11 Ngā Tohu Whakatūpato o tētahi Hononga Paitini

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Kāore e taea e ngā whanaungatanga aroha te noho hei moenga rōhi i ngā wā katoa. Engari, kāore hoki i te whakaarohia kia noho hei rakau tataramoa, hei rakau tātā. He maha ngā wā e kīia ana ki a tātou me mahi kaha ngā whanaungatanga kia ora tonu ai. Ko ngā wā pōrearea me ngā pakanga he wāhanga o te aroha. Ahakoa he pono katoa ēnā mea, he maha ngā wā kāore tātou e mōhio kua huri ngā pakanga me ngā tautohetohe hei tohu whakatūpato mō tētahi whanaungatanga kino.

I roto i tētahi whanaungatanga hauora, ki te mea he pōuri, he pōuri anō hoki. Ki te mea he pakanga, he tautohetohe, he harikoa, he whanaungatanga piripono anō hoki. Koinei te mea e wehewehe ana i a rātou i tētahi hononga kinoNō reira, ki te mea he tino ngoikore tō whanaungatanga, kaua ki te whakahauora, me tūpato koe ki te āhua o te paitini i roto i ngā whanaungatanga.

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Ka noho tonu ngā tohu o te aroha paitini, me mōhio noa koe me pēhea te tūpato ki te haki whero me te ngā kaiwhakakore hononga. I ētahi wā ka kitea ngā tohu ngawari o tētahi whanaungatanga paitini, pērā i te wā e whakamahi ana te tangata i te te whakakorekore hei whakahaere i a koe. Engari me kī atu mātou ki a koe he aha tonu te whanaungatanga paitini.

He aha te whanaungatanga paitini?

A te whanau paitini ka taea te tautuhi hei tetahi e tohuhia ana e te pakanga tonu, te whakaute me te kore o te rangimarie. Ko te hoa whai āhua kino e ngana ana ki te whakaiti i tetahi atu me te whāinga kotahi kia whiwhi i te mana whakahaere katoa mo te whanaungatanga me te oranga o tana hoa. Ko te hua o tenei ka puta he pakanga me te kore tautoko tetahi ki tetahi.

Ahakoa he maha ngā raruraru me ngā wā kino e pā ana ki ngā whanaungatanga katoa, i roto i te whanaungatanga kino, he nui te wairua mauahara. He nui ake ngā wā kino i ngā wā pai.

Ina pāngia te whanaungatanga tino hauora e ngā piki me ngā heke, ka taea e tētahi, e rua rānei o ngā hoa te pāngia e ngā whanonga kino. Heoi, he maha ngā wā ka poto noa iho ēnei āhuatanga, ā, ka kitea e te tokorua he huarahi hei whakatika i te ara. I te taha, ko te whanaungatanga kino, engari kāore i te hauora, ka tohuhia e te ngoikore whānui.
Ko te tinihanga, te tukino, te mana whakahaere, me te pakanga mana ētahi o ngā āhuatanga kino o tētahi whanaungatanga. Engari ehara ēnei i te tohu kino anake mō tētahi hoa wahine, ka taea e tētahi whanaungatanga te huri hei kino i tētahi wā. Nga matua paitini ka taea e ia te awe i te oranga o te tamaiti kia tipu ake ai rātou hei tāngata tino raruraru.

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Ngā Momo Hononga Paitini

Heoi, kāore i te rite te hanganga o ngā whanaungatanga paitini katoa. He rerekē ngā āhua me ngā taumata paitini rerekē. Ko ētahi o ngā momo paitini noa i roto i ngā whanaungatanga ko…

  • Whakahē: I roto i tēnei momo whanaungatanga, ka whakararuraru tonu te hoa kino, ka whakararu rānei whakaiti i te tangata kēKo te whakakorekore he tauira noa o tēnei momo whanaungatanga kino
  • Āhuareka: I roto i te nuinga o ngā kōrero whanaungatanga kino, ko te riri, ko ngā raruraru o te ngākau o tētahi hoa ka waiho hei kaha whakararu i tētahi atu. Ka mutu te ngana a te tangata ki te whakapuaki i ō rātou whakaaro, ki te tautohetohe, ki te whakahē rānei ki tā rātou hoa rangatira nā te mea e mataku ana rātou kei puta anō te riri. I konei ka whakamahia te mana whakahaere mā te whakamataku, ā, he tohu whakatūpato tēnei mō tētahi whanaungatanga kino.
  • Te Whakaoho i te Hara: I tēnei wā, ka riro i te hoa aroha te mana whakahaere i a koe mā te whakaoho i te hara mō āu mahi. Kāore tēnei momo mana whakahaere paitini e herea noa ki ngā whanaungatanga aroha engari ka kitea i waenga i ngā hoa, ngā mātua me ngā tamariki, me ngā tuākana/teina.
  • Te whakahurihuri: I roto i tētahi whanaungatanga paitini e karohia ana, ka kitea tonutia e tētahi hoa he huarahi hei karo i te tango i te kawenga mō āna mahi mā te whakakino i tāu mahi. Ngāna ki te kī atu ki a rātou kei te riri koe, kei te pōuri, kei te pouri rānei, ā, ka rite rātou ki te whakatakoto i tā rātou ake kōrero tangi, ka meinga koe kia whakaaro whaiaro, kia whakaiti hoki i a koe ki te whakapuaki i ō kare ā-roto.
  • Hāngū: Tērā pea ka whakamahia e te hoa tāne, te hoa wahine, te hoa rangatira rānei te mana whakahaere mā te whakawhirinaki nui ki a koe. Tērā pea ka tahuri rātou tino piripono. Ko te kawenga mō te whakatau i ngā whakataunga katoa – nui, iti hoki – kei a koe tonu. Ina whakatau koe, ka whakamōhio atu rātou ki a koe he 'hē' tō whakatau nā te whanonga pukuriri-kore.
  • Wehewehe: I roto i tētahi whanaungatanga paitini motuhake, ka whakahaerehia e tētahi hoa te hoa mā te kore e wātea. Kātahi ka tīmata tō rātou ngaro ngaro ki te whakakī i tō hinengaro. Hei whakapoauau i a koe, ka wātea rātou i ā rātou hiahia me ā rātou wawata. Ka waiho koe kia kore e tino mōhio ki tā rātou e hiahia ana.
  • Mana pupuri: Ko te āhua o tēnei whanaungatanga kino ko te hae, te kore whakawhirinaki me ngā rangahau me ngā uiuinga tonu.

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11 Ngā Tohu Whakatūpato o tētahi Hononga Paitini

I te mea kāore he whanaungatanga tino tika, ā, ka pāngia ngā tāne me ngā wāhine katoa e ngā wā kino, me pēhea te wehewehe i waenga i te whanaungatanga hauora me te whanaungatanga kino? hononga kinoI te mea ka taea e te paitini i roto i ngā whanaungatanga te horapa puta noa i te ao, ka nui ake te uaua ki te kimi me te watea atu i aua paitini.

Ka pāngia ngā tāne me ngā wāhine katoa e ngā wā kino
Ka pāngia ngā tāne me ngā wāhine katoa e ngā wā kino

Ahakoa te uaua, me mahi tonu. Nā te mea ko te tautuhi i te paitini te taahiraa tuatahi ki te tiaki i a koe kei tukua ngā āhuatanga kino o tō whanaungatanga kia pakaru tō āhua. Ki te whakaaro koe he nui rawa ngā raruraru o tō whanaungatanga, tirohia ēnei tohu whakatūpato 11 o tētahi whanaungatanga paitini:

1. He tohu paitini te mahi tinihanga

He rerekē ngā āhua o te tinihanga i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. Engari he rite tonu te whāinga matua – kia riro te mana ki runga i te tangata kē. Ki te nui rawa te whakahē a tō hoa i ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e koe, ā, ka whakaatu i te whanonga pukuriri hei whakaatu i tōna riri, ka taea e koe te tino mohio kei te tohu tēnei i te paitini o tō whanaungatanga.

Ina whakakahoretia e te hoa rangatira, e te hoa rānei e whakamahi ana i te hauhautanga te mooni e kitea ana hei whakararuraru i a koe, ā, ka whakamahia ngā kīanga whakakā hau Hei whakararuraru i a koe, he momo mahi tinihanga anō hoki. Hei tauira, ka kī atu koe ki tō hoa rangatira kāore ia i uru atu ki ngā mahi o te whare, ā, ka whakakahoretia noatia e ia, he tauira tawhito tēnei o te mahi whakahāwea.

I te mutunga, tera pea ka kitea e koe kei te whakaaro koe mēnā he mea kei te ngaro i a koe. Ka pōuri rānei koe i te ngana ki te whakaatu i te ao tūturu engari kāore i angitu.

Ko te tinihanga he momo e whakapouri ana i a koe. Koinei te whāinga e ngana ana te hoa kino ki te whakatutuki.

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2. He āhua takoto kau tō kōrua whanaungatanga

Ka rongo koe i te koretake ina whakaaro koe ki tō hoa rangatira me tō whanaungatanga. Ā, ka whakakīia koe e te pouri e uaua ana ki te whakarērea. Ka haere koe ki te moenga me te ngākau taumaha me te puku e totohu ana. Ina ara ake koe, ka pērā anō ōu kare ā-roto.

Ka pōuri koe, ka kore e oti, kaua ki te harikoa, ki te makona rānei ina whakaaro koe ki tō hoa rangatira. Ka mamae te ngākau ina kite koe i ētahi atu tāne me ngā wāhine e tino harikoa ana i roto i ō rātou whanaungatanga. E mōhio ana koe kāore e taea e koe te whiwhi i tēnā me tō hoa.

Kei te rongo koe i te koretake
Kei te rongo koe i te koretake

3. Mō tō hoa rangatira ngā mea katoa

Ki te mea he hoa tāne, he hoa wahine kino rānei tāu, he hoa rangatira rānei, ko rāua anake te pūtake o tō whanaungatanga. Ki te mea he raruraru tāu, he raruraru nui ake tā rāua. Ā, ki te mea he whakatutukitanga tāu hei whakapuaki, he whakatutukitanga pai ake tā rāua hei whakamanamana.

He mea tawhito ēnei ngā whakaaturanga o te narcissismKo te tangata e whakaatu ana i ēnei momo whanonga, he tangata e aro nui ana ki a ia anō, e whakapehapeha ana, e kore e aroha me te ngākau aroha. Ko te noho tahi me tētahi tangata pēnei, ko te tikanga ka noho tuarua tonu koe. Ahakoa te āhua o te wā.

Kāore e taea te whai hononga whai tikanga, whai hua rānei ki a rātou.

4. Kāore koe e whakaroa ki te whakapuaki i a koe anō

E hiahia ana koe kia roa ake te wā e noho tahi ai tō hoa me koe. He pai ki a koe kia noho tahi rātou hei awhi i a koe i te wā e pāngia ana koe e te mate. Tērā pea kei te hiahia koe ki te kawe i te whanaungatanga ki tētahi taumata e whai ake nei. E hiahia ana rānei koe kia aro nui atu rātou ki ō hiahia. Engari kei te ruarua koe ki te whakapuaki i a koe anō, he tohu tēnā o te aroha paitini.

Ae, kei te hiahia tetahi wāhanga o koe ki te kōrero hohonu mō ēnei mea me tō hoa. Engari kei roto i a koe tetahi mea e aukati ana i a koe. Nā te mea e mōhio ana koe kāore he take.

Ko ngā kupu whakaari kau noa iho, ko ngā whakamārama, ko ngā whakapae, ko te whawhai rānei ka puta mai i a koe. He tohu whakatūpato wawe ēnei mō tētahi whanaungatanga kino, me te mea e kiia nei e koe he whakawhitiwhiti kōrero kino.

Ahakoa ka hoatu e rātou ki a koe tāu e tono nei, ka riri tonu rātou ki a koe mō tēnā. Ka ara ake anō ngā raruraru i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga uaua kē. Nō reira, me whakangungu koe i a koe anō ki te pupuri i ō hiahia, me te whakaae ki tāu e whiwhi ai. He tohu kino ēnei o tētahi whanaungatanga hauora kore.

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5. Ko koe anake te tangata e mahi ana i te whanaungatanga

Te whakapau kaha kotahi-taha i roto i te whanaungatanga
Te whakapau kaha kotahi-taha i roto i te whanaungatanga

Ahakoa kei te taha tinana tō hoa, ehara i te mea kei te whai wāhi nui rāua ki te whanaungatanga. He tohu whakatūpato tēnei mō tētahi marena kino.

Ki te mea kei te taha koe o tētahi tangata kāore e ngana ana ki te whakapuaki i ngā mea ki a koe, ki te kōrero, ki te whakaatu i te aroha, ki te noho hei hoa mōu i ngā wā e hiahiatia ana, he tohu tēnei kāore rātou e whakapau kaha ana. Ko tētahi tēnei o ngā tohu whakatūpato wawe mō tētahi whanaungatanga kino.

Kāore e kore ka taka te kawenga mō te whakahaere i te whanaungatanga ki a koe. Heoi, kaua e tinihanga i a koe anō ki te whakapono mā te mahi nui ake, mā te whakapau kaha rānei ka taea e koe te whakarerekē i ngā mea. Kei tētahi atu wāhi te pūtake o te raruraru.

Ki te kore te hoa rangatira e noho tahi ana i roto i te whanaungatanga ahakoa kei te noho tahi rāua, me pātai koe ki a koe anō, 'he aha taku mahi i konei?' Kaua e pātai 'he aha atu anō tāku e taea te mahi.'

6. He tohu ngā kāri kaute mō tētahi whanaungatanga hauora kore

He mea nui te aroturuki i te hunga i horoi i ngā rīhi, me te hunga i tango i te para. Engari, ki te mea kei te pupuri tō hoa i ō hapa katoa, i ō ngoikoretanga me ō hapa, kātahi ka whakamahia hei whakama i a koe mō te tangata ko koe tonu, he tohu kino tēnei. Ko te whāinga i konei he whakamārama i te 'tino hē o tō mahi'.

Ehara i te mea ko te hoa wahine, te hoa tāne rānei e whakamaumahara tonu ana i a koe ki ō hapa, engari ka whakapūmau hoki i ā rātou mahi pai kia whakaititia ai koe. He huarahi tēnei hei whakahaere i te whanaungatanga, hei whakahaere hoki i a ia anō.

Kia maumahara, ko te whanaungatanga kino ka whakaatu i ō ngoikoretanga, ko te whanaungatanga pai ka whakaatu i ō kaha.

Ngā kōrero mō te mamae me te whakaora

7. He kupu kino te "Kāo" i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga kino

Ae, e hiahia ana tātou katoa ki te mahi i te mea pai rawa atu mā ō tātou hoa. Engari kaua e waiho hei utu mō tō tātou oranga me ō tātou hiahia. Ko te tikanga o tēnā ko te kī "kāo" i ētahi wā. Ki te kore e taea tēnā, he tohu whakatūpato tēnei mō tētahi whanaungatanga kino.

Ka mea koe kāore koe e hiahia ki te noho piripono, ā, ka pupuri tō hoa i te moe hei whiu. Ki te mea rānei koe kāore koe e hiahia ki te haere ki tētahi pāti, ka pōuri rātou, ka hoatu ki a koe te maimoatanga puku mō ngā rā. Kāore e taea te mau tonu te whanaungatanga hauora ina he whakaaro tō tetahi o te hoa, "māku ake, māku ake rānei".

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8. Ko te tukino tetahi o ngā tohu whakatūpato o tētahi whanaungatanga paitini

He mahi kino te tukino tinana, hinengaro rānei, ā, kāore e whakaaetia. Ehara i te mea ko tētahi o ngā tohu whakatūpato noa iho o tētahi whanaungatanga kino engari he tohu whero anō hoki e hiahia ana koe kia puta wawe atu. Ki te pāngia koe e te tukino, kaua e tinihanga i a koe anō ki te whakapono e aroha ana tō hoa tukino ki a koe.

Kāore e taea te whakahua anō i tēnei, nā te mea ka taea e te tukino te waiho i a koe me te tukunga pōhēhē o te āhua o te aroha. rangahau I kitea i roto i ngā rangahau a te Center for Disease Control and Prevention, kotahi i roto i te tekau ngā tāne me te kotahi i roto i te whā ngā wāhine kua pāngia e te tutu i te ringa o ā rātou hoa.

He mea whakamiharo, tētahi atu ako e tohu ana ko te kotahi i roto i te rima o ngā wāhine e tukinotia ana e kite tonu ana i ā rātou hoa he "aroha" me te "pono".

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9. Ko te whakahāwea i te whanaungatanga he tohu hoki mō tētahi whanaungatanga kino

He mea noa te whawhai i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. Waihoki, me te tango wā hei whakamatao i tō riri. Heoi, ki te mea ka noho puku tō hoa kia kore ai e kōrero mō ō raruraru, he āhuatanga kino tēnā.

kei roto ahau i tētahi pātaitai whanaungatanga paitini?

Tetahi mea e kiia ana e ngā kaiwhakaora hinengaro taiapa kohatuKi te kore tō hoa e aro mai, e kore e aro, e mawehe atu rānei i ngā kōrero e whai tikanga ana ki a koe, he tohu tēnei i tētahi whanaungatanga hauora kore.

I roto i tētahi whanaungatanga hauora, ka whakapau kaha ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te harikoa o tētahi ki tētahi. E whakanuia ana e rāua ngā urupare hei whakapai ake, hei whakapakari ake i tō rāua hononga.

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10. Kei te whakararu te whanaungatanga i tō whakaaro ki a koe anō

Ko tētahi tohu whakatūpato wawe mō tētahi whanaungatanga kino ko te tango haere i tō whakaaro nui ki a koe anō. Ka tīmata te hoa kino ki te whakahē i a koe mai i te tīmatanga. Ka whakaputa kōrero whakahē rātou, he maha ngā wā he āhua pukuriri, ā, ka nui haere tō koretake mōu ake.

'Āe, koinā te kākahu e mau ana koe ki te pāti o te pō nei?'

'Kāore ianei i te nui rawa te whakapaipai?'

'Me tapahi e koe ō makawe.'

'Ka haere anō koe me ō hoa? He pai ki te noho koe ki te kāinga i ētahi wā.'

He nui ēnei kōrero hei whakaiti i tō whakaaro ki a koe anō. Kei te whakaaro tonu koe mēnā he tika tō whakatau. Ka whakaoho hoki i te hiahia ki te whakamanawareka i tō hoa, kia mutu ai tā rātou whakahē i a koe. Ahakoa te kaha o tō ngana, e kore rawa e tutuki.

11. Kei te tatari tonu koe kia pai ake ngā mea

hoa wahine paitini
E tatari noa ana kia pai ake ngā mea

Ka tohuhia he whanaungatanga paitini e haki whero ka kiia tēnā he mea whakakore i te whakaaetanga i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga whai hua. Ahakoa kei te haere tonu tētahi hoa me ā rāua whanonga kino, ka taea e tētahi atu mā te noho tonu me te tumanako ka pai ake ngā mea.

Ko te mea pōuri, kei te pupuri tonu koe i ngā tumanako mō tētahi huringa kāore pea e tutuki. Tērā pea ētahi āhuatanga pai o tō whanaungatanga – koinei rānei te mea e kīia ana e tō whakaaro pōuri ki a koe.

Engari, ki te nui ake ngā āhuatanga kino i ngā āhuatanga pai, me arotake anō e koe tō āhuatanga.

Ka taea e te noho i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga paitini te mea ka paitini koe?

Mō te whanaungatanga ka tino kino, ko ngā hoa e rua te he. Ko te tangata e whakaatu ana i ngā āhua kino me te tangata e hiahia ana ki te noho tonu i roto i te whanaungatanga me te manawanui ki te paitini. Ki te noho roa koe, tera pea ka puta ake i a koe ō ake āhua kino hei whakamatau i tō hoa ki tā rātou ake rongoā.

I roto i te wā, ka taea e ēnei whanonga te whakauru ki roto i a koe. I mua i tō mōhio, ka huri pea koe hei whakaata o te hoa kino e tino whakarihariha ana koe ki tōna waiaro. Koia te take me whakarērea e koe te whakakorekore mō te paitini o tō whanaungatanga. Kātahi ka whakatau pakari kia tukuna.

He uaua te wehe atu i tētahi whanaungatanga. He mea miharo, he uaua ake mēnā he whanaungatanga hauora kore. Nā te mea kua kore koe e whai mana nā te tangata kē atu i whakahaere, i whakahē, i kōrero kino, ā, kua mutu tō whakawhirinaki ki a koe anō hei whakatau tika.

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Āhea koe me whakarērea he whanaungatanga hauora kore?

Ka kitea ngā tohu e whakaatu ana me tuku e koe tētahi whanaungatanga kino i roto i ngā āhua maha. Ko te tohu tuatahi ko te mea ahakoa kei te mau tonu tō whanaungatanga, kāore e tipu, e ora, e atawhai rānei i a koe. Kei roto koe i tēnei whanaungatanga nā te tikanga, ehara i te aroha.

Ko ētahi o ngā tohu e tika ana kia whakarerea e koe tētahi whanaungatanga kino:

  • A tinana ranei tukino aronganui
  • Te teka tonu, te tinihanga me te whakahē
  • Te hiakai kare-a-roto
  • Te koretake me te mokemoke
  • Te kore o te whanaungatanga
  • Te mōhio he kino te whanaungatanga mōu
  • He hiahia mō tētahi hoa pai ake
  • Ngā nganatanga o mua ki te neke whakamua kāore i angitu

Ko te whanaungatanga tonu, ā, kāore e mutu, he tohu whakatūpato anō hoki tēnei mō tētahi whanaungatanga kino. He maha ngā tāngata e hoki tonu ana ki ngā hoa kino ahakoa e mōhio ana rātou he kino tēnei mahi mō rātou. He maha ngā wā, kāore e taea te tautuhi i te take.

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Ka taea e te whanaungatanga kino te huri?

Ki te kite koe i ngā tohu whakatūpato wawe o tētahi whanaungatanga kino, he pai ake te whakaaroaro anō i tāu whakatau i mua i te tōia hohonu rawa atu. Engari ki te whakaaro koe kua roa rawa, ā, kei roto koe i te aroha paitini, tera pea he huarahi hei huri i te āhua? Ae, ka taea.

Ko te taahiraa tuatahi ka tīmata mā te whakaae kei roto koe i tētahi whanaungatanga paitini, ā, tera pea ka tangohia e koe te pātaitai whanaungatanga paitini Mā tēnei ka āwhina i a koe kia mārama ake kei roto koe i tētahi. Kia whakaae rā anō koe kāore ngā mea i te tika, ka taea e kōrua te whakapau kaha ki te whakatika.

Ka taea e koe te whakaputa te tohutohu whanaungatanga kia mārama ai koe ki te pānga o te paitini ki tō whanaungatanga, me ngā mahi tuturu ka taea e koe te mahi whakatika i tētahi whanaungatanga kino. I muri i te aromatawai i te āhua kino o tō kōrua whanaungatanga, ka taea e kōrua te whakatau kia okioki tetahi i tetahi.

Engari, ki te noho tahi tonu kōrua, me whakarērea e kōrua te wairua pāngia, me whakamana i a koe anō, me mahi ki te whakatau i ngā tautohe, me te whai kōrerorero whai tikanga.

He tauira whanaungatanga paitini kei reira, ā, ki te kite koe kei te whai tauira ōrite tō hoa, ka taea e kōrua te hui tahi me tō hoa, ka ngana ki te neke atu i te paitini me te waihanga i tētahi... hononga pai kāore rānei, ka taea e koe te whakatau kia whakarērea katoatia. Nāu te whiringa, me mahi te mea e pai ana ki a koe.

FAQs

1. He aha te āhua o tētahi whanaungatanga kino?

Ko te whanaungatanga hauora kore e kitea i roto i te āhua kino o te whanaungatanga. Ko te whakahaere kino, te tukino, te mana whakahaere, me te pakanga mana ētahi o ngā mea noa. ngā āhuatanga o ngā whanaungatanga hauora kore.

2. Me pēhea te kite i ngā tohu kino o tētahi whanaungatanga?

Mā te whanonga a te tangata ki te kaimahi wharekai ka mōhio koe ki te āhua o te noho te kore whakaute i te tangata ā, tera pea kei roto koe i tēnā. Ko ngā tohu ngaro o te tangata paitini ko ngā raruraru riri, te hiahia kia whakahaere, te whakahē, me te tātari nui rawa. Koinei ngā tohu ārai kaua e warewarehia i roto i te whanaungatanga.

3. Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai kua tae ki te wā hei whakamutu i tētahi whanaungatanga?

Ka kitea ngā tohu e whakaatu ana me tuku e koe tētahi whanaungatanga kino i roto i ngā āhua maha. Ko te tohu tuatahi ko te mea ahakoa kei te noho tonu tō whanaungatanga, kāore e tipu, e ora, e atawhai rānei i a koe. Kei roto koe i tēnei whanaungatanga nā te mea he tikanga noa iho, ehara i te aroha, nā te mea kāore he whanaungatanga ā-hinengaro, ā-tinana rānei i ēnei rā.

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Me pēhea te whakaora i tētahi whanaungatanga?

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