuika patsogolo ubwenzi wapamtima mu ubale wanu, ili ndi funso kwa inu. Funsani mnzanuyo zomwe amayamikira kwambiri pamoyo wanu. Akhoza kungopitirira kunena kuti akuyamikira kukhalapo kwanu m’moyo wawo. Ndizotsimikizika kutero kukupangani manyazi ndipo zimatha kuyambitsa kupsompsona ndi kukumbatirana. Ndikutanthauza kuti limenelo ndi funso lalikulu lomanga ubwenzi, simukuganiza?

13. Kodi ndi chinthu chotani chimene munachitapo chovuta kwambiri?

Ili ndi limodzi mwamafunso abwino kwambiri opangira maubwenzi. Akakuuzani kuti kunali kulumpha kwa bungee, ndiye kuti mumadziwa momwe amafunira. Kapena mwinamwake tanthauzo lawo la ulendo ndi kukumbukira iwo akuzembera kunja kwa nyumba kudzera pakhomo lakumbuyo kwa usiku ndi abwenzi a zaka 17. Gawani nawo zochitika zanu nawonso; zitha kubweretsa mapulani osangalatsa komanso odzidzimutsa omwe limbitsa ubale wanu.

14. Kodi ndi zinthu ziti zimene ndimachita zimene zimakusangalatsani kwambiri?

Zitha kukhala zophweka ngati kuyala bedi m'mawa chifukwa akufulumira kukagwira ntchito. Kapena akhoza kutchula kutikita minofu imene mumamupatsa Lamlungu lililonse. Mulimonsemo, ndi limodzi mwamafunso abwino kufunsa kuti mukhale paubwenzi wozama. Mayankho ake adzakupangitsani kumva kuti mumasamala, kudera nkhaŵa, ndi kukondana. Limodzi mwamafunso osavuta koma ogwira mtima omanga ubwenzi wapamtima.

15. Kodi pali chinachake chimene mukufuna kuyesa pabedi?

Ubwenzi wapamtima umagwirizana kwambiri ndi kugonana komwe anthu awiri amagawana. Kukhala wokhoza lankhulani ndi mnzanu zomwe mukufuna pabedi zimakupangitsani kumva kuti mumalumikizana nawo. Maanja omwe angakambirane zomwe amakonda pabedi ndi zomwe akufuna kuyesanso ndi omwe akusangalala kwambiri. Muyenera kuyesetsa kupanga malo otetezeka kuti mnzanuyo afotokoze malingaliro awo onse ndi nkhawa zawo zakugonana.

16. Kodi tsogolo lathu pamodzi mumaliona bwanji?

Ili ndi funso labwino kwambiri lomanga ubale. Osati zokhazo, ndi limodzi mwa mafunso othandiza kwambiri kumanga chidaliro muubwenzi ndi kulimbikitsa chitetezo cha tsogolo lanu pamodzi. Funsoli likhoza kutsegulira njira zokambilana zosatha ndikukonzekera, ndikukupangitsani kukhala osangalala za tsogolo lanu limodzi. Mutha kukhala ndi mapulani oyenda padziko lonse lapansi kapena kukhazikika m'nyumba yamatabwa m'mapiri. Mungafune kufikira pachimake cha kupambana mbali ndi mbali. Pali zambiri zolota - palimodzi.

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17. Kodi ndinu kholo liti?

Ili ndi limodzi mwamafunso abwino oti muwonjezere kuyanjana kwamalingaliro chifukwa zingakupatseni lingaliro la kholo lomwe bwenzi lanu likugwirizana nalo ndikumva kuyandikana nalo. Mukhozanso kuwauza kuti ndinu kholo liti. Nonse nonse mungaulule za makolo anu zimene zingathandize nonse kumvetsetsana bwino ndi kukulitsa unansi wanu ndi banja la wina ndi mnzake kumlingo wakutiwakuti.

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18. Kodi mungafune kuyenda nane nthawi?

Izi zingakuuzeni zomwe zili m'maganizo mwawo. Tsopano, iwo akhoza kulola malingaliro awo kuwuluka. Ngati amati akufuna nthawi kuyenda ngati Bambo. Peabody ndi Sherman, ndiye titha kukutsimikizirani kuti pali zambiri zomwe zikukuchitikirani. Kapena anganene kuti angafune kubwerera m’mbuyo kuti akasinthe chinachake paubwana wawo kapena kuona kuchuluka kwa ana amene nonse mudzakhala nawo m’tsogolo. Izo sizingawoneke ngati limodzi mwamafunso ozama ubale koma mavumbulutso amatha kukhala ozindikira.

19. Kodi ndi chiyani chomwe mumakonda kuchita ndi ine tsiku lililonse?

Kulankhula za mafunso kuti mukulitse ubwenzi, nali limodzi lomwe simungaphonye. Yankho la mnzanuyo likhoza kukhala kuyambira kumwa khofi wam'mawa pamodzi kupita ku tebulo lakukhitchini kapena kuyenda nokha. kugwira dzanja lako, kapena kukumbatirana pa sofa ndi kuonera mafilimu. Ziribe kanthu kuti yankho liri lotani, pali chiyanjano chomwe chikuyembekezera kuchitika.

20. Kodi mbali yabwino kwambiri ya ubale wathu ndi iti?

Inde, pamafunso athu onse kuti tiwonjezere kuyanjana kwamalingaliro, tasunga funso labwino kwambiri lomaliza. Panthawiyi, nonse mungakhale ndi zambiri m'maganizo kuti mugawane wina ndi mzake ndipo mumvetsere bwino pamene akulankhula zakukhosi kwawo. Kenako, izi zidzatsatiridwa ndi kupsompsona ndi kukumbatirana. (Ayi, sitikulingaliranso)

Zolozera Mfungulo

  • Ubwenzi wapakati pakati pa okondedwa umakhudza kulankhulana, kukhulupirirana, ndi chikondi
  • Kupanda kuyandikana ndi kuwonekera pang'onopang'ono kumatha kukankhira ubale kumapeto kwake
  • Muyenera kukhala otetezeka m'malingaliro komanso omasuka kukhala omwe muli pafupi ndi mnzanuyo
  • Muyenera kulimbikitsa mgwirizano wamalingaliro kuti mukhale okhutitsidwa ndi thupi
  • Kufunsa mafunso oyenerera kuti mupange ubwenzi wapamtima kungapangitse njira yolumikizirana mozama

Ngati mukufuna kugwirira ntchito pa chikondi, kudzipereka, ndi chitetezo mu ubale wanu, ndiye kuti takonzerani mafunso omanga ubale wabwino. Ingopitirirani ndikufunsa ndikudziwitsani momwe zidakuyenderani mu gawo la ndemanga.

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