Ndakhala m'banja kwa zaka 8 ndipo mwamuna wanga wakhala okoma koma osati mnyamata wofotokozera kwambiri. Mwamuna wanga sali wachikondi kapena wachikondi. Angakhale othandiza kukhitchini koma amadana ndi ntchito zapakhomo. Iye si mitundu yachikondi, yomwe ingandichotse pamapazi anga.
Ndimasowa chikondi chamtunduwu. Ndimayembekezera kuti andiyang'ane, andipsompsone, andiuze kuti “ndimakukonda” kapena achite china chake chapadera. Ngakhale ali pabedi, nthawi zonse wakhala waulesi kwambiri . Tinkakangana kangapo chifukwa cha izi.
Ndatopa kupempha chikondi cha mwamuna wanga mwanjira iliyonse. Kusowa chikondi kwadzetsa mavuto mu ubale wathu ndipo sindikudziwa kuti ndithana nazo bwanji.
Mwamuna Wanga Sali Wachikondi Kapena Wachikondi
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Posachedwapa, wakhala wolusa. Ngakhale chaching'ono kwambiri monga kusintha thewera la mwana wathu, ndikamupempha kuti achite, amamenyana nane. Chitsanzo china ndi, ngati sindingathe kugwira ntchito ina yomwe tagawa pakati pathu chifukwa cha kufika kwanga kuntchito m'mawa, sindingamve mapeto a madandaulo ake.
Mwamuna wanga samandilemekeza
Mwamuna akapanda kukusonyezani chikondi, zikutanthauza kuti sakumverani chisoni kapena sakuzindikira kufunika kwanu. Zikuoneka kuti sakumvetsa kufunika kwanga chifukwa ine ndimayang'anira ndalama zonse zapakhomo, zakudya, kunyamula chakudya cha mwana wathu wamkazi, kusamalira ndalama zathu, kuphika, kuyeretsa ndi zina zotero.
Ngakhale ntchito imodzi yomwe ndimamuuza kuti achite, amakana mwamwano kuchita zimenezo. Ndikufunika kumupempha kuti andithandize. Ngakhale zili choncho, amachita zimenezi mokwiya kwambiri. Wayambanso kuchita chilichonse monga kukondwerera limodzi chikondwerero.
Mwamuna akapanda kusonyeza chikondi ndipo amangokhalira kukunyodolani ndi kukangana akapeza mpata, amayamba kukufooketsani. Ndipo ndi zimene zikuchitika kwa ine.
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Palibe zikondwerero zachikumbutso
Posachedwapa linali tsiku lokumbukira ukwati wathu ndipo sanapemphe n'komwe tchuthi kuti tikondwerere limodzi, zomwe nthawi zambiri timachita. Komanso, tinkafunika kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza, koma zikuoneka kuti sizikumufuna ngakhale pang’ono.
Ndatopa ndi kupempha chikondi chake ndipo ndimamva kupweteka kwambiri akamanyalanyaza zomwe zikuchitika paubwenzi wathu.
Kodi ineyo ndi amene ndikuyesetsa kuchita zonsezi?
Sindikudziwa kuti chikuchitika n’chiyani, koma ndimaona kuti ndine ndekha amene ndimayesetsa kuti ndiyambe kukondana ndi banja lathu chifukwa chakhala chotopetsa.
Nthawi zina ndimaona kuti mwamuna wanga wakhala akukhala munthu wamba, wosalankhula momveka bwino chonchi ndipo sindidzapeza chidwi chomwe ndikufuna. Nthawi zina ndimaona kuti mwina sindinayambe ndamukondapo. Nthawi zina ndimafuna chikondi ndi chikondi kwa mwamuna wanga ndipo nthawi zina ndimafuna kuthawa.
Ndasokonezeka kwambiri. Mwamuna wanga sakusonyeza chidwi ndi ine. Kodi izi ndi zizindikiro zosonyeza kuti mwamuna wanga sakundikondanso?
Sindikufuna kutaya ukwati wanga, koma ndikufuna kuti zinthu zina zisinthe. Chonde ndithandizeni!
Wokondedwa Lady,
Wow! Kunena zoona? Nditawerenga zomwe mwalemba, sindikanakonda kukhala mwamuna wanu. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa mukumveka ngati wosowa, wokakamira ndipo mumadandaula kwambiri! Tsopano ndi nkhani yabwino kwambiri - kodi ndi vuto lanu? Ayi. Apa ndi pomwe ndidalowa ndipo wokondedwa, tiyeni tiwone pamodzi kuti zinthu zikhale bwino.
Kupanda chikondi kwa mwamuna wanu kukupangitsani kukhala opanda chimwemwe m’banja mwanu koma apa pali zina zomwe muyenera kuzikumbukira.
Chisangalalo sichidzachitika
Azimayi onse amadyetsedwa ndi malingaliro achikondi, pomwe mnyamatayo amampsompsona mtsikanayo ndikumutengera pazakudya zoyatsa makandulo.
Ndipo ndi zomwe mukufuna - chisangalalo m'maso mwake akakuwonani - monga momwe mwana amamvera m'mawa wa Khrisimasi akuwona mphatso ya Santa. Kulondola?
Ndipo ndikuuzeni chifukwa chake izi sizichitika:
1. Patatha zaka zambiri tili limodzi, chinthu chodabwitsachi sichinapezekepo.
2. Dziko silikuyenda momwe iye akufunira ndipo inu m'malo momupatsa mankhwala ndikumuthandiza, yambitsani zovuta pomufunsa kuti akhale ngwazi yaku Hollywood ndipo watopa ndi izi.
3. Mukudalira kwambiri iye kuti mukhale osangalala.
Mfundo zochepa zokhudza amuna
Tsopano malingaliro ena ongoyerekeza omwe amagwira amuna ambiri koma samavomereza:
1. Amuna amakonda kukhala akatswiri pa zida zonyezimira za anthu omwe sakuzifuna.
2. Amakonda kwambiri kugonana (osati kupanga chikondi) kwa gawo lalikulu la zaka zawo zakukula kumachokera ku zolaula.
3. Amuna amathawa udindo.
Kodi mungatani kuti zinthu zikhale bwino?
Kuganizira izi momwe mungapangire zinthu kukhala bwino?
1. Kodi munayamba mwadzisangalatsa? Ngati mutaya nthawi yanu kuti mukhale osangalala ndikudzikonda nokha m'malo mongoganizira chifukwa chake iye sangakusangalatseni - zotsatira zake zidzakhala kuti mudzakhala osangalala!
Pitani ku gawo ku spa ndikumugulira kutikita minofu pa spa ndikumuuza - pitani mukakhala ndi nthawi ndipo ndidzasamalira chilichonse pamenepo. Kungomutsimikizira kuti mudzasamalira chilichonse kumamusangalatsa ndipo mutatha gawo lanu la spa, ndinu okondwa. Kotero ndi kupambana-kupambana mkhalidwe ndi chimwemwe chowirikiza.
2. Mukakhala superwoman wamphamvu uyu amene safuna mwamuna kuti asangalale, mwamuna wanu adzafuna inu kwambiri ndi zimene mukufuna - iye kukhala pafupi ndi inu, zidzachitika.
Choncho musananene kuti, “Mwamuna wanga sali wachikondi kapena wachikondi!” ganizaninso.
Chikondi ndi kuwala, mtsikana wanga. Ndipo ndidziwitseni ngati muli ndi mafunso!
PS Nthawi zina ingovalani zovala zomwe mumakonda, ikani zomvera zanu ndikuliza nyimbo ndi kuvina pomwe palibe amene akuyang'ana!
Ibibazo
Pambuyo pazaka zambiri zaukwati, chinthu chodabwitsa sichilipo. Maso ake sangaŵale akakuwonani kapena sangathamangire kuti akukumbatireni ndipo pangakhale mikangano, zomwe zingakupangitseni kuganiza kuti mwamuna wanu sakusonyeza chikondi. Koma ndi zachilendo, sichoncho?
Amuna nthawi zambiri amakonda kugonana (kupanga chikondi sikuli m'maganizo mwawo nthawi zonse), amakonda kukhala akatswiri ovala zida zonyezimira kwa anthu omwe sakuwafuna ndikuthawa udindo. Ngati izi zimakupangitsani kuganiza kuti mwamuna sakukondani ndiye kuti simukumumvetsa mwamuna wanu.
Kupanda chikondi kungawononge maubwenzi koma musamafulumire kuganiza kuti palibe chikondi. Mwamuna wanu sangakhale nyalugwe pabedi, kapena kukutengerani ku chakudya chamadzulo koma akhoza kukhala osamala komanso osamala. Yang'anani zabwino ndipo musazengereze zolakwika.
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