Ki te Whakarērea Koe e tetahi, Tukua atu rātou…Anei te Take!

I te wā e tamariki ana te tangata, e whakapono ana ia he mea hanga te ao mō rātou anake. Ki te waimarie rātou, ka koa rātou ki te noho hei pokapū aro o te katoa mai i ō rātou mātua ki te hunga katoa e karapoti ana i a rātou. Engari kāore e roa ka kitea e koe ka huri ngā mea, ka ngaro koe, ā, he poto noa te ao. Ka tupu wawe tēnei; ko te tuatahi ko te whānautanga o tētahi teina, tuākana rānei. Ka haere tonu tēnei wheako i a koe e hoa kura ana. whiriwhiri i tētahi atu BFF, ā, ka nui ake te aro o tō hoa motuhake ki tētahi atu. Ka mōhio koe ehara te ao i te moenga rōhi. Waihoki, ina aroha koe engari kāore i angitu, ka wehe koe. Ina whakarērea koe e tētahi hei tuku i a rātou. E ai ki te kōrero, ki te hoki mai rātou he pai, ki te kore, kāore rātou i a koe.

Ina wehe atu tetahi i a koe, tukua atu rātou

Ka rongo koe i ngā whakaoho tuatahi o te hae, te hae me te māia "kāore au i te pai?" ka pātai koe ki a koe anō. Kātahi ka puta ngā angitu iti, ka riro koe hei kāpene kura, hei te kai-oma tere pai rawa atu rānei, ka mōhiotia rānei ō pūkenga i roto i te ao puoro, toi rānei. Ka pai ake tō wairua, ā, ka haere tonu te ao.

I a koe e pakeke ana, kua manaakitia koe e tētahi hoa ataahua, ā, te āhua nei he tino pai te ora. Ka hangaia e koe ngā moemoeā e aro ana ki tēnei tangata, ā, he waiata, he kanikani te ora. Kātahi ka pakaru taua harikoa, pērā i te vase Haina i taka mai i te whata i runga ake i a koe. Kāore koe i tumanako ki tēnā. Kua kitea e tēnei tangata tētahi atu, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki te whakarē i a koe. Me pēhea rā? He hē katoa. He aha ai? He aha ai? He aha ai? Ka hurihuri tō hinengaro i te kore whakapono. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te tuku i a rātou kia haere. Kāore e taea e koe. E pōuri ana koe nā te mea kua tupu tēnei. Heoi, me tuku e koe rātou kia haere. Ina whakarē koe e tētahi mō tētahi atu, he pai ake te tuku i a rātou kia haere. Anei te take.

1. Me i whakaritea ia kia pērā, kua noho tonu ia

He whakaaro tēnei i roa te wā i mua i taku whakaae. He haerenga te ao, he maha ngā wheako. He rawe te pai ki a koe o tēnei upoko. Kua tae ki tōna mutunga tūturu. Me tuku ia e au kia haere, nā te mea mehemea i whakaritea ia kia noho ki roto i tōku ao, kua noho ia ki konei.

Me te mea kua tae atu ia ki tana ūnga, ā, me heke iho i te tereina. Me whakarite koe inaianei ki te tūtaki ki tētahi atu e tino haere mai ana.

2. He maumau te pupuri i tētahi tangata kua whiriwhiri ki te wehe atu

I whakaora ahau i tētahi pēpi pekapeka, ā, nā te mea kāore au i te mōhio, kāore hoki i te mōhio ki te tiaki i a ia, ka mate. Kāore i taea e au te tanu, te maka rānei; kua tino piri ahau ki a ia, engari i te taenga mai o te haunga pirau me te pirau ki ahau, ka pēhia e au. Koinei te āhua o te whanaungatanga pakaru – tukua kia haere i mua i te ka kore e taea e koe te tu atu ki te āhuatanga ā, ko te huarahi pai ki te mahi i tēnā ko te ata noho me te ngākau māhaki. Tukua rātou kia rere atu. Ina whakarērea koe e tetahi, tukua rātou kia haere. Whakapono mai ki ahau koinei te mea pai hei mahi.

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3. Whakatakotoria he ara mō tētahi whai wāhitanga hou

Ko tētahi atu kīwaha, "Ina kati te tatau kotahi, ka puare te mano matapihi". He nui te harikoa o te ao nā te mea he ngāwari te pupuri. Ina hopukina e koe te ao me te manukanuka, ka puta te mamae, te mauahara me te manukanuka whānui. Ina puta te wehenga, ehara i te mea ngāwari te noho matara atu i ngā āhuatanga whakapaipaiHeoi, kia maumahara ehara i te mutunga o te ao. Mena kei te ora tonu koe, he nui atu ngā mea hei tūhura, ā, he rite tonu ki ngā hiahia aroha, kia tuwhera tō hinengaro, kia kore ai he mamae Ā, tika tonu, kei te pito o te kauhanga he aroha hou e tatari ana ki a koe. Ki te wehe atu tetahi i tō ao, tukua atu. Ko koe anake te tangata e pai ana.

4. Ka puta te tipu whaiaro i ia wehenga

E mōhio ana ahau ki tēnei i roto i aku ake wheako, i ia tangata i wehe i ahau, i kite ahau he tipu wairua motuhake ki ahau.

Mai i ia hoa aroha, i ako ahau i ētahi atu kōrero mōku ake, me ētahi atu kōrero mō ngā mea e pai ana mōku. I tuwhera ahau ki te tuku i ia wheako ki te hanga i tōku tuakiri, kia waiho ahau hei tangata māia, tuwhera hoki.

Nā ia wehenga i ako mai ahau kāore au i te ngoikore pērā i taku i whakaaro ai, he moana aroha tōku, kāore i mimiti i te pouri. I puāwai ahau pērā i te rōhi i ia rau o tōku hītori whaiaro, me te tāpiri i te kakara, te tae, te āhua me te kakano ki te papanga i rite ki ahau. I tīmata ahau ki te maioha ki a au anō nā te wehenga!

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5. Tukua atu me te atawhai me te aroha

Mena i aroha nui koe ki tēnei tangata – he aha koe te tuku ai i a ia kia haere ki hea ia e hiahia ana? Mēnā i whakaritea kia noho tahi anō kōrua, ka hoki mai ia…ki te kore, kāore ia i whakaritea kia noho tahi. Nō reira, ina rongo koe kei te hiahia tō hoa ki te wehe atu i a koe – kia ātaahua, kia poroporoaki me te ataata, me te mōhio kāore e taea e koe te here i tētahi ki tō oranga; he mahere tā ia tangata, ā, i whakaritea kōrua hei kaihaerere. Kia whakawhetai koe mō te pai o tō kōrua wā tahi.

Ehara i te mea ngāwari te wehe i te whanaungatanga, ā, he mea nanakia te kī atu ki tētahi e riri ana, e mamae ana, e pouri ana, kia hiki ake ō kauae, kia pupuri i ō ngutu whakarunga. Heoi, kia pono tātou, ko te ngākau aroha ki a ia anō, ki te pouri, ki te kino rānei, ka hoki whakamuri noa iho. Ko te huarahi huatau ki te whakahaere i te wehenga ko te ātaahua me te ātaahua. Ina whakarērea koe e tētahi, tukua atu. Kāore e tino angitu te ngana ki te pupuri me te whakatika i te whanaungatanga. Hoatu te wāhi ki a rātou e hiahiatia ana e rātou, ki te ngaro nui rātou i a koe, ka hoki mai anō rātou. Engari ki te kitea e kōrua te kaupapa o tō kōrua ao, ka neke atu kōrua, ka harikoa i roto i ō kōrua ao.

He aha ngā mea kāore e tika ana kia mahia i muri i te wehenga?

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