Ngātahi i roto i te mate me te mamae

"I kīia ahau kāore he mate pukupuku mō te wā tuatahi mai i taua rā i whakarērea ai, i te wā i rere ai tōku arero ki runga i tētahi mea i whakaaro ahau he puku iti noa iho i roto i tōku waha. E iwa tau ki muri!" I mutu te kōrero a Hemant Bhai mō tana maimoatanga mō te tata ki te tekau tau, tae atu ki ngā pokanga maha, te chemo me te maha atu o ngā maimoatanga i hiahiatia ai te noho hōhipera. Engari kāore tōna reo i te harikoa, i te harikoa rānei. I titiro ia ki tana wahine, ki a Tarulata ben, ā, ka pēhi ia i tōna ringa me te whakamarie. I mōhio mātou tokotoru ki te mea e whai ake nei.

"Me okioki tāua i mua i te tīmatanga ki a Tarulata ben?" ka pātai atu ahau, ā, ka whakatika māua ki te totoro i ō māua waewae, ka kōrero noa iho.

Ko te tokorua, ko Hemant Bhai rāua ko Tarulata ben ngā kaikorero tekau mō te pukapuka. Tekau ki te tekau, i tautokona e te Ahmedabad Cancer Foundation, hei whakanui i ngā morehu o te mate pukupuku o te upoko me te kaki me tō rāua wairua kaha. Koinei te tokorua tuatahi i noho ai tētahi hei kaitiaki matua mō tētahi, mō tētahi. Titiro mai, ko te rā i whakapuakina ai a Hemant Bhai kāore he mate pukupuku, ko te rā i kōrero ai a Tarulata ben ki tōna whānau mō te puku i roto i tōna waha! Ae, he mate pukupuku. Kua roa ia e whakapae ana. I taku pātai atu mēnā he tino nui te whakaaro he mate pukupuku anō hoki te puku i roto i tōna waha, ka mea ia, "I kite ahau i roto i taku tāne, ā, he tino mōhio te ara."

I noho māua me tā māua tī me te kawhe. I tīmata taku mīhini hopu reo, ā, i titiro atu ahau ki a Tarulata ben, e tatari ana kia tīmata ia. I titiro noa mai ia ki ahau. Kāore pea i kitea e ia ngā kupu hei tīmatanga. Nā Hemant Bhai i wāhi te wā.

"E rua ngā marama nui i ngaro i a māua. I tatari taku wahine kia whiwhi ahau i tētahi maimoatanga pai i mua i tana kōrero mai ki a māua mō te puku i muri i tōna niho whakaaro nui. E ono tekau ngā rā e manawanui ana ia ki te mamae me te kore whakamarie nā te mea kei te whakahaerehia tonutia e taku tākuta ētahi whakamātautau ki ahau. I te mutunga, i kīia kua kore he mate pukupuku i ahau, ā, i kōrero mai ia ki a māua mō te puku iti i roto i tōna waha."

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"I te ata tonu i muri mai ka haere mātou ki te tākuta, ā, nāna mātou i tono kia tangohia he koiora. I pau ngā rā e rua i mua i te taenga mai o te hua ki te inoi. I puta mai te pūrongo 'Pai'." He pai mō ngā pūtau matepukupuku. I pōuri ō mātou ngākau i a mātou e whakaaro ana mēnā ko tētahi o ngā katakata kino a te Atua. E mahara ana ahau i noho mātou i te rūma tuhi me te nūpepa i roto i te wā puku. I tangi te katoa engari ko Tarulata. I mau tonu tōna ngākau harikoa i ahau e ora ana, ā, kāore i tino whakaaro ki ngā mea i panuitia mōna. 'Me hiahia koe ki tō pāpā, kei reira ia. Kua mutu aku mahi. Kua takaro ahau me aku mokopuna, kua whakaorangia e te Atua tō pāpā, nō reira, me pēhea mēnā kua whakatau ia kua tae ki te wā kia haere ahau.' I mea ia ki a mātou katoa.” I wiri tōna reo i a ia e kōrero ana mō te rā.

Kātahi ka riro i a Tarulata ben te kōrero. "I whakatika ake a Hemant i tōna nohoanga, ka muru i ōna roimata, ka mea mai ki ahau. 'Kua tata ki te tekau tau koe e āwhina ana i ahau ki te whakatau i tēnei mea kino, he aha koe i whakaaro ai ka pena ahau?' tukua koe kia haere atu? Kāo, ka whawhai koutou i tēnei mā mātou, pērā i taku whawhai mō koutou katoa. Ka whakautu mātou ki te ringa o te Atua i homai ai ki a mātou.” Ka taumaha te reo o Tarulata ben, ā, ka riro anō i a Hemant Bhai te mana.

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"I te aonga ake ka toro atu mātou ki te tākuta i te hāora kua whakaritea. I te wā tonu i tomo atu ai mātou ki tōna rūma noho, ka kata te tākuta kei te tika mātou mō te mōkihi whānau. Ka kata mātou. Kua ako kē ia i te pūrongo, ā, i kī mai ki a mātou ka taea te whakaora i te mate pukupuku, engari me pokanga a Tarulata hei tango i ngā kiko e pāngia ana. Ka puta he manawa whakangā. Engari kua tata mai a Diwali, ā, i hiahia a Tarulata ki te whakanui i tēnei i te kāinga. I homai e te tākuta he wā wātea ki a mātou, ā, kua whakaritea he pokanga mō te rā i muri i a Diwali. I te rā o Diwali ka tahuna e mātou diyas ā, nā tēnā i tahuna ai ngā whakaaro kino me te mamae katoa. I mahi katoa mātou Aarti amui ».

I tīmata anō a Tarulata ki te kōrero. "Whai muri i te pokanga, ka tīmata ahau ki te chemo me te radiation."

I tino mōhio a Hemant ki te tauhohenga a tōku tinana, ā, i noho tahi ia me ahau i ia taahiraa, mai i te āwhina i ahau ki te kai me te okioki tika tae noa ki te whakahaere i te riri e puta mai ana i ēnei maimoatanga kaha.

I tūtaki ahau ki ngā mea katoa, pērā i a ia – te ngoikore, te kore hiahia kai, te whakapairuaki tonu. I āwhina ia i ahau "Kia ora ai rātou, kaua e riri, he maha ngā whiunga i whiua e au! I whakamahia e ia ngā mahi tinihanga i whakamahia e au ki a ia hei kai māku. I pātai atu ahau ki a ia i te wā o te maimoatanga, 'Me aha ahau me te kore koe?' Ka mea ia, 'He whakataetae noa iho tēnei, ko te wā tēnei ki ahau ki te whakahaere i a koe pērā i tō mua!' Nā te maha o ngā wā māmā ake, ka māmā ake te whakahaere i te mamae o te maimoatanga."

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I taku tono atu ki a Hemant Bhai kia tukuna mai he karere mā aku kaipānui, i kī mai ia i roto i tō tātou hapori, ka waiho e ngā wāhine ō rātou hauora ki te mea nui i a rātou e aro ana ki ngā take iti me ngā take nui o tō rātou kāinga me tō rātou whānau. Engari ko te wahine rangatira o te whare te poutokomanawa e pupuri ana i te whānau kia kotahi. Kāore tōna hauora i te iti iho te hiranga i tō tētahi atu.

I mea ia, "Ki ngā tāne o tō tātou hapori, e hiahia ana ahau ki te kī atu, 'Kia mōhio ki tēnei āhua o ngā wāhine ki te whakaiti i ō rātou ake hauora, koinei te wāhi e tika ai kia ārahi tātou, kia aro atu hoki ki tēnei āhuatanga me te nui o te aroha e tika ana mō ō tātou hoa rangatira'."

I tūtaki anō ahau ki te tokorua i te whakarewatanga o te pukapuka, ā, i mātakitaki ahau i a rāua e pupuri ana i te pereti i a tētahi e kai ana.

Ngā Rōpū Tautoko mō ngā Kaitiaki me ngā Hoa

Mā te whakauru atu ki tētahi rōpū tautoko ka taea te whakarato whakamaaramatanga kare, ngā tohutohu whai hua, me te wairua hapori. Anei ētahi painga matua me ngā momo rōpū tautoko e wātea ana:

• Tautoko Kare-roto: Whakapā atu ki ētahi atu e mārama ana ki ngā wero o te manaaki.
• Nga wheako tiritahi: Akohia mai i te hunga kua pā ki ngā āhuatanga rite.
• Rautaki Whakatau: Tikina ngā tohutohu whai hua mō te whakahaere i te ahotea, te ngenge nui, me te taumahatanga kare ā-roto.
• Arataki Ngaio: He maha ngā rōpū he kaiwhakaora hinengaro, he tohunga rānei e tuku ana i ngā whakaaro nui.
• Te Manawaotanga: Ka whakaiti i ngā kare ā-roto o te mokemoke mā te whakarato i tētahi wāhi haumaru hei tiritiri.

Thoughts Final

Ko te noho tahi i roto i te mate me te mamae he tohu i te kaha me te hohonutanga o te whanaungatanga. Mā te mate ka whakamatautauria ngā rohe o te aroha, te manawanui, me te manawanui, engari ka tukuna hoki he whai wāhitanga ki te whakatipu i te aroha, te ngākau aroha, me te tautoko pumau. Mā te anga tahi ki ngā wero, ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te puta kaha ake, me te hononga e hipa ana i te taha tinana me te taha tinana. ngā pakanga kare ā-roto. Ehara te aroha i te oati noa iho i ēnei wā—he mahi hoki o te whakapau kaha me te noho tahi pumau.

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