“Uthando alunakuphoqelelwa, uthando alunakunxenxwa futhi lugconwe. Luphuma ezulwini, alubuzwa futhi alufunwa,” kusho umlobi owazuza uMklomelo KaNobel uPearl S. Buck. Mhlawumbe umqondo wothando oshiwo kulesi sicaphuno ungowakamuva, njengoba sonke sazi ukuthi ngisho nobudlelwano obunothando kakhulu budinga umzamo wangempela kubo bobabili abalingani. […]
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Uthando lungenye yemizwa eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, futhi ngezinye izikhathi lungalimaza njengoba nje luletha injabulo. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi kungani kungase kukulimaze, noma kungani kungenzeka ukuthi uyayibalekela. Qhubeka ufunda ukuze uthole ukuthi kungani uthando lungalimaza nokuthi wenzeni ngalo.
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Ukuphela kobudlelwano kungenye yokulahlekelwa okukhubaza kakhulu esingabhekana nakho ekuphileni konke. Noma ngabe uzama ukuqhubekela phambili noma usalokhu uphonsela i-ex yakho, amandla okuthula ngemva kokuhlukana angaba ithuluzi lakho elinamandla kakhulu. Yebo, singabona ukuthi lokhu kungase kubonakale kuyindida ngandlela-thile.
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Khohlwa yonke into yonke imuvi eku-Romedy Now ekutshela yona mayelana nokungadedeli omthandayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyinselele kangakanani, kudinga ukuvuthwa ukuqhela ezintweni ezingasakwazi ukukusekela.
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Ukuyeka buthule kuyinto eqale kubasebenzi futhi manje isingene nasebudlelwaneni. Uma umlingani wakho ebanda futhi eziqhelelanisa ngaphandle kwanoma yikuphi ukuxhumana noma ukuvuma inkinga, kuyindlela yokuyeka buthule. Lesi sihloko sihlola izimpawu okufanele uzibheke uma ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kuyenzeka kuwe nokuthi yini ongayenza ukuze uzivikele futhi uye phambili.
Amaphupho mayelana nomuntu owayethandana naye kungase kube indlela yomqondo wakho ongenalutho yokufuna ukuvalwa. Noma ukubonakaliswa kwezingxabano zamanje. Ake sithole.
kukhona izinto eziyisisekelo eziphula imithetho engenza inqubo yokuqhubekela phambili ibe lula kuwena nowakudala. Ngakho-ke, uma uzibuza ukuthi ungahlukana kanjani nentombi yakho ngendlela efanele, nazi izinto ezinjalo ezingama-21 okufanele uzikhumbule.
Abaqeqeshi bobudlelwano bangase bamemeze phezulu kwezindlu ukuthi akufanele neze uthinte i-ex yakho. Kodwa i-ex yami yangifonela ukuze ibone ukuthi ngiqhuba kanjani. Futhi sahlangana ngemva kwalokho. Lokho kungenze ngikholelwe ukuthi kuncike ngempela esimweni, futhi ngeke kube nempendulo ejwayelekile. Ngakho-ke, ake ngikusize unqume ukuthi unezizathu ezifanele yini zokufonela i-ex yakho.
I-Hollywood ivame ukuthanda ukuya eLa Vie En Rose uma kuziwa kwezothando. Kodwa uthando luyinkimbinkimbi. Abantu ababuyeli ebudlelwaneni obufanayo ngenxa nje yothando. Bakwenza ukuze bagweme ukuba ngcono noma ngoba sebengcono. Umehluko kuphela ukuthi esimweni sangaphambili, kungenzeka kube nobuthi, kuyilapho esimweni sakamuva, ukukhula komuntu siqu kuzoba ngokwemvelo.
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