Psychology Imawulula Makhalidwe 11 A Amuna Omwe Amakonda Akazi Achikulire

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Amuna omwe amacheza ndi akazi achikulire nthawi zambiri amakhala omasuka maganizo, odzidalira, komanso othandizira zolinga za okondedwa awo. Chilakolako chachikulu chogonana n'chofalanso •
Zinthu zomwe zimakopa kwambiri ndi kukhwima m'maganizo, kudzidalira pa nkhani ya kugonana, kulunjika, kudzidalira pazachuma, ndi zomwe zinakuchitikirani pa moyo wanu •
Kafukufuku wa Milaine Alarie adapeza kuti amuna achichepere ndi omwe amayambitsa maubwenzi ambiri otere. Maganizo olakwika okhudza akazi achikulire ndi olakwika kwambiri •
Amuna ena omwe ali muubwenzi woterewu amalimbikitsidwa pang'ono ndi kudzidalira komwe kumabwera chifukwa cha chidwi cha mkazi wachikulire; ambiri sali •
Kusiyana kwa zaka pakati pa akazi ndi amuna kungathe kupitirira. Kusalidwa ndi anthu pagulu ndiye vuto lalikulu, ndipo kumachepa kwambiri chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa zaka.

Kodi maganizo a amuna olungama omwe amakonda akazi achikulire ndi otani? Nzeru zachikhalidwe zimati amuna amasankha achinyamata. Koma kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti amuna achichepere okwana 60% ali otseguka ku izi, ndipo okwatirana omwe amapangitsa kuti ziyende bwino si osowa.

Priyanka Chopra ndi Nick Jonas: kusiyana kwa zaka 10
Lisa Bonet ndi Jason Momoa: kusiyana kwa zaka 11
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Olivia Wilde ndi Harry Styles: kusiyana kwa zaka 10
Purezidenti wa ku France Emmanuel Macron ndi Brigitte Macron: kusiyana kwa zaka 24
Kim Kardashian ndi Pete Davidson: kusiyana kwa zaka 13

Choncho funso silikuti kodi amuna awa alipo kapena ayi. Ndi zomwe ali nazo zofanana. Pofika kumapeto kwa nkhaniyi, mudzakhala ndi mayankho omveka bwino a:

N’chifukwa chiyani amuna amakopeka ndi akazi achikulire?
Chifukwa chiyani ndimakopeka ndi mkazi wachikulire?
Kodi kugonana ndikwabwino ndi amayi achikulire?
Ndi mwamuna wotani amene amakopeka ndi mkazi wachikulire?
Kodi maubwenzi angayende bwino pamene mkazi ali wamkulu kuposa mwamuna?

Yankho Lachidule: Ndi Mwamuna Wotani Amene Amakopeka ndi Mkazi Wachikulire?

Amuna omwe amakonda akazi achikulire nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi malingaliro ofanana. Amaona kuti kukhwima m'maganizo, kulunjika, komanso kukhazikika ndikofunika kuposa nkhani zochititsa chidwi. Nthawi zambiri amakhala otetezeka pa umunthu wawo, osaganizira za anthu, ndipo amakopeka ndi mkazi amene amadziwa zomwe akufuna ndipo amalankhula momveka bwino. Kafukufuku amasonyezanso kuti kudzidalira pa kugonana ndi zomwe adakumana nazo pamoyo wawo ndi zinthu zofunika kwambiri. Makhalidwe 11 omwe ali pansipa akufotokoza zomwe zasayansi yapeza nthawi zonse.

Psychology Imawulula Makhalidwe 9 A Amuna Omwe Amakonda Akazi Achikulire

M'ndandanda wazopezekamo

Kodi nkhani ya ubale wa mwamuna wachinyamata ndi mkazi wachikulire ndi yotani ? Ndipo n’chifukwa chiyani mwamuna angakonde mkazi wachikulire? Chabwino, wochita sewero Naveen Andrews nthawi ina anati, “Akazi achikulire amadziwa kuti ndi ndani ndipo zimenezo zimawapangitsa kukhala okongola kuposa achichepere. Ndimakonda kuona nkhope yokhala ndi khalidwe linalake. Ndikufuna kuona mizere. Ndikufuna kuona makwinya.” Buku lakuti, Ranger’s Claim: An Age Gap, Single Dad, Instalove Romance , limaperekanso mfundo zina zosangalatsa zokhudza kusinthaku.

Mungakhululukidwe poganiza kuti amuna ambiri amakonda akazi achichepere. Mauthenga ambiri achikhalidwe amakakamiza lingaliro limenelo. Koma maubwenzi osakhala ndi zaka, komwe mkazi ndiye mwamuna wamkulu, ndi ofala kwambiri komanso okhazikika kuposa momwe manyazi amasonyezera. Wofufuza Milaine Alarie, yemwe kafukufuku wake wa 2019 mu Gender & Society adagwiritsa ntchito mafunso 55 ndi akazi azaka zapakati pa 30 ndi 60 omwe amacheza ndi amuna achichepere, adapeza kuti amuna achichepere ndi omwe adayambitsa maubwenzi amenewa. Maganizo olakwika akuti mkazi wachikulire wokopa akutsata mnyamata wosachita chilichonse ndi nkhani yongopeka. Nazi makhalidwe 11 omwe amapezeka nthawi zonse mwa amuna omwe amakonda akazi achikulire.

1. Amuna achichepere omwe ali pachibwenzi ndi akazi akulu amakhala ndi libido yayikulu

Kulankhulana Koona Mtima — Kudzidalira pogonana kwa mkazi wachikulire kumakopa mwamuna wachinyamata kwa iye

Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomveka zomwe amuna achichepere amakondera akazi achikulire ndi kugonana. Ngati mukudzifunsa kuti, “N’chifukwa chiyani ndimakonda mkazi wachikulire?”, mayankho angapo ogwirizana amagwira ntchito:

Akazi okhwima amakhala odzidalira pa nkhani yogonana komanso odziwa bwino za kugonana kwawo
Chilakolako chachikulu cha kugonana chimafuna mnzanu amene angachigwirizane nacho ndipo amadziwa zomwe akufuna
Azimayi okalamba nthawi zambiri amakhala odziwa zambiri, otseguka, komanso olunjika m'chipinda chogona

Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti akazi achikulire amakopeka ndi mphamvu zogonana zomwe anyamata achichepere amabweretsa; mnyamatayo amakopeka ndi chidaliro chomwe chimabwera chifukwa cha zomwe akumana nazo. Mkazi wachikulire nthawi zambiri amadutsa kwambiri kupsinjika komwe kumasokoneza ubale waubwenzi ndi achinyamata. Amadziwa zomwe akufuna ndipo amanena zimenezo. Kulunjika kumeneko ndi gawo la zokopa za amuna omwe amakonda kunyalanyaza masewera ongoyerekeza. Kafukufuku wapezanso kuti akazi achikulire nthawi zambiri amabweretsa luso logonana komanso chidziwitso chachikulu kuposa anzawo achichepere.

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2. Amuna otere amakonda kukhwima ndi kuchita bwino

Ngati mukudabwabe chifukwa chake anyamata achichepere amakonda akazi achikulire, ganizirani kuti ambiri a iwo sakufuna mtendere. Akufuna munthu amene wagwira ntchito zamkati. Kafukufuku amatsimikizira kuti kukula m'maganizo ndi chimodzi mwa makhalidwe abwino kwambiri kwa mnzanu wa nthawi yayitali, ndipo nthawi zambiri amabwera ndi ukalamba.

Amuna omwe amasankha chibwenzi ndi mkazi wachikulire amafotokoza makhalidwe awa:

Akazi okhwima amadziwa zomwe akufuna pa moyo wawo, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti nkhawa za m'banja sizichepa kwambiri.
Nsanje siichepa, mikangano yopangidwa siichepa, nthabwala siichepa
Akazi okalamba ndi odalirika komanso odziwa bwino ntchito zawo, payekha komanso mwaukadaulo.
Amatha kukambirana zomwe zimapita kwinakwake

3. Anyamata ena amafuna kukhala ndi moyo wokhazikika

Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti amuna omwe amakonda akazi okalamba amakonda kwambiri ubale wokhazikika, woganizira za mabanja awo, komanso wokhala ndi zolinga. Asintha kwambiri kuposa kukhala omasuka. Amafuna china chake choti amange. Kafukufuku wa AARP adapeza kuti 34% ya akazi azaka zopitilira 40 amakondana ndi anyamata achichepere, zomwe zikuwonetsa momwe kukwatirana kumeneku kulili kofala. Amuna awa si anthu achilendo.

Ambiri a iwo ali pa siteji pomwe akufuna chinthu chenicheni, ndipo atsimikiza kuti mkazi wachikulire nayenso angafunenso chimodzimodzi. Monga momwe wogwiritsa ntchito wina wa Reddit adanenera: “Amadziwa kuti ndi ndani, zomwe akufuna, ndipo sakufuna munthu woti akhale bambo awo kapena kuwasamalira.” Mwamuna wotereyu akufunafuna ubale weniweni womwe anthu onse awiri amayang'ana kwambiri pakukula miyoyo yawo pamodzi, osati kungosangalala wina ndi mnzake panthawiyo.

4. Amuna ambiri omwe amakonda akazi achikulire amakhala otetezeka pa umuna wawo

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Kafukufuku nthawi zonse akusonyeza kuti amuna omwe amakopeka ndi akazi achikulire amachirikiza kwambiri zolinga za akazi ndipo sakhudzidwa ndi maubwenzi omwe amasinthasintha miyambo yachikhalidwe ya amuna ndi akazi. Safunika kukhala munthu wodziwa zambiri m'chipindamo. Mnzawo amene amapeza ndalama zambiri, amadziwa zambiri, kapena wachita zambiri samuopseza.

Kafukufuku wa Brian Collisson ndi Luciana Ponce De Leon wa mu 2018 mu Current Psychology adapeza kuti okwatirana omwe ali ndi kusiyana kwa zaka pomwe mkazi ndi wamkulu amakumana ndi tsankho lalikulu kuposa anthu ena omwe ali ndi kusiyana kwa zaka, komabe amuna awa amatsatira maubwenzi amenewa chifukwa cha kufanana kwa ubale komwe amapereka. Onse awiri amabweretsa chinthu chofunikira. Palibe amene akuyesera kulamulira. Kugonana ndi mnyamata kumayenda bwino ngati ali ndi chitetezo chokwanira kuti amvetsetse m'malo mokwiya ndi zomwe amabweretsa.

5. Amaona kuti kuchita zinthu mwachilungamo n’kofunika ndipo amaliza masewera.

Ngati mwakhala nthawi yayitali mukucheza ndi anthu wamba, mukudziwa kuchuluka kwa zomwe zimachitika. Mauthenga amachedwa mwadala. Malingaliro amabisika mosamala. Zolinga sizimanenedwa mwachindunji. Amuna omwe amakopeka ndi akazi achikulire, monga gulu, amatopa ndi zimenezo.

Akazi achikulire amakonda kulankhulana mosiyana. Amafunsa zomwe akufuna kudziwa. Amanena zomwe akutanthauza. Mnyamata wachinyamata amene wakhala akuchita chibwenzi ndi anzake nthawi zambiri amapeza kuti kulankhulana kolunjika kumeneku n'kosangalatsa kwambiri. Kafukufuku wa Today.com wa anyamata achichepere omwe amakonda okwatirana achikulire nthawi zonse ankatchula kuwonekera poyera ndi kulunjika ngati zinthu zofunika kwambiri. Mukadziwa komwe muli ndi munthu, mutha kupanga china chake.

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6. Amaona kuti kudzidalira ndi kudzidalira n'zosatsutsika

Kafukufuku wa APA wokhudza kudzidalira pa moyo wawo wonse adapeza kuti akazi amafika pamlingo wapamwamba kwambiri wodzidalira pazaka zapakati pa moyo wawo. Amuna omwe amakonda akazi achikulire nthawi zambiri amatchula izi ngati chimodzi mwa zinthu zazikulu zomwe zimawakopa. Osati kudzikuza. Kudzidalira kwa munthu amene wadziwa kuti ndi ndani ndipo wasiya kupepesa chifukwa cha zimenezo.

Monga momwe mwamuna wina adanenera mu nkhani ya Today.com: “Ndi nkhani ya umunthu kwa ine pankhani ya zomwe zimakopa. Ndimakhala ndi mtima wodzidalira ndipo akazi achikulire ndi omwe ali ndi mphamvu pankhaniyi.” Amuna omwe amafuna khalidweli nthawi zambiri amakhala anthu omwe ali nalo okha kapena omwe akugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti alipeze, ndipo amafuna mnzawo amene angaliwonetsenso.

7. Ena ndi okonda kulankhula kwambiri

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Amuna omwe ali ndi chizolowezi chodzipatula kwambiri amakhala pachibwenzi ndi mkazi wamkulu . Mukamvetsetsa momwe munthu wodzipatula amaganizira, mfundo zake zimakhala zomveka. Akazi okalamba nthawi zambiri amakhala atadutsa gawo lodzaza chete ndi nkhani zazing'ono. Amakhala ndi moyo wokwanira kukhala ndi malingaliro enieni pazinthu zenizeni. Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna odzipatula amasonyeza zokonda zingapo zomwe zimagwirizana mwachindunji ndi zomwe akazi okalamba amapereka:

Kukonda kukambirana nkhani zaumwini osati kucheza ndi anthu ena
Usiku chete m'bala yodzaza anthu
Kulekerera kochepa kwa sewero ndi mikangano yopangidwa

Mkazi wachikulire nthawi zambiri amapereka zonse zitatu popanda kupemphedwa.

8. Amuna achichepere omwe ali pachibwenzi ndi akazi akulu amakhala omasuka

Kugonana ndi mkazi wachikulire kwambiri sikuli kosiyana ndi chikhalidwe m'malo ambiri. Dzina la "cougar" limakhala ndi kununkhira pang'ono, ndipo amuna achichepere omwe ali muubwenzi uwu sali oletsedwa ku ndemanga. Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti amuna omwe amakonda akazi achikulire amakhala otseguka kwambiri kuposa anthu wamba, ndipo kutseguka maganizo ndiko kumawathandiza kupitirira kusiyana kwa zaka popanda kuziganizira.

Kafukufuku wa Alarie wa mu 2019 adapeza kuti amuna omwe amayambitsa maubwenzi amenewa, mwadala kapena mosadziwa, amakana zomwe iye amatcha "zolemba za amuna ndi akazi," zomwe anthu amayembekezera kuti amuna azikhala achikulire nthawi zonse, odziwa zambiri, komanso okhazikika pazachuma kuposa anzawo. Amuna omwe amapeza kuti malire a zolemba ndi omwe amanyalanyaza. Monga momwe akazi achikulire omwe amachita chibwenzi ndi anyamata achichepere nthawi zambiri amakuuzirani, okwatirana onse awiriwa nthawi zambiri sasamala kwambiri za malingaliro akunja.

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9. Ena mwaiwo ndi odzitukumula (odzikweza) ndipo amafuna kutsimikizika (Kudziona ngati ali ndi udindo).

Izi ndi zoyenera kutchulidwa moona mtima. Maganizo a mkazi wachikulire paubwenzi ndi mwamuna wachinyamata nthawi zina amakhala osavuta: chidwi cha mkazi waluso komanso wodziwa zambiri chimamveka ngati kupambana. Kafukufuku wapeza kuti amuna nthawi zambiri amamva bwino akamawonetsa zizindikiro zonse za thupi la mkazi zomwe zimamukopa . Monga momwe Alarie adanenera: "Ndiwo omwe amathamangitsa cougar."

Komabe, izi zikugwira ntchito kwa gulu laling'ono, osati ambiri. Amuna ambiri omwe ali muubwenzi uwu sayendetsedwa ndi kudzikuza. Khalidweli lilipo, koma siliyenera kuonedwa ngati chifukwa chachikulu. Ndi mfundo imodzi mwa zambiri.

10. Amuna otere amayamikira ufulu wodziimira pazachuma wa amayi achikulire

Pali zinthu zomwe akazi okhwima amafuna muubwenzi chifukwa cha komwe ali m'moyo, ndipo kudziyimira pawokha pazachuma ndi chimodzi mwa makhalidwe omwe anyamata achichepere omwe ali nawo paubwenziwu amayamikira nthawi zonse. Mkazi amene angathe kudzisamalira yekha sabweretsa kudalira ndalama muubwenziwo, ndipo zimenezo zimasintha kwambiri momwe zinthu zilili:

Kukhazikika ndi chitetezo: Ali ndi zinthu zothandizira pa ubale, osati kungotengapo mbali
Ufulu ndi kudziyimira pawokha: Amatha kuyenda, kufunafuna zinthu za nthawi yayitali, komanso kupanga zisankho popanda mavuto azachuma.
Kupambana pantchito: Cholinga chake ndi khama lake pantchito zimawonekera m'mene amakhalira, ndipo zimenezo zimakopa mwiniwake.

11. Amakonda zochitika pamoyo wa amayi achikulire

Mnzanga amene wakhala akuchita chibwenzi ndi akazi achikulire nthawi zonse pa moyo wake wonse wachikulire anati: “Ndimaona kuti n’zosangalatsa chifukwa cha zomwe akumana nazo pa moyo wake. Nthawi zonse pamakhala china chake choti ndiphunzire.” Zochitika pa moyo zimamupanga munthu m’njira imene achinyamata sangatsanzire, ndipo kuzama kumeneko kumawonekera pa chilichonse:

Nzeru ndi kaonedwe: Wakumana ndi zinthu zovuta ndipo waphunzirapo kanthu. Makambirano ake ndi abwino kwambiri ndipo maganizo ake ndi olimba kwambiri
Kuzama kwamalingaliro: Iye wadutsa mu seweroli ndipo wayang'ana kwambiri pa moyo wake weniweni. Kukhazikika ndiye maziko ake, osati cholinga chake
Thandizo ndi chitsogozo: Akhoza kupereka malingaliro omwe mnzake wachinyamata alibe mwayi wowapeza.
Kudzidalira pa kugonana: Akudziwa zomwe akufuna ndipo wasiya kunamizira kuti ndi zosiyana ndi zimenezo. Ayi.masewera a malingaliro, palibe zizindikiro zosakanikirana

Chothandizira

Kulankhulana ndi kumvetsetsana bwino zosowa za wina ndi mnzake ndi maziko a ubale wapakati pa msinkhu ndi waufupi. Ngati ndinu mnyamata amene mumakonda mkazi wachikulire, Zinenero 5 Zachikondi: Chinsinsi cha Chikondi Chokhalitsa Ndi bwino kuwerenga.

Zizindikiro Zosonyeza Kuti Mwamuna Wachinyamata Wakopeka ndi Mkazi Wachikulire

Zizindikiro zokopa zimaoneka chimodzimodzi mosasamala kanthu za kusiyana kwa zaka, koma pali njira zingapo zomwe zimasiyana kwambiri ndi izi. Nazi zomwe muyenera kuyang'anira:

Amamufunafuna kuti akambirane naye. Osati chifukwa chakuti ali pafupi kapena kuti ali pafupi naye. Amapeza zifukwa zoti alankhule naye mwachindunji
Amamukhudza kwambiri. Kukhudza ndi njira imodzi yolunjika kwambiri yokopa. Anyamata nthawi zambiri amapeza njira zobisika zolumikizirana ngati akufuna kuti iye aziwakonda.
Amalankhula za iye nthawi zambiri. Ngati mnyamata akupitiriza kumulankhula ndi ena, mwina akumuganizira mwachikondi
Amatenga nawo mbali pa moyo wa ana ake. Ngati ali ndi ana, mwamunayo amayesetsa kumanga ubale ndi iwo. Amadziwa kuti moyo wake uli ndi magawo ambiri, ndipo amalemekeza zimenezo.
Amathera nthawi yake yambiri ndi iye. Adzasintha nthawi yake kuti akhale naye pafupi. Akuyesera kusonyeza kuti ndi wodzipereka, osati wokonda chabe
Amaona kuti maganizo a mkazi wake ndi ofunika kwambiri kuposa a ena. Iye amaona kuti zomwe adakumana nazo ndi zoona. Ngakhale kusiyana pang'ono kwa zaka kumamupangitsa kuti aziona maganizo a mkazi wake ngati olamulira.
Amachita zinthu mokhwima kwambiri akakhala naye. Sakuchita sewero. Iye akuonetsa zimenezo mwa iye, ndipo akuyesera kumupeza komwe ali

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Angathe, ndipo kafukufukuyu akusonyeza kuti amapambana pazifukwa zomwezo zomwe ubale uliwonse umachita: kulankhulana, kugwirizana, ndi makhalidwe ofanana. Kuzindikira anthu ndi vuto lenileni, ndipo laphunziridwa. Kafukufuku wolembedwa ndi Gloria Cowan, wofalitsidwa mu Sex Roles (1984), adapeza kuti maubwenzi omwe mkaziyo anali wamkulu kwambiri, akafika zaka 18 kapena kuposerapo, ankaonedwa kuti ndi osatheka kupambana. Pamene kusiyana kunali pafupifupi zaka 7, chigamulocho chinatsika kwambiri.

Cowan adapezanso kuti amuna achikulire anali ndi mwayi wochepa wogwiritsa ntchito miyezo iwiri poyerekeza ndi akazi poyesa maanja omwe ali ndi zaka zosiyana pang'ono. Kunyansidwa kumeneku ndi kwenikweni koma kumayesedwa malinga ndi kukula kwa kusiyana. Maanja omwe amachita bwino kwambiri ndi omwe amasankha msanga kuti malingaliro a anthu ena si awo kuti athetse.

Monga momwe wogwiritsa ntchito Reddit manhunt64 adafotokozera mwachidule: "Kukhwima ndi nkhani yaikulu. Kukambiranako sikuti "tiyeni tiledzere ndi kugonana." Amuna omwe amamvetsetsa bwino zomwe akufuna kuchokera pachibwenzi ndi omwe angapangitse munthu kugwira ntchito, mosasamala kanthu za msinkhu wake.

Ibibazo

1. Ndi mwamuna wotani amene amakopeka ndi mkazi wachikulire?

Amuna omwe amakonda akazi achikulire nthawi zambiri amakhala okhwima m'maganizo, odzidalira, komanso otseguka maganizo pankhani ya chikhalidwe cha anthu. Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti chilakolako chachikulu cha kugonana, kukonda nzeru zamaganizo kuposa kukhumudwa, komanso chikhumbo chenicheni cha ubale wokhazikika komanso wodzipereka ndi makhalidwe omwe amasinthasintha kwambiri.

2. Kodi ndi zachilendo kuti mwamuna wachinyamata azikonda mkazi wachikulire?

Inde. Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti anyamata achichepere okwana 60% ali omasuka kukhala paubwenzi ndi akazi achikulire, ndipo kafukufuku wa AARP adapeza kuti 34% ya akazi azaka zopitilira 40 ali pachibwenzi ndi chibwenzi chawo chachichepere. Maubwenzi amenewa ndi ofala kwambiri kuposa momwe anthu amanenera.

3. Kodi kulephera kugonana ndi munthu amene ali ndi zaka zosakwana 10 n’chiyani?

Kugonana ndi munthu amene ali ndi zaka zambiri kuposa mwamuna kapena mkazi wake. N’zosiyana ndi kugonana ndi munthu amene ali ndi zaka zambiri kuposa mwamuna kapena mkazi wake. Katswiri wa zachikhalidwe cha anthu, Milaine Alarie, waphunzira kwambiri za maubwenzi amenewa, ndipo wapeza kuti anyamata achichepere nthawi zambiri amayamba kugonana ndi mwamuna m’malo mongotsatiridwa.

4. Kodi ndi zizindikiro ziti zomwe zimasonyeza kuti mwamuna wachinyamata amakonda mkazi wachikulire?

Zizindikiro zomwe zimakhalapo nthawi zonse ndi monga kumufunafuna makamaka kuti tikambirane, kusachita mantha pamene ena akutchula kusiyana kwa zaka, kumugwiragwira pafupipafupi, kuchita khama ndi ana ake, komanso kuika nthawi yocheza naye patsogolo kuposa mapulani ena. Nthawi zambiri amaonanso maganizo ake ngati amphamvu kuposa a anzake.

5. Kodi ubale wa amuna ndi akazi achichepere umakhalapobe?

Angathe. Kafukufuku wa Gloria Cowan adapeza kuti chinthu chachikulu chomwe chimakhudza kupambana komwe kumaganiziridwa ndi kukula kwa kusiyana. Maubwenzi omwe ali ndi kusiyana kwa zaka 7 amakumana ndi manyazi ochepa poyerekeza ndi omwe ali ndi kusiyana kwa zaka 18. Zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa maubwenzi awa kugwira ntchito ndi ofanana ndi ena onse: kulankhulana momveka bwino, makhalidwe ofanana, ndi ulemu weniweni.

6. N’chifukwa chiyani amuna ena amaona akazi achikulire kukhala okongola pogonana?

Akazi okalamba nthawi zambiri amakhala odzidalira kwambiri pankhani yogonana, odzidziwa okha, komanso olunjika pa zomwe amakonda. Kwa anyamata achichepere omwe akufuna mnzawo amene amalankhulana momasuka komanso akutsogolera, kudzidalira kumeneko n'kokopa. Kafukufuku akusonyezanso kuti akazi okalamba amabweretsa luso lochulukirapo pa nkhani yogonana komanso kudziwa bwino za chibwenzicho.

7. Kodi pali chifukwa cha maganizo chomwe amuna ena amakondera akazi achikulire?

Inde. Katswiri wa zamaganizo okhudza chitukuko amasonyeza kuti amuna ena amakopeka ndi chitetezo chamaganizo ndi kukhazikika komwe kumakhudzana ndi akazi okalamba, zomwe zingagwirizane ndi machitidwe oyambira a chikondi. Ena amakopeka ndi makhalidwe enaake monga kudzidalira, kulunjika, ndi zochitika pamoyo zomwe zimakula kwambiri mwa akazi okalamba. Zonsezi zitha kukhala zoona nthawi imodzi, ndipo palibe chomwe chimapangitsa kuti kukopana kukhale kwachilendo kapena kovuta.

Maganizo Final

Mphamvu ya mwamuna wachinyamata komanso mkazi wachikulire ndi yosangalatsa kwambiri pankhani ya maganizo kuposa momwe nkhani ya "cougar" imalolera. Amuna awa sasokonezeka kapena kuchita zinthu mopupuluma. Ambiri asankha mwanzeru, motsatira umunthu wawo, zomwe akumana nazo, komanso kumvetsetsa bwino zomwe akufuna kuchokera muubwenzi.

Si mwamuna aliyense amene amakopeka ndi akazi achikulire amene angagwirizane ndi khalidwe lililonse lomwe lili pamndandandawu. Khalidwe silikhala loyera choncho. Koma makhalidwe ake alipo pachifukwa, ndipo 11 omwe ali pamwambapa ndi ochirikizidwa bwino. Mutha kuwerenga izi ndikuzindikira munthu amene mumamudziwa, kapena kudzizindikira nokha.

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