Zifukwa 15 Anyamata Amakonda Akazi Achikulire

M'mawonekedwe amakono a maubwenzi, kusiyana kwa zaka sikulepheretsa kukondana. Malingana ndi mozama kafukufuku zochitidwa ndi nsanja yapaintaneti, 27% ya amuna achichepere adapezeka kuti amakopeka ndi azimayi achikulire. Kafukufuku yemweyo adawonetsanso kuti 9% ya anthu osakwatiwa amatha kukhala ndi zibwenzi zazikulu kapena zocheperapo kuposa iwo. Koma n’chifukwa chiyani amuna achichepere amakonda akazi achikulire?

Kuti timvetsetse momwe ziwerengerozi zimachitikira, tiyeni tilowe mozama mu psychology yamaubwenzi aamuna achikulire, mothandizidwa ndi thanzi labwino komanso kukumbukira bwino. Pooja Priyamvada (yotsimikiziridwa mu Psychological and Mental Health First Aid yochokera kwa Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health ndi University of Sydney), yemwe amagwira ntchito yopereka uphungu wa zibwenzi kunja kwa banja, kulekana, kupatukana, chisoni, ndi kutayika, kungotchulapo zochepa chabe.

N'chifukwa Chiyani Amuna Achichepere Amakonda Akazi Achikulire? 15 Zifukwa

Kufotokozera zamphamvu za chikondi cha mkazi wamkulu, Pooja Amuna amene apeza chikondi kuchokera kwa akazi achikulire okha amagwirizanitsa chitetezo ndi chikondi ndi akazi okalamba, motero amamva kukopeka kwa iwo. Zolinga zathu za maubwenzi zimakhazikitsidwa paubwana. Nthawi zina amuna amakhala ndi maganizo amphamvu a "mkazi wabwino" kuyambira ali mwana, uyu akhoza kukhala wina monga amayi awo (ngati anali wabwino) kapena ngakhale wina wosiyana kwambiri ndi mayi wawo akhoza kusokoneza ubale wawo.

Komanso, amayi achikulire amabweretsa kumvetsetsa komwe kuli kofunikira kuti ubale uliwonse ukhale wolimba. Chifukwa cha zochitika ndi zaka, ali ndi zambiri zoti apereke. A Reddit Wogwiritsa ntchito adalemba kuti, "Sikuti ngakhale ndimakonda azimayi achikulire, zimangochitika kuti atsikana/akazi omwe ndimawakonda anali akulu kuposa ine nthawi zonse. Ndimakhala ndi anthu omwe ali otsika komanso osazama, omwe atsikana amsinkhu wanga amakonda kusowa kwambiri."

Reddit ina wosuta Analemba kuti, "28M pano ndipo mwamtheradi. Ndimayang'ana kwambiri zaka zanga koma ndimakonda kwambiri akazi azaka za m'ma 30. Nthawi zambiri amakhala okhwima kwambiri ndipo amazindikira zomwe amaika patsogolo. Ndi zomwe ndikufuna ndekha." Kotero, inu mukuwona, a psychology ya akazi achikulire maubwenzi aamuna ndizovuta kwambiri. Ngati mukudabwa, "N'chifukwa chiyani anyamata amakonda akazi achikulire?", Nazi mndandanda wa zifukwa 15 kuyankha funso lanu:

1. Zambiri pamoyo

N’chifukwa chiyani amuna achichepere amakonda akazi achikulire? Chifukwa mkazi wamkulu ndi:

• Yopangidwa bwino komanso yoyendetsedwa
• Wofuna kutchuka ndipo ali ndi njala yofuna kuchita bwino
• Chitsanzo chabwino kwa omwe amamuzungulira

Anyamata omwe amakonda akazi achikulire nthawi zambiri amakhudzidwa ndi okondedwa awo. Amayi awa ndi opambana ndipo akhala ndi zochitika zambiri pamoyo, kaya ndi ntchito kapena moyo waumwini. Kuphatikiza uku kwanzeru ndi mphamvu nthawi zambiri kumapangitsa kuti mkazi wamkulu azikondana.

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2. Chifukwa chiyani amuna amakonda akazi achikulire? Iwo ndi odziwa zambiri

Pooja akuti, "Amayi okalamba amakhala okhazikika m'malingaliro kotero amatha kupanga malo otetezeka kwa anyamata. kugonana zimandisangalatsa kwambiri.” Ngakhale atadziwa kuti ubalewo sungakhale kudzipereka kwa moyo wonse, amakhala otseguka kuti asangalale ndi zomwe zikuchitikazo pomwe zimatenga nthawi yayitali.

3. Amuna achichepere amagwa m’chikondi ndi mkazi wamkulu chifukwa cha kuwona mtima kwake

Azimayi okalamba amakhala oona mtima komanso olunjika pa maubwenzi. Samenya chitsamba; pamene sakonda china chake amakuuza iweyo. Ngati akufuna chinachake, amachifotokoza momveka bwino. Kukhwima kwawo m'malingaliro kumatsimikizira kuti nthawi zambiri palibe masewera ongoyerekeza kapena mavuto oyankhulana. Ichi chikhoza kukhala chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe amuna ambiri amakonda chibwenzi ndi mkazi wachikulire.

Poyankha funso la chifukwa chiyani amuna achichepere amakonda akazi achikulire, Reddit wosuta analemba kuti, "Kulankhula ngati mnyamata yemwe nthawi zonse wakhala wokalamba, akazi akuluakulu nthawi zambiri amakhala omasuka komanso amapereka malingaliro atsopano. Kukambitsirana bwino, zokumana nazo zambiri za moyo, miyezo yomveka, nkhani zabwino, nthawi zambiri osasamala komanso otetezeka mwa iwo okha ...

4. Sachita chidwi ndi moyo wawo weniweni

Azimayi okalamba samaganizira kukhalabe ndi Snap streaks kapena kutumizirana mameseji mmbuyo ndi mtsogolo ngati chofunikira kuti ubalewo upitirire. Kupatula kwawo kuukadaulo ndichifukwa chake amuna amakonda akazi achikulire. Pali mwayi wocheperako technoference mu mgwirizano, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ogwirizanawo ali ndi chithunzithunzi chenicheni pakupanga kugwirizana kozama, kopindulitsa. Lingaliro la kukwaniritsidwa lomwe limachokera ku ubale wotero ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe mwamuna angakonde kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi mkazi wachikulire.

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5. Iwo safuna mosalekeza pampering

N’chifukwa chiyani amuna achichepere amakonda akazi achikulire? Azimayi aang'ono (pafupifupi monga lamulo) amafunikira chidwi chochuluka ndi zipangizo zonse zomwe zimapita nazo. Komano amayi achikulire amakhala odzidalira kwambiri. Amamvetsetsa kufunikira kwa malo amodzi. Ali:

• Okondwa kupumitsa miyendo yawo patebulo la khofi m'chipinda chawo chochezera pomwe SO wawo ali paphwando ku kalabu yovina.
• Kuwerenga buku pafupi ndi chibwenzi chawo
• Wokonda kusangalatsidwa koma cholinga chake ndi kusangalala m'malo mofuna kutsimikiziridwa nthawi zonse
• osati kukonza kwakukulu

6. Kudziyimira pawokha nchifukwa chake amuna amakonda akazi akuluakulu

Polankhula za psychology ya akazi okalamba maubwenzi achichepere, Pooja akuti kudziyimira pawokha kwathanzi kumachita gawo lalikulu. Ananenanso kuti: “Akazi achikulire nthawi zambiri amakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri ndipo amachokera kumalo okhazikika m’maganizo.

Monga momwe akusonyezera, akazi achikulire ali okhazikika pazachuma, odzidalira, ndi odziimira okha. Amatenga kaimidwe akafuna kutero, amapatsa malo mosavuta, ndipo amabwerera m'mbuyo akawona momwe zinthu zikufunira. Motero iwo amakhala ochepa wokakamira kapena wosowa, zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala osavuta kugwirizana nawo. Ndicho chifukwa chake maubwenzi a amayi okhwima ndi anyamata amagwira ntchito.

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7. Amayi achikulire amadziwa kutengera zinthu pang'onopang'ono

N’chifukwa chiyani amuna amakonda akazi achikulire? Chimodzi mwa zifukwa ndi kukonzeka kwa amayi achikulire kupititsa patsogolo zinthu pang'onopang'ono. M'malo mothamangira kudzipereka kwa moyo wonse, amatenga nthawi kuti amvetsetse abwenzi awo ndipo mayendedwe osavuta awa amawonjezera kukopa kwa chibwenzi ndi mkazi wamkulu kwa anyamata ambiri.

Komabe, Pooja akuchenjeza kuti ngati mnyamata akunyalanyaza kuthandizira kukula kwa ubale mwa kugonana, maganizo, ndi maganizo m'dzina la kuchita zinthu pang'onopang'ono, ndi mbendera yofiira, ndipo akuwonjezera kuti, "Kukhala ndi diso loyang'ana kwa akazi ang'onoang'ono kapena kusavomereza ubale umenewu poyera kungakhale mbendera zina zofiira."

8. N’chifukwa chiyani amuna amakonda akazi achikulire? Iwo amagwirizana ndi zenizeni

Akazi mu unyamata wawo wamkulu amakhala m'dziko longopeka, lomwe limaperekedwa pa msinkhu umenewo. Amalota ankhondo ovala zida zonyezimira komanso mosangalala nthawi zonse. Koma zoona zake n’zosiyana - pali zosweka mtima ndi zokhumudwitsa. Azimayi okalamba amamvetsa bwino mbali za imvi za moyo. Chifukwa chake amakhala owoneka bwino pamachitidwe awo okhudzana ndi maubwenzi, zomwe zitha kukhala zokopa kwambiri pakukondana.

Tikamakamba za kufufuza zenizeni, tiyeneranso kulankhula za tsankho lomwe limadza chifukwa chokopeka ndi amayi achikulire okongola. Kwa anyamata amene amakonda akazi achikulire, Pooja akulangiza kuti: “Akazi achikulire amawatcha kuti ‘olanda ana aang’ono’ ndi chiyani!

9. Amathandiza kwambiri

Kukondana ndi mkazi wachikulire kumatanthauza kupeza upangiri waphindu ndi chithandizo chothana ndi zovuta za moyo bwino. Ndi mwayi wabwino kuti wachinyamata akule kukhala munthu wokhwima. Pooja akuti, "Usinkhu suli chinthu chofunikira kwambiri mu ubale uliwonse ngati pali chikondi, kuvomereza, ndi kumvetsetsa. Komabe, kusiyana kwa msinkhu nthawi zambiri kumatanthauzanso malingaliro osiyana pazochitika. Mayi wachikulire yemwe wakhala akukumana ndi zovuta ndi zovuta za moyo angapereke malingaliro omwe amakupangitsani kuyang'ana zitsulo zasiliva mumtambo wakuda. Iyi ndi imodzi mwa njira zambiri zomwe angakhalire wothandizira. " Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zabwino zomwe anyamata achichepere amakumana ndi azimayi akuluakulu.

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10 Azimayi okalamba amatha kukumana ndi kutha kwa ubale mokhwima

Azimayi okalamba amadziwa bwino kuti maubwenzi amatha kufika pamapeto, makamaka maubwenzi ndi amuna achichepere. Akazi okhwima vomerezani kuti nthawi zina anthu amalekana kapena zolinga zawo zimasiyana kwambiri kotero kuti kukhala limodzi sikukhalanso mwayi. Ngati vuto likufuna kutero, amakhala okonzeka kusiya. Iwo:

• Nthawi zambiri musapangitse mkuntho pakatha kutha
• Kuthana ndi chisoni ndi mkwiyo popanda kutengera dziko lonse lapansi
• Mwinanso mungayambe ubwenzi wokhalitsa ndi mwamunayo

Popereka chidziŵitso cha mmene mkazi wokhwima maganizo amachitira ndi kutha, Gloria wa ku Sacramento anati: “Pamene unansi wanga ndi mnyamata wachichepere unatha, ndinadzipatulira kutchuthi.

11. Amakhala omasuka pakhungu lawo

Amayi akamakalamba, amakhala omasuka ndi thupi lawo komanso kulemera kwawo ndipo samadandaula nazo kwambiri. Mkazi wokhwima amadziwa kutero kuthana ndi manyazi thupi ndi kuchichotsa. Kuwonjezera apo, sapereka nkhawa kwa zibwenzi zawo. Atha kukhala ndi chubu ya ayisikilimu mosavuta patsiku loyipa ndikuthana ndi zomwe angachite nawo lotsatira. Uwu ndi mwayi waukulu wokhala pachibwenzi ndi akazi achikulire omwe amuna achichepere amalumbirira. M'malo mwake, amuna ang'onoang'ono amakonda akazi akulu chifukwa cha matupi awo opindika.

12. Iwo ngokhutira ndi moyo;

Popeza amayi achikulire ndi odziwa zambiri komanso okhazikika mwaukadaulo, iwo amakhala okhutira komanso osangalala. Zochitika m'moyo zimawaphunzitsa kuti asatulutse zinthu zazing'ono. Iwo amangokhulupirira kuti moyo ukuyenda bwino m’malo modzipereka kuti asinthe zinthu. Kudzidalira kumeneku kumapangitsanso anthu kukhala odekha komanso opanda mikangano. Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zimachititsa anyamata achichepere kukhala pachibwenzi ndi akazi achikulire zitha kukhala zodekha, zokhutira zomwe zimabwera ndi ubale wotere. Anyamata ambiri amati asintha n’kukhala bwino atakumana ndi mkazi wachikulire.

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Yankho lina lomveka la funso loti chifukwa chiyani amuna achichepere amakonda akazi achikulire ndikuti amakhutira ndi ubale womwe ali nawo. Komanso, amakhala ndi moyo wokwanira - ali ndi ntchito, zibwenzi, ndi kudzipereka kwawo - komanso nthawi yochepa yosewera ndi amuna ena.

Amayi achichepere amakhala ndi mphamvu zambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi ndalama zambiri zopezera bwenzi loyenera kukhala nalo, chifukwa chake amatha kuyang'ana zomwe angasankhe mpaka atapeza. Amayi achikulire, kumbali ina, amayamikira zomwe ali nazo ndipo amakonda kuzisamalira osati kuchoka chifukwa chakuti pali chinachake chabwinopo pafupi ndi ngodya. Paubwenzi ndi mkazi wachikulire, amuna sayenera kuda nkhawa ndi nkhani zakuthupi kapena kusakhulupirika m'maganizo.

14. Iwo ali odzidalira kwambiri

Chidaliro chimakula ndi zaka. Mayi wachikulire sangayembekezere kuti wokondedwa wake azikhala pampando wake ndikuyimbira foni nthawi zonse ngati chinthu sichimuyendera. Ndipo sadzafunikira kutsimikiziridwa kosalekeza kwa iye za kufunika kwake. Kukhala womasuka pakhungu lake kumamupatsa chidaliro kuti asagwere mphwayi, kotero kuti mkazi wachikulire nthawi zambiri amakhala wosangalatsa komanso wosangalatsa kukhala nawo.

Mkazi wokhwima samakhala wosatetezeka chifukwa cha kukongola kapena zimene akazi ena achita pafupi nawo. Kuyamba kubwebweta kopanda phindu ndi kukangana sikuli kachitidwe kake. Zinthu zonsezi zikaphatikizidwa zimamupangitsa iye kukhala ndi mphamvu yowerengera. Nzosadabwitsa kuti anyamata ambiri amadzipeza akunena kuti, "Ndimakonda akazi akuluakulu."

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15 Azimayi okalamba saletsa kugonana

Azimayi okalamba saletsedwa chifukwa cha zomwe akumana nazo ndipo amadziwa kupempha zomwe akufuna. N’chifukwa chiyani amuna achichepere amakonda akazi achikulire? Bhonasi yotsimikizika yowonjezereka yaubwenzi wotere ndi yakuti mkazi wachikulire:

• Amadziwa zomwe akuchita ali pabedi, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zochitikazo zikhale zosangalatsa kwambiri
• Zitha kukhala zovutirapo pabedi komanso kuyesa ma kinks atsopano kapena matsenga
• Amadziwa kufunikira kwa kulankhulana m'chipinda chogona ndipo motero amalola moyo wapamtima wokhutiritsa

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Ngakhale pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe anyamata amakonda akazi achikulire, monga maubwenzi ena aliwonse, maubwenzi apakati pazakawa amabwera ndi zovuta zawo. Ngati muli paubwenzi wotero, m'pofunika kudziwa mmene mungayendetsere mwaluso zinthu zokwera ndi zotsika izi. Pokhapokha mungatsegule njira yolumikizana bwino, yokhazikika. Kuti izi zitheke, tiyeni tiwone momwe mungapangire mkazi wamkulu kuti azikondana:

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Kale masiku amene anyamata okondana ndi akazi akuluakulu ankaonedwa kuti n’zosavomerezeka. Musalole zoletsa zomwe zimadza chifukwa cha chikhalidwe cha anthu zaka zambiri za momwe ubale wabwino wachikondi uyenera kuwonekera kukulepheretsani. Kodi mumadziwa kuti Purezidenti waku France Emmanuel Macron ndi mkazi wake Brigitte anakumana koyamba kusukulu yasekondale? Panali pamene Emmanuel anali wophunzira wa ku sekondale wa zaka 15 ndipo Brigitte anali mphunzitsi wa sewero. Mosasamala kanthu za kusiyana kwa zaka 24, iwo anapitiriza kukhala ndi ukwati wachipambano. Ndipotu Brigitte ali ndi mwana wamwamuna wamkulu kuposa Emmanuel zaka ziwiri! Pamene amuna ambiri onga iye sanali kusamala za zomwe anthu amayembekezera, n'chifukwa chiyani inu muyenera? Ndiye monga apulezidenti tsatirani mtima wanu, zina ndiphokoso basi.

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