Ubudlelwano Nobabezala: Ngangimesaba Umkhwe Wami ngoba...

Ukube uMogambo noGabbar Singh bebengabantu bempilo yangempela, nabo bebezomesaba umkhwe wami. Ngangingayazi incazelo yegama elithi Soceraphobia ngaze ngahlangana naye. Ngangingazi ukuthi kusho ukwesaba abasekhweni. Nami ngangingazi ukuthi abasekhweni bangabangela ukukhathazeka ngize ngihlangane nobaba wengoduso yami.

(Njengoba kutshelwe iSanjukta Das)

Indlela abasekhweni lami ababeziphatha ngayo ngaphambi komshado

Lapho isoka lami elaphenduka isoka lingimema ukuba ngidle isidlo sasemini nabazali balo, ngajabula ngempela. Ngangingazi ukuthi abasekhweni bami babezongiphatha kanjani ngaphambi komshado, kodwa ngangilindele ukuthi babe bahle futhi babe mnandi njengomyeni wami.

Kodwa ubaba wakhe wabonakala ephambene naye. Ngithe uma ngethulwa kuye ngahlangatshezwa ngumuntu onobuso obuyisitokofela, wangilunguza phezu kwezibuko zakhe eziwugqinsi zokufunda wathi “Sawubona”. Isoka lami lalingitshele ukuthi abazali bayo bangabantu abapholile, kodwa lokhu kubingelela kwavele kwangenza ngangazi kahle.

Ngase ngifinyelele isandla sami ukuze ngithinte izinyawo zakhe wanikina ikhanda lakhe wabe eseya kungixhawula. Ngazizwa isandla sami sibanda futhi izandla zakhe zifudumele, ngokungafani nokubukeka kwakhe. Kwakuyilapho umamezala wami engena engibingelela lapho ngaphuma khona esimweni sami sokuqandisa. Wangingenisa ngaphakathi saqala ukuxoxa. Umamezala wayefika ngezikhathi ezithile ukuze ahlanganyele engxoxweni, kodwa akazange azame ukuqala ingxoxo nami nhlobo. Umamezala wami owayezoba seduze wakhononda ngokuthi akananhlonipho. Unenhlonipho? Ngamthola esesabeka kakhulu.

Amathiphu okwakha ubudlelwano nobabazala 

Isoka lami layiqonda imizwa yami futhi langibuza ukuthi ngimthanda kanjani uyise. Ngamtshela ukuthi uyindoda elungile. Wangibhebha wangitshela ukuthi baningi abantu abamesabayo. “Kodwa awunjalo, akunjalo?” Ngaphendula: “Cha, cha. Kungani ngingasaba?”

Wachaza ukuthi uyise, owayeyisikhulu sebutho, wayenesandla esiqinile. Akazange aphuze, aye emaphathini noma aye nokuzijabulisa. Umkhwe wami wayengowohlobo olungazange lumamatheke noma lukhulume kakhulu.

Kodwa uthe uyise wayengenaso isihluku, futhi wayengenaso isimo sengqondo futhi wayengenaso i-facade. Wayeyilokhu azibonakalisa eyikho. Wayenyanya inkulumo encane.

Amathiphu akhe okwakha ubudlelwano angithusa kakhulu. Angikwazanga ukuthola indlela yokwenza umkhwe wami amomotheke.

Ngangizibuza ukuthi ukuphila kwami ​​kwakuyoba njani ngemva komshado 

Yebo, ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezalandela, ngaya emshadweni womzala kamzala wami kanye nombhapathizo futhi ngobuqili ngenza isiqiniseko sokuthi angimbheki emehlweni umkhwe wami owayesatshwa. Ngenze okufanele 'sawubona, sawubona' futhi kwaba njalo. Kuvele ukuthi iningi lezingane zalapha ekhaya liyamesaba. Kodwa kwathi ngemva komcimbi, ngambona ethatha iqoqo labazala eyisa esitolo sikashokoledi esiseduze futhi wabathengela. Kwakuyisenzo esimnandi, kodwa impela ubuso bakhe babuhlezi bujulile ebusweni bakhe futhi wavele wamamatheka.

I yayishaqekile indlela abaziphatha ngayo abasekhweni lami

Eminyakeni yami yokuqala yokuthembisana kwami ​​umshado, ngimkhumbula eke waklabalasa ngesikhathi ngibuka umdlalo webhola. Ngesikhathi umkhwekazi wami emthethisa ukuthi abuke ulimi lwakhe, wangibuka wangibheka wamamatheka wabeka indlebe nendlebe wabe eseluma ulimi ekhombisa ukuthi kukhona okungalungile akwenzile. Leyo kwakuyinto enhle kunazo zonke engake ngabona ezenza.

Wahleka njengomfana osemusha wabuyela emuva ekubukeni umdlalo. Wangibuza ukuthi yiliphi iqembu engilithandayo futhi impendulo yami yamenza wamomotheka kakhulu. Engixhawula izandla, wathi, “ Haat h milaa lo, beti . Real Madrid yonke indlela.” Wangibiza ngokuthi beti . Ngashaqeka.

Umkhwe wami kwavela okuphambene nalokho engangikulindele

Vele, umbono wami ngaye washintsha lapho ngingeniswa esibhedlela ngenxa ye-dengue futhi wahlala ngaphandle ngenkathi abazali bami kanye nesoka lami bekhuluma nodokotela futhi benakekela imibiko kanye nezikweletu. Wenqaba ukuhamba ethi “ Ghar ja ke kya karunga mein?” futhi waqinisekisa ukuthi ngithola ukudla nemithi yami ngesikhathi. Lapho abahlengikazi bephuza kancane ukungihlola, wayehambahamba acele umhlengikazi ukuthi ahlole impilo yami. Sonke leso sikhathi ubuso bakhe abuzange bushintshe futhi akazange akhulume amazwi amaningi.

Kodwa ngabona ukuthi kwakungadingeki amoyizele noma akhulume. Wayekhona lapho ngimdinga kakhulu. Yilokho kuphela okwakubalulekile.

Bangabakhwenyana abahamba phambili

Eminyakeni eyisithupha kamuva, ngishade nesoka lami futhi sihlala e-Andheri eMumbai. Abakhwe bami bayangivakashela futhi ngisamesaba kancane umkhwe wami . Kodwa abafana bami abangamawele bayamthanda umkhulu wabo futhi njalo kusihlwa uyabathatha abafana abaphe amaswidi. Akekho ongalokotha amtshele ukuthi angabaniki amaswidi amaningi kakhulu. Ngoba wayezovele abheke noma ubani onesibindi sokwenza lokho.

Kodwa abayazi kahle le ndoda esabekayo bayokwazi ukuthi inhliziyo yayo yenziwe ngegolide.

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