He nui rawa rānei tō tātou aroha, he iti rawa rānei tō tātou whakaute?

E kōrero pono ana a Raksha Bharadia, te kaiwhakaū o Bonobology, he tomokanga ipurangi mō te aroha, te whanaungatanga me ngā mahi a ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, mō tētahi take e pāngia ana e te hapori Inia hou me ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e noho ana i roto i... ngā whanaungatanga noho tahi, te marena rāneiKo te raruraru, he nui rawa tō tātou aroha, he iti rawa hoki tō tātou whakaute.

Nui rawa tō tātou aroha, iti rawa hoki tō tātou whakaute

He mea whakahihiri tonu te aroha me ngā whanaungatanga me ngā take e pā ana ki a Raksha, ā, kei te rapu tonu ia i ngā whakautu. Hei wāhanga o tana rangahau, he maha ngā tāngata kua uiuitia e ia puta noa i te whenua iti o Īnia me tāwāhi hoki hei matapaki i ngā take e pā ana ki te taupori Īnia o ngā tāone i roto i ā rātou whanaungatanga. I tūtaki ia ki Tākuta Kushal Jain, he tohunga hinengaro, ā, i kōrerotia e ia ki a ia ētahi wā i whakatata mai ai ngā tāne me ngā wāhine (kua mārenatia, kua kore rānei) ki a ia mō te kōrero.

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Ko tāna whakatau, ko tētahi raruraru hohonu kua horomia te hapori Inia i ēnei rā, ko tā tātou ako ki te aroha nui ki tō tātou hoa, kua rite tātou ki te whiti i ngā arai katoa mō rātou, engari i pēhea rā tātou kaua e whakaaro noa ki a rātou ā, kaua e hoatu ki a rātou te whakaute e tika ana mā rātou.

Ko tētahi tauira motuhake i mau tonu ki a Raksha ko te tokorua kua marenatia me tā rāua tamaiti nohinohi. Ko te wahine, he mea ngāwari ki te huri i ōna kare ā-roto, he maha āna wā ki te whakaiti i tana tāne mā te kōrero kino, kāore i te tino tika, kāore rānei he pūtake.

I tino whakapau kaha te tāne ki te tautoko i te tiaki tamariki, me te ngā mahi ā-whare hei tautoko i ngā tāna wahine, he mahi wā-wāhanga tāna. Heoi, i tino whakahēngia ia i ngā wā katoa i hē ai, i kore ai hoki e whakaute i a ia. Ahakoa te moe tahi me ia, ka kore ia e aro ki te whakarere. Ko te kereme a te wahine he nui rawa tōna aroha ki a ia, ā, he pono tonu.

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Mehemea ka taea e ia, ka taea e ia te tu atu ki a ia. Heoi, ehara i te aroha anake te pūtake hei pupuri i te whanaungatanga kia kaha, kia pumau. Ko te whakaute me te whakahoahoa te mea e whakawhirinaki ana ki a ia mō ngā tau maha. E ngā kaipānui, he aha ō whakaaro? Tukuna mai ō whakaaro ki te wāhanga Kōrero i raro nei!

Te Whakatutuki i te Taurite Hauora o te Aroha me te Whakaute

Ko te whakatutukitanga i te taurite hauora i waenga i te aroha me te whakaute e hiahiatia ana te whakapau kaha me te māramatanga.

• Te Mōhio ki te Uara o ngā Mea e Rua: Te mārama ko te aroha me te whakaute he wāhanga nui o te whanaungatanga whai hua. Mā te aroha ka mahana, ka hono atu, ā, mā te whakaute ka whakamanahia te tuakiri me ngā rohe o ia tangata.
• Te Whakataunga i nga Rohe: He mea nui te whakatū i ngā rohe mārama hei whakatipu i te whakaute tetahi ki tetahi. Kei roto i tēnei ko te whakaute i te wāhi whaiaro, ngā whakaaro, me ngā whakataunga, ahakoa he rerekē i ōu ake.
• Whakawhitiwhiti Tuwhera: Mā te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero pono, tuwhera hoki ka taea e koe te whakapuaki i ō hiahia me ō tumanakohanga, me te mārama hoki ki ngā hiahia o ō hoa aroha. Ka āwhina i te ārai i ngā māramatanga kore, ā, ka taea hoki e koe te whakatika i ngā hapa taurite o te whanaungatanga.
• Whakarongo kaha: Mā te whakarongo pono me te mārama ki ngā tirohanga a ō hoa aroha ka poipoi i te aroha me te whakaatu i te whakaute mō ō rātou kare ā-roto me ō rātou whakaaro.
• Tautoko tahi: Whakatenatenahia, tautokohia hoki te tipu me te oranga o tētahi ki tētahi, takitahi, hei tokorua, hei whānau rānei. Kei roto i tēnei ko te whakanui i ngā angitu, te tautoko i ngā kare ā-roto i ngā wā uaua, me te whakaute i ngā whāinga me ngā wawata whaiaro o tētahi ki tētahi.
• Whakaaroaro Whaiaro: Whakaarohia tonutia ō whanonga me ōna pānga ki ō whanaungatanga. Kia tuwhera ki ngā urupare mai i ō whanaunga, ā, kia hiahia hoki koe ki te whakarerekē i ngā mea e tika ana.

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Thoughts Final

He mea nui te taurite i waenga i te aroha me te whakaute mō tētahi whanaungatanga hauora. Ahakoa e whakarato ana te aroha i te mahana me te hononga, mā te whakaute ka whakamanahia te tuakiri me ngā rohe o ia tangata. Ina nui ake te aroha i te whakaute, ka tūpono tātou ki te whakahohe i ngā whanonga kino, ki te wareware rānei i ō tātou ake hiahia. I tetahi atu taha, ina whakanuia te whakaute i te aroha, ka tūpono tātou ki te waihanga i tētahi āhuarangi makariri, tawhiti hoki.

Ko te kimi i te taurite tika me whai kōrero tuwhera, aroha, me te hiahia ki te whakarerekē i ā tātou whanonga ina hiahiatia. Mā te ngana ki te aroha nui me te whakaute katoa, ka taea e tātou te whakatipu i ngā whanaungatanga e tino whai hua ana, e whai hua ana hoki mō te hunga katoa e whai wāhi ana.

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