Ngā Raruraru Tino Noa e 8 i roto i te Marena e Pā Ana ki ngā Tāne me ngā Wahine

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Whakahōungia i te: 27 o Hune, 2024
Ngā raruraru noa o te marena
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"Ko te marena kaha e hiahia ana kia rua ngā tāngata e aroha ana tetahi ki tetahi ahakoa he uaua ki a rāua te aroha tetahi ki tetahi."

Kei te haere mai te wā marena. Kei runga i taku tēpu he puranga kāri pōwhiri. Ka takiuru ahau ki Facebook, ā, ka menemene mai ngā tāne me ngā wāhine harikoa ki ahau mai i ngā ataata o mua i te marena, he moemoeā. E whakaaro ana ahau: Kei te harikoa tonu rātou pēnei? Mā te titiro kotahi ki te oranga o ōku mātua, ka mārama ngā mea katoa. He pono tēnā; ko ia tāne me ia wāhine hou o nāianei he tāne me ia wāhine tawhito e tautohetohe ana o te heke mai.

Kāore e hiahiatia he tangata mohio ki te kite i te ataahua me te wairua pai o te hunga hou kua marenatia, kāore e mau tonu. I tētahi wā, ka memeha haere te aroha o te taitamarikitanga (engari kāore e memeha). Ka tae te whanaungatanga marena ki tōna taumata pakeketanga. Ā, i mua i te mōhio o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, ka huri te ao hei huringa mutunga kore o te oma ki te mahi, te tohe ki te taka kai, te hiahia ki te moe, me te whakawhiti nāpi mō ngā pēpi. Ka waiho te aroha ngawari me ngā rā aroha hei nohoanga o muri. Ā, koinā te wā ka uru puku mai ngā raruraru ki roto i te marena, takitahi.

He aha te take e memeha ai te marena?

Nā, he aha rā te take i oati ai te tokorua ki te mate tetahi mō tetahi i muri i te marena, ka oati ai ki te patu tetahi i tetahi (ehara i te mea tino tika, ko te tikanga) tetahi i tetahi? Anei ētahi take noa:

  1. Ka toro atu te hauhautanga: Kāore he tangata e mawhiti mai i te āhua noa o te ao. Ahakoa te tokorua tino aroha o te tekau tau. Me whakaae ngā tokorua kāore ngā marena tūturu i rite ki ngā pakiwaitara.
  2. Ka heke te kaha: Kia mutu te wā whakaipoipo, ka whakaitihia e ngā hoa rangatira ā rātou mahi ki te whakawai me te whakamanawareka tetahi i tetahi. Ka tīmata rātou ki te whakaaro noa he mea noa iho tetahi i tetahi.
  3. Kāore e taea te aro atu ki ngā āhua rerekē: Ahakoa he marena kua whakaritea, he marena aroha rānei, he mea anō kei te mōhiotia tetahi ki tetahi. Ka huri te tangata i roto i te wā. Ā, he uaua ki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te aro atu ki ngā huringa o tā rātou hoa rangatira.
  4. Ngā take whānau: He hononga te marena, ehara i te mea he hononga o ngā tāngata tokorua anake, engari he hononga anō hoki o ngā whānau e rua. I ētahi wā ka uaua te whakatutuki i ngā hiahia, ngā tumanakohanga me ngā tono a ngā whānau e rua. Ka whakapae ngā hoa rangatira tetahi i tetahi mō te kore e aroha, e whakaute hoki i tō rātou whānau.
  5. Te ahotea mahi: Ko te ōhanga pumau te poutokomanawa o te marena pumau. Ina mahi tahi ngā hoa tokorua, he iti noa te wā e toe ana ki te noho tahi. Ka arahi tēnei ki te pouri me te ngākau pōuri.
  6. Ngā kaupapa matua me ngā kawenga: Kia moe tāne, tāne, tāne, wahine rānei, kāore te ao e pā ana ki a rāua anō. Me tiaki rāua i ngā whānau o tētahi, o tētahi, me atawhai i ā rāua tamariki, me mahi hoki mō tētahi heke mai pai ake. I waenganui i ēnei mea katoa, he mea utu nui te mawhiti atu ki te ao aroha, kāore e taea e te nuinga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te utu.

Te pānui e pā ana: Ngā Kōrerorero Me Kōrero Koe I Mua I Te Marena

Nā, kua kite tātou i te take e pāngia ai ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i muri i te marena, me titiro tātou ki ngā raruraru e waru e pāngia ana e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kua marenatia.

8 Ngā Raruraru Marena Tino Noa

Pērā i ngā whanaungatanga katoa, ka puta mai ngā wero i roto i te marena mō te tokorua. I muri i te mutunga o te wā honi, ka hoki te tokorua ki te mea e kiia nei ko te 'oranga noa', ā, koinei tonu te wāhi e hiahiatia ana kia whakamātauria ai ngā tumanakohanga i a rātou e anga atu ana ki ngā wero me ngā raruraru tūturu o te marena.

He mea nui te whakapau kaha kia pai ai te noho o te marena, kia roa ai hoki, ā, mā te mōhio ki ngā take noa ka puta ake pea ka taea e koe te ārai i te raruraru i te wā tonu. Nō reira, me te kore e whakaroa, anei te rārangi o ngā raruraru me ngā otinga o te marena hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakapūmau i te tawhiti me te pupuri i tō whanaungatanga kia kore e pakaru:

1. Ngā mahi moepuku i waho o te marena

Ko ngā mahi moepuku i waho o te marena tētahi o ngā raruraru marena e tino kitea ana. Ko te mea e whakawehi ana ki te whakakorikori i te turanga o te marena ko te urunga mai o tētahi 'tangata tuatoru' ki te rohe piripono. Ko te te pānga o te moepuku ki te hoa He mea nui rawa atu, ā, ka puta he raruraru nui i roto i ngā marena. Ka taea e ia te ngaro o te whakawhirinaki, ā, ka tohu i te tīmatanga o ngā raruraru o te marena.

Ko te hoha tetahi o ngā tino take o te puremu, ā, koia hoki te take o ngā raruraru o te marena. He mea noa te hoha tetahi ki tetahi ina kore he mea hou, he mea miharo rānei i roto i te marena. I te tīmatanga o te ahua mangere rawa o te marena, he maha ngā wā ka rapu ngā hoa rangatira ki te whakapai ake i tō rātou oranga me tētahi atu tāne/wahine.

ngā uauatanga o te marena
Ko ngā mahi moepuku i waho o te marena tetahi o ngā tino take o te whakarere

2. Te kore korero

Kei te pūtake o tētahi whanaungatanga te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero whai hua. Nā te pukumahi o ngā mahi, ngā mahi o te whare, me te tiaki tamariki, he iti noa te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero i waenga i ngā hoa rangatira. Ko tētahi o ngā raruraru noa o te marena ko te kore kōrero "tūturu", te kore whakarongo rānei. Kāore he kōrero hohonu, kāore he whakapuakitanga o ngā harikoa me ngā pouri iti. He tino kuware tēnei mā ngā hoa rangatira, nā te mea e mōhio ana te katoa kāore he raruraru e kore e taea e te kapu tī kaha me te kōrero pai te whakaoti.

Te pānui e pā ana: He Pūrongo Pono mō te Whakaponokore i roto i te Marenatanga

3. Te korenga e maioha ki tā te hoa rangatira

Ina e rima ki te tekau tau te roa o tō whanaungatanga, he ahua papaku rawa ngā kupu hei whakapuaki i tō aroha. Ko tētahi tēnei o ngā raruraru noa o te marena. Ka wareware ngā tāne me ngā wāhine he mana nui tonu te iti o ngā kupu whakamihi hei kawe mai i te huringa me te ārai i ngā raruraru o te marena. Engari he hononga tata ngā raruraru me ngā otinga o te marena.

Ngā Kōrero mō te Marena

Kia mahara ki te whai wā poto, ka whakaaroaro, ki te nui o te kaha e pau ana ki te kī atu ki tō wahine – “Ngā mihi ki a koe mō te noho mai ki te taha o ahau mō te pō roa. E mihi ana ahau ki a koe.” Ā, ina mau ia i te hāte i hoatu e koe ki a ia, me kī atu, “Ka ātaahua tonu koe i roto i tēnei hāte.” Mā ētahi kupu torutoru, ka taea e koe te whakaharikoa i te rā o tō hoa rangatira, me te ārai i ngā raruraru o te marena.

4. Ngā rūma moe mate

Ahakoa kāore he tangata e kōrero ana, e whakarite ana rānei i a koe mō te moe tāne me te wahine kua mārenatia, kia mōhio koe ko te kī ki tētahi whanaungatanga hauora o te marena kei raro i ngā paraikete. Ko te hekenga o te hiahia taikaha, te wehenga rānei o ngā kare ā-roto ka arahi ki tētahi oranga moepuku kore e pai, ka puta ai ngā uauatanga o te marena. Ka rapu ngā hoa i te hiahia taikaha mai i tētahi atu tangata, ka arahi ki te puremu, te tinihanga, me ngā mahi moepuku i waho o te marena.

5. Ngā wawata kua wehea

Pātai atu ki tētahi tokorua kua marenatia he aha rāua i aroha ai tetahi ki tetahi, ā, ka whiwhi koe i te whakautu – “Āe, he tino ōrite tāua!” I te nuinga o te wā, i mua i te marena, he rite tonu ngā whāinga, ngā moemoeā, me ngā wawata o te tokorua. I ētahi wā, ka pakaru tēnei kotahitanga o te wawata i te mea ka puranga ngā kawenga me ngā wero. Ka rerekē ngā ara o te tāne me te wahine, ka rerekē ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e rātou i te ao. He uaua te aro atu ki tēnei huringa o ngā wawata, ā, koinei pea te take matua e tawhiti ai ngā tokorua, ka ara ake ai ngā uauatanga o te marena.

6. Te moni me ngā pūtea

Ahakoa kāore pea ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e whakaae whānuitia ana, ka puta tonu te moni hei raruraru, ā, koinei tētahi o ngā uauatanga nui rawa atu, tino uaua hoki ki te whakahaere i te marena. E kī ana te tāne me te wahine kei te whakahaere i ā rāua pūtea i runga i ō rāua ake hiahia. I te nuinga o te wā, he nama hei whakahoki, he haumi hei mahi, he hiahia taonga hei whakamātau. Ā, he maha ngā wā ka tautohe ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ko wai hei whakahaere i te toenga putea.

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7. Te tākaro hei māmā, hei pāpā

I muri i te whānautanga o te tamaiti tuatahi, ka huri te marena hei huarahi hou. Ka huri te tāne me te wahine hei matua, hei whaea. He taumata hou tēnei o te kawenga. Nā ngā mahi tuku iho a te ira tangata, ko te whaea anake te kaiwhanau o te tamaiti, ko te pāpā ia hei whakatau i ngā mea nui mō te tamaiti. Engari i ēnei rā, e tono ana ngā whaea kia ōrite te whakatipu me te whakatau tamariki. He maha ngā wā ka ara ake te taupatupatu tonu i roto i ngā marena.

8. Nga mahi a te whare

Kāore e taea e te katoa te utu i te āwhina whare. Nō reira, ko te nuinga o ngā tautohetohe a ngā tokorua, ka huri ki te pātai – Ko wai hei pononga whare? Whai muri i tētahi rā mahi hoha, ka mangere ngā hoa rangatira ki te tunu kai me te horoi i te whare. Ka kino haere ngā āhuatanga ina tumanakohia te wahine ki te tunu kai, ā, ka kore te tāne e pai ki te āwhina.

Āe, kāore he marena e tino tika ana. Ko te kupu 'harikoa tonu ake ake' ka puta koia te pono ina waiho e ngā hoa rangatira ō rāua rerekētanga ki te taha, ā, ka mahi tahi rāua kia tutuki ai taua hari. Ka puta mai, ka haere atu ngā raruraru. Ko te mea nui ko te huarahi e whakatata atu ai koe ki ēnei raruraru marena me te whakakore atu mā te mahi tahi pakari. Kia mahara tonu, i te mutunga, ko te tangata te mea nui. Ehara i te raruraru.

FAQs

1. He aha ngā take e puta ai ngā raruraru i roto i te marena?

Ko te take nui rawa atu e puta ai ngā raruraru i roto i te marena ko te kore whakawhitiwhiti kōrero. I roto i ngā whanaungatanga katoa, ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero te mea nui. Kia mahara, kāore e taea e ngā hoa te pānui i tō hinengaro, nō reira me kī atu koe ki a rātou he aha tāu e hiahia ana, e hiahia ana, e hapa ana rānei, kaua e tatari kia mōhio rātou. Ko tētahi atu take nui mō ngā raruraru o te marena – inā koa ka noho ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i roto i ngā āhuatanga whānau tahi – ko ngā take me ngā hungawai. Haunga tēnei, e rua o ngā raruraru nui e pā ana ki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine taitamariki i ēnei rā ko ngā pātai mō te tohatoha i ngā kawenga o te whare me te takoha pūtea.

2. He aha ngā tohu o te korenga o te marena?

Ahakoa he rerekē i ia kēhi, ko ngā tohu o te marena hinga, o te marena rānei kei roto i te raruraru nui ko ngā tautohetohe tonu, te kore mahi i roto i te rūma moe, ngā tautohetohe kotahi e tata tonu ana te hoki mai, te kore e hiahia ki te kōrero tetahi ki tetahi me te whakapuaki i ō kare ā-roto, te kukume ki ētahi atu tāngata tae noa ki te taumata e whakaaro ana koe he moe tāne, me ētahi atu.

3. He aha te tino take o te whakarere?

E ai ki ngā rangahau ko ngā tino take e toru mō te whakarere ko te kore whakapau kaha, te moepuku, me te pakanga tonu, ko te kore whakapau kaha te tino take matua.

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