Nkhani Ya Tsiku Linalakwika

Kufalitsa chikondi

Kukonzekera sikufanana ndi zomwe munthu amayenera kukhala nazo pa tsiku loyamba. Malowa ndi amdima, osawoneka bwino komanso nyimbo zaphokoso kwambiri zomwe ndimakonda. Mukandifunsa, ndiye kuti tsiku lina lapita molakwika. Koma amenewa adzakhala malo inu kukathera mu Delhi pamene inu kugonana m'maganizo mwanu ndi dzenje lalikulu mu thumba lanu patsogolo pa tsiku loyamba kukumana.

Nkhani Ya Tsiku Loipa Loyamba

M'ndandanda wazopezekamo

Ndikumwa mapaini a mowa wotchipa kwambiri womwe ulipo, umodzi pambuyo pa umzake. Akuwoneka wosamasuka kale, akadali pa mojito yake yoyamba, ndipo akufunitsitsa kukambirana. Iye oyambira kucheza sizinali zoipa kwambiri koma ndinapitiliza kusintha mutu. Ndimachoka pamitu kuposa Prime Minister wathu. Kapena osayankhanso mitu ina, monga nduna yathu. Ndinali ndikumva kale kuti iyi ikhala tsiku loyamba lovuta.

Kukambitsirana sikunandisangalatse pambuyo pa kutha kwapang'onopang'ono komwe ndinali nako. Zomwe ndikadali nazo - komanso zomwe ndimakondabe nazo - ndi chilakolako chogonana chosakhutitsidwa. Popeza mapulogalamu a zibwenzi apangitsa kukumana ndi anthu osawadziwa kukhala kosavuta, simuganiza zopeza chikondi chenicheni.

"Tsikulo lidayamba kukhala labwino, koma zidasintha mwachangu."

Chimene mukuyembekezera nthawi zambiri, ndi kuima kwa usiku umodzi. Zakachikwi zimachitcha "kupeza abwenzi ndi mapindu". Ayi, sindili pa Tinder kuti ndipeze chikondi chenicheni, ndipo moona mtima, ndiye chifukwa chomveka chomwe ndamvapo zaka zana.

Pachiwopsezo cha stereotyping akazi ku Delhi, iye si m'modzi wa iwo. Palibe tattoo, palibe zowoneka bwino za blonde, palibe chikwama cha Da Milano, palibe zidendene zazitali komanso palibe "LBD". Atavala jinzi ya denim ya buluu ndi kansalu koyera kopanda manja kopanda manja, wakhala pansi patebulo, akundiyang'ana. Panthawiyi, ndikamaliza ndi pinti yanga yachisanu ndi chimodzi, nditangotsala pang'ono kudutsa mojito yake, amazula bande ku dzanja lake lamanzere ndikumanga tsitsi lake mu bani.

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Ndinamwa kwambiri

“Bwanawe, sindinkadziwa kuti ndiwe chidakwa chotere,” iye akutero.

Osati nthawi zonse. Ndine wofulumira pa chirichonse, mwa njira! Ndikunena popanda manyazi. Lingaliro langa lokopana. Anzanga nthawi zambiri amandiuza kuti kusamuka kwanga kungayenerere kukhala woyang'anira zolakwa zazikulu zokopana anyamata. Koma ndine munthu wodzidalira ndikuyang'ana kuti ndigoneke, ndimatenga gawo langa.

"Ndithana ndi izi pakadutsa khumi. Kodi tingatuluke ndikukayenda, ngati zili bwino ndi inu?" akufunsa.

Zimenezi n'zovuta kwambiri, ndinganene,” ndikutero, ndikudzisisita m'maganizo chifukwa chochita mwano popanda chifukwa. "Ndili ndi galimoto. M'malo mwake titha kupita kokayendetsa galimoto. Mukudziwa, kuyenda maulendo ataliatali, nyimbo zabwino, ndi zosangalatsa zina."

Iye anati: “Ayi, osati usikuuno.

Ndikhoza kuwulutsa ndege. Ndiloleni ndidutsepo ndipo tidzatuluka. Malizani chakumwa chanu, "ndinatero, ndikuvutika kuti ndidziime, ndikugweranso pabedi kangapo pamene ndikukhala.

"Sindikukayika kuti mutha kuyendetsa ndege. Imani mowongoka, kaye, tidzawulutsa ndege pambuyo pake. Sitikuyenda." Iye si wachabechabe, ndazindikira posachedwa.

“Kodi tipite kukakhala m’galimoto, amayi? “Ifenso titha kupita kwathu, kapena kwanuko, ngati anzanuwo kulibe,” ndinatero ndikupita kuchimbudzi. Sindimadikirira momwe angachitire.

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Wakonzeka kuchoka ku malo ogulitsira

Ndikuwona kuti anali atalipira bilu pofika nthawi yomwe ndidabwerera, ndipo ali wokonzeka ali ndi chikwama chake pambali pake. Galasi yake inali idakali ndi mojito.

"Chalo!" Ndimapita pafupi ndi iye, ndikuyesera kumugwira m'chiuno koma chikwama chake chimatsimikizira, ndipo mwachibadwa, amamva chisoni kwambiri, ndikumwetulira molakwika, ndikuyamba kuyenda molunjika pakhomo.

Ndimapeza chidziwitso changa kuti ichi chakhala tsiku loyamba lovuta, koma mukakhala ndi ma pints asanu ndi limodzi pansi pamimba yopanda kanthu, pamene pali chinthu chimodzi chokha m'maganizo mwanu, ndipo pamene chinthu chimodzi ndicho kugonana, simumapereka mpumulo wa momwe mukuchitira wina kumverera.

Ngakhale zili pa tsiku lanu loyamba "lovomerezeka". Ngakhale mutakumana ndi munthu uyu, mkazi, kwa nthawi yoyamba. Mowa wambiri m'dongosolo lanu, ndi kusweka koyipa, ndi chingwe chamakampani pakhosi panu sichingakupangitseni kukhala wopanda thabwa.

Chabwino, amuna ambiri ndi matayala. Mwachikhazikitso, kuyambira kubadwa. Zikomo makolo chifukwa cha izo.

Ndimayesetsa kuyenderana ndi mayendedwe ake, koma mnyamata, ndi wothamanga! Ndikukhulupirira kuti akuwona kuti ndilibe naye, koma samasiya, samatembenuka kuti aone ngati ndidakali naye. Ndikuganiza kuti akuyenda kulowera kumodzi mwamakhomo a Metro. Ndimagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu, ndimayenda mofulumira, ndikugwira dzanja lake.

Amayima, kutembenuka ndikundiyang'ana imfa. Pepani, chavuta ndi chiyani? Ndikufunsa ngati sindikudziwa za tsikuli zalakwika.

Ingondisiyani ndipite

Kukhulupirira ndi chikhulupiriro kapena chidaliro mu kudalirika, kukhulupirika, kapena kuthekera kwa munthu

“Chavuta ndi chiyani?” ndinafunsa motero.

Ndikuganiza kuti uyenera kupita kunyumba kuti ukagone. Inenso ndiyenera kupita,” yankho limabwera.

Sindikudziwa chifukwa chake mumandikwiyira. Kodi ndichifukwa choti ndamwa chonchi? Ndili bwino, simukuona? Ndakuuzani kuti nditha kuyendetsa ndege ngakhale nditachita motere. Posachedwapa, ndakhala ndikusekedwa kuti ndachita manyazi.

“Bwanawe!” adasiya kuyenda ndikutembenuka.

“Ukudziwa chiyani? Zabwino zonse ndi ndege zowuluka. Ndiyenera kupita,” akutero, akundiyang’ana m’maso. Mkazi wovuta, ndikuwona. Ndimakopeka nazo.

“Koma…Ndinkaganiza kuti pali zambiri pa tsikuli. Mukudziwa…zosangalatsa!?” Ndimatsikirapo kuposa momwe ndimakhalira.

Munkaganiza kuti mundisokoneza usikuuno? Kodi ndi dongosolo lomwelo? Muledzereni chibwenzi chanu, mutengereni imodzi mwa "magalimoto osangalatsa" anu ndikupeza zina. kugonana wamba? Ndi zomwe umachita nthawi zambiri?" mawu ake, ndikutsimikiza, amamveka kutsidya lina la msewu, ngakhale kuti magalimoto ali ndi magalimoto ambiri.

“Ndikuona kuti simunandimvetse bwino, ndikudziwa kuti zinthu sizinali bwino kumbuyoko, koma si mmene mukuganizira. Chonde ndiroleni ndikufotokozereni,” ndikutero.

Inde, ndi mmene amaganizira. Ndi zomwe ziri mu malingaliro anga. Zowona, ndimafuna kuti aledzere, abwere kudzayendetsa galimoto, ndimulole kuti ndimusokoneze. Koma zoona, izi sizinthu zomwe mungauze wina, sichoncho? Makamaka mkazi. Makamaka pa tsiku loyamba.

“Osati usikuuno. Usikuuno watha.” Iye ndi wokhazikika.

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Nanga bwanji kuyenda kumeneko?

"Pepani, pepani, ndiye, tiyeni tikonze izi. Ayi, ndiloleni ndikonze izi. Ndiloleni ndikutengereni malo abwino, ndipo tidzakambirana, kapena tipite kukayenda komwe mwanena kale?" Ndimati, ndikuganiza ndekha kuti ndili bwino pa izi ndipo ine ndikhoza kusunga tsiku ili molakwika. Ndinadziwa momwe mungapangire pambuyo pa ndewu.

Kodi sindingakhale wabwino bwanji pamwambowu? Paubwenzi wonse wazaka zisanu ndi theka, ndapepesa kwambiri, ngakhale pa zinthu zomwe sindikanapepesa. Mwamuna akandifunsa malangizo asanalowe m'madzi ndikuuza mkazi kuti akufuna kukhala naye, ndimamuuza kuti "pepani". Ukapepesa, umapambana. Ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yopulumutsira usiku wamasiku olakwika.

Koma osati pano. Osati ndi iye.

Pepani sizokwanira

"Ndinakuuzani kamodzi, ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndinadziwonetsera ndekha bwino." Osati usikuuno. Munali ndi ntchito imodzi usikuuno, ndipo sikunali kusokoneza msonkhano uno. Tisanaganize zokumana, talankhulana wina ndi mzake kwa nthawi ndithu ndipo ndakuuzani nthawi zambiri kuposa momwe ndikukumbukira kuti ndakhala ndikuchita bwino pa chibwenzi ndi amuna olakwika. Ndinakuuzani momwe chizolowezi chaching'ono mwa amuna chinakulepheretsani kuchita zinthu zambiri, ndikukukhumudwitsani nthawi zikwi zambiri. ndimatenga nthawi yochuluka bwanji kuti ndikhulupirire munthu, mosasamala kanthu za jenda, koma makamaka amuna, ndipo ngakhale mukudziwa zonsezi, mumasokoneza izi.

"Ndiye ayi, simupeza mwayi wina usikuuno. Sindikudziwa ngati mutapezanso mwayi wina mtsogolomu." Uyenera kupita kunyumba, ndipo ukafika kunyumba ndikupeza nthawi yoganizira zomwe zidachitika kumbuyoko, ndikufuna kuti ukumbukire mawu awa. Usiku wabwino. Ndipo musanditsatire ndikupangitsa chochitikachi kukhala choyipa kwambiri kuposa momwe zidakhalira kale, "akutero, akundisiya osachita china chilichonse kupatula kuyesera kuti ndichite ngati ndimaganiza kuti mawu ake amawawawa. Ndilapa zochita ndi mawu anga. Tsiku loyambali silinali lachilendo kwa ine. Sindinavulale konse kwenikweni.

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Sindinagonjetsedwe

"Chabwino. Chilichonse chomwe munganene. Ndinasokoneza, ndipo ndinasokoneza kwambiri. Zoipa zanga. Sindiyenera kutero, koma ndinatero. Choncho pitirirani, bwererani kunyumba. Sindidzakutsatirani kapena kutumizirana mameseji mpaka nditadziwa zomwe zinachitika ndi chifukwa chake. Koma mudzamva kwa ine posachedwa. Sindingalole kuti msonkhano umodzi woipa ufotokoze zomwe tili nazo," ndikutero.

Gehena wamagazi, ndiyenera kusiya ntchito yanga yaku banki ndikukhala wolemba zowunikira anapiye m'malo mwake. Amachokapo. Ndipo ndasokonekera m'misewu ya Delhi, Connaught Place kunena ndendende, ndikudzifunsa ndekha ngati ndingofika kunyumba kapena kuyesa kulumikizana ndi mwanapiye wina yemwe adanditumizira mameseji masiku angapo apitawa kuti akufuna kukumana.

Nenani zomwe mukufuna kutumizirana mameseji kawiri, koma chifukwa chake, ndili ndi zosunga zobwezeretsera. Ambiri a iwo. Kungoti palibe chomwe chimayenda momwe ndimayembekezera pokhapokha nditachita khama kwambiri. Ndicho chinthu chimodzi chimene sindingathe kuchitanso. Kuyesetsa. Ndatopa nazo. Ndatopa kukhala wabwino. Ndine wotopa kukhala 'njonda', ndatopa kukhala yemwe aliyense amafuna kuti ndikhale. Sindisamala za tsiku lausiku lomwe lasokonekera chifukwa kuyesa kuyipanga kumawoneka ngati kotopetsa.

Ndatopa kukhala ine.

Ibibazo

1. Zoyenera kuchita ngati mwasokoneza tsiku loyamba?

Inu muyenera kukhala woona mtima ndi kuyera za chimene chinapangitsa deti zovuta. Khalani nokha, yesetsani kukhala olandirira ndikuwonetsa kusintha kwa zochitika. Chitanipo kanthu kuti munthu winayo akhale womasuka kapena womasuka ngakhale mukusewera mpira kapena kuyitanitsa chakumwa china. Lekani kukopana ndikungoyesa kupanga malo otonthoza.

2. Kodi ndi zachilendo kuti tsiku loyamba likhale lovuta?

Zitha kukhala. Nthawi zina anthu akakhala amanyazi kapena osazolowera kupita pa deti nthawi zambiri, amatha kuchita mantha mwachangu. Komanso, pamene banja si kugunda izo, mungayambe kuona zizindikiro za tsiku loyamba zalakwika.

“Tayerekezani kuti muli pachibwenzi choyamba ndi munthu amene mwakhala mukuyembekezera kudzakumana naye.” Zinthu zikuoneka kuti zikuyenda bwino mpaka mwangozi mwataya mowa wanu pa chovala chawo chatsopanocho.

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A deti molakwika kungakhale zokhumudwitsa zinachitikira, koma nkofunika kukumbukira kuti si mapeto a dziko. Aliyense adakumanapo ndi masiku ovuta kapena osachita bwino nthawi ina. Chinsinsi ndicho kuphunzira kuchokera ku zomwe zinakuchitikirani ndikupita patsogolo.

Musalole kuti tsiku limodzi loipa likulepheretseni kuyesanso. Pali anthu ena ambiri kunja uko omwe angakhale machesi abwino kwa inu. Khalani omasuka, khalani nokha, ndikusangalala ndi chibwenzi. Dziwani zinsinsi za ubale wabwino, wokwaniritsa ndi malangizo athu akatswiri.

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