Munthu akakhala wachinyamata, amakhulupirira kuti dziko lapansi linapangidwira iwo okha. Ngati ali ndi mwayi, adzasangalala kukhala pakati pa chidwi cha aliyense kuyambira makolo awo mpaka ena onse ozungulira iwo. Koma posakhalitsa mumazindikira kuti zinthu zimasintha, ndinu wosafunika ndipo moyo ndi waufupi. Izi zimachitika posachedwa; nthawi yoyamba ndi pamene m'bale wanu wabadwa. Izi zimapitirira kuchitika pamene mnzanu wakusukulu akusankha mnzake wina , ndipo mnzanu wapadera amapatsa munthu wina chidwi chowonjezereka. Mumazindikira kuti moyo si wovuta kwenikweni. Mofananamo mukagwa m'chikondi koma sizikuyenda bwino mumathetsa chibwenzi. Wina akakusiyani kuti amusiye. Monga mwambi umanenera, ngati abwerera, zimakhala bwino ngati sakubwerera, sanakhalepo wanu.
Wina Akakusiyani Musiye Apite
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Mukumva kuyambika koyamba kwa nsanje, kaduka ndi kukhumudwa kwina "kodi sindine wokwanira?" mumadzifunsa nokha. Kenako zopambana zazing'ono zimachitika, mumakhala kaputeni wa sukulu, kapena wothamanga kwambiri kapena luso lanu limazindikirika pankhani yanyimbo kapena zaluso. Mumamva bwino ndipo moyo umapitirira.
Monga wamkulu, mwadalitsidwa ndi mnzanu wokongola ndipo moyo umawoneka wangwiro . Mumamanga maloto ozungulira munthu uyu ndipo moyo ndi nyimbo ndi kuvina. Mwadzidzidzi chisangalalo chimenecho chimasweka ngati chidebe chachitsulo chomwe chagwa kuchokera pamwamba pa shelufu. Simunayembekezere zimenezo. Munthu uyu wapeza wina ndipo akufuna kukusiyani. Zingatheke bwanji zimenezo? Zonse ndi zolakwika. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa chiyani? Maganizo anu akuzungulira mosakhulupirira. Simukufuna kuwasiya. Simungathe. Mukumva chisoni kuti izi zachitika. Komabe muyenera kuwasiya. Munthu wina akakusiyani chifukwa cha wina, ndi bwino kuwasiya. Nayi chifukwa chake.
1. Akadayenera kukhala, akadakhala
Lingaliro limeneli linatenga nthawi yaitali kuti ndivomereze. Moyo ndi ulendo wodzala ndi zokumana nazo zambiri. Ndizosangalatsa kuti mwasangalala ndi mutuwu. Zafika pamapeto ake achilengedwe. Ndiyenera kumusiya chifukwa akadayenera kukhala m'moyo wanga akadakhala mofunitsitsa.
Zili ngati kuti wafika kumene akupita ndipo ayenera kutsika sitima. Muyenera tsopano kukonzekera kukumana ndi munthu wina amene adzabweradi.
2. Kumamatira munthu amene wasankha kusiya n'kopanda phindu
Ndinali nditapulumutsapo kamwana ka mleme, ndipo popeza sindinadziwe kalikonse komanso ndinalibe zida zokwanira zosamalira, kanafa. Sindikanatha kukaika m'manda kapena kukataya; ndinali nditakonda kwambiri, koma pamene fungo la kuvunda ndi kuvunda linandikhudza ndinatero. Umu ndi momwe zimakhalira ndi ubale wosweka - musiye kaye zinthu zisanayambe kukuipiraipirani ndipo njira yabwino yochitira zimenezo ndi bata ndi ulemu. Asiyeni awuluke. Wina akakusiyani kuti amusiye. Ndikhulupirireni, ndicho chinthu chabwino kwambiri choti muchite.
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3. Pangani njira ya mwayi watsopano
Mwambi wina ndi wakuti, “Chitseko chimodzi chikatsekedwa, mawindo ambirimbiri amatsegulidwa”. Chisangalalo chambiri m'moyo chimachitika chifukwa chakuti umachigwira mopepuka. Ukagwira moyo mozama komanso ndi nkhawa, umabweretsa chisoni, chidani komanso nkhawa. Mukapatukana sikophweka kukhala womasuka komanso wopanda zinthu zosangalatsa . Komabe, kumbukirani kuti si mapeto a dziko lapansi. Ngati mudakali ndi moyo, zikutanthauza kuti pali zambiri zoti mufufuze, ndipo ndi chimodzimodzi ndi zokonda zachikondi, khalani otseguka komanso opanda mavuto ndipo moyenera, kumapeto kwa ngalande kudzakhala chikondi chatsopano chomwe chikukuyembekezerani. Ngati wina watuluka m'moyo wanu, musiyeni apite. Chimangogwira ntchito kwa inu.
4. Kukula kwaumwini kumachitika ndi kusweka kulikonse
Ndikudziwa izi mwa zondichitikira ndekha, ndi munthu aliyense amene adasiyana nane ndidapeza kuti pali kukula kwauzimu komwe kunali kwapadera kwa ine.
Kuchokera kwa wokondedwa aliyense ndidaphunzira zambiri za ine komanso zomwe zimandikomera bwino. Ndinali wotseguka kulola chokumana nacho chilichonse kuumba umunthu wanga, kundipanga kukhala munthu wodalirika komanso womasuka.
Kupatukana kulikonse kunandiphunzitsa kuti sindinali wofooka monga momwe ndimaganizira, kuti ndinali ndi nyanja yachikondi yomwe sinathe kukhumudwa. Ndinali kuphuka ngati duwa ndi petal iliyonse ya mbiri yanga, ndikuwonjezera mafuta onunkhira, mtundu, mawonekedwe ndi kapangidwe ka nsalu zomwe zinali zanga. Ndinayamba kudziyamikira chifukwa cha kupatukana!
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5. Siyani ndi chisomo ndi chikondi
Ngati mumamukonda kwambiri munthuyu - bwanji osamulola kuti apite kulikonse komwe akufunika kupita? Ndiye ngati munayenera kukhala nayenso kachiwiri, adzabweranso… apo ayi sanafunikire kukhala. Choncho mukamva kuti mnzanu akufuna kuchoka kwa inu - khalani okoma mtima ndikutsanzikana ndikumwetulira, podziwa kuti simungathe kumanga munthu aliyense ku moyo wanu; kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi mapu ndipo inu munapangidwa kuti mukhale apaulendo. Khalani oyamikira kuti munasangalala kukhala limodzi.
Kuthetsa chibwenzi sikophweka ndipo kuuza munthu amene ali mumkhalidwe wokwiya, wovutika maganizo komanso wotaya mtima, kuti adzuke ndi kulimba mtima, kumaoneka ngati nkhanza. Koma zoona zake n'zakuti, kudzimvera chisoni, chisoni kapena kuipa kumangobweretsa mavuto. Njira yabwino yothetsera kutha kwa chibwenzi ndi luso komanso kukongola. Munthu akakusiyani kuti mumusiye. Kuyesa kusunga ubale wanu sikuthandiza nthawi zambiri. Apatseni mpata womwe akufunikira, ngati akukusowani mokwanira adzabweranso. Koma ngati nonsenu mupeza cholinga cha moyo wanu, pitirizani ndikukhala osangalala m'dziko lanu.
Kodi ndi zinthu ziti zomwe simuyenera kuchita mukatha kutha?
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Iya!! Zolondola!! kukula kwaumwini ndi chinthu chomwe chimabwera ndi kusweka kulikonse.
Simudziwa koma kusweka mtima kumakupangitsani kukhala wamphamvu kuposa momwe simunakhalire!!
Mulungu adalitse!!