Pamene munthu ali wamng'ono, wina amakhulupirira kuti dziko linapangidwira iwo okha. Ngati ali ndi mwayi ndithu, adzasangalala kukhala tcheru cha aliyense kuyambira kwa makolo awo kupita kwa wina aliyense wowazungulira. Koma posakhalitsa mudzazindikira kuti zinthu zikusintha, ndinu otha kuchotsedwa ndipo moyo ndi wosakhalitsa. Izi zimachitika posachedwa; Choyamba ndi pamene mbale wabadwa. Izi zikupitilira kuchitika ngati bwenzi lanu lakusukulu amasankha BFF ina, ndipo bwenzi lanu lapamtima limapereka chisamaliro chowonjezereka kwa munthu wina. Mukuzindikira kuti moyo simalo a maluwa. Momwemonso mukagwa m'chikondi koma sizikuyenda mumatha. Munthu akakusiyani kuti azipita. Monga mwambi umati ngati abwerera ndi bwino ngati satero sakhala anu.
Wina Akakusiyani Musiye Apite
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Mukumva kuyambika koyamba kwa nsanje, kaduka ndi kukhumudwa kwina "kodi sindine wokwanira?" mumadzifunsa nokha. Kenako zopambana zazing'ono zimachitika, mumakhala kaputeni wa sukulu, kapena wothamanga kwambiri kapena luso lanu limazindikirika pankhani yanyimbo kapena zaluso. Mumamva bwino ndipo moyo umapitirira.
Monga wamkulu mwadalitsidwa ndi bwenzi lokongola komanso moyo umawoneka wangwiro. Mumapanga maloto ozungulira munthu uyu ndipo moyo ndi nyimbo ndi kuvina. Mwadzidzidzi chisangalalo chimenecho chikusweka ngati vasi yachinai yomwe yagwa kuchokera pashelefu pamwamba pake. Simunayembekezere zimenezo. Munthu uyu wapeza wina ndipo akufuna kukusiyani. Zingakhale bwanji zimenezo? Zonse nzolakwika. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa chiyani? Malingaliro anu amazungulira mosakhulupirira. Simukufuna kuwalola kupita. Simungathe. Mumakhumudwa kwambiri kuti izi zachitika. Koma uziwalola azipita. Munthu akakusiyani n’kupita kwa wina ndi bwino kumusiya. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake.
1. Akadayenera kukhala, akadakhala
Lingaliro limeneli linatenga nthawi yaitali kuti ndivomereze. Moyo ndi ulendo wodzala ndi zokumana nazo zambiri. Ndizosangalatsa kuti mwasangalala ndi mutuwu. Zafika pamapeto ake achilengedwe. Ndiyenera kumusiya chifukwa akadayenera kukhala m'moyo wanga akadakhala mofunitsitsa.
Zili ngati kuti wafika kumene akupita ndipo ayenera kutsika sitima. Muyenera tsopano kukonzekera kukumana ndi munthu wina amene adzabweradi.
2. Kumamatira munthu amene wasankha kusiya n'kopanda phindu
Ndinali nditapulumutsapo kamwana ka mleme, ndipo popeza kuti sindinkadziŵa n'komwe ndiponso ndinalibe zida zosamalira kamwana kameneka, kanafa. Sindinathe kuziyika izo kapena kuziponya; Ndinali nditaukonda kwambiri, koma pamene fungo la kuvunda ndi kuvunda linandikhudza ndinatero. Umu ndi momwe zimakhalira ndi ubale wosweka - zisiyeni zipite patsogolo zinthu zimakhala zosapiririka kwa inu ndipo njira yabwino yochitira zimenezi ndi mwabata komanso mwaulemu. Zilekeni ziwuluke. Munthu akakusiyani kuti azipita. Ndikhulupirireni kuti ndicho chinthu chabwino kwambiri kuchita.
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3. Pangani njira ya mwayi watsopano
Mwambi wina ndi wakuti, “Chitseko chimodzi chitsekeka, mazenera chikwi amatsegulidwa”. Chimwemwe chochuluka m'moyo ndi chifukwa chakuti mumachigwira mopepuka. Mukamvetsetsa kwambiri moyo komanso nkhawa, zimabweretsa kukhumudwa, chidani komanso kukwiya. Pamene chisudzulo chikuchitika sikophweka kukhala omasuka komanso osasamala. Komabe, kumbukirani kuti si mapeto a dziko. Ngati mudakali ndi moyo, zikutanthauza kuti pali zambiri zoti mufufuze, ndipo ndi chimodzimodzi ndi zokonda zachikondi, sungani malingaliro anu otseguka komanso opanda zowawa ndipo kulondola, kumapeto kwa ngalandeyo padzakhala chikondi chatsopano chomwe chikukuyembekezerani. Ngati wina wachoka m'moyo wanu mulole apite. Zimangogwira ntchito kwa inu.
4. Kukula kwaumwini kumachitika ndi kusweka kulikonse
Ndikudziwa izi mwa zondichitikira ndekha, ndi munthu aliyense amene adasiyana nane ndidapeza kuti pali kukula kwauzimu komwe kunali kwapadera kwa ine.
Kuchokera kwa wokondedwa aliyense ndidaphunzira zambiri za ine komanso zomwe zimandikomera bwino. Ndinali wotseguka kulola chokumana nacho chilichonse kuumba umunthu wanga, kundipanga kukhala munthu wodalirika komanso womasuka.
Kusweka kulikonse kunandiphunzitsa kuti sindine wofooka monga momwe ndimaganizira, kuti ndinali ndi nyanja yachikondi yomwe sinathe kukhumudwa kulikonse. Ndinali kuphuka ngati duwa lokhala ndi petal iliyonse ya mbiri yanga, ndikuwonjezera mafuta onunkhira, mtundu, mawonekedwe ndi mawonekedwe kunsalu yomwe ndinali ine. Ndinayamba kuyamikira ndekha chifukwa chosweka!
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5. Siyani ndi chisomo ndi chikondi
Ngati mumamukonda kwambiri munthuyu - bwanji osamulola kuti apite kulikonse komwe akufunika kupita? Ndiye ngati munayenera kukhala nayenso kachiwiri, adzabweranso… apo ayi sanafunikire kukhala. Choncho mukamva kuti mnzanu akufuna kuchoka kwa inu - khalani okoma mtima ndikutsanzikana ndikumwetulira, podziwa kuti simungathe kumanga munthu aliyense ku moyo wanu; kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi mapu ndipo inu munapangidwa kuti mukhale apaulendo. Khalani oyamikira kuti munasangalala kukhala limodzi.
Kuthetsa chibwenzi sikophweka ndipo kuwuza munthu yemwe ali mumkwiyo, wowawa komanso wokhumudwa, kuti atseke chibwano ndi kukhala ndi milomo yolimba, zikuwoneka ngati zankhanza. Kwende tulole kuti, yiliyose yampaka tukombole kuti tutendeje yindu mwakamulana ni yakusawusya yeleyi. Njira yabwino yothetsera kusweka ndi finesse ndi kukongola. Munthu akakusiyani kuti azipita. Kuyesera kugwiritsitsa ndi kukonza ubale sikumagwira ntchito. Apatseni mpata akusowa, ngati akusowani mokwanira adzabweranso. Koma ngati nonse mupeza cholinga cha moyo wanu mumapitilira ndikukhala osangalala m'maiko anu.
Kodi ndi zinthu ziti zomwe simuyenera kuchita mukatha kutha?
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Iya!! Zolondola!! kukula kwaumwini ndi chinthu chomwe chimabwera ndi kusweka kulikonse.
Simudziwa koma kusweka mtima kumakupangitsani kukhala wamphamvu kuposa momwe simunakhalire!!
Mulungu adalitse!!