Kāore he mea e rite ana ki te hinga ki te aroha – tētahi o ngā kare ā-roto tino pai o te ao. Ka rongo koe i te haruru i roto i ō uaua, te toto e rere ana ki ō paparinga, ā, kī tonu tō puku i ngā pūrerehua. Kua kitea e koe tētahi hei mea kia tino oti ai koe, kia harikoa ai hoki. Ka huri te ao katoa ki te māwhero engari āe, kotahi te mea kei mua i tērā.
I mua i te taunga o tēnei kare ā-roto, ka tūtaki koe ki tētahi raruraru tūturu, ka mōhio koe kāore koe i te mōhio mēnā kei te aroha ia ki a koe, kāore rānei. He rerekē te aroha ki a ia, āe, engari e tino mōhio ana koe kei te aroha anō ia ki a koe? Ka tīmata te koretake ki te patu i a koe, ā, kei te rapu puku koe i ngā tohu e aroha ana tētahi tāne ki a koe.
"Ina ngaro koe i tētahi, ka pōturi te haere o te wā, ā, ina aroha ahau, ka tere te haere o te wā"- Taylor Swift
Ka whiwhi koe i ēnei tohutohu katoa mai i tētahi tāne, ā, ka huri whakarere te whanaungatanga i waenganui i a kōrua. I te tuatahi, ka rongo koe he rerekē tana whanonga, engari ka kī mai tō ngākau he mea anō kei roto. Kātahi anō ka rite ia ki a Mr. Manaaki, ā, ka aro nui, ka whakaaro koe, "He atawhai noa iho rānei ia, he aroha rānei ki ahau?" Ināianei, e mōhio ana tātou mā te aroha ka pai ake te tangata, engari me mōhio koe mēnā ko koe tana e aroha ana.
Ka whakaaro koe, "Kei te aroha ia ki ahau? Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai kei te aroha te tāne?" Āe, kaua e titiro atu. Kei konei mātou ki te wetewete i ngā tohu e aroha ana te tāne ki te wahine mā te whakamahi i ngā māramatanga mai i te kaiārahi. Ridhi Korekāha (Tohu Paerua i roto i te Hinengaro), he tohunga hinengaro kai ia, ā, he tohunga ki te tuku tohutohu mō ngā marena kore aroha, ngā wehenga me ētahi atu take whanaungatanga.
Me pēhea te mōhio kei roto te tāne i te aroha?
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He tino waimarie ngā wāhine i tēnei wāhanga, ā, he kaha te pūmanawa ā-roto, te āheinga tuaono rānei. Ka mōhio noa koe kei te aroha te tāne ki a koe. Ina tino aroha te tāne ki a koe, kāore e taea te kore e whakaatu mā roto i ana nekehanga me ana reo tinana. I ētahi wā, ka kōrerotia noatia e ia, ka pāorooro tō ngākau. Ā, kua maha ngā wā kua mōhio koe ki te whanonga o te tāne ina arohaina ia.
Engari i ētahi wā, ehara i te mea ngāwari pērā. Ina koa i te ao o te whakaipoipo ipurangi, ngā whanaungatanga tūao me te whanaungatanga maha, he uaua ki te wehewehe i waenga i te whakaipoipo me te whanaungatanga me te aroha vs te hiahia nui. He mea nui kia tirohia ngā tohu e aroha ana te tāne ki a koe kia mōhio ai koe mēnā kei te aroha anō hoki koe ki a ia.
Te aro atu ki te pātai miriona tāra - me pēhea te mōhio kei te aroha ia ki a koe - Ridhi e mea ana, "Ko te aroha mutunga kore tētahi o ngā tohu nui rawa atu kei te aroha te tāne ki tētahi wahine. Ko te tikanga tēnei e whakaae ana ia ki a koe mō tō āhua, ā, kua rite ia ki te awhi i ngā wāhanga katoa o koe – ahakoa tō mua, ngā wā pouri, ngā wā riri rānei, te mamae, ngā ngoikoretanga, ngā ngoikoretanga, ā, ka hoatu he wāhi ki a koe kia noho ko koe anake. Ina aroha te tāne ki a koe, ka noho te hononga kei a koe ki a ia hei mea ataahua, hei mea e tika ana kia manaakitia."
Mā te māramatanga me tō wairua tuaono e āwhina, tera pea ka māmā ake te wetewete i ngā tohu e aroha ana ia ki a koe. Hei whakangāwari ake i tēnei mea ngaro māu, ka tukuna atu hoki e mātou he whakamārama mō ngā tohu e aroha ana te tāne ki te wahine. Whakamahia noa tēnei rārangi arowhai, ā, kua rite koe.
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13 Nga Tohu Kei te Hinga Te Tangata ki a Koe
Tērā pea he mea ngāwari noa iho, pērā i tana "huringa hē" i te huarahi e mōhiotia ana e ia, kia roa ake ai tōna wā ki a koe. Me titiro pūmau mai rānei ki a koe i a kōrua e kōrero ana i runga kawhe. Me tirotiro rānei mēnā kua tae pai kōrua ki te kāinga i muri i te pō whakangahau me āna hoa wahine. Tērā ētahi mahi a te tāne ina aroha ia ki a koe, ā, kāore e taea e ia te ngako i a koe.
Ahakoa te iti, koinei ngā tohu e aroha ana te tāne ki a koe. He maha ngā mahi ātaahua, whakaaro nui ka taea te whakamārama hei tohu e aroha ana te tāne. Ko te āhua o te titiro a te tāne ki te wahine e arohaina ana e ia, me te āhua rānei o tana tuku karere ki a ia, ka taea katoa te whakaatu i tōna kare ā-roto pono ki a koe. Nō reira, ki te mea he tāne motuhake tōu i roto i tō ao, ā, kāore koe i te tino mōhio mēnā he rite tonu ōna kare ā-roto ki a koe me tō kare ā-roto ki a ia, pānuihia tonu kia mōhio ai koe ki ngā tohu e aroha nui ana te tāne ki a koe:
1. He rerekē tana titiro ki a koe
Kei te noho tahi kōrua i tētahi pāti, ā, ka kite ohorere kōrua i a ia e titiro matatau mai ana ki a koe. Ehara i te āhua noa tana titiro mai ki a koe. He rerekē tēnei titiro. He titiro ngawari, he kanohi moemoeā, kāore anō kia kitea i mua. Ina kite koe i a ia e titiro matatau mai ana ki a koe, ka tahuri ke atu ia, ka hoatu ki a koe tohu whakauru.
Nā, kua mōhio mātou kei te pōhēhē koe, ā, tera pea koe e whakaaro ana he titiro noa iho ia ki a koe, ā, kāore he tikanga. Engari, e mōhio ana koe he pai ake tēnā. I titiro mai ia ki a koe nā te mea kei te aroha ia ki a koe, ā, kāore anō ia kia mōhio me pēhea te whakapuaki i tēnā.
Tērā pea kei te takaro noa ia i te mea kāore pea ia e mōhio ki ō kare ā-roto ki a ia. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e aroha ana te tāne ki a koe engari e mataku ana ki te whakaatu. Ka taea e koe te neke whakamua mā te pupuri i ōna kanohi. Me tuku he kirikiti ki raro i tōna tuaiwi, kia mōhio ai ia he rite tonu ngā kare ā-roto.
2. Ka noho tahi ia me koe i tōna wā waatea
Mena he wā wātea tōna i muri i te mahi, ka whiriwhiria e ia te whakapau i taua wā ki a koe. E pai ana ki a ia tō kōrua noho tahi, ā, e whakamarie ana ia ina roa ake tana noho tahi me koe. Ahakoa he maha ngā hāora e noho tahi ana ia me koe, te āhua nei kāore i te rawaka nā te mea he nui tonu ngā mea e hiahia ana ia ki te mōhio mōu.
He mea nui koe ki a ia, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki te whakaatu i tēnā mā te whakapau i te wā ki a koe. E whakaatu ana ia i tōna aroha ki a koe me ēnei mea iti nei. Nō reira, ki te mea kei te waea tonu mai ia ki a koe me te pātai mēnā kei te wātea koe, kia mōhio koe kei te tunua pea he mea anō i reira.
E whakamārama ana a Ridhi he aha tana hiahia ki te noho tahi me koe tētahi o ngā tohu huna e aroha ana te tāne ki a koe. "He maha ngā tāne hihiri me te whai mahi e kore e whai wā, nā te mea he kī tonu ā rātou pereti. Nō reira, ki te whakapau kaha te tāne ki te wehe i te wā mai i tana kaupapa pukumahi kia noho tahi me koe, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu nui kei a ia he aroha ki a koe."
"Heoi, he mea nui kia maumahara i konei, ko tana whakaaro mō te whakapau i te wā kounga ki a koe, kāore pea i te rite ki tāu. Kāore rānei ia e hiahia ki te whakapau i tōna wā waatea katoa ki a ia, engari e hiahia ana hoki ki te whai wā mōku ki te whai i ngā mea e pai ana ki a ia. Nō reira, tukua atu taua wāhi whaiaro ki a ia, kaua hoki e whakaaro he kore aro ki a koe tana hiahia ki te whai i ana mahi whakangahau, āna wawata, āna hiahia," tana kī.
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3. He maha ake ana waea atu ki a koe
Ko tētahi o ngā tohu o te tangata e aroha ana ko tana waea atu ki a koe i ngā wā maha atu i mua. Nā te mea e hiahia ana ia ki te whakarongo ki tō reo engari kāore e whakapuaki wawe. He mārama kei te ngaro pinepine ia i a koe, ā, tera pea tētahi o ngā tohu huna kei te aroha te tangata. Tērā pea kei te aroha nui ia ki a koe, ā, kāore anō ia kia mōhio.
Ahakoa te roa o ngā waeatanga, te āhua nei ka roa ake. Mēnā he hawhe haora noa iho tāu e kōrero ai, kua roa ake tēnei ki te neke atu i te kotahi haora. E kī ana te nuinga o ngā wāhine, ina aroha ana te tāne ki a rātou, i te nuinga o te wā, ka roa ake tā rātou waea atu, ā, kāore e hiahia ki te whakatārewa i te waea.
Tohutohu ngaio: Ki te mea kei te rapu koe i ngā tohu e āta aroha ana ia ki a koe mā te karere kuputuhi, tirohia mēnā ka huna e ia ētahi take hei waea atu ki a koe. "He mīhini kawhe hou tāku e tino pai ana ki a koe. Taria, me whakaatu atu e au mā te waea ataata." Me "Kei te tunu kai ahau, ā, kua uaua te pato. He aha e kore ai ahau e waea atu ki a koe?" He rerekē pea ngā take engari he rite tonu te take – e pai ana ia ki te kōrero ki a koe nā te mea he aroha tōna ki a koe.
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4. Ka wātea ia ki a koe
Ki te mea he rā kino tōu, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki tētahi hei tautoko i a koe, ka noho ia ki reira me tāu kai tino pai. Koinei te āhua o te tāne whakaharikoa i te hoa wahineAhakoa he aha te āhua o tōna ao, ki te hiahia koe ki a ia, ka waiho e ia ngā mea katoa ki te taha, ka whakarite wā mōu. "Me pēhea te mōhio kei te aroha ia ki a koe? Ka wātea ia ki a koe, ahakoa he aituā i te mahi, he mea nui rānei kei roto i tō oranga whaiaro. Ka noho ia hei hoa whakarongo mōu ahakoa he tohutohu tāna, kāore rānei. Tērā pea ka whakapau kaha ia ki te whakaoti i ō raruraru."
"Heoi, ehara te whakaoti rapanga i te kaupapa matua i konei. Ko te mea nui kia noho ia ki tō taha i ngā wā e hiahiatia ana e koe. Inaa, ka taea e koe te whakamama i te pēhanga i a ia mā te kōrero atu ki a ia e mihi ana koe ki a ia mō tōna noho hei tautoko i a koe, ā, kāore ia e hiahia ki te whakaoti rapanga māu. He mea nui tēnei nā te mea he kaiwhakaoti rapanga te tāne i roto i tōna āhua," te kī a Ridhi.
E mōhio ana koe kāore he mea e kiia ana he pukumahi rawa. Ka whakawātea tonu mātou i te wā mō te hunga e arohaina ana e mātou. Nō reira, ko tētahi o ngā tohu e āta aroha ana ia ki a koe, ko te kite koe ka huri ia i tana kaupapa mahi māu engari kāore e whakamōhio atu ki a koe. I te tīmatanga o te whakaipoipo a Natalie ki a Hunter, kotahi noa te wā i te wiki ka haere tahi rāua. Engari i te tīmatanga o te taumaha o ngā mea, ā, ka nui haere te whai wāhi a Hunter, ka tīmata ia ki te tiki i a Natalie i tana akomanga yoga, ki te kawe rānei i a ia i ana hikoi ata. I hiahia noa ia kia nui ake ngā take hei noho tahi me ia i te awatea.
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5. He mea nui tō whakaaro ki a ia
Kua puta kē koe i tētahi wā kua kōrero koe mō tana momo kākahu, kua kī atu rānei koe ki a ia he pai ake ia ina heu ma? Nā te mea, ki te aroha ia ki a koe, tera pea ka pau katoa tōna wā ki te manukanuka ki ō kōrero. Inaa, i roto i ētahi rā, ka kite koe i ngā huringa ngawari o tana momo kākahu, inā koa i ngā wāhi i kī atu koe kia whakapai ake ia.
Ahakoa he pai ki a ia tōna pahau, ka pai ia ki te patu i a ia mōu nā te mea e pai ana koe ki a ia he heu ma. Nō reira, ki te tae mai ia ki tō kōrua rā e whai ake nei me te mau i tō tae kikorangi tino pai, me te whakakoi i ōna makawe ki muri kia rite ki tāu i kī ai i pai ai koe, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e aroha ana tētahi tāne ki a koe. He mea nui ki a ia tō whakaaro, ā, e harikoa ana ia ki te whakarerekē i a ia anō kia miharo ai koe.
"Ko tētahi o ngā tohu tino mārama kei te āta aroha ia ki a koe, ko te mea he mea nui ki a ia tō whakaaro ahakoa e kī ana ia, kāore rānei. Ki te kī atu koe ki a ia e pai ana koe ki tētahi hāte motuhake mōna, e ātaahua ana rānei ia i tētahi tae motuhake, tera pea ka kite koe i a ia e mau ana i te nuinga o aua tae."
"I tētahi atu taha, ka pāngia hoki ia e ō whakaaro kino. Hei tauira, ki te mea kua taumaha ia, ā, ka whakama ia e tō tinana mō tēnā, ka taea e ia te whakaiti i tōna whakapono ki a ia anō. Nō reira, ina kite koe i ngā tohu e aroha nui ana te tāne ki a koe, kia tūpato ki tāu e kōrero ana ki a ia, nā te mea ka aro nui ia ki ō whakaaro," te kī a Ridhi.
6. Ka maumahara ia ki ngā mea iti mōu
Ko te tangata e aroha ana ki a koe ka aro nui ki tāu mahi me tāu kōrero. Ahakoa kāore koe e mahara ki tāu i kōrero ai, ka aro tonu ia. Kua kōrero kē koe mō ō putiputi tino pai, mō ō rihi tino pai rānei, ā, kua kite koe i a ia e tiki ana i aua putiputi māu? Nā te mea ka mahara ia ki ngā mea katoa mōu, ā, ka whakamahia e ia hei whakahari i a koe. Pēnei i te whaiāipo tūmanako, e mōhio ana ia ki ngā kōrero katoa mōu.
Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea e aroha ana te tāne ki a koe. E kōrero ana a Stacey ki a tātou mō tana kōrero ki tana hoa tāne inaianei e pai ana ia ki tētahi roopu puoro toka, ā, i roto i te wiki, ka tukuna atu e ia tētahi t-hate kua hainatia ki tōna tatau! He koha whakaaro nui tēnei hei whakawai i tētahi kōtiro. Ko te mea pai rawa atu, kāore ia i mahara ki te kōrero atu i tēnā ki a ia.
Kia maumahara ki te poroporo i hoatu e Ross ki a Rachel i tōna rā whānau i HoaNā te mea i mahara ia ki ngā mea i pai ai ia ki a ia. Ko te aro nui ki ngā taipitopito tētahi o ngā tohu tino pono kei te aroha ia ki a koe, nā te mea ko te tikanga kāore ngā tāne i te tino pai ki te maumahara ki ngā mea iti pēnei i tō reka aihikirīmi tino pai, i te ingoa rānei o tō hoa tamarikitanga pakiwaitara.
7. He pai ki a ia te mahi tahi me koe i ngā mahi o ia rā
Kāore he tangata e pai ki ngā mahi o ia rā, pērā i te hoko kai, te horoi kakahu rānei. He maha ngā tāngata e wiri ana ahakoa te whakaaro ki ēnei mea. Arā, he pai ake ki te tangata te tākaro kēmu i runga i tana Xbox, te inu pia rānei me ōna hoa. Heoi, ka noho koinā te mea tuarua ina kitea koe i roto i te pikitia.
Ki te mea ko koe tēnā, e kore rawa ia e whakaroa ki te mahi i ngā mahi noa. Ko ngā tāne e aroha ana ki a koe e kore rawa e whakakahore ki te mahi i ngā mahi o ia rā me koe nā te mea ko te tikanga ka nui ake te wā e noho tahi ana koe. Ka haere tahi ia me koe i ō haerenga ki te toa hoko kai, ka noho tahi rānei me koe ki te takai i ngā kākahu nā te mea ka hoatu he wā ki a ia ki te hono atu ki a koe i runga i te taumata hohonu.
Mena kei te harikoa ia ki te puta atu i tōna rohe whakamarie ki te mahi i ngā mea nui ki a koe, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea kei te āta aroha ia ki a koe. Ka tūtohu mātou kia whakamahia e koe mā te ngana ki te hanga hononga kare ā-roto kaha ki a ia. Akene, me rapu koe i ētahi mea hei āwhina i a koe. ngā pātai mō te mōhio ki ahau hei huri i ēnei mahi o ia rā hei mahi ngahau, hei whakawhanaungatanga.
8. Ka meinga koe e ia kia motuhake
Ko te tangata e aroha ana ki a koe e mōhio ana me pēhea te mea kia motuhake koe, ā, ka whai ngā huarahi hei whakaatu e aroha ana iaAhakoa te kino o tō rā, ka kitea tonu e ia he huarahi hei whakahari i tō wairua. Mā te tiki mai i tāu kawhe tino pai ki a koe i te mahi, te tuku atu rānei i tētahi waiata ātaahua ki a koe i waenganui o te rā, te kimi rānei i tētahi momo tī matomato kua pau i roto i tō toa hoko kai, ka tino whakapau kaha ia ki te mahi māu.
E mea ana a Ridhi, "Ka manaaki ia i a koe i tana ake ara. Tērā pea ka whakapau kaha ia ki te mea kia motuhake koe, kia whiwhi koha rānei māu, kia noho rānei i roto i ngā kiriata e pai ana ki a koe. Kāore he tāne e rite ana, nō reira, he rerekē anō hoki ā rāua huarahi whakaatu aroha me te manaaki. Me tūpato koe ki ngā nekehanga me ngā mahi e mea ana kia motuhake koe nā te mea koinei ngā tohu e āta aroha ana ia ki a koe."
I kawea mai e Hunter he nati heihei me he parai ki tana hoa wahine, a Natalie, i tana wāhi mahi, nā te mea i tukuna atu e ia he karere ki a ia kua haurangi ia i tana kai, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki ētahi kai tūturu. I tere tonu te hopu a Hunter i taua tohu, ā, i a ia e haere ana, ka hopu i ētahi kai hei kai māna, ka tukuna atu ki tana tari. I tino harikoa a Natalie, ehara i te mea mō te kai anake, engari mō te mea i reira anō hoki ia i mōhio ai he kotiro waimarie ia.
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9. Ka noho ia i roto i ō kiriata wahine
Ki te mōhio tātou ki ngā tāne, e mōhio ana tātou ehara i te mea ko ngā kiriata wahine te momo kiriata tino pai mō te pō kiriata. Mēnā ka tukuna he kōwhiringa, he pai ake ki a rātou te mātaki i tētahi atu mea. Ko tētahi atu mea ehara i te kiriata wahine, he pono. Engari ki te aroha te tāne ki a koe, ka noho tonu ia ki te tautoko i a koe ahakoa e hiahia ana koe ki te whakakakahu. Girls ware mō te mano o ngā wā.
E ai ki a Ridhi, ko ngā tohu o te aroha nui o te tāne ki a koe ka kitea i roto i ngā mahi iti e mahia ana e ia hei mea kia motuhake ai koe. Ko te tuku i a koe ki te whiriwhiri i tētahi kiriata wahine, me te kore e amuamu mōna, he huarahi noa iho tēnei e whakaatu ai ia i te nui o tō hiranga ki a ia. Ahakoa te nui o tōna kino ki a ia, ka noho tonu ia ki te kawe mai i te pōporo māu ahakoa kāore ia e aro ki te kiriata.
He aha, e pātai ana koe? Ahakoa kāore ia e aro ki te kiriata, e aro ana ia ki te whakapau i te wā ki a koe. Engari ko te pupuri i te mauahara, ka whakamarie ia i a koe i roto i ngā wāhanga whakaari, ā, ka hoatu hoki e ia tana tauera hei muru i ō roimata. He rite ki te aroha ki a tātou!
10. Māna koe e whakaatu ki ōna hoa me tōna whānau
He mea nui koe ki a ia, ā, e hiahia ana ia kia tino mōhio koe ki a ia. Ā, me pēhea te pai ake o te mōhio ki tētahi tangata i te whakauru atu ki tōna porowhita tata. Kaua e mataku. Kāore ia e whakaaro ana ki te whakateretere i ngā mea, ki te pekepeke rānei i te pū, ki te whakaatu rānei i tōna āhua. ngā tohu kua rite ia ki te noho.
Ko tāna e hiahia ana ko te whakapuaki i tō hiranga ki a ia, me tana kore e mataku ki te whakaatu i a koe ki te hunga e tino nui ana ki a ia, ki tōna whānau me ōna hoa. Inaa, te āhua nei kāore ia e mataku ki te whakaae ki tō kōrua whanaungatanga i te aroaro o te marea, ā, e harikoa ana ia ki te whakauru i a koe ki roto i tōna ao, kua whakamanahia.
Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu hinengaro e aroha ana te tāne. Ka whakakitea noa e te tāne te hunga e tata ana ki a ia ki a koe ina tino whakawhirinaki ia ki a koe, ā, e whakaaro ana ia he wāhanga nui koe i roto i te panga o tōna ao. Nō reira, ki te tono ia i a koe kia noho hei hoa pai māna i te marena o tētahi hoa, ki te karanga rānei i a koe ki te rā whānau o tana irāmutu, kei te whakaatu ia i ngā tohu he aroha tōna ki a koe.
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11. E whakarongo ana ia ki ō kōrero
Kei te rapu koe i ngā tohu huna kei te aroha te tāne? Āe, whakaarohia te āhua o tana urupare ki ngā mea e kōrerotia ana e koe ki a ia. Ka huri ia i ōna kanohi ka neke atu ki te kaupapa e whai ake nei, ka noho tonu rānei ia mō te katoa? Ina aroha ia ki a koe, ka whakarongo ia ki ō kōrero mutunga kore, ā, kāore e hoha.
Ki a ia, ko ia kōrero e kōrerotia ana e koe ka whakatata atu ia ki te mōhio atu ki a koe. Ka taea e koe te kōrero ki a ia mō ngā hāora, ā, ka hiahia tonu ia ki te whakarongo atu. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea o te aroha o te tāne ki a koe, ā, ki te tino whakarongo ia, he tohu anō hoki kei a ia te kaitiaki.
Ka tukuna tonutia e te hoa tāne o Natalie, a Hunter, ia e kōrero ana i ōna ngākau i muri i tana rā mahi. He kotiro harikoa a Natalie, ā, ka mōhio ia ki ngā mea i muri i tana kōrerotanga. Ka tunu marie a Hunter i te tina mā rāua ko Natalie, ko Natalie ia e noho ana i runga i te kaute, e kōrero ana mō tōna rā.
Waihoki, ko tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea kei te āta aroha ia ki a koe mā te karere kuputuhi ko te wā e kōrero ana koe i tētahi mea ki a ia, ka pātai atu ia i ngā pātai whai muri mai. Mā āna whakautu ka mārama te hiahia pono o ia ki tāu e kōrero nei, ehara i te mea he takaro noa iho.
12. Māna koe e tiaki
Ka waea atu koe mō te mate, ka moe i runga i te tūru. Mārama ko wai ka tae mai me te hupa heihei hei whāngai i a koe? Ka tīmata te tangata e aroha ana ki a koe ki te tiaki i a koe nā te mea kei te āwangawanga ia mōu. Ahakoa te iti o te rewharewha, ka hiahia ia ki te kawe i a koe ki te tākuta kia tirohia. Ehara tēnei i te mea te poma aroha, he āwangawanga mārama noa iho tēnei, he āwangawanga pono hoki.
Ka waea tonu atu ia ki a koe ki te tirotiro i a koe, ki te kōrero rānei i ngā katakata wairangi hei whakaora i a koe. Ka nui atu tōna manukanuka ki tō mate i a koe, ā, ka whakapau kaha ia ki te whakaora i a koe kia ora, kia harikoa anō hoki. Mēnā rānei kei te raru tō rā nā te mea i whawhai koe ki tō māmā, nā te mea rānei i whara koe i tō hoa pai, ka taea e koe te whakawhirinaki kei reira tēnei tangata hei tautoko i a koe.
Ina ko tō harikoa me tō oranga te mea nui ki a ia, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e aroha nui ana te tāne ki a koe. E kore ia e waiho i tētahi mea kia kore e hurihia hei whakarite kei te pai koe. Ā, kia tae rā anō koe ki reira, kei reira tonu ia, e tuku ana i tētahi taringa manawanui me tētahi pakihiwi hei tangi atu māu.
13. Ka meinga ia e koe kia menemene
Ki te mea kei te aroha ia ki a koe, mā ngā mea iti e mahia e koe ka menemene ia. E aroha ana ia ki tō āhua oraora, harikoa, ā, kāore e taea e ia te ārai i te menemene ki a koe. Ka whero tōna mata i ētahi wā i ō āhua, ā, kāore e taea e ia te whakahaere ahakoa e hiahia ana ia. Kei te aroha ia ki a koe, ā, kua roa rawa ki te huri i tōna āhua inaianei.
Kāore e taea e ngā tāne e aroha ana te kite i ō rātou kare ā-roto i ētahi wā. Nā te mea kei roto i a rātou te wehi kei whakakahoretia, ā, e whakaaro ana rātou mā te whaki i ō rātou kare ā-roto ka pono ai. I ētahi wā, he tangata ia te tangata whakamā e hinga ana i te aroha me te whakama rawa ki te kōrero nui, me te tumanako ka kite koe i ngā tohu e aroha ana ia ki a koe.
Nā wai i kī he uaua ngā kōtiro? Ki te rite te āhua o tō tāne ki ngā mea o runga ake nei, he tohu tēnā kei te aroha te tāne ki a koe. Koinei te wā me mōhio koe ki te aha me mahi mēnā he rite ō whakaaro. Kaua e tatari roa kia taka te pōro. Nā te mea, ka taea e koe te mahi i te nekehanga tuatahi!
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