Ngā Auahatanga o te Wehenga mā te Tirohanga Ture

He aha te pikinga ake o te maha o ngā whakarere? Kāore ianei te marena i te mea tapu pērā i mua? He aha ngā take tino noa mō te whakarere? I kōrero mātou ki tētahi tohunga mō ngā ia whakarere e kitea ana e ia i roto i tana mahi ture.

He rōia rongonui a Osama Sohail, ā, he mahi angitu tana i Delhi. Tekau mā tahi tau ōna wheako ki te whakahaere i ngā take marena, mai i te whakarere, te mana tiaki tamariki, te tutu ā-whare, te whakakorenga marena, tae atu ki ngā take taonga tuku iho me te maha atu.

Te Pikinga o ngā Take Wehe

Nō nā tata nei, kua kite pea koe i te pikinga ake o te maha o ngā keehi whakarere i roto i tō whānau, i ō hoa, me ērā atu porowhita pāpori. Nō reira, kei te piki haere tonu te maha o ngā whakarere, kei te kitea noa rānei tātou i aua purongo nā runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori?

Engari he aha? He aha te take e piki haere ai te tokomaha o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e whiriwhiri ana ki te whakarere? Kia kite tātou.

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Ngā take tino noa mō te whakarere

E ai ki tētahi rangahau a Forbes Advisor , ko ngā take matua e akiaki ana i te whakarere i te US ko te kore whakapono, te kore hototahi, te kore tautoko whānau, me te kore whanaungatanga piripono. Ko tētahi atu take mō te tono whakarere ko te nanakia tae atu ki te tukino tinana me te hinengaro. Ko tētahi atu take mō ngā take whakarere ko te whakarērea (te whakarērea).

Te kore whakapono: te take matua mō te whakarere

E ai ki te rangahau i runga ake nei, ko te tino take o te whakarere ko te puremu, ā, 34% o ngā marena i kitea i mutu. I te nuinga o te wā ka kitea te tinihanga e ngā hoa mā roto i ngā tapuwae matihiko pērā i ngā rekoata waea, Facebook, WhatsApp, SMS, me ētahi atu. I tētahi ara, i tētahi ara rānei, ka waiho e te tangata he tohu i te wā e tinihanga ana i runga ipurangi.

He pēhea te urupare a ngā kiritaki ki te kore whakapono?

I tana whakapuakitanga i ana wheako, ka mea mai a Osama ki a mātou, "Kei te āhua tonu. I roto i aku wheako, kua kite ahau i ngā kēhi tino rerekē. Hei tauira, i roto i tētahi kēhi i whakahaerea e au, i kitea e tētahi tāne he maha ngā hoa rangatira o tana wahine, ā, kei a ia ngā taunakitanga katoa (ngā rekoata reo, me ētahi atu) hei tautoko i tana kēhi. I tono whakarere ia, ā, he nui atu i te kotahi ngā kaiwhakautu: ko te hunga i whai wāhi ki tana wahine. Ko te whāinga a taku kiritaki mai i te tīmatanga he whakarite kia mōhio tana wahine kāore e taea e ia te teka, ā, ka kitea e rāua he huarahi hei wehe mārire. I rite ia ki te utu i ngā utu katoa e hiahiatia ana, me ētahi atu.

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He maha atu anō ngā wā i kitea ai e te tāne tana wahine e tinihanga ana, ko te whāinga matua he raupatu i tana wahine, kia mamae ai ia i te taha pāpori, te taha ōhanga me te taha kare ā-roto.

I tētahi atu kēhi o tētahi tokorua kua marenatia, ā, he harikoa te āhua o te noho, i hopukia e te wahine tana tāne e tinihanga ana . I ngana ia ki te hohou i te rongo mō ngā tamariki, engari i hiahia te tāne kia whakarere i a rāua anō nā te mea kāore i te ōrite te āhua. Kāore anō te wahine kia rite ki te whakarere i a ia, ā, kei te kōti tonu te kēhi.

Ko ngā mate i puta mai i ngā whakamātautau ture tētahi atu take i kaha ake ai ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te whakatau i ngā tautohe i runga i te rangimārie.

He aha ngā mea e aukati ana i te tangata ki te whakarere?

E ai ki a Osama, "He otinga pai te rongoā hinengaro me te tohutohu mō te marena hei āwhina i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kia houhia te rongo, engari kāore i te tino kitea. Tērā pea he take nui ētahi utu nui i ētahi wā. Tērā pea ko te whakama whānui mō te rapu rongoā hinengaro ka aukati i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te rapu āwhina ngaio. Heoi, ki taku whakaaro kua tīmata kē te huarahi ki tēnā."

Kei a Bonobology tētahi rōpū kaitohutohu mō te marena hei ārahi i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te whakaoti rapanga marena. Mena kei te pāngia koe e ēnei raruraru, ka taea e koe te whakarite i tētahi wā ki te ipurangi hei rapu āwhina ngaio.

Ko ētahi atu take ko ngā tamariki, te pēhanga pāpori, te pēhanga whānau, ā, i ētahi wā ko te whakawhirinaki ā-pūtea o ngā wāhine ki ngā tāne.

Ka tukinotia ngā tāne i roto i ngā keehi whakarere?

He maha ngā wā ka tukuna e ngā wāhine ngā kēhi taihara mō te taonga tuku iho, te whai wāhi atu ki waho o te marena, te tutu ā-whare , kia kore ai e whakarere te tāne tinihanga, kia kore ai hoki e pāngia e te mamae pāpori, te mamae pūtea, me ērā atu āhuatanga.

Thoughts Final

I ēnei rā, ko te hunga whai tirohanga tawhiti ka ārai i a rātou anō i ngā tautohe roa, e pai ake ana ki te whakatau i ngā tautohe i runga i te rangimārie, mā te whiriwhiri i te whakarere whakaae a ngā tokorua i runga i ngā tikanga kua whakaritea, kua whakaaetia hoki e rātou – me tā rātou māngai ture, kāore rānei.

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Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.

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