Anei te Pānga o tō Whanonga Ira Tangata ki tāu Tamaiti – He Ngāwari noa te Whakararuraru i a Ia!

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He tauira pai ngā mātua ina tae mai ki ngā whanonga moepuku

Ka kōrero te pāpā o Sujit Kumar mō te hiahia o ngā tāne katoa o te whānau Kumar ki te tono wāhine. He tangata whakakatakata ia, ā, ka kōrero tika ki a Sujit, e iwa tau te pakeke, mō te āhua o te wahine, ka pātai atu mō ngā kōtiro katoa o te akomanga o Sujit, "Ko ia tō hoa wahine?" I tētahi rā, ka pā kino a Sujit ki tētahi kōtiro o tana akomanga, me te whakaaro he pai ki te mahi pērā, ā, ka hopukina ia e ngā mana whakahaere o te kura. He ohorere ngā tohu rerekē mō Sujit – ko te mea i whakatenatenahia e tōna pāpā, i whakaititia ia e ōna kaiako. Nā tēnei pakanga ā-roto i pāngia a Sujit e te mate manukanuka , ā, i pāngia e ngā kare ā-roto o te koretake mō ngā tau. I uru atu hoki ia ki te moepuku hei whakatutuki i te tuhinga a tōna pāpā, arā, he whakahīhī ngā tāne Kumar ki ā rātou mahi moepuku.

Pānui e pā ana: Me pēhea tana āwhina i a ia ki te whakaora i te whara ā-ira tangata

Ngā whanonga moepuku kore whakaaro

Kāore ngā mātua o Karishma i āta tirotiro mēnā kei te moe, kei te ara rānei tā rāua tamāhine i roto i te rūma moe kotahi i mua i te kōrero moepuku, i te pā atu rānei ki a ia. I puta tahanga atu tōna whaea i te wharepaku i ētahi wā, me Karishma, e ono tau te pakeke, e mātakitaki ana i tōna pāpā e mirimiri ana i tōna whaea ataahua. I pōhēhē ia, ā, i āwangawanga hoki mō te mea e tupu ana, i te mea he rite te tangi o tōna whaea ki te mamae, engari i kata anō hoki ia i ētahi wā.

Nā tēnei i ara ake ai he whakaaro uaua i roto i a Karishma i tōna taiohinga. He iti noa iho ōna ū i tōna tau, ā, i whakaititia ia e ia anō, nā te mea i whakaritea tonutia e ia tōna tinana ki te tinana tahanga o tōna whaea, ā, i kitea e ia he koretake ia. Waihoki, ko te pānga oro-ataata o te taunekeneke moepuku i waenganui i ōna mātua i waiho ia ia kia pōhēhē mō te āhuatanga o te ahuareka o te moepuku, ā, i kitea e ia he uaua ki te tuku katoa i a ia ki tana hoa moepuku, nō reira kāore i taea e ia te eke ki te orgasm.

I ēnei āhuatanga e rua, ka kite tātou i te pānga kino o te noho hei kaiwhakaatu i ngā whanonga moepuku a ngā pakeke ki te oranga o ō rātou taiohi me ō rātou pakeke, me te awe i ō rātou waiaro me ā rātou whanonga. Ka taea te whakataurite i tēnei pānga ki te pānga kino o te pikitia pono ki ngā hinengaro taitamariki me ngā hinengaro ngāwari. Ka waiho rātou kia pōhēhē, nā te mea kāore e taea e rātou te tukatuka i ngā mea e kite ana, e rongo ana hoki rātou, ka hua ake he tirohanga hē, he uara taupatupatu, he whakapono kino, he waiaro kino me ngā whanonga koretake.

He pānui e pā ana: Ngā wāhanga e rima o te mātuatanga – kimihia te wāhanga kei roto koe i nāianei!

He take tukino ā-ira tēnei

Ina whakaatu ngā pakeke i ngā whanonga moepuku i mua i ngā hinengaro taitamariki, kei te mahi rātou i te tukino moepuku. Kāore tēnei tukino moepuku ngawari i te hinengaro o te tamaiti e kiia whānuitia ana he tukino moepuku , engari he kino te kino me te mea kua tukinotia te tamaiti, ā, he kino rawa ngā pānga, ā, he roa te wā e puta ai.

Mā te mātakitaki i ngā whanonga moepuku a te pakeke ka whakaoho ake i te hiahia o te tamaiti i mua i tōna rite ki te mārama me te tukatuka hauora i aua kare ā-roto. Nō reira, he takahi i te wā o te taiao, ā, he tino whakararuraru i te tukanga tipu tūturu.

Mō te taiohi pakeke, kāore pea te mātakitaki i ngā whanonga moepuku a te pakeke e whakararuraru i te tipu ake, engari ka taea tonu e te whakaohooho te hua ake i tētahi taumata o te whakaohooho e kore e taea te whakahaere, ka arahi ki te whakamātautau moepuku wawe. He raruraru anō tēnei, pērā i te haputanga o ngā taiohi me ngā mate tuku iho i te taatai, tae atu ki te waiho i te taiohi taitamariki kāore i te wheako ki te pōrearea hinengaro.

Me karo rawa hoki i te whakamahi i ngā kupu whakakatakata moepuku i te wā e kōrero ana, i ngā katakata moepuku, me ngā whakaahuatanga o ngā whanonga moepuku i mua i te aroaro o ngā tamariki me ngā taiohi. Waihoki, me herea ngā momo pā pā e pā ana ki te moepuku ki roto i te rūma moe, ki tētahi wāhi tūmataiti rānei, kia matara atu i te tirohanga a te tamaiti.

Pānui e pā ana: I te mea e whai pānga ana te tukino i ahau i taku tamarikitanga , me pēhea taku anga whakamua?

Ngā pānga pumau ki ngā tamariki

I taumau te tuahine matua o Arman , ā, he maha ngā wā ka kihi, ka kaki te tokorua taitamariki tetahi i tetahi, ka pā tata tetahi ki tetahi me te noho tahi a Arman. Tekau mā ono tau te pakeke o Arman i taua wā, ka whakaohooho ia, ā, kāore i makona ki te whakahari i a ia anō. Ka tīmata ia ki te hiahia ki te pā o te wahine, nō reira, i a ia e noho mokemoke ana i te kāinga mō te mutunga wiki, ka whakarite ia kia hoki mai tetahi kotiro waea ki te kāinga ka moe tahi me te kore tiaki. He HIV+ tōna, e ai ki tana i kite ai i te tau i muri mai i te wā i pāngia ai ia e ngā raruraru ārai mate. I pāngia ia e te AIDS i ētahi tau i muri mai, ā, ka mate i a ia e rua tekau tau te pakeke.

Heoi, me whakamārama tātou, ki te kite te tamaiti i ngā pakeke e rua o te ira tangata kē, ahakoa ko ōna mātua, ko wai rānei, e whakaatu ana i ngā kare ā-roto mahana me te manaaki, pērā i te mihi, te whakamoemiti, te whakatenatena me ētahi atu kupu atawhai me te whakamarie, ka ako ia ki te whakatauira i taua whanaungatanga kare ā-roto. Waihoki, he pai anō hoki mō te tamaiti te kite i te tono whakapāha, me te murunga hara e tukuna ana, nā te mea he tauira tēnei o te ngākau mahaki me te aroha i roto i te whanaungatanga. Heoi anō, ko te pā atu i te taha o te tangata, pērā i te pupuri ringa, te māhunga i runga i te pakihiwi o te hoa, te awhi i te pakihiwi, me te awhi māmā me te aroha, ehara i te mea he kino noa iho, engari he āwhina hoki ki te noho hei tauira mō te whanaungatanga hauora me te whanaungatanga piripono o te tāne me te wahine. Ina kite ngā tamariki i ō rātou mātua e aroha ana i roto i tēnei ara, ka noho haumaru rātou, me te mōhio kei te pai ngā mea katoa i waenganui i ō rātou mātua.

Ki roto i ō rātou ake ringaringa

E whitu tau te pakeke o Swati, ka akiaki i ōna mātua kia noho taha ki taha, kia pupuri ringa i muri i tā rāua tautohetohe i kite ai ia. I muri i ētahi wā, ka mōhio ngā mātua kei te whakararuraru a Swati i a rāua tautohetohe mō te oranga o te whānau, ā, me noho haumaru ia, koia te take i tīmata ai te hononga tahi i waenganui i ōna mātua. Mena ka whakaatuhia ngā rerekētanga i mua i ngā tamariki, ā, ka puta he tautohetohe, ko te kawenga nui a ngā mātua kia houhia te rongo i mua i ngā tamariki, kia mōhio ai rātou kei te pai ngā mea katoa, ā, kia whakaatu i tēnei mā roto i ngā kupu me ngā mahi aroha kore-ira ki a rātou anō.

I āwangawanga a Jason, tekau mā rua tau te pakeke, mō te āhua o te whanaungatanga i waenganui i ōna mātua, i te mea i waenganui i ngā haruru nui ka rongo ia i tōna whaea e kōrero ana mō 'tērā wahine', me tōna pāpā e whakamahi ana i ngā kupu pēnei i te "Kua hoha ahau ki tāu tohe." I te kokonga o tōna kanohi tonu ia e mātakitaki ana i te tata, te tawhiti rānei o rāua e noho tahi ana, ahakoa kei te moe tōna pāpā i roto i te rūma moe, i runga rānei i te sofa, ā, ka manawa mārie ia ina pupuri ringa rāua. I ngā hararei ka whakatau ia kia noho hei kaiwhakaahua whānau, ā, ka tono atu ki ōna mātua kia tū ki mua i te kāmera, me te tohutohu i a rāua kia tango i ngā tū aroha pēnei i te pupuri i te ringa o te pāpā ki ngā pakihiwi o tōna whaea, te tono atu kia noho tata rawa atu rāua, kia titiro tetahi ki tetahi me te menemene , ā, ka tono atu anō hoki ki tōna pāpā kia kihi i te paparinga o tōna whaea hei tango whakaahua.

Kia mataara, kia tūpato

He mārama te wehewehe i waenga i ngā whanonga ā-ira tangata me ngā whanonga kore-ā-ira tangata engari he aroha, arā, ko te tuatahi he kino ki te tirohia, ko te tuarua he āwhina. Nō reira, me mataara, me mōhio hoki ngā pakeke ki ngā pānga o ngā mea e rua, ā, me whakatau tika i a rātou e taunekeneke ana i mua i ngā tamariki.

Thoughts Final

Ahakoa he tūmataiti te whanonga moepuku, he pānga nui tōna ki te whanaketanga o ngā kare ā-roto me te hinengaro o ngā tamariki. Ka mātakitaki, ka whakauru hoki ngā tamariki i ngā āhuatanga e karapoti ana i a rātou, ā, ko ngā mea e kitea ana e rātou i roto i ō rātou tau whanaketanga ka hanga i tō rātou māramatanga ki ngā whanaungatanga, ngā rohe, me te whakaute. Hei poipoi i tētahi taiao haumaru, atawhai hoki, me whakatauira ngā mātua me ngā kaitiaki i ngā whanonga hauora, whakaute, me te whakatakoto rohe mō ngā take whaiaro. Ka whakaratohia e ā mātou tohunga he aratohu muna, aroha hoki hei āwhina i a koe ki te hanga i tētahi taiao atawhai, whakaute hoki mō te tipu o tāu tamaiti. Whakapā mai i tēnei rā mō te tautoko i tēnei haerenga nui.”

Ka kawea mai e te mamae o te tukino ira tangata he raruraru piripono mō te wa roa

Te tukino tamariki e ngā mātua? Anei ngā mea me mahi e koe

Me pēhea tāna āwhina i a ia ki te whakaora i te mamae o te moepuku

Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.

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