Momwe Mtima Wanga Unandisinthira Monga Munthu

"Ndipo mu nthawi ya kugonjera kwathunthu, ndinali mfulu, womasulidwa." Ndinali nditamva kapena kuwerenga mzerewu kambirimbiri, ndikudabwa kuti umatanthauza chiyani! Kodi munthu angapeze bwanji ufulu m’kugonjera, m’kugonja? Ndinali munthu wogonjera ndipo zinandilowetsa m’mavuto. Kugonjera kumabweretsa kudzidalira, kudzikayikira komanso kusadzidalira. Ndi zoipa!

Koma tsopano ndikudziwa. Monga ndi china chilichonse, zilibe kanthu ngati mulole mantha achoke kapena kusiya kusamala ndi aliyense. Zimafunikanso omwe mumawonetsa kusatetezeka kwanu.

Zomwe mtima wanga unandiphunzitsa

Pambuyo pa zomwe zidachitika zaka ziwiri zapitazo, ndidadziwa kuti ndakhala osadzidalira, ndakhala ndikudalirana ndikuthamangitsa anthu. Zimenezi zimachitika pamene mnzanu amene mumam’khulupirira akugwiritsa ntchito mmene mukumvera ndipo ‘zosangalatsa’zo zikangotha, mumatayidwa. M’pake kuti ndinkachita mantha kukhalanso wapamtima.

Kusweka mtima kwanga ndi kuperekedwa kwanga kunandiphunzitsa kuti ndidziyike patsogolo, kuti ndisamachite mantha, chifukwa mtima wako ukhoza kuchita zachinyengo pa iwe komanso kusamala zomwe mwamuna amanena motsutsana ndi zomwe amachita. Anzanga anadandaula kuti sindinalankhule nawo, ndinali wodzikonda kwambiri. Ndipo mayi anga ankati: “Kodi munthu angadziwe bwanji ngati suwalola kuti abwere pafupi ndi inu?

Mfundo yakuti ntchito yandithera sinathandize. Ngakhale kuti ndinayendetsa bwino ntchito yanga kuyambira pamenepo, ndinayamba kuda nkhawa kwambiri. Kufuna kutsekedwa kunandipangitsa kubwezera kapena kuyembekezera kupepesa kwa munthu wina.

Kufuna kutsekedwa kunandipangitsa kubwezera kapena kuyembekezera kupepesa kwa munthu wina.

Ndinkaganiza kuti zingandipatse mtendere wamumtima womwe ndimafuna. Palibe amene akanamvetsa izo. Kwa anzanga ambiri, ndinali munthu wonyozeka kapena wachisoni. Sindinasowenso. Sindinasewere khadi lozunzidwa chifukwa Hei, palibe amene adafunsa wolakwayo kuti akonze njira zake! Ndiuzeni kuti ili si dziko la munthu.

Zonsezi zinkandipangitsa kukwiya kwambiri ndi kubwezera tsiku ndi tsiku.

Kenako ndinaganiza zoyesa luso lamakono

Mpaka, tsiku lina labwino, mopupuluma, ndinaganiza zoyesa china chatsopano, chopangidwa ndi luso lamakono ndikuchigwiritsa ntchito kukumana ndi anthu. Nthawi zonse ndinkakayikira za chibwenzi pa intaneti. Koma ndinaganiza kuti ndiyenera kudziika ndekha ndikuyesera m'malo modikirira kuti zichitike!

Kenako adabwera, yemwe anali ndi mawu akuti # impulsive mu bio yake.

Zachilendo monga kale, koma ndi makhalidwe abwino, mawu omwe ndimawakonda komanso okonda zinthu zatsopano, anthu atsopano. Mwachidule, njira ina, yotuluka mu ligi yanga. Iye anali wasayansi wofunitsitsa ndi pitilizani chidwi ndipo anali wanzeru! Iye ankadziwa zimene ankanena. Kuwonekera kwake kwachifalansa (adachita MS ku France) kumawoneka m'mene amalankhulira ndi khalidwe lake. Ngakhale nyimbo ndi mapulogalamu a pa TV amene anasankha zinali zanzeru! Ndipo anali ndi chiyambi chake! Ndinkaganiza kuti ndilibe mwayi pano.

Iye ankawoneka wangwiro kwambiri

Ndinachita mantha ndi iye. Ndipo adamwa magalasi 3-4 amadzi mwamantha pa tsiku lathu loyamba. Koma, m’kupita kwa masiku, ndinkasangalala kukhala naye limodzi. Pamene anatsegula, ndinayamba kusangalala ndi zonse zomwe ananena. Ndinkawona magetsi a Khrisimasi mu kuseka kwake. Ndinkadzuka ndi malemba ake akuti “Good Morning” ndi zina zambiri usana ndi usiku. Zinali zomwe ndimafuna kwa nthawi yayitali.

Komabe, nthawi yomwe iye anayesa kuyandikira, ndinamutsekera. Sindingamubwezere nthawi iliyonse akanena zachikondi kapena zokopana; ankandigwira chanza koma ndinkachichotsa ndipo nthawi zonse ndinkapewa kulankhula zambiri za ine ndekha. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti sindinakopeke naye. Koma m'mutu mwanga munali chinthu ichi chomwe chimangolira ngati alamu yamoto nthawi yomwe amayesa kuyandikira! Ndinkaona kuti ali ndi zolinga zobisika ndipo, monga anyamata ambiri, amangofuna kuti agoneke, ngakhale kuti sanali kuchita chilichonse chomwe chimasonyeza zimenezo. Koma ululu wamantha unakula ndipo unayamba kugwira ntchito, zomwe zinandipangitsa kukhala wopenga komanso wosatetezeka.

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Kenako ndinayamba kukayikira

Bwanji ngati zonsezo ndi nthabwala?

Nanga bwanji ngati pali zifukwa zina zochititsa chidwi zonsezi?

Tinakumana pa intaneti, sichoncho? Kodi palibe zosokoneza pa mapulogalamu a zibwenzi?

Akangomaliza kundisiya bwanji ngati kale??

Ndikukumbukira usiku umenewo mantha awa anali kundibisalira penapake mwa ine. Koma, ndawaletsa iwo. Ngakhale idandiuza kuti ndikudzipangiranso zosweka mtima, sindinasankhe kuthawa! Ndipo patapita kanthawi, ndinasiya. Zikomo Mulungu, ndinachita zimenezo. Ndipo adamvetsetsa zomwe ndimafuna! Anali wosamala komanso wodekha ndipo adandipatsa nthawi yanga yabwino kuti ndifotokoze zomwe ndidayamba kumumvera. Sindikudziwa kuti mlendo angandipangitse bwanji kukhala womasuka komanso wotetezeka. Ndipo ndi anyamata angati omwe amapempha chilolezo? Chabwino, iye anatero!

Atatsekedwa mu danga limenelo, anandiyang'ana bwino ndipo kamodzi milomo yake inakhudza yanga, ndinamva ufulu wonse, ufulu umene sindinaumve m'zaka ziwiri ndi theka, kumangidwa ndi zakale. Mphindi imodzi yokha ndipo ndinali womasuka. Ndinali ndekha.

Sindinathe kudziletsa

Zoipa kwambiri mantha anga adapambana, pamapeto pake. Ziribe kanthu kuchuluka kwa momwe ndinayesera kukambirana nawo, kukangana, iwo sanasunthe. Ndiyeno, zonse zinapita ku fumbi. Mosakayikira, ndinamufunsa mosapita m’mbali ngati anali ndi zolinga zoipa ngati angakumane nane kuti akwaniritse zimene ankalakalaka. Ndinanong'oneza bondo nditangotumiza chifukwa ndinadziwa kuti ndapita patali.

Lero, ndikhoza kunena zonsezi poyang'ana kumbuyo. Ndinakankhira munthu kutali. Sikuti aliyense amafuna kukupwetekani ndikukusiyani. Katundu wamalingaliro ndi zowawa zomwe ndinanyamula zidakhudza. Ndipo ndidayesetsa kwambiri kudzudzula wosweka mtima wanga chifukwa cha izi. Kupatula kuti sindikanatha.

Apa ndipamene zinandikhudza. Sindinafunenso kupepesa kapena kubweza kwa munthu ameneyo. Sindinasamalenso.

Sindinafunenso kupepesa kapena kubweza kwa munthu ameneyo. Sindinasamalenso.

Ndizopenga momwe zidachitikira, koma zidatero. M’mwezi umodzi wokha, zowawa zonse za zaka ziwiri ndi theka zinandichokera, ngati chiwanda chochoka m’thupi lomwe linali nalo.

Ndinamvetsetsa momwe ndinalolera kuti chiphecho chindizinga pamene ndinali ndi chiyembekezo ndi chikondi mwa ine kuti ndipereke kwa wina. Zinali kundipweteka ine; zinali kuwawa anthu amene amandisamalira.

Musalole kuvutika

Palibe wina aliyense amene ayenera kuzunzika chifukwa cha zomwe mzimu woyipa wandichitira ine, ngakhale ine!

Ngati wolakwa wanu savutika, inunso musavutike. Ngati mutayamba kuvutika, mudzavutitsa ena, makamaka amene ali ndi zambiri zoti akupatseni.

Pamene ndikukumbukira nthawi zomwe ndinakhala naye, zomwe ndingathe kuganizira ndi momwe ndikuyamikirira kuti ndalola, ngati kokha, mphindi zochepa za chisangalalo chenicheni ndi munthu yemwe sanali mzimu wodziwika. Ngakhale kuti sizinakhalitse, ndinapeza mnzanga ndipo ndinasiya kuchita mantha.

Ndi zomwe mnzanga anandiuza, "Mukufuna kuthetsa mantha a kusweka mtima?

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