Iindlela ezingama-25 ezintle nezimnandi zokumangalisa isithandwa sakho

Ukumangalisa abantu obathandayo lulwimi olungekho semthethweni lothando. Yindlela emnandi neyothando yokubonisa ukubaluleka kwabo ebomini bakho kodwa ukothuka njani isithandwa sakho ngento ayixabisa ngokwenene? 

Kakade ke, enye yeendlela zokumangalisa isithandwa sakho kukulungelelanisa umsebenzi / isiganeko angathanda. Kufuneka kube lula kuba umazi ngaphakathi ngaphandle. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubudlelwane bakho butsha kwaye anizani kakuhle, okanye ukuba nikunye ixesha elide kwaye nikhangele into eyahlukileyo, ukufumana izipho ezimangalisayo zesoka lakho kunokufumana umngeni omncinci. 

Ngamaxesha anje, ungathembela kuthi ukuba sikubonelele ngeendlela ezingama-25 ukothusa isithandwa sakho kwaye umenze azive ekhethekileyo.

Iindlela ezingama-25 ezintle nezimnandi zokumangalisa isithandwa sakho

Ngokuchaseneyo nenkolelo eqhelekileyo, amadoda akanabo 'uburhalarhume nobudoda' ngamaxesha onke. Ngapha koko, bangabantu, yaye bafuna ukuxatyiswa nokuxatyiswa. Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko kulula ukuyifumana izinto zothando ukothusa umfana wakho. Iingcamango ezininzi ziqhelekileyo kwaye zenziwe kwaye zagqithiswa ngaphambili, ngoko unokumothusa njani ngokwahlukileyo?

Undoqo kukongeza eyakho i-twist. Yenza izinto ezintsha, bonisana ngengqondo, kwaye wenze neembono eziphambili ezidumileyo zibe zezakho. Yenze ukuba ilingane nobabini kwaye siyakuqinisekisa, iya kuba yenye yeendlela ezikhethekileyo zokumangalisa isithandwa sakho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubhidekile, uluhlu lwethu luqinisekisiwe ukukunceda malunga 'nendlela yokumangalisa isithandwa sakho' conundrum.

1. Mphekele

Nangona le ngcamango iphikisana namagama angaphambili, umhla wesidlo yiklasi engapheliyo ngenxa yesizathu. Kuyanceda nobabini ukudibanisa kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo phezulu apho xa kufikwa kwizinto ezothusayo ezintle kwisoka lakho ekhaya. Nangona kunjalo, endaweni yoku-odola i-takeout kunye nokuseta, indlela entle nesondeleleneyo yokwenza isenzo sibonakale ngakumbi kukuzipheka ngokwakho.

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Amabhinqa ngokuqinisekileyo atsaleleka kumadoda aphekayo kodwa indoda ikwayixabisa gqitha xa enye into ebalulekileyo ibonisa umzamo nothando lwabo ngokumenzela ukutya. Akukho kunqongophala kweeresiphi kwi-intanethi, i-gourmet okanye elula, kwaye ikunika ithuba lokuhlola i-Julia Child yakho yangaphakathi. Oku kwenza ukuba ibe yenye yezona zinto zimnandi zimothusayo xa efika ekhaya. Ukuba ufana nam kwaye uyoyika ngokupheleleyo ukupheka, ndiyakuqinisekisa, nesona sidlo silula usenzayo siya kuhlangatyezwa luthando nombulelo omkhulu.

2. Indlela eyonwabisayo nemnandi yokothusa isithandwa sakho kukumpha umdlalo wevidiyo okanye ikhonsoli

Ngubani ongekhoyo kwimidlalo namhlanje? Ngemidlalo efana neCall of Duty, Fortnite, Minecraft, kunye neRoblox kwimarike, wonke umntu ongomnye ungumdlali wegeyimu ngoku. Ke xa kufikwa kwiimbono ukothusa isithandwa sakho, izipho ezinxulumene nomdlalo ngokuqinisekileyo ziyindlela yokuhamba.

UAlison oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala ophumelele kwizifundo zobugqwetha uthi: “Iqabane lam belisoloko lithanda ukudlala. “Njengokuba siza kukhumbula isikhumbuzo sethu, intloko yam yayizaliswe ziingcinga zokuba “Ndingamothusa njani umfana wam?” kulapho ndavela khona nombono wokumpha iPlayStation 5 entsha. Andizange ndimbone onwabe ngolu hlobo kuyo yonke le minyaka sikunye.”

3. Mfumanele amatikiti omsitho awuthandayo

Nokuba lusuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, isikhumbuzo sakho, okanye “kuba nje,” ukwenza umfana wakho azive onwabile kwaye ekhethekileyo ihlala ingumbono olungileyo. Esinye sezona zipho zibalaseleyo unokumfumana ngamatikiti omsitho awuthandayo. Uya kuyixabisa ingcinga oyifaka kuyo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iyasombulula 'indlela yokothusa isithandwa sam ngaphandle kwesizathu'. 

Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba loluphi uhlobo lomsitho onokufumana kuwo amatikiti, fumanisa ukuba yintoni ayithandayo kunye nento athanda ukuyenza ngexesha lakhe lesimahla. Isenokuba yikonsathi, umdlalo wezemidlalo, umboniso wethiyetha, okanye umboniso wobugcisa. Logama nje iyinto ayithandayo kwaye enomdla wokuyibona, uya kuvuya kakhulu ukufumana amatikiti. Ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba lusuku oluhle kuni nobabini, kwaye ningenza iinkumbulo ezininzi kunye ngokucwangcisa usuku olumnandi malunga nomsitho.

4. Mfumanele iikhuphoni zokuphulula umzimba

Unyango lokuphulula umzimba lwaziwa ngeenzuzo zalo ezininzi zempilo kwaye ukufumana iikhuphoni zokuphulula iqabane lakho sisenzo sothando. I-massage yobuchwephesha yindlela entle yokwenza bonisa umntu ukuba umkhathalele kangakanani, ingakumbi xa isisithandwa sakho nokuba sempilweni, ingakumbi ukuba ebenestres emsebenzini.

Iikhuphoni zokuphulula inokuba zeze-spa zasekuhlaleni okanye inkonzo ye-massage yasekhaya. Umfana wakho ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuxabisa ukucinga kunye nesisa sesipho. Lo ngumbono omhle kwixesha elizayo xa umjongela izinto ezothusayo eziphumlayo xa efika ekhaya.

5. Yenza umsebenzi awuthandayo

Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba "Ndingammangalisa njani?", yenza into ongazange uyenze ngaphambili. Ukuba umfana wakho uyawuthanda umculo, kutheni ungamtheleli kwiseshoni ye-jam? Okanye ukuba uyakuthanda ukuphonononga ngaphandle, thatha uhambo kunye. Ukwenza into ayithandayo kunokuba yindlela enhle yokubonisa inkathalo yakho kunye noxabiso xa ucinga ngendlela yokumangalisa isoka lakho.

Imisebenzi yobudlelwane lithuba elonwabisayo lokufunda into entsha, ukonwaba, kwaye yindlela entle yokuhlangana. Imisebenzi embalwa onokuthi uyenze yile:

• Phekani isidlo kunye
• Menze akufundise isixhobo asaziyo kodwa wena awusazi
• Funda umdlalo awuthandayo
• Funda ngemibandela anomdla kuyo
• Hamba kuhambo lwendlela 

6. Wothuse umfana wakho ngokumlanda emsebenzini

Ukuba ujonge iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokundwendwela isoka lakho, ukumlanda emsebenzini ngokuqinisekileyo kumnandi. Esi senzo sinomyalezo olula kodwa onentsingiselo – wokuba uyakuthanda ukuchitha ixesha kunye naye kwaye usoloko ulapho ngenxa yakhe. Le yimpendulo eyonwabisayo kumbuzo othi 'umothusa njani isoka lakho'. Olu hlobo lwenkxaso lu kubalulekile kubudlelwane obuqinileyo, obunempilo kunye nobothando kwaye uya kuqinisekisa ukumenza azive ekhethekileyo. 

UPatrick, umcebisi ngezemali oneminyaka engama-35 ubudala uthi: “Iqabane lam lisoloko lisebenza emva kwexesha, lisishiya singakwazi ukunxibelelana emva kosuku olude. “Ukusukela oko ndaqalisa ukumlanda emsebenzini, ubuhlobo bethu buye baphucuka baba kwelinye inqanaba, ngamanye amaxesha ndiye ndidibane naye siphunga iti.Nokuba sinemizuzu elishumi nje yokuncokola, kuyahlaziya kwaye kumnika ikhefu ebelifuneka ngamandla kusuku lwakhe oluxakekileyo.” 

7. Dlala imidlalo yepati nomfana wakho nje

Ubusuku bomhla buyinto eyonwabisayo, indlela ekhethekileyo yokunxibelelana nendoda yakho ekhaya. Enye imbono emnandi yobusuku bobusuku bokumangalisa isithandwa sakho kukubuyela kwisikolo esiphakathi / kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kwaye udlale imidlalo yepati. Ukuba ubudlelwane benu lutsha kwaye nobabini nisekwinqanaba lokwazana, olu hlobo lwemidlalo luya kuninceda nibe nobudlelwane phakathi kwenu. 

Ezinye izinto eninokuzidlala nobabini ukunxibelelana nomntwana wakho wangaphakathi zezi:

• Inyani okanye ndifunge 
• Isenzi
• Amakhadi ngokuchasene nobuntu
• 2 inyaniso, 1 ubuxoki
• Imizuzu esi-7 ezulwini (beka i-twist yakho kule nto) 

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8. Cwangcisa imihla enexabiso lonyaka

Nokuba ufuna ukumangalisa isithandwa sakho kwi-Intanethi okanye ubuso ngobuso, emva kwenqaku, uqala ukuphelelwa ziimbono. Kwezi meko, ukucwangcisa imihla yokuxabisa unyaka yindlela yokuhamba. Iqinisekisa ukuba awusoze uphelelwe yimibono yomhla. Jonga iinketho zakudala kwaye ucinge ngaphandle kwebhokisi ukuze ufumane iinkumbulo ezintsha nezinika umdla kuni nobabini.

Ukuba unobuqili, unokwenza ii-chits ezincinci ezinemibono yomhla ebhalwe kuzo kwaye uzibeke kwingqayi ehonjisiweyo. Ukusuka kumava amnandi angaphandle ukuya kubusuku obupholileyo bemovie ukuya izimvo umhla ngoLwesihlanu ebusuku, mmangalise ngezihlandlo ezinentsingiselo ezibonisa indlela omkhathalele ngayo. Isitshixo sempumelelo kukudibanisa, ukugcina izinto zizenzekela, kwaye usoloko ebeka ingcamango kwinto aya kuyonwabela. 

9. Mnike izincomo ezingacwangciswanga ukuze aphucule isimo sakhe sengqondo

Ukuncoma umntu ngokungacwangciswanga kodwa ngokunyanisekileyo kunamandla okuvuselela umoya womntu. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi kubudlelwane bothando. Ukumnika izincomo ezingacelwanga kunokwenza imini yakhe, kwaye i-random ukuncoma kwenza amadoda azive onwabile, ixatyiswe, kwaye ithandwa. Ukuthetha ngokusuka kumava obuqu, iyamangalisa indlela amazwi ambalwa obubele anokuluguqula ngokukhawuleza ngayo usuku lomntu.

Isenokuba yiyo nantoni na, ukusuka ekubenixelela ukuba bajongeka kakuhle, ukubaxelela ukuba bakrelekrele okanye bayayivuma into abakwenzele yona. Ukuncoma omnye umntu obalulekileyo asiyondlela nje yokubenza bazive belungile; kuya komeleza amaqhina phakathi kwenu nobabini. 

10. Mfumaneleni iintyatyambo!

Into yokuba amadoda athanda iintyatyambo yinto edla ngokungahoywa. Iintyatyambo ziyindlela elula yokubonisa umntu ukuba uyakhathala ngenxa yobuhle kunye neentsingiselo ezingokomfanekiso. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukucinga ngesi sihlandlo. Ngaba yeyomsitho okhethekileyo, njengosuku lokuzalwa okanye isikhumbuzo? Ngaba kukubonisa ukuba ucinga ngaye? Okanye kukumazisa nje ukuba uyakhathala?

Xa kufikwa kwesona sipho, akunyanzelekanga ukuba wophule ibhanki. Nokuba yirose enye okanye isipha sentyatyambo esingaqhelekanga, ukufumana iqabane lakho iintyatyambo lithetha ngaphezulu kunethegi yexabiso. Imizekelo embalwa yeentyatyambo (kunye neentsingiselo zazo) onokuthi ukhethe yona:

• I-chrysanthemums ebomvu: Zibonisa uthando kunye nothando
• Iiroses ezibomvu: Iklasikhi. Ziyimpawu zokugqibela zothando
• IGerbera daisies: Zifuzisela ukuchwayita nothando olunyanisekileyo
• Iihydrangeas ezimhlophe: Zifuzisela ubuninzi
• Iiorchid: Zibonisa ukuzingca nokuqola

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11. Mnike ibhotile yotywala abuthandayo njengesipho angalindelanga

UAlicia oneminyaka engama-46 ubudala ofunda eHampshire uthi: “Umyeni wam ungumntu othanda iwhisky. Emva kweminyaka engama-20 sitshatile, kuyandidina ukufumana izinto ezintsha anokumothusa ngazo.

Ukuthandana nomntu othanda utywala kusenokubiza ixabiso elingephi kodwa xa uzibuza ukuba “Ndothuka njani isithandwa sam ngaphandle kwesizathu?”, ukonga ukuze umthengele ibhotile yakhe yotywala ayithandayo ngokuqinisekileyo unokuhlawula.

12. Yiba nesesh yokuzikhathalela kunye naye

Iiseshoni zokuzinyamekela zihlala ziphumla kuwo wonke umntu ochaphazelekayo. Zithuthuzela kakhulu kwaye ziyindlela yokubaleka eyonwabisayo ukuze uzibeke kwindawo yakho kwaye ufumane iingcinga zakho endleleni. Iiseshini ezinje sesinye sezona zinto zimangalisayo zomntu othandana naye, ekhaya, okanye nakwi-spa. Yindlela entle yokumbonisa ukuba umkhathalele kangakanani kwaye umenze azive exabisekile.

Cinga ngeemasaji, iifacials, imani/pedi, kunye nebhafu. Qinisekisa ukuba ukhetha indawo enokumlungela kwaye wenze i-ambiance yokuphumla. Khanyisa amakhandlela ambalwa, dlala umculo ophumlileyo wesixhobo, ube nokutya okumbalwa okulungisiweyo, kwaye ujabulele nje. Ngokuqinisekileyo iya kumenza azive ethandwa kwaye exatyiswa, yenze ukuba ibe yenye yezona ndlela zimnandi zokuphendula imfihlakalo 'yokothusa isithandwa sakho'.

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13. Mse kwindawo yokuthenga eyothusayo

Ngaba iqabane lakho belikhalaza ngokufumana iimpahla ezintsha? Kodwa uhlala exakeke kakhulu okanye edidekile kakhulu ukuba angayenza? Ukuba kunjalo, mphathe ngokuthenga izinto ezininzi! Ngale ndlela, nobabini niya kuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye kwaye nenze umsebenzi wenziwe.

Xa ukhangela iindlela ezimnandi ukothuka isithandwa sakho, ezi ntlobo zeembono zomhla zidla ngokutyibilika ingqondo yomntu. Kodwa ukuya naye kuthenga yenye yezona ndlela zilungileyo zokumnyanga. Yenza kube ngamava amnandi - yiba ngumcebisi wakhe wefashoni! Angathanda ukuba noluvo lwakho kuba, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, nguwe oza kunxiba ngendlela encomekayo.

14. Yamkela i-adrenaline junkie yakhe yangaphakathi

Indlela yokumangalisa isithandwa sakho xa i-adrenaline junkie? Ukukhangela amava akhethekileyo kwiqabane lakho elithanda iadrenaline kunokuba ngumceli mngeni, ngakumbi ukuba awufuni lonwabo kangako. Nangona kunjalo, xa ufuna ukumangalisa isithandwa sakho, ukuzibandakanya kubudlelwane bakhe bokuhamba ngaphandle kunokuba yindlela yokuhamba.

Ithumela umqondiso wokuba ukulungele ukungena kulonwabo kunye naye, kwaye ikwenza uthandeke ngakumbi kuye. Kwizinto ezininzi ezinomdla onokuthi uzame, ezimbalwa zezi:

• Bungee jumping
• Ukunyuka kwentaba
• Zip line
• Rafting
• Ukuhamba esibhakabhakeni

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15. Lungiselela ubusuku bamakhwenkwe kunye nabahlobo bakhe

Ngamanye amaxesha, ukunika isithandwa sakho isithuba sokuchitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo bakhe kunceda ekuphuculeni ubudlelwane bakho kakhulu. Ngapha koko, awufuni ukuba nguAndie osukaphi Indlela yokuphulukana neGuy kwiintsuku ezili-10 kwaye eneneni ekugqibeleni ulahlekelwe nguye. Ukulungiselela ubusuku obupholileyo kumfana wakho nabahlobo bakhe kunokumnceda ukuba aphumle kwaye akuxabise ngakumbi.

Bafumanele ipizza kunye nebhiya, kwaye usete iTV ukuze babukele iimuvi ezithile okanye badlale imidlalo. Ngale ndlela, unokuba nobusuku bakhe obumnandi bamakhwenkwe ngelixa uphuma kwaye uchithe ixesha kunye namantombazana akho. Ukuvuma kwakho ukumnika indawo kwaye umthembe ngokwaneleyo ukuba azenzele izinto zakhe kuya kuthakazelelwa. Iya kumbonisa ukuba uyaziqonda iimfuno zakhe kwaye menze aqonde ukubaluleka kwakho njengokuba.

16. Zibandakanye kwizenzo zothando oluzenzekelayo

Nokuba ufuna ukothusa isithandwa sakho kusasa okanye kwiindawo ezingaqhelekanga ngexesha lasemini, izenzo zequbuliso zothando lomzimba zinokumshiya engathethi. Ukusondelelana ngokwasemzimbeni kubudlelwane yindlela entle yokubonisa uthando lwakho kwaye ukuba ufuna ukwenza isoka lakho lizive linqweneleka, ezi zenzo zincinci zihamba indlela ende ukungqina inqaku lakho.

Nazi izenzo ezimbalwa ezingahleliwe zothando ukothusa isithandwa sakho ngazo:

• Mwole xa engayilindelanga. Le yindlela entle yokubonisa ukuba usengqondweni yakho nakwezona ndawo zingenamsebenzi emini
• Mmangalise ngokumanga kancinci entloko okanye esidleleni. Oku ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kumenza azive ethambile ngaphakathi kwaye kumenze akuthande ngakumbi
• Mtsalele kumdaniso ocothayo. Dlala umculo opholileyo kwaye ushukume nje ukuya kwisingqi. Beka intloko yakho egxalabeni lakhe kwaye umbukele ekuthanda ngakumbi

17. Mmangalise ngokumbhalisela iklasi

Ngaba iqabane lakho belisoloko lifuna ukufunda okuthile? Mhlawumbi wayefuna ukufunda ukudlala isixhobo somculo, okanye ukupeyinta, okanye ukujoyina iklabhu yomkhweli webhayisekile, okanye ukufunda ulwimi olutsha – eyona nto iphambili kukuba ebefuna ukwenza into ixesha elide kodwa akanalo ixesha namandla ayo. Kule meko, umbuzo othi 'umothusa njani umhlobo wam' kuba lula ukuwuphendula. Nje umbhalisele iklasi!

Jonga ishedyuli yakhe, fumana ixesha elincinci elinokuthi lisetyenziswe eklasini, kwaye umbhalisele. Mnike ithuba lokuphonononga into enokuphela eyithanda. Ezinye iiklasi eninokuthi nizithathe kunye zezi:

• Funda ulwimi olutsha
• Funda izinto ezenziwe ngodongwe
• Thatha iklasi yokuxuba 
• Funda umdaniso omtsha
• Joyina iklasi yokudlala

18. Yenza ingqokelela yeenkumbulo zakho

Uyenza iinkumbulo ngalo lonke ixesha uchitha ixesha kunye nomnye wakho obalulekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, sihlala silibala ukuwabhala. Kwaye nokuba sizibhala phantsi, ziyalahleka kwindawo yokugcina ifowuni yethu. Ukubuyisela iinkumbulo zakho ezilungileyo, indlela emnandi yokothuka isithandwa sakho iya kuba kukwenza ingqokelela yamaxesha onke eniwachithe kunye.

Unokwenza ikholaji okanye ividiyo okanye i-albhamu yeefoto kwaye ukhulule izakhono zakho zobugcisa. Yihombise ngezinto zobudlelwane bakho, uyisonge, kwaye uyiphe isipho kwisithandwa sakho ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, isikhumbuzo sakho, okanye naxa ufuna ukumothusa ngaphandle kwesizathu. Iya kuba yenye yezinto ezininzi izipho ezithandekayo kumfana wakho kwaye bendiya kunikhumbuza ukuba nobabini bathandana njani kunye nohambo eniluthathileyo kunye.

19. Cwangcisa imihla movie virtual

Ukuba ukubudlelwane umgama omde, ukuhlela umhla ebusuku kunokuba nzima. Ngamaxesha xa ufuna ukumangalisa isoka lakho kwi-intanethi, misela umhla we-movie omnandi kunye naye. 

Myalele ukutya, khetha imuvi epholileyo, ezivayo kakuhle okanye into eyoyikisayo okanye isenzo ukuba yiloo nto edada kwisikhephe sakho, kwaye uyonwabele! Ngeenkonzo ezininzi zokusasaza ezibonelela ngamatheko okubukela, unokubona omnye esabela kwimuvi, esenza amava abe mnandi ngakumbi. 

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20. Cwangcisa ubusuku bhanyabhanya ekhaya ukothusa isithandwa sakho

Thatha 'iNetflix kwaye uphole' uye kwelinye inqanaba ngalo mbono. Ukuba ujonge izinto zothando ukothusa isithandwa sakho, ubusuku bhanyabhanya obungaphakathi ekhaya bunokuba yindlela entle yokuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nesoka lakho. Layisha i-sofa ngeengubo ezithambileyo kunye nemiqamelo emininzi ukuze ukhululeke kakhulu. Unokwenza i-canopy ukuze uyinike i-Pinterest vibe. 

Ukwenza ebusuku ekhaya ngakumbi ngakumbi, ungakhetha iprojektha kunye nesikrini, okanye usebenzise nje iTV. Ungalibali iipopcorn kunye neelekese - zibalulekile! Nje ukuba uzinzile, lixesha lokukhetha imuvi efanelekileyo. Nokuba yeyakudala, i-ofisi yebhokisi, okanye i-indie yokuziva wonwabile, qiniseka ukuba yinto eniya kuyonwabela nobabini. Xa iikhredithi ziqengqeleka, uya kuphuma kuyo uziva usondele ngakumbi kunangaphambili, kwaye uneenkumbulo oza kuzixabisa.

21. Yinyamekele into ebeyibekela bucala

"Isikhumbuzo sethu sokuqala sasiza kwaye ndahlala ndicinga: Ndimothusa njani umfana wam?" utsho uSandra, itshantliziyo elineminyaka engama-23 ubudala laseLong Island. "Ndakhumbula uClake ekhalazela ukuba akanalo ixesha lokunikela ngemoto yakhe ukuba ihlanjwe. Ngoko ke, ngenye imini, satshintshisa iimoto ndaza ndathatha eyakhe ukuya kuhlamba kunye newax. Ndade ndazalisa itanki. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, yayiyeyona nto imangalisayo endakha ndacinga ngayo."

Esi senzo sincinci sothando siya kumshiya emangalisiwe kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuluxabisa uncedo lwakho.

22. Mse epikinikini

Indlela eyonwabisayo yokumangalisa isithandwa sakho kukumkhupha kwi-adventure yothando yangaphandle. Ukuhamba kusenokumothusa kakhulu kwaye kunivumela nobabini chitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye. 

Ezinye iimbono zepikiniki kuni nobabini zezi:

• Qasha iphenyane kwaye uthathe ubuhle bendalo
• Yiya elunxwemeni 
• Yiya kwi-snorkeling okanye kwi-deep-sea diving
• Cwangcisa isidlo sepikiniki sothando kunye neengoma zakhe azithandayo ezidlala ngasemva
• Yiya kumthendeleko wezibane

23. Mnike i-cologne yakhe yesiginitsha (okanye isiqholo sakho)

Ukuvumba yenye yeendlela eziphambili zokufumana umntu atsaleleke kuwe. Kwaye ukuba isoka lakho livumba kakhulu, uyazi ukuba nawe uya kuziva ulungile. Ngoko kwixesha elizayo xa uphawula icologne yakhe iphela, thabatha inyathelo lokuqala uze ummangalise ngokumfumanela yona. Okanye ukuba uyayithanda indlela onuka ngayo, unokumfumanela isiqholo sakho ukuze akugcine engqondweni yakhe ngalo lonke ixesha efaka ivumba. Ngapha koko, konke malunga neepheromones! Ungade umfumanele i-pheromone exutywe necologne (sicebisa Le ukusuka kwiRawChemistry) ukugxininisa ukuba uthanda kangakanani ivumba lakhe!

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24. Khumbula umhla wakho wokuqala

Indlela yokumangalisa isithandwa sakho xa nikunye ixesha elide? Xa usazi isithandwa sakho ngaphakathi nangaphandle, ukumothusa kunokuba ngumsebenzi kwaye ungaphela uphelelwa zizimvo. Ngamaxesha anje, enye indlela enqwenelekayo yokumothusa iya kuba kukukhumbula okwakho umhla wokuqala.

Ungasinxiba isinxibo obusinxiba kwakudala kwaye wenze ugcino kwindawo yokutyela enye. Okanye ukuba ibingumhla wokuqhutywa kwemuvi, ungaququzelela encinci, esondeleyo kuni nobabini. Ukubuyisela umhla wakho wokuqala yindlela eyonwabisayo yokuvuselela intlantsi yakho kwaye uthandane kwakhona.

25. Funda ulwimi lwakhe lweenkobe

UCharles, ugqirha waseTexas uthi: “Ndandingakwazi ukuthetha isiFrentshi de ndadibana noGabriel. Indlela awayethetha ngayo yayiyeyona ivuselela inkanuko endakha ndayiva yaye ndandisazi ukuba ndifuna ukufunda ulwimi lwakhe. Ngaba kufuneka sitsho ngakumbi?

Xa ukhangela iindlela ukumangala isoka lakho, inokufumana ukubhideka kancinane, ingakumbi ukuba ukhangela izimvo ezintsha. Nangona kunjalo, inye into omele uyikhumbule kukwenza umangaliso ocwangcisayo. Ngokuchukumisa okuncinci kobuqu, yonke into oyenzayo inokuba yinto ekhethekileyo kwaye wenze isithandwa sakho siqonde ukuba unethamsanqa kangakanani na ukuba nawe ebomini bakhe.

Izipho ezili-18 zoMhla wokuzalwa womgama omde ukwenza usuku lokuzalwa lweqabane lakho lube lolukhethekileyo

21 Umhla wokuSondeza Imibono wena kunye neyakho uya kuyithanda

33 Iimbono zoMhla oMhle wokuwa ukugcina uthando lwakho luphila

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