He mea whakamīharo ētahi kōrero aroha i muri i te marena kua whakaritea. He tino pai tēnei kōrero. Pānuihia tonu…
He maha ngā kōrero aroha kua pānuihia e koe mō ngā pō marena kua whakaritea, engari ko taku e whakapuaki atu nei he mea rerekē, he mea ahurei, ā, he mea ka whakaora anō i tō whakapono ki ngā marena kua whakaritea.
I marena ahau i te tau kua pahure ake nei i roto i tētahi he marena whakarite whakatūnga. Nō Delhi ahau, ko taku tāne kei Mumbai. Kāore anō kia whai hoa tāne ahau i mua i te marena, ā, kāore hoki i te mōhio ki ngā āhuatanga uaua o ngā whanaungatanga takirua, nō reira, he tino uaua ki ahau te whakarite i te noho tahi me taku tāne i te tīmatanga. Ina koa ko te wāhanga i tae mai ai ki te whakatutuki i tā māua marena, i te mea he māia ahau, he ruarua hoki.
Pāwhiri ki konei ki pānuihia te āhua o te tinana o te wahine e huri ana i muri i te ngaronga o tōna wahinetanga.
E rua marama me te hawhe i pau i ahau ki te aroha ki taku tāne
Ripanga o Ihirangi
I tangohia e au e rua marama me te hawhe hei aroha me taku tāne, kia tutuki ai hoki tā māua marena. I ētahi wā ka awhi māua ko taku tāne, ka haere tonu ngā mea i a māua e whakarite ana mō te mea nui, engari ka hoki whakamuri ahau i te wā whakamutunga, nā te mea i whakama ahau, i māharahara hoki.
Pāwhiri ki konei ki pānuihia ngā kōrero mō tēnei wahine e noho wahine tonu ana i muri i ngā tau e rua o te marena.
I taea e taku tāne te riri me te riri, engari kāore. Ko te ritenga kē. He tino atawhai ia, he tautoko hoki i ahau.
Ina hoki, i tae atu ia ki te whakaatu mai i ngā ataata kare ā-roto ki ahau i runga i tana waea pūkoro hei whakaoho i ōku kare ā-roto, engari kāore au i neke! I te mutunga, ka mutu tana mahi, ā, ka mea mai ka mahia e māua ina tino rite ahau. Ā, ko te tikanga, ehara i te mea ko taku ngākau anake i riro i a ia, engari ko taku whakawhirinaki hoki nā tana tautoko.
Patohia a konei ki te panui me pēhea te whakaora a te porn i tēnei marena i te wā i whakangaromia ai e te riri.
He mea makutu i te wā i tupu ai
E mohio ana ahau ki tera he wāhanga nui o te marena te aroha me te taatai engari i roa te wā ki te whakaae ki a rātou i roto i tōku ao. I taku whakarērea i aku āwangawanga, ka kite ahau i te makutu! I tino miharo ahau i taku wā tuatahi ā, ko te wheako i puta ko ngā mea katoa i tumanakohia e au, me te nui atu anō! I te wā karwa chauth i te tau kua hipa i oti ai tā māua marena.
Pāwhiri ki konei hei pānui i te take Kāore e taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine hou kua marenatia ki Bengal te moe tahi i te pō tuatahi.
He tino harikoa ahau ina he aroha taku tāne
He aha ōku kare ā-roto ina kei te aroha te tāneHe ataahua tōku āhua. Ka whakaaro ahau kāore au e aro atu nā te mea e pai ana ahau ki taku tāne e ngana ana ki te hopu i tōku aro, ā, e hiahia ana ahau kia roa ake te kare ā-roto. Kāore au e titiro tika atu ki ōna kanohi, nā te mea he kaha rawa! I te mea ka nui haere te taumaha o ngā mea, Ka tīmata ahau ki te tākaro ki ōku makawe, ki te takaro noa rānei ki ētahi mea, hei whakatoi noa i a ia.
Kātahi ia ka ngana ki te kukume i tōku aro mā te ngana ki te homai ki ahau ngā pā ā-tinana mā ōna maihao, mā ōna matimati rānei. Koinā te wā e hiahia ana ahau ki te titiro ki ōna kanohi, ā, he mano ngā kupu e kōrerohia ana e aua kanohi! Ka whero ōku kanohi, ka menemene rānei.
I ngā wā katoa ka titiro tātou, Ko au te tangata e pakaru ana i te nuinga o te wā i te mea ka tīmata ahau ki te whakama i muri i tētahi wā. Ko te kaha o ōna kanohi e whakaatu ana i tōna aroha ki ahau. Kāore e taea e au te whakamārama i ōku kare ā-roto ki ngā kupu. Ki taku whakaaro kāore he wahine e taea te kōrero mō ōna kare ā-roto i te wā e pārekareka ana tana tāne. He pai ake te wheako i aua kare ā-roto, kaua e kōrerotia.
Kāore au i te tuatahi ki te neke. Tērā pea ka mahi au ā muri ake nei, engari i tēnei wā kāore anō au kia tuatahi ki te neke, ā, he pai ki ahau ina mahi ia.
Ehara i te mea kāore au i te tino aroha, ahakoa pēhea! He tino aroha ahau, engari kāore e taea e au te whakapuaki i ōku kare ā-roto aroha ki mua i taku tāne, nā te mea pea he whakama ahau.
Pāwhiri ki konei hei pānui i tēnei he wahine whakama i Īnia engari he nui āna whakamātautau i Amerika.
Mēnā he aroha tōku, ka whakaaturia e au ki a ia ōku kare ā-roto. I ētahi wā ka whakatakotoria tōku māhunga ki runga i ōna pakihiwi, ki te kore ka pupuri noa ahau i tōna ringa. I ētahi wā ka whakatoi ahau i a ia mā te neke i ōku matimati ki runga i ōna waewae. Engari kāore au e neke atu i tērā. Ka mataku ahau, ka mataku hoki.
Te pānui e pā ana: I te 19 o oku tau i kino ahau ki a ia, i te 36 o oku tau i tino aroha ahau ki a ia
Ka aro tonu ahau ki ana whakaaro
He tino aroha ki ahau ina he tangata aroha taku tāne. Ko ēnei wā te mea e whai hua ai te oranga marena. Hei wahine, he waimarie ahau ki te whai tāne tino aroha, ā, kāore e aro ki te toenga o te ao i a ia e whakapuaki ana i a ia ki ahau.
Pāwhiri ki konei hei pānui i tēnei he wahine i tū tana tāne i tōna taha i roto i te hōhipera paru.
Ka memeha ahau i ngā wā e whakaatu ana taku tāne i te aroha. He maha ngā wā ka tuku i ahau anō ki a ia. Ka aro tonu ahau ki ana whakaaro. I ētahi wā kei te 'tino' ia, i ētahi wā kei te ngana noa ia ki te tahae i taku aro. Kāore au e wareware i a rātou, nā te mea ko ēnei wā ka wareware ai tātou i ngā mea katoa, ā, ko 'tātou' anake te mea nui.
Ahakoa kua ngenge ahau, kāore rānei i te harikoa, kāore ahau e wareware ki a ia, ki āna mahi aroha rānei. Ka mihi tonu ahau ki a rātou. Ka kōrero mārire atu ahau ki a ia mō ōku kare ā-roto. Ka pupuri ahau i tōna ringa, ka titiro ki ōna kanohi. He wā anō ka hiahia noa ahau kia mutu te wā, kia mau tonu ai ngā wā…
He mea tika kia pānuihia ngā kōrero mō te marena kua whakaritea. Te hononga o ngā tokorua tauhou, kātahi ka puāwai te aroha me te ngākau aroha, ā, e ai ki tēnei wahine, ka hangaia aua wā e kore e warewaretia i roto i te marena.
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He mea pai ki te whai tāne e mārama ana ki tō āhua hinengaro, e tatari ana kia 'rite' koe. Heoi, he mea onge tēnei, nā te mea i te nuinga o te wā mēnā kei te 'hihiko' te tāne, me whakarongo te wahine.
Ā, i te nuinga o te wā..kāore te tāne e hiahia, ā, ka hiakai te wahine.
Kei te wairua o te tāne me te wahine te tikanga. Ki te kore, he mahi ā-ringa noa iho.
Ka puta ngā kōrero aroha ina tae mai te wā tika.. Harikoa ahau kua kitea e koe tō harikoa.