Te whakaoho anō i te aroha i roto i te marena 31-tau te pakeke

Ka rerekē te marena i roto i te wā—ko te mea i ahua whakahihiri, hou hoki i mua, tera pea ka ahua whakamarie engari he mea noa. Mā te mārama ki te whanaketanga o te aroha ka āwhina i te whakahoki mai i te mura i roto i ngā huarahi hou, whai tikanga hoki.

Te Whanaketanga o te Aroha: Mai i te Ngākau Nui ki te Hononga Mahi Tahi

E 100 ngā rā o te marena o Tanya rāua ko Aakrit, ā, e 31 tau te pakeke o tā māua marena. Ko ia tētahi o ngā toa o St. Stephens, he toa ia, i uru atu ki te Forbes Top 30 Under 30. Ko Aakrit, he tama nāku, āe, e whakahīhī ana ahau ki aku anahera tokorua, ā, kāore au e kōrero ana mō ō rāua tohu mātauranga i konei. Nā rāua ahau i ako i tētahi mea mō…āhem…te aroha me te manaaki, tētahi mea i mahara ahau kua mōhio ahau ki ngā mea katoa.

Ka wehe atu rāua i te kāinga i te 9 i te ata. Ahakoa ka hoki mai a Tanya i te 5.30-6 i te ahiahi, ka hoki mai a Aakrit i te 9 i te pō. Ki ahau nei, he tino ātaahua ngā huarahi reka e whakaatu ana te tokorua hou i tō rāua manaaki me te aroha tetahi ki tetahi. Hei tauira, i te tēpu kai, ka mahi tuatahi ia i a ia i mua i te whakatakoto i tetahi mea ki tana pereti, ki te mea rānei kei mua i a ia te rihi mahi, ka mahi tuatahi ia i a ia. Ki te āhua rānei o tana tuku karere ki a ia i a ia e wehe atu ana i te mahi, ki te ngana rānei ia ki te tunu kai māna e pai ana ki a ia, ki te āhua rānei e kitea ana e ia he mea reka i roto i te rimurapa kua tino maoa, i te pai kāore i tino maoa. He maha ngā wā ka kite ahau i a rāua e kōrero tahi ana mō tētahi kiritaki. E mihi ana ahau ki te whakaute o tā rāua whakapuaki i ō rāua whakaaro rerekē mō ngā take, he whakamahara mai ki ahau i tētahi wā i mahi tahi ai māua ko Ajay i taua mea anō…

Engari kia hoki atu ki taku kōrero, i tētahi atu rā ka tae pō a Tanya ki te kāinga, tata ki te 8 karaka. I rongo ahau i te pere o te tatau i te 11 karaka, ā, ka puta mai ahau ki te tirotiro i ngā tamariki. I te waea a Aakrit i a ia e tomo mai ana. I haere tonu ia me ōna hu, me te putea pona i runga i ōna pakihiwi, me te waea e piri ana ki ōna taringa. Ka tīmata ahau ki te tohutohu i te kaiawhina kia whakatakotoria te kai, ā, ka ngana ki te hopu i tana titiro. I pukumahi a Aakrit i runga i te waea, kāore he kanohi e titiro mai ana ki a mātou! Tata ki te tekau meneti te roa, ā, ka tīmata ahau ki te nekeneke. I mea mai a Tanya kia hoki ahau ki taku whakaaturanga pouaka whakaata, me te whakamana mai ka tiaki ia, ā, mārire rawa taku kitenga i tana tohu ki a Aakrit kia nekehia te waea ki tētahi atu taringa, i a ia e tango ana i te putea pona i tōna pakihiwi, ka whakatakotoria ki runga i te tēpu.

I mutu tana kōrero, ā, ka mihi atu ki a koe, me te menemene. He menemene e whakaū ana i a tātou e mārama ana ō tātou whanaunga ki ō tātou raruraru, he menemene whakamarie e whakaae ana ki tētahi atu 'ngā mihi ki a koe mō tō noho mai'. He menemene e 'kotahi' ai rāua i roto i te whakatau i te raruraru, ahakoa he rerekē ngā tari mahi a rāua tokorua e mōhio ana ahau. Nā te menemene i kite ahau i tangohia te taumahatanga o te ra kino, ahakoa he wā poto noa iho.

I tahuri atu ahau; he mahi tūmataiti hoki tēnā te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero i waenga i te tokorua"He hapa iti tēnei e hoa, i mahi te tīma katoa i tēnei mea mai i te ahiahi pō. Te āhua nei kua tata te whakatika," te whakamārama a Tanya. I pōkaikaha ahau, ā, ka hoki ki taku rūma. I kite ahau i a Ajay e mātakitaki ana i tana whakaaturanga pouaka whakaata tino pai. I titiro aroha ahau ki a ia, ā, ka mirimiri i tōku ringa ki roto i ōna makawe. I titiro mai ia ki ahau me te miharo.

E 31 tau te roa o te marena e pā kino ana ki a māua. He ngāwari noa iho māua te riri tetahi ki tetahi, engari kāore māua e maioha ki ngā mahi atawhai nā te mea e mōhio ana rātou e aroha ana tātou ki a rātouKāore mātou e whai wā ki te riri i a rātou mō tā rātou mahi hē, engari kāore mātou e mihi ki tā rātou mahi tika nā te mea…kaua ianei rātou e mahi pera me te kore e tinihanga? Ko te āheinga ki te whakaaro noa tetahi ki tetahi he pou o te hononga roa, engari me te kore e whakaatu i te whakaute taketake e hoatu ana e tātou ki tētahi e kore e warewaretia, ā, ka ruarua tonu tātou i ā rātou mahi pai mā te whakaaro he me e hiahia ana ki tētahi mea hei utu. Tērā pea e hiahia ana rātou, tērā pea kāore, engari i taua wā tonu, ka ngaro i a tātou te whai wāhi ki te maioha ki tā rātou i mahi ai. Ā, ka ngaro i a tātou ngā whai wāhitanga pēnei i tēnei rā, i tēnei rā, mō ngā marama, mō ngā tau.

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Nā taku tamaiti a Tanya rāua ko Aakrit i whakahoki mai te hou ki tō māua whanaungatanga. I tētahi atu rā, i kōrero māua ko Ajay mō te haere ki tētahi pō whakatau, pērā i ngā mahi a ā māua tamariki i ngā Paraire katoa. I rongo ahau i te tama me te pāpā e kōrero ana mō tētahi pounamu waina motuhake e mōhio ana rāua e pai ana ahau ki a ia. I whakatūpato ahau i a Tanya ki tētahi kokonga, ā, i pātai atu ahau, "hmm... kei te hiahia koe ki te haere tahi mai ki te hoko hinu kakara..?"

He tino ataahua te whakawhanaungatanga aroha, ā, i tō mātou hurihanga tuarua, he tino pai ake!

(I kōrerotia ki a Raksha Bharadia)

Thoughts Final

Ka whanake haere ngā whanaungatanga i roto i te wā, ā, mā te whakapau kaha, ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te whakaoho anō i te mura, te whakahōhonu i te hononga, me te kimi anō i te harikoa o te noho tahi. Kāore i roa rawa te wā ki te whakahoki mai i te mahana, te harikoa, me te piripono ki roto i tō kōrua whanaungatanga.

"Tukua mātou kia āwhina i a koe ki te whakaoho anō i te aroha i roto i tō kōrua marena." Ā mātou kaiwhakaora hinengaro mātau He tohunga ki te whakaora i te whanaungatanga, e whakarato ana i ngā rautaki whaiaro hei whakapakari i te whanaungatanga piripono, hei whakapai ake i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, hei whakaora anō i te ngākau nui. Whakaritea he wā i tēnei rā, ā, tangohia te taahiraa tuatahi ki tētahi whanaungatanga whai hua ake!

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