Kāore he mea e rite ana ki te hinga ki te aroha – tētahi o ngā kare ā-roto tino pai o te ao. Ka rongo koe i te haruru i roto i ō uaua, te toto e rere ana ki ō paparinga, ā, kī tonu tō puku i ngā pūrerehua. Kua kitea e koe tētahi hei mea kia tino oti ai koe, kia harikoa ai hoki. Ka huri te ao katoa ki te māwhero engari āe, kotahi te mea kei mua i tērā.
I mua i te taunga o tēnei kare ā-roto, ka tūtaki koe ki tētahi raruraru tūturu, ka mōhio koe kāore koe i te mōhio mēnā kei te aroha ia ki a koe, kāore rānei. He rerekē te aroha ki a ia, āe, engari e tino mōhio ana koe kei te aroha anō ia ki a koe? Ka tīmata te koretake ki te patu i a koe, ā, kei te rapu puku koe i ngā tohu e aroha ana tētahi tāne ki a koe.
"Ina ngaro koe i tētahi, ka pōturi te haere o te wā, ā, ina aroha ahau, ka tere te haere o te wā" - Taylor Swift
Ka whiwhi koe i ēnei tohutohu katoa mai i tētahi tāne, ā, ka huri whakarere te whanaungatanga i waenganui i a kōrua. I te tuatahi, ka rongo koe he rerekē tana whanonga, engari ka kī mai tō ngākau he mea anō kei roto. Kātahi anō ka rite ia ki a Mr. Manaaki, ā, ka aro nui, ka whakaaro koe, "He atawhai noa iho rānei ia, he aroha rānei ki ahau?" Ināianei, e mōhio ana tātou mā te aroha ka pai ake te tangata, engari me mōhio koe mēnā ko koe tana e aroha ana.
Ka whakaaro koe, "Kei te aroha ia ki ahau? Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai kei te aroha te tāne?" Āe, kaua e titiro atu. Kei konei mātou ki te wetewete i ngā tohu e aroha ana te tāne ki te wahine mā te whai i ngā māramatanga mai i te kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro a Ridhi Golechha (Tohu Paerua i roto i te Hinengaro), he tohunga hinengaro kai, ā, he tohunga ki te tohutohu mō ngā marena kore aroha, ngā wehenga me ētahi atu take whanaungatanga.
Me pēhea te mōhio kei roto te tāne i te aroha?
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He tino waimarie ngā wāhine i tēnei wāhanga, ā, he kaha te pūmanawa ā-roto, te āheinga tuaono rānei. Ka mōhio noa koe kei te aroha te tāne ki a koe. Ina tino aroha te tāne ki a koe, kāore e taea te kore e whakaatu mā roto i ana nekehanga me ana reo tinana. I ētahi wā, ka kōrerotia noatia e ia, ka pāorooro tō ngākau. Ā, kua maha ngā wā kua mōhio koe ki te whanonga o te tāne ina arohaina ia.
Engari i ētahi wā, ehara i te mea ngāwari pērā. Ina koa i te ao o te whakaipoipo ipurangi, ngā whanaungatanga tūao me te whanaungatanga maha, he uaua ki te wehewehe i waenga i te whakaipoipo me te whanaungatanga me te aroha me te aroha nui. He mea nui kia tirohia ngā tohu e aroha ana te tāne ki a koe kia mōhio ai koe mēnā kei te aroha anō koe ki a ia.
I a ia e kōrero ana mō te pātai miriona tāra – me pēhea te mōhio kei te aroha ia ki a koe – e kī ana a Ridhi , "Ko te aroha mutunga kore tētahi o ngā tohu nui rawa atu kei te aroha te tāne ki tētahi wahine. Ko te tikanga tēnei e whakaae ana ia ki a koe mō wai koe, ā, kua rite ia ki te awhi i ngā wāhanga katoa o koe – ahakoa tō mua, ngā wā pouri, ngā wā riri rānei, te mamae, ngā ngoikoretanga, ngā ngoikoretanga, ā, ka hoatu he wāhi ki a koe kia noho ko koe ake. Ina aroha te tāne ki a koe, ka noho te hononga kei a koe ki a ia hei mea ataahua, hei mea e tika ana kia manaakitia."
Mā te māramatanga me tō wairua tuaono e āwhina, tera pea ka māmā ake te wetewete i ngā tohu e aroha ana ia ki a koe. Hei whakangāwari ake i tēnei mea ngaro māu, ka tukuna atu hoki e mātou he whakamārama mō ngā tohu e aroha ana te tāne ki te wahine. Whakamahia noa tēnei rārangi arowhai, ā, kua rite koe.
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Tērā pea he mea ngāwari noa iho, pērā i tana "huringa hē" i te huarahi e mōhiotia ana e ia, kia roa ake ai tōna wā ki a koe. Me titiro pūmau mai rānei ki a koe i a kōrua e kōrero ana i runga kawhe. Me tirotiro rānei mēnā kua tae pai kōrua ki te kāinga i muri i te pō whakangahau me āna hoa wahine. Tērā ētahi mahi a te tāne ina aroha ia ki a koe, ā, kāore e taea e ia te ngako i a koe.
Ahakoa te iti, koinei ngā tohu e aroha ana te tāne ki a koe. He maha ngā mahi ātaahua, whakaaro nui ka taea te whakamārama hei tohu e aroha ana te tāne. Ko te āhua o te titiro a te tāne ki te wahine e arohaina ana e ia, me te āhua rānei o tana tuku karere ki a ia, ka taea katoa te whakaatu i tōna kare ā-roto pono ki a koe. Nō reira, ki te mea he tāne motuhake tōu i roto i tō ao, ā, kāore koe i te tino mōhio mēnā he rite tonu ōna kare ā-roto ki a koe me tō kare ā-roto ki a ia, pānuihia tonu kia mōhio ai koe ki ngā tohu e aroha nui ana te tāne ki a koe:
1. He rerekē tana titiro ki a koe
Kei te noho tahi kōrua i tētahi pāti, ā, ka kite ohorere kōrua i a ia e titiro matatau mai ana ki a koe. Ehara i te āhua noa tana titiro mai ki a koe. He rerekē tēnei titiro. He titiro ngawari, he kanohi moemoeā, kāore anō kia kitea i mua. Ina kite koe i a ia e titiro matatau mai ana ki a koe, ka tahuri ke atu ia, ka tohu i a koe he rerekē.
Nā, kua mōhio mātou kei te pōhēhē koe, ā, tera pea koe e whakaaro ana he titiro noa iho ia ki a koe, ā, kāore he tikanga. Engari, e mōhio ana koe he pai ake tēnā. I titiro mai ia ki a koe nā te mea kei te aroha ia ki a koe, ā, kāore anō ia kia mōhio me pēhea te whakapuaki i tēnā.
Tērā pea kei te takaro noa ia i te mea kāore pea ia e mōhio ki ō kare ā-roto ki a ia. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e aroha ana te tāne ki a koe engari e mataku ana ki te whakaatu. Ka taea e koe te neke whakamua mā te pupuri i ōna kanohi. Me tuku he kirikiti ki raro i tōna tuaiwi, kia mōhio ai ia he rite tonu ngā kare ā-roto.
2. Ka noho tahi ia me koe i tōna wā waatea
Mena he wā wātea tōna i muri i te mahi, ka whiriwhiria e ia te whakapau i taua wā ki a koe. E pai ana ki a ia tō kōrua noho tahi, ā, e whakamarie ana ia ina roa ake tana noho tahi me koe. Ahakoa he maha ngā hāora e noho tahi ana ia me koe, te āhua nei kāore i te rawaka nā te mea he nui tonu ngā mea e hiahia ana ia ki te mōhio mōu.
He mea nui koe ki a ia, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki te whakaatu i tēnā mā te whakapau i te wā ki a koe. E whakaatu ana ia i tōna aroha ki a koe mā ēnei mea iti nei. Nō reira, ki te waea tonu mai ia ki a koe me te pātai mai mēnā kei te wātea koe, kia mōhio koe kei te tunua pea he mea anō i reira.
E whakamārama ana a Ridhi he aha tana hiahia ki te noho tahi me koe tētahi o ngā tohu huna e aroha ana te tāne ki a koe. "He maha ngā tāne hihiri me te whai mahi e kore e whai wā, nā te mea he kī tonu ā rātou pereti. Nō reira, ki te whakapau kaha te tāne ki te wehe i te wā mai i tana kaupapa pukumahi kia noho tahi me koe, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu nui kei a ia he aroha ki a koe."
"Heoi, he mea nui kia maumahara i konei, ko tana whakaaro mō te whakapau i te wā kounga ki a koe, kāore pea i te rite ki tāu. Kāore rānei ia e hiahia ki te whakapau i tōna wā waatea katoa ki a ia, engari e hiahia ana hoki ki te whai wā mōku ki te whai i ngā mea e pai ana ki a ia. Nō reira, tukua atu taua wāhi whaiaro ki a ia, kaua hoki e whakaaro he kore aro ki a koe tana hiahia ki te whai i ana mahi whakangahau, āna wawata, āna hiahia," tana kī.
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3. He maha ake ana waea atu ki a koe
Ko tētahi o ngā tohu o te tangata e aroha ana ko tana waea atu ki a koe i ngā wā maha atu i mua. Nā te mea e hiahia ana ia ki te whakarongo ki tō reo engari kāore e whakapuaki wawe. He mārama kei te ngaro pinepine ia i a koe, ā, tera pea tētahi o ngā tohu huna kei te aroha te tangata. Tērā pea kei te aroha nui ia ki a koe, ā, kāore anō ia kia mōhio.
Ahakoa te roa o ngā waeatanga, te āhua nei ka roa ake. Mēnā he hawhe haora noa iho tāu e kōrero ai, kua roa ake tēnei ki te neke atu i te kotahi haora. E kī ana te nuinga o ngā wāhine, ina aroha ana te tāne ki a rātou, i te nuinga o te wā, ka roa ake tā rātou waea atu, ā, kāore e hiahia ki te whakatārewa i te waea.
Tohutohu ngaio: Ki te mea kei te rapu koe i ngā tohu e āta aroha ana ia ki a koe mā te karere kuputuhi, tirohia mēnā ka huna e ia ētahi take hei waea atu ki a koe. "He mīhini kawhe hou tāku e tino pai ana ki a koe. Taria, me whakaatu atu e au mā te waea ataata." Me "Kei te tunu kai ahau, ā, kua uaua te pato. He aha e kore ai ahau e waea atu ki a koe?" He rerekē pea ngā take engari he rite tonu te take – e pai ana ia ki te kōrero ki a koe nā te mea he aroha tōna ki a koe.
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4. Ka wātea ia ki a koe
Ki te mea he rā kino tōu, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki tētahi hei tautoko i a koe, ka noho ia me āu kai tino pai. Koinei te huarahi e whakahari ai te tāne i tana hoa wahine . Ahakoa he aha te āhua o tōna ao, ki te hiahia koe ki a ia, ka waiho e ia ngā mea katoa ki te taha, ka whakarite wā mōu. "Me pēhea te mōhio kei te aroha ia ki a koe? Ka wātea ia ki a koe, ahakoa he aituā i te mahi, he mea nui rānei kei roto i tō oranga whaiaro. Ka noho ia hei hoa whakarongo mōu ahakoa he tohutohu tāna. Tērā pea ka whakapau kaha ia ki te whakaoti i ō raruraru."
"Heoi, ehara te whakaoti rapanga i te kaupapa matua i konei. Ko te mea nui kia noho ia ki tō taha i ngā wā e hiahiatia ana e koe. Inaa, ka taea e koe te whakamama i te pēhanga i a ia mā te kōrero atu ki a ia e mihi ana koe ki a ia mō tōna noho hei tautoko i a koe, ā, kāore ia e hiahia ki te whakaoti rapanga māu. He mea nui tēnei nā te mea he kaiwhakaoti rapanga te tāne i roto i tōna āhua," te kī a Ridhi.
E mōhio ana koe kāore he mea e kiia ana he pukumahi rawa. Ka whakawātea tonu mātou i te wā mō te hunga e arohaina ana e mātou. Nō reira, ko tētahi o ngā tohu e āta aroha ana ia ki a koe, ko te kite koe ka huri ia i tana kaupapa mahi māu engari kāore e whakamōhio atu ki a koe. I te tīmatanga o te whakaipoipo a Natalie ki a Hunter, kotahi noa te wā i te wiki ka haere tahi rāua. Engari i te tīmatanga o te taumaha o ngā mea, ā, ka nui haere te whai wāhi a Hunter, ka tīmata ia ki te tiki i a Natalie i tana akomanga yoga, ki te kawe rānei i a ia i ana hikoi ata. I hiahia noa ia kia nui ake ngā take hei noho tahi me ia i te awatea.
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5. He mea nui tō whakaaro ki a ia
Kua puta kē koe i tētahi wā kua kōrero koe mō tana momo kākahu, kua kī atu rānei koe ki a ia he pai ake ia ina heu ma? Nā te mea, ki te aroha ia ki a koe, tera pea ka pau katoa tōna wā ki te manukanuka ki ō kōrero. Inaa, i roto i ētahi rā, ka kite koe i ngā huringa ngawari o tana momo kākahu, inā koa i ngā wāhi i kī atu koe kia whakapai ake ia.
Ahakoa he pai ki a ia tōna pahau, ka pai ia ki te patu i a ia mōu nā te mea e pai ana koe ki a ia he heu ma. Nō reira, ki te tae mai ia ki tō kōrua rā e whai ake nei me te mau i tō tae kikorangi tino pai, me te whakakoi i ōna makawe ki muri kia rite ki tāu i kī ai i pai ai koe, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e aroha ana tētahi tāne ki a koe. He mea nui ki a ia tō whakaaro, ā, e harikoa ana ia ki te whakarerekē i a ia anō kia miharo ai koe.
"Ko tētahi o ngā tohu tino mārama kei te āta aroha ia ki a koe, ko te mea he mea nui ki a ia tō whakaaro ahakoa e kī ana ia, kāore rānei. Ki te kī atu koe ki a ia e pai ana koe ki tētahi hāte motuhake mōna, e ātaahua ana rānei ia i tētahi tae motuhake, tera pea ka kite koe i a ia e mau ana i te nuinga o aua tae."
"I tētahi atu taha, ka pāngia hoki ia e ō whakaaro kino. Hei tauira, ki te mea kua taumaha ia, ā, ka whakama ia e tō tinana mō tēnā, ka taea e ia te whakaiti i tōna whakapono ki a ia anō. Nō reira, ina kite koe i ngā tohu e aroha nui ana te tāne ki a koe, kia tūpato ki tāu e kōrero ana ki a ia, nā te mea ka aro nui ia ki ō whakaaro," te kī a Ridhi.
6. Ka maumahara ia ki ngā mea iti mōu
Ko te tangata e aroha ana ki a koe ka aro nui ki tāu mahi me tāu kōrero. Ahakoa kāore koe e mahara ki tāu i kōrero ai, ka mahara tonu ia. Kua kōrero kē koe i ō putiputi tino pai, i ō rihi tino pai rānei, ā, kua kite koe i a ia e tiki ana i aua putiputi māu? Nā te mea ka mahara ia ki ngā mea katoa mōu, ā, ka whakamahia e ia hei whakahari i a koe. Pērā i te tangata aroha korekore , e mōhio ana ia ki ngā kōrero katoa mōu.
Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea e aroha ana te tāne ki a koe. E kōrero ana a Stacey ki a tātou mō tana kōrero ki tana hoa tāne inaianei e pai ana ia ki tētahi roopu puoro toka, ā, i roto i te wiki, ka tukuna atu e ia tētahi t-hate kua hainatia ki tōna tatau! He koha whakaaro nui tēnei hei whakawai i tētahi kōtiro. Ko te mea pai rawa atu, kāore ia i mahara ki te kōrero atu i tēnā ki a ia.
Kei te mahara koe ki te poroporo i hoatu e Ross ki a Rachel i tōna rā whānau i roto i te pukapuka Friends ? Nā te mea i mahara ia ki ngā mea i pai ki a ia. Ko te aro ki ngā taipitopito tētahi o ngā tohu tino pono kei a ia te aroha ki a koe, nā te mea ko te tikanga, kāore ngā tāne i te tino pai ki te maumahara ki ngā mea iti pēnei i tō reka aihikirīmi tino pai, i te ingoa rānei o tō hoa tamarikitanga pakiwaitara.
7. He pai ki a ia te mahi tahi me koe i ngā mahi o ia rā
Kāore he tangata e pai ki ngā mahi o ia rā, pērā i te hoko kai, te horoi kakahu rānei. He maha ngā tāngata e wiri ana ahakoa te whakaaro ki ēnei mea. Arā, he pai ake ki te tangata te tākaro kēmu i runga i tana Xbox, te inu pia rānei me ōna hoa. Heoi, ka noho koinā te mea tuarua ina kitea koe i roto i te pikitia.
Ki te mea ko koe tēnā, e kore rawa ia e whakaroa ki te mahi i ngā mahi noa. Ko ngā tāne e aroha ana ki a koe e kore rawa e whakakahore ki te mahi i ngā mahi o ia rā me koe nā te mea ko te tikanga ka nui ake te wā e noho tahi ana koe. Ka haere tahi ia me koe i ō haerenga ki te toa hoko kai, ka noho tahi rānei me koe ki te takai i ngā kākahu nā te mea ka hoatu he wā ki a ia ki te hono atu ki a koe i runga i te taumata hohonu.
Mena kei te harikoa ia ki te puta atu i tōna rohe whakamarie ki te mahi i ngā mea nui ki a koe, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea kei te āta aroha ia ki a koe. Ka tūtohu mātou kia whakamahia e koe mā te ngana ki te hanga hononga kaha ki a ia. Akene, whakaarohia ētahi pātai kia mōhio ai koe ki ahau hei huri i ēnei mahi noa hei mahi whakahoahoa ngahau.
8. Ka meinga koe e ia kia motuhake
E mōhio ana te tangata e aroha ana ki a koe me pēhea te mea kia motuhake koe, ā, ka whai huarahi ia ki te whakaatu i tōna aroha . Ahakoa te kino o tō rā, ka kitea tonu e ia he huarahi hei whakahari i tō kanohi. Mā te tiki i tāu kawhe tino pai ki a koe i te mahi, te tuku waiata ātaahua ki a koe i waenganui o te rā, te kimi rānei i te momo tī matomato kua pau i tō toa hoko kai, ka tino whakapau kaha ia ki te mahi māu.
E mea ana a Ridhi, "Ka manaaki ia i a koe i tana ake ara. Tērā pea ka whakapau kaha ia ki te mea kia motuhake koe, kia whiwhi koha rānei māu, kia noho rānei i roto i ngā kiriata e pai ana ki a koe. Kāore he tāne e rite ana, nō reira, he rerekē anō hoki ā rāua huarahi whakaatu aroha me te manaaki. Me tūpato koe ki ngā nekehanga me ngā mahi e mea ana kia motuhake koe nā te mea koinei ngā tohu e āta aroha ana ia ki a koe."
I kawea mai e Hunter he nati heihei me he parai ki tana hoa wahine, a Natalie, i tana wāhi mahi, nā te mea i tukuna atu e ia he karere ki a ia kua haurangi ia i tana kai, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki ētahi kai tūturu. I tere tonu te hopu a Hunter i taua tohu, ā, i a ia e haere ana, ka hopu i ētahi kai hei kai māna, ka tukuna atu ki tana tari. I tino harikoa a Natalie, ehara i te mea mō te kai anake, engari mō te mea i reira anō hoki ia i mōhio ai he kotiro waimarie ia.
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9. Ka noho ia i roto i ō kiriata wahine
Ki te mōhio tātou ki ngā tāne, e mōhio ana tātou ehara i te mea ko ngā kiriata wahine te momo kiriata tino pai ki a rātou mō te pō kiriata. Mēnā ka tukuna he kōwhiringa, he pai ake ki a rātou te mātaki i tētahi atu mea. Ko tētahi atu mea ehara i te kiriata wahine, he pono. Engari ki te aroha te tāne ki a koe, ka noho tonu ia hei tautoko i a koe ahakoa kei te hiahia koe ki te whakaatu i a Mean Girls mō te mano o ngā wā.
E ai ki a Ridhi, ko ngā tohu o te aroha nui o te tāne ki a koe ka kitea i roto i ngā mahi iti e mahia ana e ia hei mea kia motuhake ai koe. Ko te tuku i a koe ki te whiriwhiri i tētahi kiriata wahine, me te kore e amuamu mōna, he huarahi noa iho tēnei e whakaatu ai ia i te nui o tō hiranga ki a ia. Ahakoa te nui o tōna kino ki a ia, ka noho tonu ia ki te kawe mai i te pōporo māu ahakoa kāore ia e aro ki te kiriata.
He aha, e pātai ana koe? Ahakoa kāore ia e aro ki te kiriata, e aro ana ia ki te whakapau i te wā ki a koe. Engari ko te pupuri i te mauahara, ka whakamarie ia i a koe i roto i ngā wāhanga whakaari, ā, ka hoatu hoki e ia tana tauera hei muru i ō roimata. He rite ki te aroha ki a tātou!
10. Māna koe e whakaatu ki ōna hoa me tōna whānau
He mea nui koe ki a ia, ā, e hiahia ana ia kia tino mōhio koe ki a ia. Ā, me pēhea te pai ake o te mōhio ki tētahi tangata i te whakauru atu ki tōna porowhita o roto. Kaua e mataku. Kāore ia e whakaaro ana ki te whakateretere i ngā mea, ki te peke atu rānei i te pū, ki te whakaatu rānei i ngā tohu kua rite ia ki te noho mārire.
Ko tāna e hiahia ana ko te whakapuaki i tō hiranga ki a ia, me tana kore e mataku ki te whakaatu i a koe ki te hunga e tino nui ana ki a ia, ki tōna whānau me ōna hoa. Inaa, te āhua nei kāore ia e mataku ki te whakaae ki tō kōrua whanaungatanga i te aroaro o te marea, ā, e harikoa ana ia ki te whakauru i a koe ki roto i tōna ao, kua whakamanahia.
Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu hinengaro e aroha ana te tāne. Ka whakakitea noa e te tāne te hunga e tata ana ki a ia ki a koe ina tino whakawhirinaki ia ki a koe, ā, e whakaaro ana ia he wāhanga nui koe i roto i te panga o tōna ao. Nō reira, ki te tono ia i a koe kia noho hei hoa pai māna i te marena o tētahi hoa, ki te karanga rānei i a koe ki te rā whānau o tana irāmutu, kei te whakaatu ia i ngā tohu he aroha tōna ki a koe.
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11. E whakarongo ana ia ki ō kōrero
Kei te rapu koe i ngā tohu huna kei te aroha te tāne? Āe, whakaarohia te āhua o tana urupare ki ngā mea e kōrerotia ana e koe ki a ia. Ka huri ia i ōna kanohi ka neke atu ki te kaupapa e whai ake nei, ka noho tonu rānei ia mō te katoa? Ina aroha ia ki a koe, ka whakarongo ia ki ō kōrero mutunga kore, ā, kāore e hoha.
Ki a ia, ko ia kōrero e kōrerotia ana e koe ka whakatata atu ia ki te mōhio atu ki a koe. Ka taea e koe te kōrero ki a ia mō ngā hāora, ā, ka hiahia tonu ia ki te whakarongo atu. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea o te aroha o te tāne ki a koe, ā, ki te tino whakarongo ia, he tohu anō hoki kei a ia te kaitiaki.
Ka tukuna tonutia e te hoa tāne o Natalie, a Hunter, ia e kōrero ana i ōna ngākau i muri i tana rā mahi. He kotiro harikoa a Natalie, ā, ka mōhio ia ki ngā mea i muri i tana kōrerotanga. Ka tunu marie a Hunter i te tina mā rāua ko Natalie, ko Natalie ia e noho ana i runga i te kaute, e kōrero ana mō tōna rā.
Waihoki, ko tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea kei te āta aroha ia ki a koe mā te karere kuputuhi ko te wā e kōrero ana koe i tētahi mea ki a ia, ka pātai atu ia i ngā pātai whai muri mai. Mā āna whakautu ka mārama te hiahia pono o ia ki tāu e kōrero nei, ehara i te mea he takaro noa iho.
12. Māna koe e tiaki
Ka waea atu koe mō te mate, ka moe i runga i te tūru. Mārama ko wai ka tae mai me te hupa heihei hei whāngai i a koe? Ka tīmata te tangata e aroha ana ki a koe ki te manaaki i a koe nā te mea e āwangawanga ana ia mōu. Ahakoa te iti o te rewharewha, ka hiahia ia ki te kawe i a koe ki te tākuta kia tirohia koe. Ehara tēnei i te poma aroha , he āwangawanga pono noa iho tēnei.
Ka waea tonu atu ia ki a koe ki te tirotiro i a koe, ki te kōrero rānei i ngā katakata wairangi hei whakaora i a koe. Ka nui atu tōna manukanuka ki tō mate i a koe, ā, ka whakapau kaha ia ki te whakaora i a koe kia ora, kia harikoa anō hoki. Mēnā rānei kei te raru tō rā nā te mea i whawhai koe ki tō māmā, nā te mea rānei i whara koe i tō hoa pai, ka taea e koe te whakawhirinaki kei reira tēnei tangata hei tautoko i a koe.
Ina ko tō harikoa me tō oranga te mea nui ki a ia, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e aroha nui ana te tāne ki a koe. E kore ia e waiho i tētahi mea kia kore e hurihia hei whakarite kei te pai koe. Ā, kia tae rā anō koe ki reira, kei reira tonu ia, e tuku ana i tētahi taringa manawanui me tētahi pakihiwi hei tangi atu māu.
13. Ka meinga ia e koe kia menemene
Ki te mea kei te aroha ia ki a koe, mā ngā mea iti e mahia e koe ka menemene ia. E aroha ana ia ki tō āhua oraora, harikoa, ā, kāore e taea e ia te ārai i te menemene ki a koe. Ka whero tōna mata i ētahi wā i ō āhua, ā, kāore e taea e ia te whakahaere ahakoa e hiahia ana ia. Kei te aroha ia ki a koe, ā, kua roa rawa ki te huri i tōna āhua inaianei.
Kāore e taea e ngā tāne e aroha ana te kite i ō rātou kare ā-roto i ētahi wā. Nā te mea kei roto i a rātou te wehi kei whakakahoretia, ā, e whakaaro ana rātou mā te whaki i ō rātou kare ā-roto ka pono ai. I ētahi wā, he tangata mārire ia e aroha ana , ā, he māia rawa ki te whakapuaki i tōna aroha, me te tumanako ka kite koe i ngā tohu e aroha ana ia ki a koe.
Nā wai i kī he uaua ngā kōtiro? Ki te rite te āhua o tō tāne ki ngā mea o runga ake nei, he tohu tēnā kei te aroha te tāne ki a koe. Koinei te wā me mōhio koe ki te aha me mahi mēnā he rite ō whakaaro. Kaua e tatari roa kia taka te pōro. Nā te mea, ka taea e koe te mahi i te nekehanga tuatahi!
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