10 Ngā Take e Ngangau ai ngā Tāne me ngā Wahine Inia

Mai i ngā mea koretake ki ngā whakahē nui, mai i ngā mahi o ia rā ki ngā whakataunga nui o te ao, ka tautohetohe ngā tāne me ngā wāhine mō ngā mea katoa i raro i te tuanui. He nui ake ngā kōwhiringa e kawea mai ana e te ao i ngā tāone nui o Īnia, me ngā wero anō hoki. "Ngā whakarerekētanga mahi-whānau, te whakahaere pūtea, te mōhio ki te wā e noho tahi ai, me te wā e wātea ai, koinei ētahi o ngā take e pā ana ki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine o te tāone i roto i tō rātou ao marena," te kōrero a te kaiwhakaora hinengaro. Gopa Khan (Tohu Paerua i roto i te Hinengaro Tohutohu, M.Ed), he tohunga ki te tohutohu marena me te whānau. Anei ngā take matua e 10 e ngangau ai ngā tāne me ngā wāhine Inia:

1. Whanau: Ko te nuinga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine Inia e whawhai ana mō te whānau whānui o tētahi ki tētahi. I roto i ngā whānau tahi Inia, ko te tikanga me whai te hunaonga wahine i ngā tikanga kua whakatakotoria e ōna hungawai, ā, koinei tētahi o ngā tino take o ngā rerekētanga i waenganui i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine.

2. Whakakino: Ko te kore tautoko tetahi i tetahi, te kore kukume tetahi i tetahi ki raro, i ētahi wā kāore i te mōhiotia, i te aroaro o ngā hoa me te whānau, he take anō tēnei e tautohe ai ngā tokorua.

3. Te hae: Ko te takaro pōrearea, ngā hoa o te ira tangata kē, me te whai wāhi ki ngā pāpāho pāpori he maha ngā wā ka puta te hae me te ngangau i waenga i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. Waihoki, ko te kore angitu ōrite i te mahi, ko te nui rawa rānei o te piri o te hoa ki tētahi mātua, ki tētahi teina rānei, ka arahi pea ki te hae me te whakaaro kāore i arohia i roto i te whanaungatanga o te tokorua.

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4. Maatua:  Ko ngā rerekētanga o ngā tikanga whakatipu tamariki tētahi atu take nui mō ngā tautohe. He mea nui anō hoki tēnei ina he rerekē ngā ahurea o ngā hoa. Mā te wawaotanga o ngā whānau whānui ki te whakatipu tamariki ka pāngia ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. He rite tonu te mamae ki te wawaotanga o te whānau whānui mō te momonatanga. Ko tētahi atu take ko te koretake o ngā mahi a ngā hoa, ā, ka whakararuraru i te kai a te whānau, i te ako me te moe a ngā tamariki rānei. Ka mutu, ka whakaaro ngā tamariki kua warewarehia e tētahi mātua, ka piri rawa rānei ki tētahi mātua, ka puta he tautohe i waenga i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine.

5. Moni: Ko ngā pire, ngā tikanga whakapau moni, me ngā kaupapa matua pūtea te mea e whai ake nei i te rārangi. He rerekē te whakamārama a te tangata i ngā whakapaunga, ā, kāore pea ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e whakaae tonu ana mō ngā whakapaunga a tētahi ki tētahi. Tērā pea he tangata whakapau moni tētahi, ā, he tangata penapena tētahi. Waihoki, kei te puta ake he momo pakanga hou i Īnia, kei reira ngā hungawai me/ngā tāne rānei e ngana ana ki te whakahaere i te moni whiwhi a ngā wāhine mahi, me te aukati i a rātou i ngā whakataunga pūtea.

- Gopa Khan, Kaitohutohu Hinengaro

6. Ngā mahi o te whare: He take noa te tohatoha i ngā mahi o te whare ina mahi tahi ngā hoa tokorua. Ka puta ake ngā take nunui ina whakaaro tetahi o ngā hoa kāore e ranea te moni whiwhi a te whānau hei whakahaere i te whare, hei whakatutuki rānei i ngā hiahia o ngā tamariki.

7. Te Inu Waipiro/Te Auahi/Te Petipeti: He maha ngā wā kāore ēnei whanonga e kitea ana i te wā e whakaipoipo ana, kāore hoki e kiia he mea nui i roto i te marena. Heoi, ka taea e ēnei te waihanga raruraru i waenga i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, mena kāore tetahi o ngā hoa e pai ki a rātou, ina pāngia rānei te pūtea a te whānau me te hauora o te hoa.

8. Ngā whanonga whaiaro: Ka taea hoki e ngā tikanga o ia rā te arahi i ngā tautohetohe i waenga i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, inā koa mēnā he mate pukumahi tō tētahi o ngā hoa mō te akuaku me te horoi. Ko ngā rerekētanga o te whakaritenga whānui, te whakahaere ture rānei i te kāinga, te mahinga wharepaku me ngā tikanga pouaka whakaata ka arahi hoki i ngā raruraru urutau i waenga i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine.
9. Ngā mahi o ia rā me ngā wā wātea: Ina mahi ngā hoa tokorua, ko te take nui ko te whakarite wā mō te whare, mō tetahi ki tetahi. Ina kotahi anake te hoa e mahi ana, ka hiahia ia ki te whakangā i muri i te wiki roa o te mahi. Ina tumanako tetahi atu hoa ki tētahi haerenga, ā, ka tono ngā tamariki kia arohia ia, ka mutu ka ara ake he pakanga i waenganui i ngā hoa rangatira. Waihoki, ka puta ake ngā pakanga me ngā tumanakohanga rerekē mō te kounga o te wā e noho tahi ana.

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10. Kai: Ko te whakahaere i te kīhini te mea e tino tumanakohia ana e te wahine o te whare, ā, he maha ngā wā ka tautohetohetia. Ko te aha te mea hei tunu ka waiho hei take o ia rā i waenganui i ētahi o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. Waihoki, ko ētahi o ngā hoa kāore e pai ki te pakeke, ā, he tino āta whakaaro ki ō rātou hiahia kai. Ahakoa e kōrerohia ana te kai huawhenua, ngā momo momo noho rānei i te wā e whakaipoipo ana, ina tīmata tētahi i tētahi whare i muri i te marena, ka taea e ngā taipitopito pai o te reka te whakakino i te harikoa o te marena. Ka tae mai hoki ngā momo noho o te tāone hou me ngā whiringa kai. Nō reira, ahakoa kua noho tētahi hoa hei tangata kai reka, kāore pea tētahi atu i te rite ki te huri.

Kua puta ake ēnei take i roto i tō marena? Kei te tautohetohe koe mō ēnei mea, kua kitea rānei e koe he ara waenga pai hei karo i te ngangau? He rangahau poto tā te Rōpū Bonobology mō tēnei kaupapa, ā, e hiahia ana mātou ki te whakarongo atu ki a koe.

Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.

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