9 Ngā Tohu Āwangawanga e Pai Ana Ki A Koe He Kaitūkino Ipurangi, Me Pēhea Te Tiaki I A Koe Anō

I muri i tana wehenga, i whakaaro a Meghan kei te pāngia ia e ngā mea rerekē i runga i te Instagram. Ko ētahi o ana hoa i tuku karere ā-waha ki a ia e tohu ana i a ia me te wehenga. Kāore a Meghan i te mōhio ki ngā tūponotanga o te tangata e whaiwhai ana i te ipurangi. Kātahi ka tīmata tetahi ki te tuku karere ki a ia i runga i te Instagram mō ētahi mea e mōhiotia ana e te hoa tāne o mua o Megan mōna me te whanaungatanga.

He maha ngā wā ka tohaina e tēnei pūkete ingoakore tōna wāhi noho ki a ia, ā, ka whakautu ki ana kōrero i te wā tonu ka tohaina e ia tetahi mea. Kātahi ka puta ohorere mai tana hoa tāne ki ngā wāhi katoa i haere atu ai ia – ahakoa i te hūperamākete, i tētahi pāti, i tētahi hui rānei. I roto i te pōhēhē me te mataku, ka tīmata a Meghan ki te whakaaro mēnā he tohu ēnei e pai ana tētahi kaiwhai ipurangi ki a ia, me pēhea hoki e taea ai e ia te tiaki i a ia anō.

Mena kei te pāngia koe e tētahi āhuatanga pēnei, e hiahia ana rānei koe kia mōhio ki te huarahi hei whakatau i tētahi āhuatanga pēnei, kei te wāhi tika koe. Kei konei mātou hei whakamārama i ngā mea katoa e hiahia ana koe kia mōhio mō te tirotiro i te ipurangi, i roto i te kōrero ki te tohunga haumarutanga ipurangi a Tākuta Kaushal Bhavsar (Ph.D. i roto i te Pūtaiao Rorohiko).

He aha te Cyberstalker?

He aha te cyberstalking? He aha te cyberstalker? Ka homai e Tākuta Bhavsar tētahi horopaki, "He rā roa tēnei māu. I tutuki i a koe ō whāinga mahi, ā, kei te hoki koe ki te kāinga. I a koe e haere ana, ka tū koe ki te kai i tētahi kai. I a koe e utu ana, ka pā tō pakihiwi ki tētahi. Ka titiro koe ki a rātou, ka whakapāha wawe, ā, ka neke atu."

"Engari i a koe e hikoi ana i mua, ka rongo koe kei te whai tetahi i a koe. I muri i te tātari marie i te tangi o ngā takahanga mai i tō awhe whakarongo, ka tino mōhio koe - KEI te whai tetahi i a koe. Ka tahuri koe ka titiro tere. Kei runga koe i tētahi huarahi mokemoke i waenganui pō, ā, ka whiwhi rātou i te aro katoa e hiahiatia ana e rātou. Kei te whaia koe."

Ki tō whakaaro he mea mōhio tēnei? E whakamārama ana a Tākuta Bhavsar, "He onge te tūponotanga ka pono tēnei mea nā te mea he uaua rawa te āhuatanga mō te kaiwhai i te ao tūturu. Heoi, i te ao matihiko, he tino rerekē. Mena kua hohe koe i runga i te ipurangi, kua whaia pea koe i runga ipurangi, ahakoa he rerekē ō whakaaro." Inaa, he mea noa ake te whaia ipurangi i tā tātou e whakaaro nei. E ai ki te Tari Ture neke atu i te 3.8 miriona Amerikana neke atu i te 16 tau kua pa ki te kaiwhai. I ēnei rā, i te mea he māmā ake te whai i tetahi i runga ipurangi, me whakautu tuatahi tātou i te pātai - ko wai te kaiwhai ipurangi?

E kī ana a Tākuta Bhavsar, "Ko te whaiwhai i tētahi he whanonga rapu aro hei whakatū whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, hei whakamataku rānei i tētahi tangata. Nā, he aha te whaiwhai ipurangi ? Ka whakamahia e te kaiwhaiwhai ipurangi te ipurangi, ētahi atu tikanga hiko rānei hei whakatoi, hei whakawehi rānei i tētahi atu tangata. Tērā pea ka tukuna e rātou he karere kāore e hiahiatia, ka mātakitaki i ā rātou mahi ipurangi, ka horahia rānei ngā kōrero mō rātou. He hara nui te whakatoi ipurangi ka taea te whakangaro i te oranga hinengaro me te oranga kare ā-roto o te patunga."

Pānui e pā ana: 12 Ngā tohu kei te piri koe ki tētahi kaiwhai, ā, me wehe koe i a koe anō

9 Ngā Tohu Āwangawanga e Pai Ana Ki A Koe He Kaitātari Ipurangi

Tukua ahau kia kōrero atu ki a koe i te rongo pai i te tuatahi. Kāore koe e hiahia kia noho hei tohunga hangarau hei mārama mēnā kei te tirotirohia koe e te ipurangi. I ētahi wā, he nui te māramatanga o te tangata hei whakamōhio atu ki a koe. Haunga tēnā, he tauira kua whakaritea e ngā kaiwhaiwhai ipurangi hei āwhina i a koe ki te kite me te tohu i ngā whanonga whakapae. Me maumahara ki ēnei tauira, me wetewete tātou i ngā tohu e 9 e pai ana te kaiwhaiwhai ipurangi ki a koe:

1. Te aroturuki i ngā mahi ipurangi

Kei te aroturukihia e tetahi ō mahi ipurangi i ia rā, i ia rā? Ka whakatūpato a Tākuta Bhavsar, "He aha ngā hiahia o ngā kaiwhaiwhai i ā rātou patunga? Ka whakawhanakehia e ētahi kaiwhaiwhai he piripono kino ki tā rātou patunga pea, e whakapono ana he hononga motuhake tā rātou, he mea whakarite rānei kia noho tahi. Tērā pea ka hiahia rātou kia aro atu, kia aroha mai, kia aroha mai rānei te patunga pea ki a rātou, ahakoa ngā kare ā-roto o te patunga.

"Tērā pea ka whai ngā kaitūkino ipurangi i ō pūkete pāpāho pāpori, ka aroturuki i ō taunekeneke ipurangi, ka tirotiro tonu hoki mō ngā whakahōutanga. Hei tauira, ka kite pea koe he pai, he kōrero, he tohatoha rānei te tangata tauhou tata ki ia pou katoa ka tukuna e koe ki ngā papaaho pāpāho pāpori." Ina pai te kaitūkino ipurangi ki a koe, ka whakaatu rātou i aua tohu o te aro nui, ā, ka whakawhanake i te tikanga o te aroturuki tonu i a koe ipurangi.

2. Te tuku karere kāore e hiahiatia

Ka aro atu ngā kaitūkino ipurangi ki ngā karere tūmataiti kāore e hiahiatia ana, pērā i te hī ika ki te wai. E kī ana a Tākuta Bhavsar, "Tērā pea ka tukuna tonutia e te kaitūkino ipurangi ngā karere tūmataiti kāore e hiahiatia ana, ngā īmēra whakawehi, ngā karere rūma kōrerorero rānei ki a koe, ahakoa kua tonoa kia mutu. Hei tauira, ka whiwhi pea koe i ngā karere tika i ia rā mai i tētahi kāore koe e mōhio ana, e kī ana kei te mihi rātou ki a koe, kei te hiahia rānei rātou ki te kite i a koe mō tētahi rā tuatahi i muri i te tūtaki ipurangi ."

3. Te whakaari i a koe anō

E mōhio ana koe ki te tikanga o te "catfishing"? He tikanga whaiwhai ipurangi tēnei e whakaari ana tetahi i a ia anō he tangata rerekē, ka hanga he pūkete pāpāho pāpori rūpahu hei whaiwhai i a koe. He maha ngā tohutohu hei whakaora i a koe mai i te "catfishing" . I ētahi wā, ka whakaari pea te kaiwhai i a ia anō ko koe, ka tuku tono hoa ki ō hoa. Ki te pai te kaiwhai ipurangi i a koe, ka whakaari pea rātou i a ia anō ko koe, ka tuku karere kuputuhi mamae ki tō hoa me te hunga e hiahia ana ki a koe.

Pānui e pā ana: 13 Ngā Tohu Whakatūpato o te Pōrearea ki tētahi

4. Ngā mōhiohio whaiaro kāore i tonoa

Kua tohaina noatia mai tō wāhitau e tētahi i runga i te ipurangi? Ētahi atu taipitopito whaiaro rānei – te tau i puta ai koe i te kura, te mahi a tō hoa rangatira, te tereina rānei e haere ana koe ki te mahi? Ā, kua waiho koe e te āwangawanga me te mataku? E ai ki a Tākuta Bhavsar he tohu noa tēnei e pai ana tētahi tangata e whaiwhai ana i a koe i runga ipurangi.

E whakamārama ana ia, "Tērā pea ka tukuna e te kaitūkino ipurangi ngā mōhiohio whaiaro mōu i riro mai i a rātou mā te rangahau ipurangi. Ko te mahi tēnei hei whakatū pakari i tō hinengaro, hei mawhiti atu hoki i te tinihanga i roto i ngā whanaungatanga . Ina whiwhi te tangata i tētahi karere mai i tētahi tangata tauhou e mōhio ana ki tōna wāhi noho, ki tōna wāhi mahi, ki ētahi atu mōhiohio tairongo rānei mō rātou, ka tino riri rātou." He mahi mana noa tēnei e whai ana kia noho ngoikore, kia noho pōrearea, kia mataku hoki ngā tāngata i pāngia e te kaitūkino ipurangi, me te tumanako ka ngāwari rātou, ka tuku.

5. Te tono hua māu

Tērā pea ka hiahia te kaitūkino ipurangi e pai ana ki a koe ki te miharo i a koe, ki te whakahaere rānei i a koe. Hei whakatutuki i tēnā, ka aroturuki pea rātou i ō hoko ipurangi, ka tuku atu hoki i ngā koha ingoakore ki a koe. Ka tono pea rātou i ngā taonga whakama, ka ohauru rānei ki ngā maheni mā te whakamahi i ō tohu tuakiri. Ka taea te tuku atu i ēnei taonga ki tō wāhi mahi mēnā kei te hiahia te kaitūkino ipurangi ki te whakaiti i a koe. He tohu mārama tēnei kei te tūkinotia koe e te hunga e whaia ana e te hunga ipurangi.

6. Te tukino ipurangi me te whakatoi ipurangi

E ai ki te Pew Research Center , 41% o ngā Amerikana kua tukinotia e te kaiwhai ipurangi, ā, he tokomaha ake (66%) kua kite i te whakatoi ipurangi e aro ana ki ētahi atu patunga. Ko ētahi kaiwhai pea e akiakihia ana e te hiahia ki te rapu utu, ki te whakaatu rānei i te riri ki tā rātou ūnga, inā koa mēnā kei te whakaaro rātou kua hē, kua whakakahoretia, kua whakaititia rānei. Tērā pea he hae, he rangatira, he whakahaere hoki rātou . Tērā pea ka hiahia rātou ki te whakararuraru i te ngākau, ki te whara rānei i tā rātou ūnga hei utu. Ko te whakatoi ipurangi i roto i ēnei take ko:

• Whakahuahua
• Te whakaatu i ngā whakaahua piripono
• Ngā kōtaha hacking
• Te tahae tuakiri
• Ngaronga pūtea

E kī ana a Tākuta Bhavsar, "Tērā pea ka uru atu tētahi kaitūkino ipurangi ki te whakatoi, pērā i te tuku kōrero whakarihariha, te hora i ngā kōrero pakiwaitara, te tohatoha rānei i ngā ihirangi tūpono hei whakama, hei whakararuraru rānei i a koe. Hei tauira, tērā pea ka kitea e koe kua horahia e tētahi ngā kōrero teka mōu i runga i tētahi huihuinga tūmatanui, kua tohaina rānei e ia tētahi whakaahua tūmataiti me te kore ōu whakaae."

7. Ngā nganatanga maha ki te whakatū hononga

Tērā pea ka whaiwhai ētahi i te tangata nā te hoha, nā te rapu whakahihiri rānei. Tērā pea ka pai ki a rātou te wero o te whai me te aro turuki i tā rātou ūnga, te tere rānei o te adrenaline mai i te karo i te kitea. Mā tēnei ka pā atu rātou ki tā rātou ūnga i ngā wā katoa.

E kī ana a Tākuta Bhavsar, "Tērā pea ka ngana tonu te tangata e whaiwhai ana i a koe ki te whakapā atu ki a koe, ka tuku tono hoa ki a koe, ahakoa kua āraia, kua kore rānei e arohia. Hei tauira, tērā pea ka āraia e koe tētahi akonga kāore e hiahiatia ana i runga i ngā papaaho pāpāho pāpori, ā, ka kitea e ia kei te hanga tonu taua tangata i ngā pūkete hou, kei te tuku tono hoa hou, karere hou rānei."

Pānui e pā ana: 11 Ngā Tohu Whakatūpato o tētahi Hononga Paitini

8. Tuku karere kuputuhi mā roto i ngā pūkete rūpahu

E mōhio ana koe ki aua pūkete pāpāho pāpori me ngā akonga e rua, ngā whakaahua kōtaha kau, me te rā whakatūnga tata nei. E kī ana a Tākuta Bhavsar, "Tērā pea ka hangaia e te kaitūkino ipurangi he maha ngā kōtaha rūpahu hei taunekeneke ki tā rātou ūnga, hei aroturuki rānei i ā rātou mahi ipurangi me te kore e kitea. I roto i tēnei āhuatanga, tērā pea ka whiwhi koe i tētahi tono hoa mai i tētahi kōtaha e whakamahi ana i tētahi ingoa me tētahi whakaahua rerekē engari he āhua mōhio kē, he rite ngā hiahia me ngā hoa tahi."

Ina pai mai tētahi kaitūkino ipurangi ki a koe, ko tētahi o ngā mea tuatahi ka mahia e rātou ko te hanga i tētahi pūkete rūpahu hei whakapā atu ki a koe. Koinei ngā tūponotanga o te whakaipoipo ipurangi . Ko te huarahi pai ki te tiaki i a koe ko te kaua e hono atu ki ngā pūkete kāore i te tino ingoa, e ahua pōhēhē ana rānei i te tīmatanga.

9. Aroturuki GPS

Whakaarohia kua tukuna e koe he whakaahua o tō hararei ki Instagram me ō hoa. Kua whakahuatia e koe te wāhi, kua tohua hoki te wāhi noho e noho ana koe. I te ata i muri mai, ka puta ohorere mai tetahi e mōhio ana koe, ka mihi mai ki a koe. Ka miharo noa koe ki tēnei tūtakitanga, ā, ka pātai koe, "Kei te aha koe i konei?" Kāore i tino tika tā rātou whakautu. E mōhio ana koe kei te pākiki tetahi mea.

Ko te pono, ka huri pea te whaiwhai ā-tinana ki te whaiwhai ā-tinana mēnā e pai ana te kaihara ki a koe. Tērā pea ka kitea e koe tēnei tangata i ngā wāhi katoa e haere ana koe. Tērā pea ka aroturukihia e rātou tō tauwāhi mā te GPS i runga i tō waea atamai. Tērā pea ka whakatōhia e rātou he taputapu ki roto i tō motuka, i tō pēke rānei hei aroturuki i tō tauwāhi me te kore e mōhiotia e koe.

9 Ngā Tohutohu Hei Tiaki i a Koe Mai i te Kaipahua Ipurangi

Kei te tirotirohia ahau e te ipurangi, me aha ahau? Me pēhea taku tiaki i ahau mai i ngā kaiwhai ipurangi? I whakarērea e au taku whanaungatanga tukino hinengaro , ā, inaianei kei te whaiwhai mai taku hoa o mua i ahau i runga ipurangi. Kei te whakatoi mai taku hoa piripono i ahau i runga ipurangi mā roto i ngā karere kuputuhi maha. Me pēhea te noho haumaru mai i ngā kaiwhai ipurangi? Me pēhea taku ārai i te tirotiro ipurangi? Ki te whakapono koe kei te whaiwhai mai tetahi i a koe i runga ipurangi, ko ngā pātai pēnei ka kore ai koe e moe. Ahakoa he āhuatanga āwangawanga tēnei, ka kitea e koe te huarahi e puta ai. Me mahi i ēnei mahi hei tiaki i a koe mai i tētahi kaiwhai:

1. Tuhia nga mea katoa

E kī ana tētahi kaiwhakamahi Reddit , "Me tango pikitia o ngā whakaahua katoa o te whakatoi me te tuhi i ngā take katoa. Puritia tēnei ki roto i tētahi kōpaki i tō rorohiko, hei tāpiri atu ki tētahi puku mārō USB o waho. Ka taea hoki e koe te tā. Haunga te ripoata i ngā take katoa ki te mahi ripoata a te paetukutuku, tuhia hoki te ripoata i tukuna e koe te take. Mā tēnei ka taea e koe te tiaki i ngā taunakitanga o ngā take mēnā ka piki haere te kino. Mō ngā pirihimana me ngā paetukutuku e puta ai ngā take. E whakaaetia ana ngā paetukutuku ki te tuku i ngā mōhiohio whaiaro mēnā he wārana."

Nō reira, tiakina ngā karere, ngā īmēra, ngā whakaahua mata, ngā puna taunakitanga rānei e whakaatu ana kei te whāia koe i runga ipurangi. Ngāna ki te pupuri i tētahi pūkete o ēnei e whai ake nei:

• Ngā rā me ngā wā i whakapā atu ai te kaiwhai ki a koe
• Te auau o tā rātou kōrero ki a koe
• Te wāhi o te kaiwhai (mēnā e mōhio ana koe) me tō wāhi ake
• Ngā ihirangi o ngā īmēra whakamataku, ngā whakaahuatanga rānei o ngā whanonga tukino
• He hītori taipitopito mō te mōhiotanga o te kaiwhai ki a koe
• Ētahi atu kōrero e pā ana ki te whanonga whaiwhai

2. Ngā tautuhinga tūmataiti me te kupuhipa

E pai ana rānei tētahi kaiwhai ipurangi ki a koe? Kei te noho morearea koe nā te whaiwhai ipurangi? E kī ana a Tākuta Bhavsar, "Whakatikatikahia ngā tautuhinga tūmataiti o ō pāpāho pāpori me ō pūkete ipurangi i tēnei wā. Mā tēnei ka whakawhāitihia te kitea o ō pou me ō mōhiohio whaiaro ki ngā hoa pono me ngā mema o te whānau anake."

Haunga tēnei, he mea nui te tiaki i te kupuhipa. Whakahōuhia ō kupuhipa hei ārai i te tirotiro ā-ipurangi. Kaua e pupuri i tō ingoa whānau, i te ingoa rānei o tō kurī hei kupuhipa māu. Whakamahia he kupuhipa kaha, ahurei hoki mō ia pūkete ipurangi, ā, whakahohea te manatoko rua-wāhanga i ngā wā katoa e taea ai. Mā tēnei ka āwhina i te tiaki i ō pūkete mai i te taumanutia, te urunga atu rānei e ngā kaiwhakamahi kāore i whakamanahia.

3. Kia tūpato ki ngā mōhiohio whaiaro

Kaua e tohatoha i ngā mōhiohio tairongo pēnei i tō wāhitau īmēra, tau waea pūkoro, wāhitau wāhi mahi rānei i runga ipurangi. Kia tūpato ki ngā taipitopito e whakakitea ana e koe i ngā huihuinga tūmatanui, i ngā pāpāho pāpori rānei. Kia tūpato ki ngā tāngata tauhou e whakatata atu ana ki a koe i runga ipurangi, inā koa mēnā he nui rawa tō rātou hiahia ki tō oranga whaiaro, he āhua whakapae rānei ō rātou kōtaha. He tangata whaiwhai ipurangi pea rātou e pai ana ki a koe. Nō reira, kia tūpato ki ngā haki rēhita . Kaua rawa e tohatoha i ō mōhiohio whaiaro ki ēnei pūkete tinihanga, ki ngā tāngata tauhou rānei i runga ipurangi.

4. Āraia, ā, ripoatatia

Kōrero atu ki te kaiwhaiwhai kāore e pai ana ki a rātou, ā, kāore koe e hiahia kia whakapā atu anō. Me mahi kotahi noa iho tēnei, ā, kaua e uru atu ki tētahi atu whakawhitiwhiti kōrero. Whai muri i tēnei, me ārai koe i tō kaiwhaiwhai ipurangi mēnā ka mau tonu te raruraru?

E mea ana a Tākuta Bhavsar, "Ki te mea kei te whakararuraru tetahi i a koe, kaua e mangere ki te aukati me te ripoata i a rātou. He maha ngā papaaho pāpāho pāpori he taputapu hei ripoata i te whakatoi, i te whakapā atu rānei kāore e hiahiatia. Āraia te kaiwhai i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori, īmēra, me te waea pūkoro. Ripoatahia ngā whanonga whakawehi, whakatoi rānei ki te papaaho e tika ana, tae atu ki ngā pirihimana."

Pānui e pā ana: Me pēhea te whakamutu i te tuku karere kuputuhi ki a koe me te kore e whanoke

5. Kia tūpato ki ngā nganatanga hītinihanga

Whakaarohia kei te kōrero koe ki tētahi tangata tauhou e tuku karere ana ki a koe i ngā wā katoa. I tētahi rā, ka tukuna atu he īmēra kua ata tuhia ki a koe me te hononga ki tētahi paetukutuku rongonui e torohia pinepinetia ana e koe. Ina pāwhiri koe i taua hononga, ka haria koe ki tētahi paetukutuku rūpahu e rite ana ki taua paetukutuku rongonui. Ka tohutohuhia koe kia whakahou i ngā mōhiohio o tō pūkete, kia manatoko rānei i ngā taipitopito o tō pūkete. Ā, mātakitaki mai? I roto i te kimo o te kanohi, kua tahaetia katoatia ngā pene katoa i roto i tō pūkete putea.

"Kia tūpato i te pāwhiri i ngā hononga, i te whakatuwhera rānei i ngā āpitihanga i roto i ngā īmēra, inā koa mēnā kāore i te mōhiotia te kaituku, he āhua whakapae rānei te karere. Tērā pea ka whakamahia e ngā kaitūkino ipurangi ngā tikanga hītinihanga hei uru atu ki ō mōhiohio whaiaro," te whakatūpato a Tākuta Bhavsar. He angitu te hītinihanga nā te mea e whakawhirinaki ana ki te āhua o te tangata ki te whakawhirinaki ki ētahi atu. Tērā pea ka whakaaro koe he tika te whakahou kupuhipa. Tērā pea ka tere te whakatuwhera i te hononga i tukuna mai e tō kaitūkino ki a koe mā te tuhinga. Ka pā kino nui tēnei, nō reira, he mea tika kia tūpato tonu ki ēnei mea.

6. Whakawhirinaki ki to parapara

E ai ki tā mātou i kōrero ai i mua ake nei i roto i tēnei tuhinga, kāore koe e hiahia ki te mōhio ki ngā mea katoa mō te hangarau hei mārama ki te cyberstriking. I te nuinga o te wā, ka kī mai ō kare ā-roto kei te whaia koe i runga ipurangi.

E whakamārama ana a Tākuta Bhavsar, "Ki te mea he āhua hē tō whanaungatanga , ki te whakapae rānei koe kei te whaiwhai tetahi i a koe i runga ipurangi, me mahi hei tiaki i a koe anō, me rapu āwhina mai i ngā hoa, i te whānau, i ngā pirihimana rānei mēnā e tika ana. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe kāore koe e haumaru, ki te whakapono rānei koe ka piki haere te āhuatanga, me mahi i ngā mahi ārai e tika ana, me rapu āwhina mai i ngā pirihimana, i ētahi atu whatunga tautoko rānei." Ko te mea nui, whakapono ki ō whakaaro e kī ana kāore koe i te haumaru, kaua hoki e wareware ki te kaha o te āhuatanga.

Pānui e pā ana: 6 ngā take me whiriwhiri koe i tō hoa rangatira mā te whakamahi i te kare ā-roto

7. Whakamōhio atu ki ētahi atu

Me whakamōhio atu ki te hunga o roto i tō porowhita kei te whaiwhai tetahi i a koe i runga ipurangi. Me whakamōhio atu ki ō whanaunga mō tō mahere haumaru. Ka taea e te whaiwhai ipurangi te whakararuraru i a koe, ā, kāore koe e hiahia ki te aro atu ki tēnei mea ko koe anake. "Nō reira, ki te pai koe, kōrerotia ki ō hoa, ki ō whānau, ki ō hoa mahi, me ō hoa noho tata mō te āhuatanga. Ka taea e rātou te tiaki i a koe, te tuku tautoko kare ā-roto, me te āwhina i a koe kia noho haumaru," te tūtohu a Tākuta Bhavsar.

E kōrero mai ana a Johny (28), he miihini nō NYC, ki a mātou, "I haere ahau ki ētahi wā i runga i te Tinder me tētahi kōtiro, ā, i kite ahau kei te hē tetahi mea. He tino hihiri ia, he mea pai tēnā, engari i muri mai ka huri hei hiahia nui me te āwangawanga. I kī atu ahau ki a ia kāore au i te hiahia, ā, ka hoki whakamuri ahau. I taua wā tonu, ka whakararuraru ia i ahau i runga ipurangi, ka tuku karere mai i ngā pūkete pāpāho pāpori rūpahu maha, me te ngana ki te tiki mōhiohio mō taku wāhi noho. Ko te mea whakaaro nui i mahia e au i taua wā ko te whakapuaki i taku āhuatanga ki ētahi hoa tata. I āwhina rātou i ahau ki te mahi i ngā mahi e tika ana, me te whakarite i taku haumaru."

8. Whakapai ake i te haumarutanga ā-tinana

I te tau 2022, i pūrongo te Tari Ture , "I hopukina tētahi tāne o California inanahi, ā, ka puta tuatahi ia ki te kooti ā-motu i tēnei rā ki te aroaro o ngā whakapae mō tana whaiwhai ipurangi i ētahi wāhine taitamariki i California i roto i tētahi kaupapa "whakatoi wahine". I hopukina a Johao Miguel Chavarri, 25 tau te pakeke, arā, a Michael Frito, nō Oceanside me Torrance, inanahi i Oceanside, kei reira ia e tū ana hei mema mahi tonu o te US Marine Corps."

"E ai ki te amuamu taihara, mai i te tau 2019 ki te tau 2021, i hangaia e Chavarri, mā te whakamahi i te tuakiri ipurangi "Michael Frito", he maha ngā pūkete ipurangi i hangaia e ia, ā, i whakamahia hoki hei whaiwhai, hei whakatoi, hei whakawehi hoki i ngā wāhine kāore e whakaae ki āna tono, me ētahi atu mea, kia tukuna atu e rātou ki a ia ngā whakaahua me ngā ataata tahanga, ngā whakaahua moepuku, ngā whakaahua whakararuraru rānei. Ko tēnei momo whanonga e kiia ana ko te whakamomori ira tangata. E ai ki te amuamu, i ētahi wā, i haere tonu āna tono whakamomori ipurangi, whakawehi, me te whakamomori ira tangata mō te neke atu i te tau."

Ina he kaiwhai ipurangi kei te whakahaere i ō kare ā- roto, kei te whakararuraru rānei i a koe i runga ipurangi, kaua e wareware ki te whakatū i tētahi mahere haumaru mō tō haumaru tinana. Kia tūpato ki tō taiao, me te whakarerekē i ō mahi kia uaua ake ai te whai a te kaiwhai i a koe. Me mahi ngā mahi whakatūpato hei tiaki i tō kāinga me tō wāhi mahi mā te:

• Te tāuta i ngā kāmera haumaru
• Kāore e tohaina ō tautuhinga tauwāhi whenua
• Te whakarerekē i ngā raka
• Te whakamahi i tētahi pūnaha haumaru tomokanga

9. Kōrero ki ngā pirihimana

E kī ana te FBI , "Kei te whakatuma ngā mahi kino i te haumaru o te marea me tō tātou haumarutanga ā-motu me te ōhanga. Ko te rautaki ipurangi a te FBI he whakatakoto i ngā mōrearea me ngā hua kino ki ngā hoariri ipurangi. Ko tā mātou whāinga he whakarerekē i ngā whanonga o ngā kaihara me ngā whenua-motu e whakapono ana ka taea e rātou te whakararu i ngā whatunga o Amerika, te tahae i ngā taonga pūtea me ngā taonga hinengaro, me te whakararu i ngā hanganga nui me te kore e tūtaki ki te mōrearea."

"Hei whakatutuki i tēnei, ka whakamahia e mātou tō mātou ranunga ahurei o ngā mana whakahaere, ngā āheinga, me ngā hononga mahi tahi hei whakatakoto i ngā hua kino ki ō mātou hoariri ipurangi. Ko te FBI te tari matua ā-motu mō te tirotiro i ngā whakaekenga ipurangi me ngā takahi ture. Ka kohia e mātou, ka tohaina ngā mōhiohio, ka uru atu ki ngā pāngia i a mātou e mahi ana ki te hura i te hunga e mahi ana i ngā mahi kino ipurangi, ahakoa kei hea rātou."

Mēnā he āhuatanga ohorere, ka taea e koe te waea atu ki te 911, te whakapā atu rānei ki ngā mana whakahaere ā-rohe. Kia maumahara ko tō haumaru me tō oranga tinana ngā mea matua, ā, kei a koe te tika ki te mahi i ngā mahi e tika ana hei tiaki i a koe anō.

E kī ana a Tākuta Bhavsar, "Ripoatahia te mahi whaiwhai ipurangi ki tō tari whakahaere ture ā-rohe, me te hoatu ki a rātou ngā tuhinga kua kohia e koe. Ka taea e rātou te tohutohu i a koe mō te mahi pai me te āwhina ki te aroturuki i te āhuatanga. Rangahauhia ngā ture whaiwhai ipurangi. Heoi anō, i roto i tētahi āhuatanga nui pēnei, whakaarohia te kōrero ki tētahi tohunga hauora hinengaro , te whakauru atu rānei ki tētahi rōpū tautoko mō ngā pāngia e whaiwhai ana. Ka taea e rātou te whakarato i ngā aratohu whai hua, te tautoko, me ngā rautaki whakatau i ngā raruraru."

Mai i tā mātou rārangi hoko kai hou ki ā mātou taipitopito pūtea tino nui, kei te ipurangi ngā mea katoa i ēnei rā. Nō reira, ina pai mai tētahi kaitūkino ipurangi ki a koe, he mea maori te mataku. Heoi, kāore koe e mataku, e aro atu rānei ki tēnei āhuatanga ko koe anake. Kōrero ki tētahi kaiwhakaora hinengaro, ā, whakamōhio atu ki ō hoa mō ō wheako. Kia haumaru ō pūkete pāpāho pāpori, ā, whakapā atu ki ngā mana whakahaere ā-rohe mēnā e tika ana. E tika ana kia whiwhi koe i tētahi wheako ipurangi haumaru me tētahi moe marino. Nō reira, kaua e mangere ki te mahi i ngā mahi e tika ana hei whakarite i tō haumaru.

FAQs

8 Ngā Tohu o te Huna o te Narcissist Hoovering me te Me Pēhea te Urupare

Pāpāho Pāpori me ngā Whakawhanaungatanga: Kua wehe kē tātou i a tātou anō ki te kimi kamupene?

Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.