Ubudlelwane bale mihla, ngokufuthi kunoko, buqala kwifowuni ephathwayo. Okuhlekisayo kukuba, kukwanjalo nokungathembeki kwanamhlanje. Ngetekhnoloji ephembelela iingcinga kunye nezenzo zethu ngendlela engazange ibonwe ngaphambili, imigca phakathi kokulungileyo nokungalunganga iye yamfiliba ekuhambeni kwexesha, kwaye njani! Into eyayilihlazo ngaphambili yinto eqhelekileyo namhlanje, naxa kufikwa kwimicimbi. Umzekelo, omnye wemibuzo ephambili kwindawo engwevu apho ubudlelwane busebenza khona - ngaba ukuthumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngemiyalezo imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ecansini kukukopela, xa ukubudlelwane nomnye umntu?
Akuyomfuneko ukuba sichaze i-sexting, akunjalo? Kucacile ukuba yintoni na. Kodwa kwabo bangafundanga, nantsi ingcaciso yencwadi yesikhokelo: ukuthumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngefowuni sisenzo sokuthumela iifoto ezingcolileyo okanye ezicacileyo okanye imiyalezo ngesixhobo sombane. Nangona ivakala isoyikisa kwaye iyinkathazo, inokuba ngamava amnandi kwaye abandakanya. Ukucinga ngayo njengokuba neentlobano zesini phezu umbhalo, kwaye zonke ungasebenzisa amagama akho kunye neminye imisebenzi yokuthumela imiyalezo onayo esandleni.
Ukuthumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngefowuni yinto ebalulekileyo kulwalamano olusenyongweni kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, nokuba kuphakathi kobudlelwane okanye ngaphandle kwalo, kwaye kuxhomekeke kumxholo, kunokonakalisa okanye kuqinise ubuhlobo. Kummandla omnyama wehlabathi ledijithali, iingcinga zesini zifumana isandla sasimahla, ngaphandle kwemida yeekhowudi ezivunyiweyo ngokwentlalo kunye nokunye okuninzi. Kukho phantse ulonwabo olunetyala kwisenzo. Yiloo nto eyenza kube nzima ukuthumelelana imiyalezo ngefowuni. Ukuba bekukho ingxoxo malunga nombuzo ovuthayo "ngaba ukuthumela imiyalezo nge-sexting okanye ukuzonwabisa okungenabungozi?", Uya kufumana abaxhasi abaninzi kumacala omabini ocingo. Ngaba ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni kukhokelela kwimicimbi? Kwakhona, luqikelelo lomntu.
Ukucaca ngcono kulo mba kunye nokuqonda kukukopa nge-sexting, siye sabamba iqhaza kwimpilo yengqondo kunye nomqeqeshi wokuqonda. Pooja Priyamvada (eqinisekisiweyo kwiPsychological and Mental Health First Aid evela kuJohns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health kunye neYunivesithi yaseSydney), ojongene nokucebisa abantu abangaphandle komtshato, ukuhlukana, ukwahlukana, usizi, kunye nokulahlekelwa, ukukhankanya ezimbalwa, ukuphendula imibuzo embalwa ebalulekileyo kuthi namhlanje.
Yintoni Kuthathwa Ukukopela A Relationship?
Isiqulatho
Ngaphambili, kwakulula ukuthetha ngezinto omele uzenze nongamele zenziwe emtshatweni. Kwakufuneka uhlale uthembekile kwiqabane lakho, kwaye ukuba elinye iqabane libanjwe liqhatha, oko kunokuthetha ukuphela kwendlela yesi sibini. Ewe, yayilula kwaye icacile ngaphambili.
Ububodwa ibiluphawu lobudlelwane obuzibophelele kwaye ukuba bekukho iingxaki, bekulindeleke ukuba uzame ukuzilungisa okanye wahlukane. Ukungena ezingalweni zenye indoda okanye umfazi yayiyinto engqongqo ethi hayi kwaye ijongelwa phantsi. I-Intanethi ibingaxhaphakanga kwaye awuzange ushiywe uzibuza izinto ezinje, "Ngaba umyeni wam uthumela imiyalezo engafanelekanga komnye umntu?"
Izinto zaba nzima xa abacebisi kunye neengcali zentlalo zaqala ukuzibuza ukuba ukungathembeki ngokweemvakalelo kwakugqalwa njengokuqhatha. Ukuba utshatile kodwa ube uphupha ngenye indoda okanye ibhinqa okanye usondelelane ngokweemvakalelo nomnye umntu, ngaba bekuya kubizwa ngokuba uyaqhatha nokuba ubungabandakanyeki ngokwesini? Ngaba ubudlelwane benyama ibikuphela kophawu lokuthembeka? I-Pooja isixelela oku, “Ukuqhatha kukwaphula isithembiso okanye ukuthembela komntu anayo kwiqabane lakhe.
Izinto ezinokuthi zigqalwe njengokuqhatha kulwalamano ziyahluka ngokwezibini. Yintoni enokukrexeza okanye engeyiyo isenokungalawuleki. Ngokomzekelo, esinye isibini sinokunandipha ukudlala ngothando ngokungenabungozi. Kodwa kwesinye isibini sisenokuvakalelwa kukuba asifanelekanga. Ijaji lisaphumile kwezi ngxaki kwaye nokuba ukuthumela omnye umntu nge-sext ngelixa bethandana kukuqhatha okanye hayi. Silapha ukuze sikuphendulele lo mbuzo.
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Ngaba Kucingwa Ukukopela Ukuba Uthumela I-Sext?
Ukuthumela imiyalezo nge-sexting kunokugqalwa njengokulingana nokuthumela imibongo evuselela inkanuko okanye amanqaku othando kwinkulungwane eyadlulayo. Ngokuhambelana namaxesha, itekhnoloji ibonelela ngeqonga lokunxibelelana nomnye umntu. Ngokwayo, ayiyongozi nje kuphela kodwa iya ixhaphaka ngakumbi. Amaqabane athumela imifanekiso esondeleleneyo, izicatshulwa, okanye ii-emojis ezinomtsalane omnye komnye ngalo lonke ixesha. Kwaye xa bekwintliziyo enzulu yomnqweno, ezi zinokuba mnandi kwaye zidlale indima ukongeza iziqholo kubomi babo besini.
Ingxaki, ewe, ivela xa le mibhalo, imifanekiso, kunye namanqaku elizwi ethunyelwa komnye umntu ngaphandle kwamaqabane abo atshate ngokusemthethweni okanye amaqabane azinikeleyo. Ngelixa abanye abantu benokungayamkeli ngokupheleleyo, abanye banokuxolela kodwa bakufumanisa kunzima ukuthemba iqabane labo emva kokuthumela imiyalezo nge-sext. Emva koko kuphakama umbuzo, "Ngaba ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni kukhokelela kwimicimbi?"
KuMischa noSete, yenzekile. Owabo yayingumtshato oqinileyo we-11 leminyaka, okanye babecinga njalo. Emva koko u-Mischa wabamba umyeni ethumela i-sext omnye umntu kwaye wafumanisa imibhalo emininzi e-sexy kwifowuni kaSeth, ithunyelwe komnye umfazi. Xa wajongana naye, waqala wagxininisa ukuba yayingadluli ngaphezu kwemibhalo. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, wavuma ukuba yayiyinto epheleleyo.
UMischa uthi: “Ndakhubeka xa umyeni wam ethumelela elinye ibhinqa imiyalezo engafanelekanga. Watsala nzima kangangeeveki ezimbalwa, ezibuza, “Ngaba ukuthumelelana imiyalezo neentlobano zesini kunokuphelisa umtshato?” Ekugqibeleni, baqhawula umtshato emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa.
I-sexting yindlela yokuqhatha kwabanye
Ukuthumelelana imiyalezo nemiyalezo ngefowuni kudlulela ngaphaya kokudlala ngothando okungenabungozi okanye ukubetha omnye umntu. Ukusondelelana kwesenzo kwenza ukuba kungafanelekanga ngakumbi. Umbuzo ofanele ukubuzwa ngulo – ngaba ukuthumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwayo kukukopela ukuba uthandana? Kukwakho namathandabuzo athandabuzayo angena ngaphakathi ukuba kukho imiqondiso yokuba umyeni wakho uthumela i-sext okanye emva kokuba ubambe iqabane lakho lithumela imiyalezo efundwayo. Yintoni eya kukhokelela kokulandelayo kwaye kufanelekile ukuxolela isenzo esinje?
UPooja uthi: “Ngokufuthi, ukuthumelelana imiyalezo ngefowuni nabanye abantu kujongwa njengokuqhatha abantu.
Nangona kwiimeko ezininzi kuyinyani, kukho elinye icala le-spectrum ngokunjalo. Abantu abaninzi abakwimitshato eqinileyo basenokungakuvumeli ukukopa kodwa bangabi nangxaki xa kufikwa kwi-sexting. Kutheni le nto indoda etshatileyo ithumela omnye umfazi okanye ibhinqa elitshatileyo nge-sext enye indoda? Masiyive komnye wabafundi bethu. UVivien Williams (igama litshintshile), uyavuma ukudlala ibala xa umfazi wakhe engakhangeli.
Etshate iminyaka emalunga ne-15, wayekumtshato wesiqhelo de kwavela iintlantsi nomntu asebenza naye awayedibene naye emsebenzini. Ukuncokola nje okuqhelekileyo kwakhokelela ekuthumeleni imiyalezo ngefowuni. Nangona kunjalo, uWilliams usagxininisa ukuba msulwa. "Ndathumela imiyalezo nge-sex kwaye ndaziva ndinetyala ekuqaleni, kodwa jonga, andizange ndiqhathe nabani na. Kukuthumela nje imiyalezo embalwa yothando, ndifumana iimpendulo zothando ngokulinganayo ... kukuhlambalaza ngokwesondo. Kundibeka kwimeko epholileyo - ndingabelana naye ngezinto endingakwaziyo kunye nomfazi wam," utsho.
Ngaba ukuthumelelana imiyalezo ngefowuni kukuqhatha?
Ukuba izinto bezilula nje ukudlala ngothando okunempilo. Ukuthumela imiyalezo nge-Sexting kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki (ngaphezulu kule ingezantsi), kwaye ngaphezu kwesenzo, ziziphumo ezibangela ingxaki eparadesi. Umntu kufuneka ajonge kuphela amabali abantu abadumileyo ukuze azi imiphumo emibi yokuthumela imiyalezo. Ukusuka eTiger Woods ukuya kuAshton Kutcher, isiseko sokuqala semitshato yabo ewohlokayo sabekwa xa bebanjiwe bethumela iitekisi ezingcolileyo okanye ezingafanelekanga kunye nemifanekiso – zonke ezo ziyimiqondiso ecacileyo umyeni wakho uthumela i-sext.
Ke ukuba usazibuza kukukopela nge-sexting, ngakumbi ukuba ukubudlelwane obubodwa, impendulo elula yile: Ewe. Ukuthumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngefowuni ngoxa uthandana luhlobo oluthile lokunganyaniseki olungafanelanga ukuba ugwetywe ngokupheleleyo nokohlwaywa kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uyagxekwa.
Ukuba uyazibuza, "Kutheni amantombazana ethumela abanye nge-sext xa enenkwenkwe?" okanye "Kutheni indoda etshatileyo ithumela omnye umfazi nge-sext?", Ewe izizathu zabo zinokuba zezomntu kwaye asinazo izinto eziqhelekileyo esinokukunika zona. Kodwa sinokukunika ulwazi malunga nee-nuances zokuthumela omnye umntu ngaphandle kweqabane lakho kunye neziphumo zayo kubudlelwane bakho obuphambili.
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Ngaba I-Sexting Ikhokelela Kwimicimbi?
A isifundo ngu-Anju Elizabeth Abraham kwiYunivesithi yaseCalifornia State malunga nokuziphatha ngokuthumela imiyalezo nge-sexting ikhuphe iziphumo ezinomdla. Kuyabonakala ukuba, umfundi omnye kwabathathu uye wazibhangisa kwi-sexting. Ngaphantsi kwesihlanu sabaphenduli baye bathunyelwa ngaphandle kwemvume yabo kwaye abaninzi babo baxhatshazwa ngenxa yeefoto zabo ngokunjalo.
Okubangel’ umdla kukuba, ngaphezu kwesiqingatha sabafundi bavuma ukuba ukuthumelelana imiyalezo neentlobano zesini kwakhokelela ekubeni babe neentlobano zesini naloo mntu. Olu phononongo lunokwenziwa ngokubanzi kumlinganiselo omkhulu. Nokuba intle kangakanani na kodwa isenokubonakala imsulwa, ukuthumelelana imiyalezo ngefowuni rhoqo kunokukhokelela kubudlelwane obupheleleyo ukuba ithuba liyavela. Ngaba ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni kukhokelela kwiimvakalelo? Kukho ithuba elihle lokuba.
Uninzi lwabantu luyazibuza ukuba kutheni ukuthumela i-sexting kungakohlisi kodwa ukuba ukhupha iileyibhile kumbono, ufumanisa ukuba kukho umgca omncinci kakhulu owahlula ezi zimbini. Nazi ezinye iinyani ezinomdla malunga nokuthumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwayo ezinokuphendula umbuzo - ingaba ukuthumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo ngemiyalezo yefowuni kukuqhatha okanye ngaba ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni kubi ngakumbi kunokuqhatha?
1. Kwenza ulindelo olungekho ngqiqweni ngesini
U-Pooja uyachaza, "Nakuphi na ukuphindaphinda ukuziphatha kunokuba likhoboka. Kuyafana nemeko yokuthumela imiyalezo nge-sexting, ngoko inokuba ngumlutha. Ngamanye amaxesha izinto ezibhaliweyo, i-audio-visual cues, kunye nokuba kude nomntu kunokongeza kwizinto ezilindelekileyo malunga nesondo ngokubanzi.
Ukuthumela imiyalezo nge-sext njengamanye amaqonga e-intanethi kuyamqinisa umntu. Ngasemva kwesikrini esiphathwayo okanye sekhompyuter, ungachwetheza okanye wenze iintelekelelo obungasoze ube nesibindi sokuzifumana. Iincoko zisenokukhobokisa kakhulu. Iincoko ze-flirty ezikwi-Intanethi inokwenza abantu bazive benjengoothixokazi besini okanye oothixo.
Ngaba ukuthumelelana imiyalezo ngefowuni ngefowuni kunokuphelisa umtshato? Ingayiyo. Isenokukukhokelela ekwakhiweni kolindelo olungenanyani malunga nobomi bakho bokwabelana ngesondo. Ngoku, ukuba loo mntu ayiloqabane lakho okanye iqabane lakho, ngokuthe ngcembe ujonga ngaphandle kobudlelwane bakho bangoku kwaye utsalwe kwinyani. Isempilweni kangakanani loo nto? Uyayazi impendulo kanye njengokuba sisazi.
2. Ithatha ingqalelo yakho kude nobudlelwane bakho bangoku
Ngaba ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni kukuqhatha? Ewe, iqinisekile ukuba ikwenza ukuba uhlawule ngakumbi incoko yefowuni yakho nomntu ongamaziyo kunokuba neencoko zokwenyani kunye neqabane lakho elinokuthi ngequbuliso libonakale likruqula kwaye lingenamdla kuwe. Ngokukodwa ukuba uneengxaki kunye neqabane lakho esele likhona, ukuthumela imiyalezo nge-sext nomnye umntu kusebenza njenge-catalyst ekwandiseni ukwahlukana. Into eqala njengokutsala umdla ngokwasemzimbeni ngesicatshulwa ayithathi xesha lide ukuba ibe sisishukumiso seemvakalelo okanye imvakalelo umcimbi ngokweemvakalelo ukukukhwelisa kwiingxaki zakho.
"Kutheni abafana bethumela i-sex xa benentombi?" uyazibuza uSelena. Unesizathu esivakalayo sokubuza. Iqabane lakhe langaphambili lalikhotyokiswe kukuthumelelana nabanye abafazi nge-sext kwaye wambamba ngalo izihlandlo ezininzi. Wayesoloko ekhalaza esithi akenzi nto iphosakeleyo. "Ngaba kuthathwa njengokukhohlisa ukuba uthumela imiyalezo nge-sext?", wayembuza ngeethoni ezonzakeleyo.
Echaza isizathu sokuba ukuthumelelana imiyalezo neentlobano zesini kufana nokuqhatha kwimeko enjalo, uPooja, “Maxa wambi ukuthumelelana imiyalezo ngefowuni kunokwenza ubani angaluhoyi ulwalamano analo ngoku.
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3. Uya kubanjwa ngokungenakuthintelwa
Uninzi lwabantu ababelana ngesondo ngesondo abaziva benetyala kakhulu ngento abayenzayo ekuqaleni kuba becinga ukuba abanakuze babanjwe. Ngokungafaniyo ukukopela ubutyala, okwenzekayo xa amadoda nabafazi bebandakanyeka kubudlelwane bomtshato baze bazive kakubi ngaloo nto, ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni kudla ngokugqalwa njengento engenamsebenzi kakhulu ukuba ungaphuthelwa.
Unokucinga ukuba akukho bungozi ekuthumeleni imifanekiso embalwa engcolileyo kwiqabane lakho lomcimbi wenyani. Kodwa kukho umngcipheko wokwenyani wokuba unokubanjwa ekugqibeleni. Ngaba ngokwenene kufanelekile? Ulwimi lomzimba ngelixa usemnxebeni, inkangeleko ephuphileyo ngelixa uncokola, kunye nentetha engabonakaliyo ebonisa ubuso bakho ngelixa unzulu kwincoko zonke zizipho ezifileyo ukuba i-SO yakho ikujongile ngokusondeleyo, izama ukufumanisa indlela yokuxelela ukuba umntu uthumela i-sext.
4. Ukuthumela imiyalezo nge-Sexting kunokukhokelela kwi-attachment
Ngaba ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni kukhokelela kwiimvakalelo? Unokwazi njani ukuba umntu uthumela imiyalezo? Ukuze uphendule yomibini le mibuzo, khawucinge ngoku. Kuya kubakho imiba yokuncamathela ebonakalayo. U-Riley Jenkins (igama litshintshile), umenzi wekhaya uye wafumana umkhwa wokuthumelelana imiyalezo nge-sext xa ephinda wadibana nomntu owayesakuba naye.
Oko kwaqala njengencoko yobuhlobo kungekudala kwangena kwintsimi eyayingavumelekanga. Ii-sexts zanika umdla omkhulu, zimenza azive emncinci kwaye eshushu. “Kodwa kungekudala ndaqalisa ukubandakanyeka ngokweemvakalelo.Ndaqalisa ukwabelana naye ngeengxaki.Iincoko ezisondeleleneyo zaba nefuthe elingaqhelekanga kum njengoko ndandingafuni ukuba ziyeke.Xa ukuthandana kwaphela njengoko kwakufuneka, kwaba ngumothuko okrwada,” udiza njalo. Ke kule meko, nangona kungabikho ngesondo ngokwasemzimbeni, uRiley wayenesondo ngefowuni ekhokelela ekungathembekeni ngokweemvakalelo - oko kukukopela ngokuqinisekileyo!
Njengoko uPooja esixelela, “Leyo yeyona ntsilelo yokwenene yokuthumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngefowuni. Ekuqaleni, usenokuziva ungowomzimba kwaye ulungile kodwa kungekudala ungakuqondi oko, usenokuzifumana ukhula ngokweemvakalelo esondelelene nalo mntu. Kwakhona usenokuziva unesidingo esikhulayo sokunxibelelana nabo kwinqanaba leemvakalelo, nto leyo enkulu kakhulu neyingxaki ngakumbi kunokunxibelelana nabo kwinqanaba lezesondo nje.”
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5. Ingakhokelela kwiziphumo ezihlazo okanye eziyingozi
Enye ingxaki ngokuthumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngefowuni kukuba inento yokwenza nobugcisa. Kwizandla ezingalunganga, kunokubangela isiphithiphithi. Abantu abaninzi babambise amaqabane abo ngokujonga iifowuni zabo okanye baye babumba idatha yabo ukuze bababambe. Ngamanye amaxesha, iincoko okanye imifanekiso inokuvuza ngenxa yempazamo ethile yetekhnoloji.
Khawucinge nje ngokothuka okuya kubangela iqabane lakho. Ungaphikisa ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo uyenzileyo kodwa into yokuba wabelane ngokusondeleleneyo nomnye umntu, inokubangela ukuba iqabane lakho libe buhlungu kakhulu. Kubi nje ngokulala nomnye umntu, ukuba akunjalo.
Ngamafutshane, ukuthumelelana imiyalezo ngefowuni ngefowuni kunokubangela umsantsa ngenye indlela ubudlelwane obuphilileyo. Isenokungabi ngunobangela wokwahlukana kodwa xa umntu ebhaqwe ethumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngefowuni kodwa oko kunokukhokelela kwiintloni ezininzi kunye neentloni. Ubungakanani bokubandakanyeka buya kugqiba ikamva lomtshato kodwa ukuba ulingeka ukuba usondelelane emnxebeni ngokuqinisekileyo kuthetha ukuba kukho into engekhoyo kubudlelwane bakho bangoku. Umbuzo ngulo - uya kuhamba kude kangakanani kwaye uphonononge isilingo?
FAQs
Unokumxolela umntu ngokuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni ukuba uyaxolisa ngokwenene kwaye udanile kwaye ukuba isenzo eso besingesombono ogqwethekileyo wokuzonwabisa. Ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo kulula ukuxolela kwaye ulibale kodwa ukuba isibini senza umgudu owaneleyo, ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni akuyongxaki engenakoyiswa nangona inganqweneleki.
Ubudlelwane obuqala ngokukopa akufane buhlale. Nokuba isibini sidlula kwi-scandal, amanxeba aya kuhlala kwaye oko kuya kukhokelela ekukrokreleni ngonaphakade. Ulwalamano olunjalo alunakwakhelwa kwisiseko esihle.
Ukuthumelelana imiyalezo nemiyalezo ngefowuni kunokugqalwa njengento embi ngakumbi kunokukopa kuba kubandakanya zombini, izenzo zesini kunye nokungathembeki ngokweemvakalelo. Kwanokuba akukho mntu udibana naye ngokwasemzimbeni, isibakala sokuba umntu unokwakha ubuhlobo obusenyongweni, nokuba kusefowunini, nomntu ongenguye lowo uzibophelele kuye kufana nokuqhatha.
I-sexting inokukhokelela kubudlelwane bokwenene. Ibonelela ngeqonga ukuze uqale ukuthandana kwaye atyatyambe. Kwakhona, ukuthumelelana imiyalezo nemiyalezo ngefowuni kakhulu kunokukhokelela ekubeni utsaleleke ngokweemvakalelo komnye umntu.
Kuxhomekeke kwimithetho esemthethweni yelizwe okulo. Kodwa ukuthumela imiyalezo ngemiyalezo ethunyelwa ngemiyalezo imiyalezo ngomyalezo ngolo hlobo akunakuthathwa njengolwaphulo-mthetho. Noko ke, kusenokugqalwa njengento enganqwenelekiyo ekhokelela ekuqhatheni kuze ngaloo ndlela kube sisizathu soqhawulo-mtshato.
Imicimbi ayihlali ixesha elide. Kodwa into ehlala ihleli yintlungu ebangelwa kuye wonke umntu obandakanyekayo.
Umnikelo wakho awuquki isisa umnikelo. Iya kuvumela i-Bonobology ukuba iqhubeke nokukuzisela ulwazi olutsha nolwangoku kwiphulo lethu lokunceda nabani na osehlabathini ukuba afunde ukwenza nantoni na.
