Kubera ndi chinthu choyipa kwambiri chomwe aliyense angakumane nacho. Kusakhulupirika kwa munthu amene mumamukhulupirira n’kovulaza kwambiri. Ndikhulupirireni, simuli nokha. Anthu ambiri adutsamo zomwe mukumva. Polimbana ndi kupwetekedwa mtima ndi kukhumudwa kwa kuperekedwa, adapanga nkhokwe yosungiramo mawu achinyengo omwe angakupatseni chiyembekezo ndi chitonthozo mu nthawi yovutayi.
Kaya wina wanena izi kwa inu kapena ayi, silinali vuto lanu. Kubera kwawo sikungonena za inu, ndi umboni wa umunthu wawo wolakwika komanso kudzipereka kwawo. Osadzipweteka wekha nazo.
57 Kubera Mawu Okuthandizani Kuthetsa Ululu Ndikuyamba Kuchiritsa
Mukanamizidwa, zomwe mungaganizire ndikuti mukadachita mosiyana. Mumadzipeza kuti mukudutsa mphindi iliyonse yomwe mudakhala nawo mukuyesera kupeza mbendera yofiira yomwe simunayimvere, zomwe zingafotokoze chifukwa chake adabera.
Gawo loyamba kuti mupitirire patsogolo ndi kutulutsa mawu anu. Muyenera kuchotsa chisoni ndi chidani chonse m'thupi lanu. Chifukwa chake, nazi mawu ochepa achinyengo omwe tikukhulupirira kuti adzakuthandizani kumva bwino:
- “Musamapeputse kuthekera kwa mwamuna kukuchititsani kudziimba mlandu chifukwa cha zolakwa zake.” — Rihanna
Izi ndi wangwiro kubera zolemba kwa iye kuti nonse inu akazi kunja uko munganene kwa chinyengo zibwenzi ndi amuna. Rihanna nthawi zonse amakhala wowona!
- “Kubera kunali kosavuta koma kosatheka kubwezanso.” - Dean Osborne
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa classic anagwidwa akunyenga mawu. Zimatsimikizira kuti zinthu zina sizingasinthe.
- Munthu akachita chinyengo pachibwenzi, palibe chifukwa chokhalirabe. - Anurag Prakash Ray
Ngakhale onyenga abwino nthawi zonse amagwidwa mawu ndi omwe amakuuzani kuti musankhe nokha. Ndipo ichi ndi chimodzi mwa izo. Iwo sakuyenera inu, ndipo inu simuyenera kuvutika.
- “Umu ndi mmene kusaona mtima ndi kusakhulupirika zinayambira, osati m’mabodza aakulu koma m’zinsinsi zing’onozing’ono.” - Amy Tan, Mwana wamkazi wa Bonesetter
Tsopano nayi imodzi mwamawu abodza ndi onyenga omwe muyenera kukumbukira nthawi zonse. Yang'anirani zizindikiro. Nthawi ina zikhala bwino.
- “Simunangondinyenga koma munatinyenga, simunangondiswa mtima, munasokoneza tsogolo lathu.” - Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience
Ndendende. Obera amtunduwu sachita bwino mawu amawonetsa kuti ndi kutaya kwawo, osati kwanu.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Mitundu 8 Yodziwika Kwambiri ya Kunyenga Mu Ubwenzi
- Kuwonjezera pa kuvulaza banja langa, kundibera ndi chinthu choipa kwambiri chimene munthu angachite. - Robert Buckley
Kulankhula za kubera mawu kwa iye, uyu mwina adzakhala kwambiri relatable kwa inu anyamata kunja uko.
- “Mkazi ameneyu anachititsa kuti mwamuna wake azibera, ndipo sanali kumuchitira zabwino aliyense wa iwowo.” M’malo momusiya, ankapita naye kunyumba n’kukalipira mwamuna wake, kenako n’kumachita bizinezi monga mwa masiku onse.
Palibe mkazi amene angakonde wachinyengo n’kulephera kulipira mtengo wake.” - Rose Wynters, Chiwonongeko Chosakhwima
Zachisoni ndi zankhanza, koma zoona. Pamlingo wina, mutha kuwathandizira machitidwe awo. Mwina munawapatsa mwayi wachiwiri wachiwiri pomwe sanayenere kuwachitira chifundo.
- “Chimene chinandikwiyitsa kwambiri m’zochitika zonsezo chinali chakuti sindinadzimve kukhala wonyozeka, kapena kukwiyitsidwa, kapenanso kupusitsidwa. ― Danka V., Moyo Wosasankhidwa
Mitundu yamtunduwu yomwe imagwidwa ndikubera imawonetsa momwe zimapwetekera munthu wina wokondedwa kwa inu ndichifukwa chake mtima wanu wosweka. Koma chikondi chimakutsegulirani nthawi zonse ku zowawa. Ndi chowonadi chomvetsa chisoni.
- “Anthu amabera akachita mantha. Ngati palibe mtengo woti munthu alakwitse kapena kuulula umbuli, palibe chifukwa chochitira chinyengo kapena chinyengo.” ― Leah Hager Cohen, Sindikudziwa: Potamanda Kuvomereza Kusazindikira
Ndemanga yachinyengo iyi ndi yankho ku zifukwa zanu zonse. N’chifukwa chiyani ankabera? N’chifukwa chiyani anakuperekani? N’chifukwa chiyani zinthu zinayenera kutha motere? Iwo anali ndi mantha ndipo kunali kosavuta kuthawa ndiye bwerani bwino.
- "Abera amachita bwino mpaka atakwanira omwe amakwiyira nawo kuti awonetsetse kuti sakuchita bwino." - Peter Singer, The Expanding Circle: Ethics and Sociobiology
Awa ndi ena mwa omwe amabera nthawi zonse amagwidwa mawu omwe amalankhula zoona. Kumbukirani, ndipo zingakupangitseni kukhala kosavuta kutero kuchiritsa ululu.
- "Kamodzi wachinyengo, nthawizonse wobwereza." — Melissa Edwards
Kodi chimenecho sichowonadi!
- “Chomwe chandigwedeza sindicho kuti unandinamiza, koma kuti sindikukukhulupiriranso.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche, Beyond Good and Evil
Zowona, ndi nthawi yowopsa kwambiri. Chikhulupiliro chosokonekera ndi chimodzi mwazovuta zazikulu zachinyengo muubwenzi.
- “Wabodza amadzinyenga koposa wina aliyense, chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti akhoza kukhalabe munthu wakhalidwe labwino pamene sangathe.” - Richelle E. Goodrich, Kupanga Zolakalaka: Mawu, Malingaliro, & Ndakatulo Yaing'ono ya Tsiku Lililonse Pachaka
Simungathe kukhala nazo njira zonse ziwiri. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa mawu abodza ndi onyenga omwe aliyense ayenera kukumbukira.
- “Kubera ndi chinthu chopanda ulemu kwambiri chimene munthu angachitire mnzake.” Ngati simukusangalala pachibwenzi, chithetseni musanayambe chibwenzi china. — Abhishek Tiwari
Tsopano, kodi izo zovuta kumvetsa?
- “Kubera ndi kusankha. - Charles J. Orlando
Palibe zotsutsana apa.
- “Osabera ngati sukufuna kuberedwa. Ubwenzi umangogwirizana. - Israelmore Ayivor, Shaping The Dream
Ubale uliwonse ndi njira ziwiri. Ngati chinyengo mnzanu ndi kukupemphani kuti muwabweze, koma inu simukuona ngati mungathe kuwakhululukira, kumbukirani ichi kubera mawu kukhala olimba pa chisankho chanu.
17. “Munthu akabera mkazi wako, palibe kubwezerana chabwino kuposa kumusiya. - Sacha Guitry
Mmodzi mwa owopsa kwambiri, osavuta, komanso ovutitsa kwambiri omwe amabera nthawi zonse amagwidwa mawu.
- "Palibe chifukwa chokhalira ndi chibwenzi." — Shanola Hampton
Ndi kuperekedwa. Zosavuta komanso zosavuta. Palibe kuchuluka kwa kulungamitsidwa komwe kungasinthe izi.
- Ngakhale chinyengo chaching'ono chimakhala chonyozeka ngati chikugwiritsidwa ntchito pazifukwa zadyera kapena mwamantha. - Bambo Penderwick (Jeanne Birdsall), The Penderwicks pa Gardam Street
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazolemba zabodza za WhatsApp zomwe mungatumize kwa munthu yemwe akukumana ndi zovuta.
- "Ngati simungathe kudzipereka kwa munthu wina, khalani odzipereka ku lingaliro la umunthu ndipo musamachite chinyengo." - Jerry Springer
Ndendende! Chitani zoyenera ndi thyola. Osayendayenda mwachinyengo. Ndi zamanyazi.
- “Chidaliro, chikatayika, sichinkapezeka mosavuta. Osati m’chaka chimodzi, mwina ngakhale m’moyo wonse.” - JEB Spredemann, Chinsinsi Chosakhululukidwa
Simungakhulupirire munthu amene anakunyengani monga munkachitira poyamba. Icho ndi chowona.
- “Kusakhulupirika n’kopweteka m’maganizo, m’maganizo, ndiponso m’thupi kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi amene waperekedwayo. - Dr. Karen Finn
Chitani mwachifatse. Chitani chilichonse chomwe chimabwera mwachibadwa kwa inu. Palibe njira yolondola yochiritsira.
- Bodza limodzi ndi lokwanira kukayikira chowonadi chonse. - Zosadziwika
Analira nkhandwe ndipo tsopano palibe kubwerera. Abodza awa ndi mawu achinyengo amakuuzani kuti sizofunika.
- “Inu munati, ‘Kunali kulakwa.” Koma nkhanza inali yakuti, ndinaona ngati kuti ndinalakwitsa chifukwa chokukhulupirirani. — David Levithan, The Lover’s Dictionary
Musalole kuti akupusitseni. Obera ambiri amaona zolakwa zawo ngati kulakwitsa pokhapokha atagwidwa. Tulukani, chifukwa mutha kuchita bwino kwambiri.
- "Simungathe kusunga ubale pokhapokha ngati onse awiri ali ndi ndalama zofanana. Zimafunika kuyesetsa kuti zitheke. Munthu mmodzi akuyesera sikukwanira." — Tony Gaskins
Pakuti inu anyamata kunja uko amene mitima yawo poponderezedwa, ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zabwino kubera zolemba kwa iye kuti munganene kwa bwenzi lanu kucheza. Kumbukirani ngati sasamala, chokani. Mutha kuchita bwinoko.
- “Ukakwatira mwamuna wonyenga mkazi wake, udzakwatiwa ndi mwamuna wonyenga mkazi wake.” —Ann Lander
Mbidzi sisintha mikwingwirima yake. N'zovuta kupanga ubale wozikidwa pa kukhulupirirana ndi munthu amene wanyenga, ngakhale mutakhala ndi inu.
- "Palibe chibwenzi chomwe sichitanthauza kalikonse." - Amanda Robson
Inde, ngati izo zinachitika, izo zikutanthauza chinachake. Musawalole kuti akuuzeni zina. Chofunika kwambiri, musawakhulupirire akamatero chifukwa zimakupangitsani kumva bwino.
- “Bwanji osangonamizira kuti buluyo wagwa pansi? ― Isabel Lopez, Maloto a Isabel Hand-Me-Down
Izi zingathandize, tangolingalirani kuti anafa. Mulungu akudziwa kuti pambuyo pa zomwe adachita adafa kwa inu, bwanji osapeza chitonthozo pamalingaliro amenewo.
- "Zingamveke zachilendo kwa mkazi kudziwa kuti mwamuna wake akubera, koma osati ngati ndiwe mkazi komanso mwamuna wako." - Melissa Bank
Ukakhala iwe, pali ululu. Zimapangitsa mphekesera zosavuta kukhala zenizeni. Lingaliro lakuti wanu mwamuna akukunyengererani ndiye chinthu chovuta kwambiri kukulunga mutu wanu mozungulira.
- “Palibe amene adziphapo chifukwa chothyoka mkono, koma tsiku lililonse anthu masauzande ambiri amadzipha chifukwa cha kusweka mtima.” Chifukwa chiyani? ― Oliver Markus Malloy, Zosankha Zoyipa Zimapanga Nkhani Zabwino (Omnibus): Momwe Mliri Waukulu Waku America Opioid Wam'ma 21st Century Unayambira - Memoir
Ululu wam'maganizo ndi wovuta kwambiri kuthana nawo kuposa kuvulala mwakuthupi. Koma mudzatuluka mu izi zamphamvu ndi zanzeru. Kotero, pali chinachake chabwino chimene chidzatuluka mu gehena umene inu mulimo.
- Chikondi sichiyenera kukupwetekani ayi. - Mia Ashe, Arsen: Nkhani Yachikondi Yosweka
Ngati si malo anu otetezeka, si chikondi. Muyenera kuzindikira kuti mutha kukankhira kutali zomwe zimawoneka ngati chikondi.
- “Kuyesa kuchita misala kukuchititsani misala. — Karen Salmansohn
Simungamvetse zifukwa zawo. Ngakhale atayesa kufotokoza mbali yawo ya nkhaniyo, palibe chifukwa chimene chidzalungamitsire mchitidwe wawo wakusakhulupirika. Ingopitirirani.
- “Kubera kumangosangalatsa okhawo amene sangathe kuwona kukongola kwake mokhulupirika.” - Michael Bassey Johnson, The Infinity Sign
Ndi anthu owonongeka kwambiri. Iwo ali ndi gpne kupyola mu zoipa zambiri zomwe zawasiya nazo nkhani zazikulu za trust. Musalole kuti akugwetseni pamodzi nawo.
- "Chilichonse ndichabwino kuposa mabodza ndi chinyengo." - Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina
Osasewera. Choonadi, ngakhale chikhale chovuta chotani, chili bwino kuposa bodza lotsekemera ngati uchi. Chifukwa chiyani anthu sangakhale oona mtima?
- Kunama n’kosavuta, koma n’kusungulumwa.”
"Mukutanthauza chiyani?"
“Ukamanamiza aliyense pa chilichonse, chotsalira n’chiyani?
“Palibe,” ndikutero.
"Ndichoncho." ― Victoria Schwab, The Archived
Mukuyang'ana onyenga abwino omwe sachita bwino mawu? Uyu akumenya msomali pamutu pake, simukunena?
- “Zibwenzi zakunja zimachitika m’maganizo komanso m’chipinda chogona.” - Dr. Gary Smalley
Kusakhulupirika m'maganizo ndi chinthu chenicheni. Ndi pamene chirichonse chimayambira. Musalole kuti mnzanu wachinyengo azibisala pambali ngati zopanda pake ndikuthawa.
- "Ngati mumabera munthu amene akufuna kukuchitirani chilichonse, mwadzinamiza chifukwa cha kukhulupirika kwenikweni." - Zosadziwika
Iwo awononga chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndiponso chamtengo wapatali. Iwo amachidziwa, ndipo inunso mumachidziwa. Koma kumbukirani, pamapeto pake, ndi kutaya kwawo. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazolemba zachinyengo zomwe zimakukumbutsani izi mokongola.
- "Ndimanyadira mtima wanga. Waseweredwa, kubayidwa, kuberedwa, kuwotchedwa ndi kuthyoledwa, koma mwanjira ina zikugwirabe ntchito." - Alcatraz Dey
Ndinu wamphamvu kuposa momwe mukudziwira. Khalani ndi chikhulupiriro mwa inueni, mudutsa izi.
- “Lekani kumuganizira, chifukwa sakuganizirani.” - Zosadziwika
Kubera mawu kwa iye sikungakhale oona mtima mwankhanza kuposa izi. Darling ingoyiwalani za iye mukuyenera bwino kwambiri.
- "Palibe paliponse pomwe pamanena kuti kusakhulupirika kapena kusakhulupirika kumalumikizidwa ndi zochitika zakuthupi zokha." - Dena B. Cashatt
Kunyenga kumayambira m'maganizo ndipo ndi gawo lokhalo lomwe lingakhululukidwe. Ikangoyamba kuchitapo kanthu, ndi Game Over. Kumanganso ubale ndi kukhulupirirana pambuyo kusakhulupirika kumafuna khama lalikulu. Muyenera kudzifunsa kuti, "Kodi ndizofunika?"
- "Bushwhacked, ndimayang'ana manja anga. Manja omwewo. mphete idakalipo koma sikugwiranso ntchito." ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: Memoir of Divorce
Malingaliro osokonezeka ndi opanda chiyembekezo ndi enieni. Khalani pamenepo, zinthu zikhala bwino.
- "Mwamuna akhoza kukukondani kuchokera pansi pamtima, ndikupeza malo apamwamba kwa wina yemwe amati palibe." - Kiki Strack
Pali zambiri zachinyengo zolembedwa kwa iye zomwe mungatonthozedwe nazo koma izi ndizowona mwankhanza. Palinso mawu ena ankhanza kwa onyenga.
- "Zowona, ngati anthu ochita zachiwerewere amakunyengererani, ndiye kuti sakuyenera inu. Ngati ndi mantha oyenera, ndiye kuti simuyenera kukhala nawo poyamba." — Kody Keplinger, Shut Out
Chiyambi chiyenera kukhala chokwanira. Simungayambe ubale ndi kukaikira. Ngati pali nkhani zokhulupirirana pakati pa inu ndi wokondedwa wanu, muyenera kudziwa zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala kovuta kuti muziwakhulupirira.
- Palibe chibwenzi chomwe chimangotaya nthawi, ngati sichinakubweretsereni zomwe mukufuna, chimakuphunzitsani zomwe simukufuna. - Zosadziwika
Zomwe sizimakupha zimakupanga kukhala wamphamvu. Kunyengedwa mwina chimodzi mwazinthu zowawa kwambiri m'moyo wanu koma mudzatuluka wanzeru mbali inayo.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Mkazi Wanga Anali Ndi Chibwenzi Koma Sichinali Cholakwika Chake Chokha
- “Kubera ndi kunama sikungolimbana, ndi zifukwa zothetsera banja.” ― Patti Callahan Henry, Pakati pa Mafunde
Bodza nthawi zonse limatha ndi tsoka. Kulankhulana ndiye chinsinsi chokha ku ubale wabwino.
- “Chinthu chochititsa mantha kwambiri pa mabodza amene sanaululidwe n’chakuti ali ndi mphamvu yokulirapo yotichepetsera mabodza kuposa amene amavumbula. - Cheryl Hughes
Inde, iwo ndi migodi ya nthaka ya maubwenzi. Mawu ena achinyengo amathandizadi kuona zochitika zonse m'njira yoyenera.
- "Ndi bwino kutseka mtima wako ndi khola lopanda chifundo, kusiyana ndi kukondana ndi munthu amene sakudziwa zomwe akutanthauza kwa iwe." ― Michael Bassey Johnson, The Infinity Sign
N’zoona kuti palibe cholakwika ndi kudikira. Ndi bwino kusiyana ndi kukumananso ndi zowawazo.
- “Zivomezi zimangochitika, mphepo yamkuntho imangochitika, lilime lako silimangogwera m’kamwa mwa mtsikana wina! ― Gemma Halliday, Kuzizira Kwambiri
Ndendende! Tsopano, awa ndi ena mwa mawu ankhanza kwambiri achinyengo kunja uko. Ngati wanu kunyenga mnzake amaponya "Zinangochitika" cliché kulungamitsa zochita zawo, ichi chikanakhala kubwerera wangwiro.
- “Adzanena kuti ndiwe woipa
kapena mwina ndinu wamisala
kapena osachepera inu
ayenera kukhala mobisa.
Malingaliro anu ayenera kukhala opanda kanthu
ngati mungayerekeze
kuganiza kuti mukhoza kukonda
kuposa okonda mmodzi.”
- David Rovics
Lalikirani! Kudzipereka si keke yomwe mungadule ndikugawana ndi aliyense. Kungakhale kukhala wokhulupirika kwa munthu mmodzi kapena kukhala wokhulupirika kwa wina aliyense.
- “Nthawi zambiri anthu sankachita chinyengo ngati ali ndi mabwenzi abwino.” ― Emily Giffin, Chinachake Chabuluu
Yakwana nthawi yoti musiye kukana ndikuvomereza kuti pakhoza kukhala cholakwika ndi ubale wanu.
- "Ndinayesa kudzipatula kwa iye pogwiritsa ntchito mawu onyenga monga "kukhulupirika" ndi "chigololo", podziuza ndekha kuti asokoneza ntchito yanga, kuti ndinali naye ndikanakonda kulemba. Ndinayesa kudziuza kuti ndikumupweteka Bennett, kudzipweteka ndekha, kudziwonetsera ndekha. Ndinali. Koma palibe chomwe chinandithandiza. Ndinagwidwa. Mphindi yomwe adalowa nane m'chipinda, ndikumwetulira. ― Erica Jong, Kuopa Kuwuluka
Chabwino, ngati mukusemphana maganizo, ndiye kuti chinthu chokhacho choyenera kuchita ndicho kupeza zomwe mukufuna ndikumvetsetsa zomwe mukufunadi. Palibe ubale womwe ungagwire ntchito ngati simukudziwa yemwe mumakonda.
- "Ndinayesa kudzipatula kwa iye pogwiritsa ntchito mawu onyenga monga "kukhulupirika" ndi "chigololo", podziuza ndekha kuti asokoneza ntchito yanga, kuti ndinali naye ndikanakonda kulemba. Ndinayesa kudziuza kuti ndikumupweteka Bennett, kudzipweteka ndekha, kudziwonetsera ndekha. Ndinali. Koma palibe chomwe chinandithandiza. Ndinagwidwa. Mphindi yomwe adalowa nane m'chipinda, ndikumwetulira. ― Erica Jong, Kuopa Kuwuluka
Chabwino, ngati mukusemphana maganizo, ndiye kuti chinthu chokhacho choyenera kuchita ndicho kupeza zomwe mukufuna ndikumvetsetsa zomwe mukufunadi. Palibe ubale womwe ungagwire ntchito ngati simukudziwa yemwe mumakonda.
- Kwa miyezi tsopano, mwala unakhala pamtima panga. Ndinkagwetsa misozi yambiri pa [iye], kugona tulo, kudya mkate wambiri wophwanyidwa. Mwanjira ina, ndinayenera kupitiriza. [Moyo] ukanakhala gehena ngati sindikagwedezeka pa zomwe anali nazo pamtima wanga, ndinkafuna kukhala ndekha. zokondana kutanthauza awiri. Ngakhale akanamva ngati Iyeyo. Ngakhale nthawi zonse ndimaganiza kuti tikhala limodzi. Ngakhale atakhalabe ndi unyolo wotsamwitsa pamtima wanga. " ― Kristan Higgins, Zonse Zomwe Ndinkafuna
Zipita, mtsikana! Ndizovuta koma kusiya mapulani anu onse ndi iwo ndi sitepe yoyamba yopita kuchira. Munali ndi zomverera ndipo sizinagwire ntchito. Ziri bwino ngati mwalakwitsa, muchita bwino nthawi ina.
- “Chinthu chokha chimene chibwenzi chinali chabwino kwa iye chinali kusweka mtima.” ― Becca Fitzpatrick, Crescendo
Bet mukudziwa kumverera uku. Ndiye bwanji ngati iye sanali 'iye'. Zimangotsimikizira kuti mutha kuchita bwino kwambiri kuposa iye.
- "Inde, ndikumvetsetsa chifukwa chake zinthu zidayenera kuchitika motere. Ndikumvetsetsa chifukwa chake adandipweteketsa mtima. Koma kumvetsetsa chabe sikuchotsa zowawazo. Siitana dzuŵa pamene mitambo yakuda yandizinga. Ibwere mvula ngati iyenera kubwera! Ndipo ichotse fumbi lopweteka m'maso mwanga!" - Jocelyn Soriano, Sinthani Mtima Wanga Wosweka
Izi ndi zozindikira kwambiri. Muyenera kuvomereza chisoni ndi mkwiyo umene muli nawo. Musathawe m'malo mwake mulole mtima wanu umvetsetse zomwe zidachitika. Izinso zidzatha. Dziloleni nokha kuchiza ndi achire ku chigololo chawo. Zinthu zikhala bwino pakapita nthawi.
- "Ndikuganiza kuti umandikondabe, koma sitingathe kuthawa mfundo yakuti sindiri wokwanira kwa iwe. Ndinadziwa kuti izi zidzachitika. Choncho, sindikukuimba mlandu chifukwa chokondana ndi mkazi wina. Sindinakwiyidwe, ngakhale. Ndiyenera kutero, koma sindiri. Ndimangomva ululu. Zowawa zambiri. Ndinaganiza kuti ndingathe kulingalira kuti izi zingapweteke bwanji, koma ndinalakwitsa." ― Haruki Murakami, South of the Border, West of the Sun
The mbola ya kuperekedwa ndi zoipa kwambiri kuposa momwe anthu amaganizira. Ndi chinachake chimene inu simungakhoze kukonzekera. Zomwe mungachite ndikudzuka m'mawa ndikukhalabe ndi chiyembekezo kuti pamapeto pake zidzapweteka pang'ono. Ndipo, ndikhulupirireni, zidzatero, kotero ingokhalani mmenemo.
- “Chifukwa chimenecho ndicho chimene kusakhulupirika kumatanthauza, eti? ― Matt Dunn, Buku la Ex-Boyfriend's Handbook
Kungoti muli pachibwenzi sizitanthauza kuti anthu ena amasiya kukhala okongola. Iwe ukadali munthu. Koma kulimbana ndi kukopeka kumeneku ndiko kukhulupirika ndi chikondi zimatanthauza.
Kotero, ndizo zonse 57 zachinyengo zomwe mudalonjezedwa. Ngati mwapusitsidwa, ndiye tikukhulupirira kuti mukudziwa kuti simuli nokha. Ngati mukudziwa wina yemwe akukumana ndi kusakhulupirika monga chonchi, ndiye kuti muwatumizire imodzi mwamawu achinyengo pa WhatsApp. Athandizeni.
Timamvetsetsa zomwe mukuyenera kukhala mukukumana nazo, ndipo tikukhulupirira kuti mawu awa akuthandizani. Kumbukirani kuti ululuwo udzatha. Mukuyenera kukondedwa ndipo mudzapeza. Maubale ndi okhudza kuyesa, kotero musataye mtima nokha. Tengani nthawi kuti muchiritse, koma musataye mtima. Zabwino zonse!
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