Ngā Wāhanga e 7 o te Whakaipoipo ka Haerehia e Koe i mua i te Whakamanatanga o Koe hei Tokorua

He rerekē te aroha. He rerekē hoki te aroha. Ko ngā momo whanaungatanga rerekē o ēnei rā he tohu i te kanorau o ō tātou hiahia, ā, nā ēnei kua waiho te ao whakaipoipo o te ao hou hei mea whakamere. Te āhua nei ka huri haere ngā wāhanga o te whakaipoipo i ia tau, ā, ko ngā ture o nanahi ngā tohu o nāianei.  

Ka tīmata te whakaaro o te tangata kei hea rātou i roto i te kaupapa o te haerenga o tā rātou whanaungatanga. Mā te mōhio ki te tūnga o kōrua ko tō hoa ka whakamarie i a kōrua, ka nui ake hoki tō māia. Mā te ako mō ngā wāhanga e whitu o te whakaipoipo me ngā āhuatanga e pā ana ki tēnā ka āwhina i a koe ki te mārama kua hipa pea koe i ētahi wāhanga, ā, kei te hohoro pea koe ki te uru atu ki tētahi whanaungatanga, ehara i te tohu pai. 

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Kāore e taea e koe te matapae i ngā mea katoa o te ao.rārangi wā whanaungatanga He rerekē rawa hoki i ia tangata, i ia tangata. Me te maumahara ki tēnā, ko ngā wāhanga o te whakaipoipo kua whakarārangihia i raro nei e whakamārama ana i ngā huarahi tino noa e whanake ai te whanaungatanga i mua i te whakamanatanga. Ko te tikanga, ko te mea e kiia ana he mana kei te tokorua. 

He maha ngā wā ka pekehia e te tangata ētahingā wāhanga o te whanaungatanga me tōna whanaketanga ko ētahi ka noho hoa tonu, ka noho noa rānei i roto i ngā āhuatanga mō te wā roa. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe kāore tō whanaungatanga e tino ōrite ki tāu e pānui ana i konei, i hea atu rānei i runga i te ipurangi, kaua e manukanuka. Kāore he ture pakari mō te kēmu aroha. Ahakoa rā, mā te mārama ki ngā wāhanga rerekē o te whakaipoipo ka mōhio koe kāore koe e moe tonu ana i te whakaaro "he aha tāua?", "kei hea tēnei e anga atu ana?" rānei: 

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1. Te wāhanga kuru

Koinei tētahi o ngā wāhanga tuatahi o tētahi whanaungatanga, engari tera pea koe e whakaaro ana he aha te take e kiia ai he wā poto noa iho te aroha hei wāhanga o te ao whakaipoipo. Āe, me whai mura te whanaungatanga e haere ake ana i mua i ngā mea katoa. He tokomaha e whakaaro ana ko te aroha te mura, ā, ko tētahi o ngā wāhanga tuatahi o ngā whanaungatanga whakaipoipo. 

• Tuhinga o mua: He mea noa te pōhēhē me te miharo, "Kei te aroha ahau, kei te hiahia nui rānei"Ko te hiahia nui ki tētahi tangata e hiahia ana koe ki a ia. Ahakoa kāore pea koe e mōhio nui ki a ia, kei te miharo tonu koe, kei te aroha hoki ki tōna āhua, ki tōna āhua, ki ētahi atu āhuatanga rānei e kitea ana."
• Ngā moemoeā mō tō kōrua heke mai tahi:  He maha ngā wā ka puta mai ngā kare ā-roto rerekē pēnei i te harikoa me te manukanuka. Ko te tuatahi i ahu mai i te tūponotanga o tētahi heke mai tahi, ko te tuarua, i te manukanuka mēnā ka taurite ō kare ā-roto. I tēnei wā, tera pea ka kitea e koe te whakaaro mō te wā honi o te aroha – te haere hararei tahi, te āhua o te oranga me rātou hei hoa rangatira, me ētahi atu moemoeā pērā.
• Te uaua ki te arotahi ki ētahi atu mahi: Ina tino kaha te aroha, ka raru te tangata, ā, ka kore e taea te arotahi. He mārama tēnei nā te mea kāore e taea te mutu te whakaaro ki a rātou mō ngā hāora. I te nuinga o te wā ka puta te tangata i tēnei wāhanga ina whakatau tetahi ki te anga whakamua.

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2. Te wāhanga kōrero

I tēnei wāhanga tuarua, ka noho tahi kōrua, ka kōrero tahi i roto i te rōpū, i te takitahi rānei, ā, ka tīmata mārire te whakapūmau i te hononga i waenganui i a kōrua. Kia pēhea te roa o te wā kōrero? Kia roa rawa! He mea nui te kōrero i a kōrua e mōhio ana tetahi ki tetahi, e aromatawai ana hoki i te hototahitanga o ia kōrero.  

"Mā te kōrero koe e mōhio ai ki tētahi. Kōrerohia ngā mea katoa. Ngā mea o mua, ngā mea o muri mai, ngā mahi tōrangapū, ngā whakapono, ngā hākinakina, ngā kai, te haereere, hei tauira noa iho. Ngā mea katoa."

- Kaiwhakamahi Reddit

Ka taea te kī he momo wāhanga kāore i te tino mārama tēnei, nā te mea he uaua ki te whakaaro kei hea kōrua tūnga tetahi ki tetahi, me te whakaaro kua tae ki te wā hei mahi i te taahiraa e whai ake nei ki te whanaungatanga aroha. Ki te tino mōhio koe kei te hiahia hoki te tangata kē ki a koe, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki te neke ki te wāhanga e whai ake nei, anei ētahi mea ka taea e koe te mahi:

1. Whakamahia te reo "tātou" hei whakaatu kei te kite kōrua i tētahi heke mai tahiHei tauira, he kōrero pēnei i te "He tino pai ki ahau te noho tahi me koe. Me mahi pinepine tāua i tēnei"
2. Kia whai whakaaro ki te reo tinana me tōna tūranga i roto i tō hihiriTērā pea ka whakaatu te tangata kē i ngā tohu ngawari e whakaatu ana kei te tuwhera rātou, ā, kua rite ki te whai i tētahi whanaungatanga aroha ki a koe. Rapua he reo tinana pai, whakarongo hoki ki ngā tohu kōrero e whakaatu ana i tō rātou hiahia. Ko ētahi tauira o tēnei ko te titiro kanohi roa, te takaro, tae noa ki te whakapā tinana māmā pēnei i te pakirau ringa, te awhi roa, me ētahi atu.
3. Whakatauhia kia tūpono ki te whakamāTērā pea kua hē te mārama ki ngā tohu o tō rātou taha. Kia rite ki te whakaae kāore pea te tangata kē e aro nui ana ki a koe. Whakaarohia ngā hua ka pā ki tō hononga mēnā ka whakatau koe ki te tono tika atu ki a rātou. Ki te whakaaro tonu koe he pai ki a rātou, me tono atu māia ki a rātou.

3. Te wāhanga i mua i te whakaipoipo

I a koe e whai ana i ngā wāhanga tuatahi e toru o te whakaipoipo, ka tino kaha haere ngā ia o raro. 

• Ka taea e koe te rongo i te hau e matotoru haere ana i te kukume, i te taumahatanga moepuku rānei 
• Tērā pea ka kite koe kāore tō kōrua whanaungatanga e noho noa iho ana hei whanaungatanga "hoahoa"
• Engari, kei roto kōrua i tētahi "wāhanga e hiahia ana tetahi ki tetahi" ā, kei te tīmata kōrua ki te hono atu ki tētahi taumata aroha ake. 
• Ka tīmata koe ki te mōhio he mea nui kia noho hei kaiwhakarongo pai ā, whakarongo mai hoki ina kōrero rātou. Tērā pea ka kite koe i a rātou e mahi ana i te mea kotahi 

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Kia oti i a kōrua te wikitoria i te wā whakamā o te kitenga aroha tetahi ki tetahi, ka taea e kōrua te tīmata ki te whakapakari i tō kōrua whanaungatanga, hei whakatakoto i te tūāpapa mō te wā whakaipoipo tūturu. Kaua e whakaroa rawa, kaua hoki e tīmata ki te whakaaro, "E hia ngā rā i mua i te taenga mai o te whanaungatanga piripono?" I nāianei, kia māmā noa iho, kia pai hoki ki ngā mahi kāore i te tino aroha. Ko ētahi whakaaro mahi tahi ka taea e koe te whakamātau i mua i te haerenga ki tētahi rā tuatahi tawhito ko:

• Mahi tahiHe tokomaha te hunga e kite ana he huarahi tino whai hua te āwhina i ētahi atu ki te hono atu. Rapua ngā whai wāhitanga tūao ā-rohe, tautoko rānei i tētahi kaupapa e ngākau nui ana kōrua ki te mahi.
• Te haere ki ngā huihuinga, ki ngā hakari rāneiHe huarahi ngahau te haere ki tētahi kōnohete, ki tētahi whakaaturanga, ki tētahi huihuinga hākinakina, ki tētahi atu huihuinga hapori rānei, ki te noho tahi me te tūhura i ō kōrua hiahia.
• Te haere tahi i tētahi akomangaHe huarahi pai te rēhita tahi mō tētahi akomanga ki te ako, ki te mōhio tetahi ki tetahi, ā, hono atu ki tō hoa i te taumata hohonu ake. Tērā pea kei roto i ēnei akomanga te tunu kai, te kanikani, tētahi atu mahi whakangahau rānei e ngāwari ana te ngākau.
• Te hikoi, te piki maunga rāneiHe huarahi pai te noho ki waho me te tūhura i te taiao ki te pārekareka ki te noho tahi. He mea whakamiharo te whai tikanga o ngā kōrero i a koe e hikoi ana, e hikoi ana rānei, ā, ka taea te whakaatu i ngā āhuatanga hou o tō hoa rangatira.
• Te haere ki waho mō tētahi kai noaHe huarahi pai tēnei hei whakawhanaunga tetahi ki tetahi mā te kai reka me te kōrero

Mā te whai wāhi atu ki ēnei mahi ka taea e koe te ako mō ō uara me te hanga hononga. He mea whai hua hoki ēnei hei aromatawai mēnā ko ia te tangata tika, hei hoa pea hoki mō tētahi whanaungatanga roa. He wā pai hoki tēnei hei whakatakoto i ētahi whāinga whanaketanga whaiaro, hei whakapai ake hoki i ngā wāhanga katoa e hiahia ana kia whakarerekētia. Whakaarohia tēnei hei momo whakarite mō te wā marena hou e tata mai ana i te whanaungatanga hou.

4. Te wāhanga whakaipoipo

I muri i te otinga o ngā wāhanga e toru o te whakaipoipo i roto i te rārangi wā o tō whanaungatanga, ko tēnei wāhanga tuawhā tētahi o ngā tohu nui rawa atu ka taea e koe te whakatutuki. Kua whakapumautia e koe inaianei kua nui atu i te hoa noa iho kōrua. Kua tīmata hoki koe ki te aromatawai i tō rāua hototahitanga ki a koe mō te whanaungatanga roa.

I tēnei wāhanga tuawhā, kua whakaae ā-roto, ā-waha rānei koe kei te noho ngā kare ā-roto aroha, ā, ka tīmata kōrua i tētahi haerenga ki te kimi i te huarahi e ahu atu ai. I tēnei wā ka whiwhi te tangata i te "...te rā tuatahi aroha". Ka nui ake te aroha o ngā mahi ka mahia e koe i tēnei wā i tō mua."

I tenei wahanga: 

• He nui te wā e noho tahi ai ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, e mōhio ai ki ngā mea e pai ai, e kore ai e pai tetahi ki tetahi, ki ōna uara me ōna āhua.
• E pai ana ki a rātou te tukanga whakarite i ngā rā aroha, ā, e ahua ana ko ia wā e noho tahi ana ka kaha ake te hononga. 
• He mea whakamiharo ngā rā tuatahi, ā, ka tino harikoa koe kua kitea e koe tētahi tangata tino tika. Kia pai, kia maumahara hoki ki ēnei maharatanga kia rite ki te taea. 

I tēnei wāhanga, me maumahara te tangata kāore te katoa e neke tere ana i te tere kotahi. Hei tauira, ka pai ake pea tētahi hoa ki te noho roa i te wāhanga whakaipoipo, engari ka whakaaro pea tētahi atu he aha te korenga o te whanaungatanga e ahu whakamua ana. E ai ki tāu e whakaaro nei, he mea tino nui te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero i konei. He wā anō hoki tēnei wāhanga e whakatūria ai ngā rohe, e whakamōhiotia ai hoki ngā tumanakohanga. Ka uru atu pea ēnei ki ngā āhuatanga pēnei i:

• I noho tahi te waa: Ka whakatakoto pea ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i ngā rohe mō te roa o te wā e noho tahi ana rāua, te auau o te kitenga o ngā hoa tetahi i tetahi, ā, ina hiahia rātou ki ētahi wā mo rātou anake. I ētahi wā, ahakoa me tō hoa pai rawa atu, ka tino pāngia te hinengaro e te mamae o te ngākau.
• Te whakawhanaunga tinanaHe mea nui te whanaungatanga ā-tinana ki tētahi whanaungatanga, engari mā te pātai "e hia ngā wā i mua i te tūnga o te whanaungatanga?" ka kore koe e tino mōhio mēnā ka tutuki ō hiahia. Ko te whakautu kei te mea e tika ana ki a koe me te tangata e piri tahi ana koe.
• Whanaungatanga whāingaHe tohu pai tēnei mēnā kei te hiahia koe, tō hoa rānei, ki te kōrero mō ngā whāinga whanaungatanga me ngā mea e tumanakohia ana kia tutuki ngātahi. He mea nui kia mārama pai ngā hoa e rua ki ngā whāinga a tētahi ki tētahi mō te whanaungatanga me te heke mai.
• IndependenceHe mōrearea nui te ngenge i ngā mahi tahi. Ehara i te mea he hē tōu. Me whai wā te katoa mō ā rātou mahi whakangahau, hoa, me ngā mahi, me te kore e whakama.

Mā te waihanga i ngā maharatanga pai ngātahi ka kite koe he pai te noho tahi me te tangata, ahakoa pai, ahakoa kino, ā, he mea whai hua tēnei i ngā wā uaua. 

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5. Te wāhanga ngoikore

I te wāhanga tuarima o te whakaipoipo, ka tuwhera ngā tāne me ngā wāhine tetahi ki tetahi hei hanga whakawhirinaki, whanaungatanga piripono, me te māramatanga. Ko ētahi e tumanako ana ki tēnei wāhanga, ā, e hiahia ana ki te whakatuwhera i ō rātou whakaaro ki tā rātou hoa. Heoi, kāore te katoa e pai ki te te noho ngoikore ki te tāne he wahine rānei. He mea nui kia mārama he wāhanga nui tēnei o te whakapakari i tētahi whanaungatanga, me te tuku wāhi ki a kōrua ki te whakatata atu ki tēnei whanaungatanga i te tere e pai ana ki a kōrua. 

• Ko te noho ngoikore he tikanga o te pono me te māramatanga mō ngā whakaaro, ngā kare ā-roto, me ngā whāinga o te tangata
• Ko te tikanga hoki o te ngoikore ko te whakapuaki i te mea e rapuhia ana e te tangata i roto i te whanaungatanga me ana whāinga.
• Ko te take kāore tēnei wāhanga e puta wawe mai, he mea nui te whakawhirinaki ki te ngoikore. He nui ake te tūponotanga ka ngoikore koe ki te tangata e whakawhirinaki ana koe, ā, ina whakaatu te tangata kāore ia e whakahē ana, ā, e kore e whakamahi i ngā mea e whakapuakina ana e koe ki a rātou me te huna i a koe. 
• Tae noa ki tēnei wā, ka whakaatu te tangata i ō rātou āhua pai rawa atu, hei ngana ki te kukume me te miharo i ō rātou hiahia aroha ki tō rātou taha karismatiki. Ko te kitenga i tō hoa e tuwhera ana, e whakaatu ana i tōna āhua tūturu, ka whakapakari i tō whakapono ki a ia, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te hono hōhonu ki a ia, me te whakapono ko ia, ko ia rānei ko ia te mea māu 

Ina whakautehia, ina manaakihia hoki ngā āhuatanga matua e tautuhi ana i a koe, ka tino whakakaha ake tō kōrua whanaungatanga, ā, ka whai wāhi nui hoki ki te whanaungatanga piripono. 

6. Te wāhanga wero

I a tō kōrua whanaungatanga e ahu whakamua ana i roto i ngā wāhanga rerekē o te aroha, ka uru atu kōrua ki te wāhanga wero. Ka tīmata ngā raruraru iti o te whanaungatanga ki te puta ake i nāianei, ā, ko te āhua o te whakahaere a ia hoa i te āhuatanga ka whakatau i te whakatau i ngā pakanga ā muri ake nei. Ko te wāhanga wero ka tīmata kotahi te wā.kua mutu te wā honi ā, ka taea e ia te whakamātautau pono i te here me te kaha o te whanaungatanga.

He aha ētahi o ngā wero e pā ana ki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i tēnei wā?

Ka puta ngā wero i roto i te whanaungatanga whakaipoipo i roto i ngā āhuatanga maha, me ngā taumata uaua rerekē. Me titiro tātou ki ētahi o ngā ngā wero whanaungatanga tino noa me pā ki te nuinga o te tangata: 

1. Te pakaru o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero

Ko te kore whakawhitiwhiti kōrero me te kore whakawhitiwhiti kōrero whai hua ka waiho hei pūtake nui o te pakanga i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga. Tērā pea ka uaua ki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te whakapuaki i ō rātou whakaaro me ō rātou kare ā-roto, ka hua ake he māramatanga kore. Ko tētahi o ngā tino take o tēnei, he huna e te tangata ō rātou kare ā-roto pono hei pupuri i te rangimārie, ā, ki te kore e taea e rātou te pehi tonu i ō rātou kare ā-roto, ka hua ake he pakanga kino, he tautohetohe rānei. 

2. Ngā take whakawhirinaki

He mea nui te whakawhirinaki ki te hanga i tētahi turanga pakari mō tētahi whanaungatanga. Ina pakaru, he tino uaua ki te whakatika. Ka puta ake ngā raruraru whakawhirinaki i ngā āhuatanga maha, engari ko te nuinga o te wā ko te kore whakapono, te whakaaro kore pono rānei, te tinihanga, te takahi tonu rānei o tētahi hoa i ngā kupu whakaari.

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3. Te ahotea pūtea

He pūtake nui pea te moni mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. Ko ngā tautohetohe mō ngā pūtea nā te rerekētanga o ngā tikanga whakapau moni, ngā whakahē mō te whakahaere moni, ngā raruraru pūtea rānei, ka puta he āhuatanga whakararuraru, he uaua hoki ki te whakatere.

4. Ngā tumanakohanga me ngā whāinga rerekē

I te tipu me te huri o te tangata, ka huri pea ō rātou tumanakohanga me ā rātou whāinga mō te whanaungatanga. Mā tēnei ka whakaaro te tangata kei te tinihanga tō rātou hoa i a rātou, kei te hoki whakamuri rānei i tā rātou kupu, ā, ka arahi tēnei ki ngā māramatanga kore, ngā whakahē, me te pouri.

5. Te kore o te wā kounga tahi

Ina pukumahi ngā hoa faaipoipo i te mahi, te whānau, me ētahi atu kawenga, ka uaua pea te kimi wā hei noho tahi. Akoranga kua kitea tonutia e ngā hoa mahi e roa ake ana te wā e kōrero ana tetahi ki tetahi, ka nui ake te harikoa me te whanaungatanga piripono. Mā te kore o te wā kounga me te iti o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero ka ara ake ngā kare ā-roto o te momotu me te kore harikoa i roto i te whanaungatanga.

6. Te uaua me te kore whakaae tahi

I ētahi wā ka uaua ki te tangata te whakaae i ngā take nui, ā, ka uaua pea ki te ngāwari. He pūkenga nui hei whakawhanake te āheinga ki te urutau ki ngā huringa o te whanaungatanga. Ko te hoa rangatira e pūmau ana, e hiahia ana kia haere tonu ngā mea i runga i tā rātou ake huarahi, ka arahi pea ki ngā kare ā-roto o te pouri me te kore e tutuki i roto i te whanaungatanga.

7. Ngā pakanga mana

Koinei te wā ka tīmata te mana o tētahi hoa ki te whakamahi i te mana nui atu i tā tētahi atu e pai ai. Tērā pea he wā whakamā, ina kore e whakautehia te hoa e manahia ana. Mā te aro tonu ki ēnei kare ā-roto ka ārai i te kaha o te mauahara. 

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7. Te wāhanga whakapau kaha

Mena i taea e koe te puta i te wāhanga o mua, ngā mihi nui ki a koe, kua tae koe ki te wāhanga whakamutunga o tō haerenga whakaipoipo. Kua nui te wā i noho tahi ai kōrua, ā, kua mārama hōhonu hoki ki ngā āhuatanga o tētahi ki tētahi: 

• tuakiri
• Haapau
• Ngā tirohanga ki te ao
• Politics
• Me ētahi atu āhuatanga e whai tikanga ana ki a koe 

He taahiraa nui te whakatau kua noho ko kōrua hei hoa rangatira i roto i tō kōrua haerenga whanaungatanga. He maha ngā wā ka whakapuakina e ngā hoa rangatira te rongo o te whanaungatanga ki te marea, ka whakapuakina rānei te rongo mō te whanaungatanga. kei roto i tētahi whanaungatanga pumau me ō rātou hoa me te whānau. Mā te tohatoha i ēnei kōrero e whakaatu ana kei te titiro koe ki te tangata kē atu he wāhanga nui o tōu ao. 

Tērā pea kua kōrerohia, kua kitea hoki e kōrua he māramatanga mō ngā mahere mō te wā roa pēnei i te noho tahi, te wātaka mō te marena, tetahi atu momo herenga rānei.

Ko ētahi o ngā āhuatanga matua o tēnei wāhanga whakamutunga ko:

• Te whakaae ki tō hoa rangatira i tōna āhua: Kua tae koe ki te aroha ki a rātou katoa; me ō rātou tino pai me ō rātou ngoikoretanga katoa
• Ka whakatata tahi kōrua ki te ao: Ina kei roto koe i tētahi hononga pumau, ka whakatau tahi kōrua i ngā whakataunga me ngā mahere mō te heke mai. Mai i tēnei wā ki tēnei wā ka tohaina, ka wheakohia hoki ngā wheako o te ao me te whakapau kaha tahi.
• Te whakapau kaha ki te whakatau i ngā takeKua mōhio kē kōrua ko tō hoa ki ngā wāhi e raru ai te whanaungatanga, ā, e whakapau kaha ana kōrua ki te whakaoti i ngā wero me te tipu tahi hei tokorua. Ka puta atu hoki kōrua i tō rohe whakamarie, ka whakapau kaha ki te waihanga i te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i tō kōrua whanaungatanga aroha.
• He taumata whakawhitiwhiti kōrero hōhonu ake: E whakarongo ana kōrua tetahi ki tetahi, ehara i te mea hei whakarongo noa, engari hei mārama hoki ki ō rātou tirohanga me te mea e ngana ana tetahi ki te whakapuaki i tētahi atu i tētahi taumata hohonu ake. Kua whanakehia e kōrua tētahi momo aroha matatau ki a kōrua.

Ko ēnei ētahi noa iho o ngā tohu kei roto koe i tētahi hononga pumau.

Waahi	He aha te tikanga
1. Wāhanga Kuru	Te mura tuatahi, ka rongo koe i te aroha me te kukume i runga i ngā āhuatanga me te āhua, ā, he maha ngā wā ka haere tahi me ngā whakaaro tonu mō te tangata.
2. Wāhanga Kōrero	Te wā tīmatanga o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, ka tīmata kōrua ki te kōrero pinepine, ki te pārekareka ki te noho tahi me tetahi, ā, ka aromatawai i te hototahitanga taketake me te kore he herenga ōkawa.
3. Wāhanga i mua i te Whakaipoipo	Ka kitea haere te hiahia o tetahi ki tetahi; ka whakaatu te tokorua i te aroha aroha, ā, ka nui ake te wā e noho tahi ai rāua i roto i ngā horopaki whaiaro.
4. Wāhanga Whakaipoipo	Te mōhio ki ngā kare ā-roto aroha, te haere ki ngā wā whakarite, te ako i ngā uara me ngā tuakiri o tētahi ki tētahi, me te tīmata ki te whakaaro ki te heke mai.
5. Wāhanga Whakaraerae	Ka piki ake te tuwhera o ngā kare ā-roto i te mea ka hohonu ake te whakapuakitanga o ngā whakaaro, ngā kare ā-roto, ngā whāinga, me ngā tumanakohanga a ngā hoa e rua, ka whakapakari ake i te whakawhirinaki me te whanaungatanga piripono.
6. Wāhanga Wero	Ka puta ake ngā pakanga me ngā take o te ao tūroa; ko te huarahi e whakatere ai ia hoa i ngā wero e whakaata ana i te hototahitanga me te manawanui o te whanaungatanga e whanake ana.
7. Wāhanga Whakapūmau	Te wāhanga whakamutunga ka tautuhia mana e ngā hoa te whanaungatanga, ka whakakotahi i ō rātou oranga, ka whakarite tahi i ngā mahere mō āpōpō, ā, ka whakaū i te whakapau kaha o tētahi ki tētahi.

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whakaaro whakamutunga

Ko te tumanako kua whakamāramahia e tēnei tuhinga ētahi huarahi hei whakatere i ngā wāhanga tōmua o te whanaungatanga aroha. He mea nui kia maumahara he ahurei ia tokorua, ia tokorua, ā, he rerekē pea te wā e ahu whakamua ai rāua i roto i ngā wāhanga. Tērā pea ka tere te neke o ētahi tokorua i ngā wāhanga tōmua, ā, ka kitea rāua i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga pumau i muri i ētahi marama noa iho, ko ētahi ia ka roa pea ngā tau ki te hanga i tētahi turanga pakari o te whakawhirinaki me te whanaungatanga piripono. Ahakoa te tere, te puhoi rānei o ngā mea, me whai wā tonu ki te okioki, ki te manawa, me te whakaaroaro ki te mea whakamiharo o te aroha.

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