I roto i tētahi Marenatanga Pōuri, engari i Pai Ake i a Māua e Teiti Ana

Ehara i te mea he ariā noa iho te marena pouri. Ehara i te mea ko ngā marena katoa e ki ana i te aroha, ā, e puta ai he pūrerehua i a kōrua e tunu kai tahi ana i te kīhini i ia ata, e menemene ana rānei i a kōrua e moe tahi ana i ia pō.

He mea pouri te marena kore aroha mō te nuinga o ngā whanaungatanga i ēnei rā. He uaua te whakawhiti i roto i aua whanaungatanga nā te mea kāore pea te marena pouri e tutuki i ō tumanakohanga. Heoi, he mea noa iho tēnei o ngā mea me aro atu koe i te ao tūturu.

Koinei te āhua o te marena i te ao tūturu

"E Misha, kei hea taku hāte?"

"Me pehea ahau e mohio ai?"

"E Dilip, ka moe koe i tōku taha i tēnei pō? Kei te mataku ahau."

"Kaore"

"E Misha, i utua e koe te pire hiko?"

"Kaore"

"E Dilip, he karanga tēnei ki a māua ki te marena o Singhi i te Rātapu."

"Kāore au e hiahia ki te haere. Ki te hiahia koe, ka taea e koe te haere. Kāore he raruraru mōku."

He mahi whakakatakata te marena. He katakata taku marena. I waenganui i ngā "Kāo" maha kua kōrerotia e māua tetahi ki tetahi, kua ngaro te ara. Kua ngaro te aroha. Kua ngaro te manaaki. Ko taku marena pōuri te mea pono o tōku ao ināianei, ā, kua ngenge rawa ahau ki te whakatika i te marena pakaru. Koia pea te take e kore ai ahau e haere ki tētahi marena ināianei. Kua ngaro rawa tōku whakapono.

He whakaaturanga noa iho ngā marena i ēnei rā, e mōhio ana tātou katoa. Tokohia ngā tāngata i karangatia? Koinā anake te whakaatu i ō hoapā me te tokomaha o ngā tāngata whai mana e pā ana ki a koe. Tokohia ngā tāngata i tae mai ki te marena? Koinā te whakaatu i tō mana ki te hunga e karapoti ana i a koe. E hia te moni i pau? He hononga tahi te marena me te moni. Koinā te whakaatu i tō uara ki te tangata.

Ahakoa i te wā e whakaipoipo ana māua, kāore anō kia whakaarohia e au te marena. I hiahia ahau kia noho hei whanaketanga maori. I roto i te ngana a tōku pāpā ki te whakaatu i tōna mana, me te pāpā o Misha hoki, i tino pēhia ahau e te kaha tae noa ki taku tukunga iho, me taku whakaae kia marena ki a Misha.

Nā te mea kāore ia i whakahē ki te pēhanga, engari i whakahē i taku aroha ki a ia, i paku mataku ahau. I hiahia anō ahau ki te whakaatu ki a ia i taku aroha ki a ia, ā, kua moe tāne ahau. Ehara te marena i te tohu o te aroha.

Te pānui e pā ana: E aroha ana rāua tetahi ki tetahi, engari kāore i te tino mōhio mō te marena

He rerekē te wā i a tāua e whakaipoipo ana

Kāore i te tika te whakatau mārena i a ia, ā, mō tētahi tāne pēnei i ahau, ehara te mārena tonu i te whakatau tika. I tēnei wā, kei roto ahau i tētahi mārenatanga pouri, ā, kāore rawa he aroha. I a māua e whakaipoipo ana, i tū ahau i waho o tōna whare i te kokonga, e momi hikareti ana, e tatari ana kia kite i a ia. He wā whakahihiri.

I tino whakapono ahau ki tōku aroha ki a ia. I te nuinga o te wā ka haria ia e au ki tōna rūma noho, ki tana kura, tae noa ki ngā whare o tōna hoa, ā, ka tatari atu ahau ki a ia me te ngākau nui. I mihi ahau ki a ia mō tana tuku i ahau ki te kawe i a ia.

Mā te kitenga atu i a ia, i tana ataata me tana mihi mai ki ahau, ka rewa ahau. Kua whakarērea e au aku hoa mōna, e taku e aroha nei. Ināianei, kaua e kōrero mō te aroha, kāore he whanaungatanga tinana i waenganui i a tāua. He mātao te pā o ngā ringa i ārahi i ahau ki te harikoa. Kāore he aroha i muri i te marena, i roto i aku wheako.

Ko te waha i hiahia ahau ki te kihi, koia anō te waha i whakapuaki i ngā kupu kino, ā, kāore au i hiahia ki te kihi anō. Kāo, kua roa nei au kāore i moe tahi me taku wahine. Kāore au i whakaaro ka noho ahau i roto i tētahi ao pōuri i tētahi rā. te marena kore.

I mua i te marena, koinei te mea i hiahia nui ahau ki te mahi, ā, i ngā wā katoa ka piri tahi māua. Engari ināianei, kua hē ngā mea. Ehara te whānau o Mr rāua ko Mrs Sinha (māua) i te whānau kotahi. He tokorua e noho tahi ana i raro i te tuanui kotahi. Ā, he maha tonu taku whakaaro, he aha te uara o tēnā?

Tērā pea ko tēnei marena pouri te he o ō tātou tokorua

Tērā pea ka whakapae koe i ahau mō te makariri haere. He pono ehara ahau i te tangata aroha. Engari, he pono, kāore au e hiahia ana ki te aroha. He ahua pēhia ana ia inaianei.

I muri i te marena, i akiaki ia i ahau ki te hoko i ana taonga, ahakoa i mōhio ia he uaua ki ahau te utu i aua mea. I hiahia ia ki te whakaatu ki te ao he tangata whai rawa tana tāne, ā, mā te taimana, mā te putea hoahoa rānei e whakaatu. Kāore he aha te wā i hoatu e au ki a ia i mua i ēnei taonga. I tino mau tonu māua i roto i te marena kore aroha.

Ka whakarerekē te marena i te tangata. He pono. I kī mai anō ia, kaua e whai i a ia pērā i te tāne whai mana, engari me whakapau i taua wā ki te mahi i tētahi mea hei whiwhi moni māna. He nui ake te hiranga o āna taonga ki a ia i tōku aroha ki a ia.

Kāore ia i pērā i taku tūnga i waho o tōna whare. He maha ngā utu kura i tāpuitia e au māna. He nui ake tō māua aroha tamarikitanga, he parakore ake i tō māua aroha o nāianei. Engari i nāianei, he rite tonu te marena me te moni ki a ia. Kāore au e hiahia ki te kōrero kino me te kī he kaati koura engari e pēnei ana ahau me te mea kei te whakamahia ahau.

Koinei pea te āhua o te aroha

I ētahi rā kua pahure ake nei, i haere atu māua ko tētahi hoa takakau ki te inu. I te piki haere o te aroha o māua ki te tokorua, ka tīmata ia ki te kōrero mai ki ahau mō ngā mahi katoa e mahia ana e ia. Kāore e taea te kī i pā mai te hae ki ahau i te tuatahi. Ka tīmata ia ki te whakaatu mai i ngā whakaahua o ngā kōtiro kua moe tahi rāua.

I menemene ahau hei huna i tōku pouri, engari i pohehe ia. "E Dilip, kei te menemene mai koe ki ahau? Kāore te katoa i te waimarie ki te kimi i te tino pai i roto i te wahine kotahi. Ahakoa kei a koe te pumau, kei a au te kanorau… Ko te kanorau te mea kakara o te ora… Kaua e manukanuka, ā tetahi rā ka moe tāne hoki ahau…" tana kī.

I taua wā tonu ka huri taku hae. Ka kata ahau ki te whakakatakata. "Heoi anō kei a koe te tumanako e hoa, kua mutu taku ao!" "He aha te mea kua mutu? Me i whai wahine ahau, ka mutu taku mahi mōna..."

Kāore i taea e au te hoki ki te kāinga i taua pō ki taku marena pouri, me te pupuri tonu i te pouri i pā ki ahau. I hoki ahau ki taku tari, ā, i moe ki reira. Kua mutu taku mahi hei tangata, e ai ki taku whakaaro i ētahi wā. He aha ahau te puta atu ai i roto i tēnei āhuatanga? Kāore au i te mōhio. Kāore rānei au e hiahia ki te whakaae kei te mōhio ahau.

Te pānui e pā ana: Me noho tonu koe i roto i tētahi marena pouri me ngā tamariki?

Ka taea e au te kimi anō i te aroha ki a ia?

Tērā tētahi wāhanga o ahau e hiahia ana ki te whakaara anō i te wairua i waenganui i a māua ko Misha. Engari he nui rawa ngā kōrero hē i waenganui i a māua. Ko te whanaungatanga hauora e hiahia ana ki te kōrero, ki te māramatanga, ki te whakaae tahi, me te patunga tapu kāore nei i a māua.

Kāore māua i te tino ōrite te whakaaro. Mēnā ka ringihia e au ngā taonga ki a ia, ka harikoa ia, engari kāore ia e mōhio kei te hiahia tonu ahau ki taua kōtiro ngāwari i haria e au ki ngā akomanga ako, kāore nei i aro ki ngā waitohu me te ingoa pai.

Ki taku whakaaro he nui ake tōna uara ki ngā taonga, ki ngā tohu me ngā mihi o te ao i tōku aroha. Heoi anō, ko te aroha pea tēnā mōna. Ehara tēnā i taku whakamāramatanga. E hiahia ana ahau ki te ngana ki te mārama ki a ia, engari ehara tēnei i te momo aroha e whakaponohia ana e au.

Ki taku whakaaro ko te aroha te kare ā-roto e kukume ana i ngā tāngata tokorua, pērā i ngā aukume, ā, e tino harikoa ai tetahi ki tetahi. Nā te mea kāore i reira, kāore au e hiahia ki te pā atu ki a ia i roto i tēnei marena kore aroha. Kāore au i te mōhio he aha ia i pēnei ai te kino.

Kāore e taea e au te mārama ki te iti o tana āhua i ētahi wā. Koinei pea te āhua o ngā wāhine katoa. Ā, ki te pērā, me pēhea rā ahau e hiahia ai ki tētahi pēnei i a Misha, ahakoa tōna ātaahua me tōna ātaahua? Kāore e ranea te āhua o te ira tangata hei kimi i te aroha.

(E ai ki tā Joie Bose)

FAQs

Tohutohu Wehenga Marena: 11 Tohutohu Whakaaro Nui

Āhea, me pēhea te kōrero mō te marena me tō hoa aroha

10 Ngā Huarahi e taea ai e te Tohunga Whakatakoto Whakaaro mō te Marena te Whakatau i ō Raru – E ai ki te Tohunga

Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.

Tirohia ta maatau Tukanga Etita

Tutaki ki ta maatau Poari Arotake

Tiri Urupare

He aha ō urupare?

×

āwhina Pūrongohia he Hapa He mea anō (kōrerohia mai he aha te horopaki)

Tuku