Ngā Tūāpapa e Whā o ngā Hononga e Whakaaetia Katoatia ana e Tātou

Ā, me pēhea te tae atu ki ia mea

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Whakahōungia i te: 12 o Noema, 2024
Ngā turanga i roto i te whanaungatanga
Porohia te aroha

Ko ngā pūtake o ngā whanaungatanga he tohutoro nō Amerika kua rongonui haere i te ao whānui. I ahu mai ēnei tohutoro i te kupu whakarite mō te pēihipora, ā, e whakamahia ana hei whakaahua i te tawhiti kua tae atu koe ki te whanaungatanga piripono. Nā, he aha ngā pūtake e whā o te whanaungatanga?

Tērā pea he pōhēhētanga mō ngā momo pūtake rerekē i roto i te whanaungatanga, inā koa he rerekē ngā whakamāramatanga a te katoa mō rātou. He mea pai kia mōhio tonu koe ki ngā tohutoro noa e mōhiotia ana e te katoa. Anei ngā whakamāramatanga o ngā pūtake me te rārangi wā e whakaaetia whānuitia ana mō ngā pūtake i roto i te whanaungatanga.

He aha ngā tūāpapa e whā o te whanaungatanga?

Kua rongo koe i ō hoa e kōrero ana mō te patu i te turanga tuarua, te whiwhi rānei i te turanga tuatoru me tētahi tangata? Kei te whakaaro koe: He aha ngā turanga i roto i te whakaipoipo e kōrerohia ana e te tangata? Ā, e hia ngā turanga kei reira? Kei te pātai koe ki a koe anō, "Taria, kāore au e kite i tētahi taputapu pēihipora, he aha te tikanga o te turanga tuarua e kōrerohia ana e rātou?" Kaua e manukanuka, kei konei mātou hei āwhina. Anei te whakautu ki te "he aha ngā turanga moepuku i roto i te whanaungatanga?":

  • Te turanga tuatahi: Kihi
  • Turanga tuarua: Whakatairanga ringa (i runga ake i te hope)
  • Tuatoru: Whakatairanga waha
  • Tuawhā o ngā turanga: Te moe tahi

He rite tonu ēnei rerekētanga mō te katoa, ā, kāore e rerekē i runga i te tau, te wāhi, te wā, te momo whanaungatanga (nō reira, kāore anō kia rerekē ngā pūtake hou mō te whakaipoipo i te tau 2023). Nō reira, kāore anō kia rerekē te whakautu ki ngā pātai pēnei i te "He aha te pūtake tuarua mō te taatai?" me te "He aha te pūtake tuatoru i roto i te whanaungatanga?".

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Ahakoa rā, ehara i te mea ngāwari te neke mai i te turanga tuarua ki te turanga tuatoru, ā, i ētahi wā, ki te kore e whiua te whiu, ka pekepeke koe i te turanga tuawhā, kāore e whakahokia mai. Hei tauira, ko te tangata kei roto i tētahi hononga nui ka roa pea te wā e neke ana i te turanga tuatahi (Wīwī kihi) ki te turanga tuawhā, inā koa mēnā e hiahia ana ia ki te āta haere. I tētahi atu taha, ko te tangata kei roto i tētahi āhuatanga hoa-ki-ngā-painga ka aro pea ki tōna hononga tinana anake, ka whakatau ko te whakatauira pēihipora katoa ka taea te maka, ka peke tere mai i tētahi turanga ki tētahi atu pērā i a Babe Ruth.

Nā, kua mārama kē tātou ki ngā āhuatanga matua o tētahi whanaungatanga, me whakamārama atu tātou i ngā āhuatanga matua o tētahi whanaungatanga, me ōna tikanga hoki ina neke atu i tētahi ki tētahi.

ngā turanga i roto i te aroha
Ngā turanga i roto i te whakaipoipo

1. Ka tīmata katoa i te turanga tuatahi

He aha te pūtake tuatahi o te whakaipoipo? Ko te mea e tumanakohia ana e koe kia mahia i te mutunga o tera taima tuatahi rā, te mea e mōhio tonu ai koe ki te pai o te hononga o kōrua: te kihi. Ehara i te mea he kihi noa iho i te paparinga, he pa atu rānei ki ngā ngutu, engari he kihi Wīwī katoa me te arero me ērā atu mea katoa. I te mea ko te whanaungatanga i waenganui i te tokorua ka tīmata i te here o ngā ngutu, ka kiia ko te turanga tuatahi.

He tīmatanga ngawari, aroha, kare ā-roto tēnei e puta ana i te wā tuatahi, tuarua rānei o te rā. Ae, tera pea ka uru ō ringaringa ki te kopikopiko ki te makawe, ki te kaki, me te tuara o te tangata kē, engari ngana ki te whakawhāiti i tēnā mena kāore he tohu mārama e hiahia ana kōrua ki te anga whakamua. Ko te turanga tuatahi i roto i ngā whanaungatanga he maha hoki te whakamahi hei ine hei tirotiro mena kei te whai whakaohooho moepuku, me te mea he pai ki te anga whakamua. Ko wai ka mōhio ka taea e ngā kupu whakarite pēihipora te āwhina i a koe ki te whakatau me pēhea te haere o ngā mea i roto i tō oranga aroha?

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Nga mea hei whakaaro ake:

  • Ko te turanga tuatahi i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga ka puta i te wā tuatahi, tuarua rānei o te rā.
  • Tērā pea ka whakaaro ētahi tāne me ngā wāhine he whakamātautau te tūāpapa tuatahi o te whakaipoipo hei aromatawai mēnā he whanaungatanga ā-tinana kei roto. te matū i waenganui i a rātou 
  • Tukua kia puta noa mai. Ki te whakaaro koe ka whiua e koe te turanga tuatahi, ki te kī rānei he mea whakarihariha pea.
  • Hei whakanui ake i ō tupono, pānuihia te reo tinana o tō hoa, kia mārama ki tō rātou hiahia ki a koe, whakatūria he hononga pai i te tuatahi.
  • Kia tika te wā me te wāhi e whiriwhiria ana e koe. Ki te kino koe, e tō hoa rānei ki te PDA, kāore pea koe e kihi ana i tētahi i roto i tētahi tiriti kī tonu i te tangata, i tētahi wharekai rānei.
  • Pērā i ngā hononga katoa, he mea nui te whiwhi whakaaetanga. Me whiwhi whakaaetanga i mua i te whakapā atu ki te tangata, ā, me pupuri ō ringaringa ki te mata, ki te kaki, ki te tuara rānei o tō hoa.

2. Te tikanga o te turanga tuarua: Te whakamahi i te ringa

He aha te mea tuarua i roto i te whakaipoipo? He whanaketanga maori noa iho i roto i te te rārangi wā o te whanaungatanga mai i te tuatahi. Haunga te kihi kaha, ka uru atu hoki te whakaohooho ringa engari kei runga ake i te hope. He nui te pā, te pupuri, te hopu, me te maha o ngā wā, te kapu, te mirimiri rānei i ngā ū e uru ana ki te turanga tuarua i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. I tēnei wā, ko te pā anake te here o tō whanaungatanga, engari āe, ka puta te tihi.

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Āe, he rite tonu te whakahihiri o te turanga tuarua mō ngā tāne ki ngā turanga katoa. Kāore rātou e ngana tonu ki te whiwhi i te home run (ahakoa e whakapono ana te ahurea rongonui koinei anake te mea e whaia ana e ngā tāne). E pai ana hoki rātou ki te turanga tuatahi i roto i te whanaungatanga, pērā i te pai ki a rātou ki te turanga tuarua i roto i te whanaungatanga. Nō reira, kaua e whakaaro me tere koe ki te hipa i tetahi mea. Kei te moemoeā kē koe mō te huarahi ki te eke ki te turanga tuarua i roto i ngā whanaungatanga? Pānui tonu, ka āwhina mātou i a koe kia tae ki reira.

Nga mea hei whakaaro ake:

  • He rerekē ngā wā ka taka te turanga tuarua o te whanaungatanga mō ngā tāngata rerekē, kei te mea e tika ana mō kōrua, me te pai o tō kōrua noho tahi.
  • Pērā i ngā pūtake katoa o tētahi whanaungatanga, ko te te tūranga o te whakaae he mea tino nui
  • Ko te turanga tuarua ka puta mai i te wā o te hui whakaipoipo, ā, ko te mea nui ko te pānui i ngā urupare a tō hoa ki a koe.
  • Ki te mea kei te ruarua rātou, kāore rānei e anga whakamua, me hoki whakamuri anō hoki koe. Heoi, ki te pai te rere o ngā mea, ka taea te noho hei wheako ngahau i te turanga tuarua.
  • Kia tīmata te hononga tuarua, pātai atu ki tō hoa he aha te mea e pai ana ki a ia, me te kī atu ki a ia he aha tāu e pai ai, engari kia maumahara kia māmā, kia ngahau hoki.
  • Ki te pāngia koe e te manukanuka, e te āwangawanga rānei, he pai tonu te hoki whakamuri, te tono rānei kia ata haere ngā mea.
  • Ki te kore tō hoa e pai ki te patu i te turanga tuarua, hoki whakamuri, ka hoatu he wā ki a ia.
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Te moe tāne i te rā tuatahi…

3. Ko te turanga tuatoru ko te wā ka tīmata te wera haere o ngā mea

I muri i te kōrero mō te turanga tuarua mō te moepuku, me neke atu tātou ki te turanga tuatoru i roto i te whanaungatanga. Ko te tikanga ko te tuku i tō arero kia kōrero. Kāore, ehara i te mea tūturu. Ko te turanga tuatoru i roto i ngā whanaungatanga ko te whakamahinga o te arero (me ngā niho, ki te mea he pai ki a kōrua te momo mea) hei mahi ngā nekehanga moe ā-wahaMai i ngā ū ki raro rawa.

Koinei te wā ka tīmata te moepuku, ā, ka taea hoki te whakamahi hei whakaaturanga mō ngā mea ka puta i muri mai. Kaua e whakaaro noa ki tēnei wāhanga. Ko te pai (te kore rānei) o tō mahi moepuku ā-waha he mea nui ki te ahunga whakamua o ngā mea, ahakoa kei runga koe i te tu kotahi poKo te mahi tika ko te whakapuaki i ō hiahia me tāu e rapu ana, me te mārama ki ngā hiahia o tō hoa.

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Ki te mea kei te tuku kōrua i te upoko o tētahi ki tētahi, arā, te moe ā-waha, kua tae kōrua ki te turanga tuatoru o te whanaungatanga. Koinei pea te wāhanga whakamutunga o te ahuareka o te moepuku, ahakoa he takatāpui koe, he takatāpui rānei. Ko te moe tārewa, ko te 'turanga e whai ake nei', ehara i te mea he hiahia mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine katoa. Engari, ina whakaarohia te tikanga o te turanga tuatoru tikanga i roto i te whanaungatanga, i te nuinga o te wā ka tata tonu te neke atu o te tokorua ki te turanga whakamutunga (mēnā e hiahia ana rātou).

Nga mea hei maumahara

  • Kāore he rārangi wā mō te turanga tuatoru o ngā whanaungatanga, nā te mea ka ruku pea te tangata ki roto i taua turanga i muri i te marama o te whakaipoipo, ka hiahia pea rānei rātou ki te whai i tētahi atu turanga. kia puhoi ā, ka pā ki te turanga tuatoru i muri i ētahi atu marama
  • Pērā i ngā turanga katoa o te whanaungatanga, he mea nui te whiwhi whakaaetanga hihiri
  • He tino ātaahua te turanga tuatoru, ā, he maha ngā tāngata e pai ana ki te wā mena he whakawhitiwhiti kōrero me te tuwhera.
  • He mea pai kia kōrerohia ō tumanakohanga me te taumata whakamarie i mua i te whai wāhi atu ki te turanga tuatoru.
  • Ko te ngana ki te whai wāhi ki te moe ā-waha hei whakamanawareka i te hoa, te mahi rānei i taua mea ahakoa kāore koe i te tino mōhio, tērā pea kāore e arahi ki tētahi wheako ngahau.
  • Kōrero ki tō hoa mēnā kei te pōuri rawa koe, ā, me whai wāhi koe ki te tukanga kia mōhio ai rātou ki ō rohe. Waihoki, whakautehia ngā rohe o tō hoa.
  • Whakamihi i tō hoa, kōrero tetahi ki tetahi, me te kōrero tetahi ki tetahi he aha tā kōrua e pai ai, he aha hoki ngā mea kāore e whai hua ana. Ko te moe ā-waha he kōrero me te whakatuwhera i te ngākau tetahi ki tetahi
  • Kia aro nui ki ngā mea e pai ana ki tō hoa, me ngā mea kāore e pai ana ki a rātou. Mā te whakarongo ki a rātou ka taea te arahi i tētahi wheako ngahau ki a koutou tahi.
  • Kei te tuatoru o ngā turanga o te whanaungatanga he tūponotanga o te mate pāwera. Me mahi i te moe haumaru, kia mau tonu ngā ure me ngā ārai niho. Kāo, kāore e whakamate i te wairua. He mea whakahihiri te haumaru.
  • Ko te tae atu ki te turanga tuatoru (kāore i tua atu) ko te tokomaha o te hunga takatāpui, me te hunga takatāpui, e pārekareka ana ki te whakatutukitanga o te moepuku me te tino orgasm.

4. Te turanga tuawhā, arā, 'te oma kāinga'

E ai ki te ingoa, ko te turanga tuawhā o ngā whanaungatanga he moepuku, ā, koinei te nui o te tangata e eke ana ki te taumata orgasm (ahakoa he rite tonu te rongonui o te turanga tuatoru mō tēnā). Ko te take i tapaina ai he 'home run' nā te mea ko tēnei wāhanga, i roto i te tikanga tawhito, e kiia ana ko te whāinga whakamutunga.

Hurihuri te taatai ​​i roto i te whanaungatanga Hei tā te whana oma, hei tā te turanga tuawhā rānei, tera pea e tohu ana me tere te tae atu ki reira, engari me ngana kia āta haere, kia rite ki tō ake tere. Mēnā ka kahakina koe e ngā turanga i roto i ngā whanaungatanga, tera pea ka ahua hiahia rawa koe ki te uru atu ki roto i te tarau o tētahi, ā, ka waiho pea koe kia titiro noa ki te turanga tuatahi mai i te pae. Nō reira, kaua e tino aro ki te rārangi wā mō ngā turanga i roto i ngā whanaungatanga.

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Nga mea hei whakaaro ake:

  • Kāore he wātaka mō te turanga tuawhā o ngā whanaungatanga, ka puta noa mai ina rite ngā hoa e rua.
  • Ka taea te noho i waenga i te wiki, tae noa ki muri i te marena, kāore rānei i te moepuku mena he kore-ira koe, he whara rānei, kāore rānei koe e pai ki te moepuku (he take tika katoa mō te kore aro ki te turanga tuawhā).
  • Pērā i ngā mea katoa o tō oranga aroha e pā ana ki te aroha pa tinana+, he mea tino nui te whakaae
  • I te nuinga o te wā, ko te moe tāne me te wahine he mea nui te whakawhirinaki me te whakamarie. Kōrerohia ngā rohe, me te whakaute i aua rohe.
  • Kia mōhio ki ngā mea e rapua ana e tō hoa, ā, kia whakapuakina hoki ō tumanakohanga i mua atu
  • Kia kotahi te whakaaro i mua i te moe tāne, kaua e mahi mēnā kei te pēhia koe, kāore rānei i te tino rite ki te mahi.
  • Kaua e manukanuka ki te hono pai o ia nekehanga e mahia ana e koe ki taua whakaaturanga tino wera, kāore i te tūturu i kitea e koe i mua. Kia arotahi ki te ngahau
  • Kāore e taea te kī atu: me mahi i te moe haumaru i ngā wā katoa
  • Kaua e tango noa, kaua e hoatu, whakarongo ki ngā hiahia o tō hoa, kia tino makona hoki rātou. Ae, kei te kōrero mātou ki ngā tāne.

Nā te mea kua whakautua e mātou ō pātai pēnei i te "E hia ngā turanga kei reira?", ā, kua whakamāramahia hoki ngā turanga o te whakaipoipo, kei te whakaaro pea koe me pēhea te neke atu i tētahi turanga ki tētahi atu. Mena ko koe tētahi o te hunga e pātai ana ki a rātou anō me pēhea te tae atu ki te turanga tuatoru, te ngana rānei ki te rapu huarahi. me pēhea te kukume i tētahi tangatakaua e manukanuka, e kore mātou e waiho noa i a koe kia pōrangi noa iho.

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Me pēhea te peke i ngā turanga i roto i te whakaipoipo?

Āe, he akoranga poto tēnā mō ngā pūtake moepuku i roto i te ao whakaipoipo tawhito. He mea nui te mōhio ki ngā pūtake o te aroha, ā, he mea rerekē te wheako i aua pūtake. Kāore i rite ki te pēihipora, kāore e toru ngā whakamātautau i te ao tūturu. Kia tika ai te whakatere i ēnei wāhanga, me takaro tika koe i ō kāri, me whakarite i te wā tika mō tō nekehanga, ā, ko te mea nui, kia ngawari, kia aro hoki ki tō huarahi.

Ko ngā pūtake hou mō te tau i te tau 2023 kei te rite tonu ki ngā tau kua hipa, nō reira he rite tonu te nuinga o te huarahi. Me titiro tātou me pēhea e taea ai e koe te neke i roto i ngā wāhanga me te kore e puta hei tangata mangere, kia kore ai koe e whiwhi i ngā whiunga e toru i roto i tō whainga i te oma kāinga. Kāore ianei he mea ngahau ngā kupu whakarite mō te pēihipora?

1. Me pēhea te tae ki te turanga tuatahi

Ko te tīmatanga o te whanaungatanga he pānui i te reo tinana kia tino mōhio ai koe kua rite te tangata kē atu mō taua kihi tuatahi i mua i tō tahuritanga atu. Nō reira, tātarihia te reo tinana o te tangata kei a koe. Kei te rite tō whakaaro? Kei te piko mai rātou ki a koe ina kōrero ana? Kei te whiria tahitia ō matihao?

Mena ko te whakautu ki ēnei pātai he āe, koinei te wā hei whakapā atu ki ō rātou ngutu. Engari ki te mea kua hē tāu pānui i te tohu whakauru, ā, kāore anō rātou kia rite, kia whai mana ki te whakaae me te hoki whakamuri. Ka taea e koe te kōrero mārire me te pātai atu anō hoki, he whakaaro pai tonu tēnā. Ahakoa e hiahia ana koe, ehara i te mea me whakaae te tangata kē. Hei tāpiri, ki te hiahia anō hoki tō hoa, tera pea ka mahi rātou i tētahi mea hei tīmata, pērā i te whakatata atu ki a koe. Kātahi, ina tīmata te kihi ngāwari (te whakataukī rānei), ko tāu noa he haere i te ia o te wā, kaua e tukua tō mataku kia pōrearea.

te turanga tuatahi i roto i te whanaungatanga
Te taenga ki te turanga tuatahi

2. Me pēhea te tae ki te turanga tuarua

Nā te mea kua mōhio koe ki te tikanga o te whakaipoipo, kua tae ki te wā ki te whakaaro me pēhea te tae atu ki reira. I a kōrua e kihi ana, i rite koe ki te hiahia nui atu? I pēhia ō kōrua tinana tetahi ki tetahi? I tere haere ō kōrua ringa ki runga, ki raro i te tuara o tetahi ki tetahi? Mena āe, kua tae ki te wā ki te whakamātautau mā te neke haere i tō ringa ki roto i ō rāua kākahu, me te neke i ō maihao ki raro i ō rāua puku me tō rāua tuara.

Ko te tikanga me noho tonu koe tono whakaaetanga i mua i tō haere tonu me tēnei wāhanga. Ahakoa kei waenganui koe i tētahi kihi aroha, ā, kei reira ngā tohu ā-tinana katoa, ko te tono whakaaetanga kia tukua ō ringaringa kia kopikopiko noa iho e kore e whakamate i te wairua, whakawhirinaki mai ki a mātou. He nui te mana whakahaere e hiahiatia ana hei pupuri i a koe anō i muri i tētahi wā kihi wera, aroha, engari ka tūtohu mātou kia āta haere koe ki te turanga tuarua me tua atu.

Tērā pea he wawe rawa te tuku i ō kare ā-roto i te rā tuatahi, tuarua rānei. Kia mohio tetahi ki tetahi He iti noa iho te wā i mua i tō tīmatanga, i tō whakaae rānei ki tō hoa. He rite tonu te hiranga o te turanga tuarua mō ngā tāne ki tā rātou hiranga mō ā rātou wāhine. Nō reira, ki te mea kei te whakaipoipo koe i tētahi tāne, kaua e whakaaro kei te hiahia ia kia tere te puta i tēnei wāhanga. Kia mōhio ki a ia, pānuihia te rūma, ā, tonoa kia whakaaetia. Ahakoa kei te whakamahi mātou i ngā kupu whakarite pēihipora, ehara i te mea me oma koe mai i tētahi turanga ki tētahi atu.

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3. Me pēhea te tae atu ki te turanga tuatoru

Ko te tikanga o te tuatoru o ngā turanga i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga ko te moe ā-waha, ā, he tohu nui tēnei i ngā wāhanga tōmua o tētahi aroha. Ko te neke atu i te kihi tetahi ki tetahi ki te moe ā-waha he wā tino piripono, ā, mā te tere tonu ka pakaru pea te mea katoa. Ki te kore koe e rapu hononga noa, i tētahi mea rite rānei, me ata whakaaro koe me pēhea te tae atu ki te tuatoru o ngā turanga nā te mea, i tēnei wā, ka kaha haere ngā mea.

He mea pai kia whai wā whakatā koe i tō tūhuratanga i te turanga tuarua, ka pātai atu ki tō hoa mēnā kua rite rātou mō ētahi atu. Ā, ki te mea ko te whakautu he āe, haere tonu ki te tūhura i ngā taumata hou o ngā ahuareka o te tinana. Ko te whakautu ki te huarahi ki te tae atu ki te turanga tuatoru he tino māmā noa iho.

He mea nui anō hoki te whai wā ki te mōhio tetahi ki tetahi i mua i tēnei nekehanga nā te mea ka taea e ētahi whakaohooho ā-waha te whakararu i a koe te mōrearea o ngā mate tuku ihoNō reira, me tino mōhio koe ki tō haumaru. He mea pai te whakamahi i ngā ārai pēnei i te ure tārewa, i ngā ārai waha rānei i tēnei wā. Haunga tēnā, me kotahi te whakaaro mō ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e koe mai i te whanaungatanga, nā te mea ki te rapu wheako noa tetahi, ā, ki te whai wāhi nui tetahi ki te taha hinengaro, ka nui te mamae ka pā mai.

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4. Me pēhea te tae ki te turanga tuawhā

Ko te mea tino nui hei maumahara māu ko te whakaae i te wā whakaipoipoKōrero roa tetahi ki tetahi, kia tino rite kōrua mō te whiu whakamutunga o te aroha i mua i te patu i te mea e kiia nei ko te oma hōnore. Kaua e pēhi i tō hoa, nā te mea ehara te whakapati i te whakaae. Waihoki, kaua e tukua ki te pēhanga a tō hoa, a ō hoa rānei. Me mahi koe i tēnei i tō ake tere, ā, i te wā e rite ana koe ki te hinengaro me te tinana.

Ina pērā koe, kia rite tō haere. Arā, hoko mai i ō ake ure tāne. Kaua e whakawhirinaki ki te tangata kē atu hei tiaki i a koe, kaua hoki e moe tāne me te wahine i te "werawera o te wā". Ki te kore he parenga āu, whakaroahia mō tētahi atu wā. Ā, kia tino noho koe ki tētahi wāhi haumaru.

I a koe e mahi ana, kia whai whakaaro ki ngā hiahia o tō hoa, kia rite hoki ki tā rātou e pai ai. Kāore he mea whakaroa atu i te noho tahi me tētahi tangata e hiahia ana ki te moe. Ka taea e koe te ngaro i tō whanaungatanga. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te tae atu ki te turanga tuawhā i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga, ko te nuinga o te mea e whakawhirinaki ana ki te āhua o tō whanaungatanga me te momo whanaungatanga kei a koe.

ngā kōrero mō te whakaipoipo me ētahi atu

Hei tauira, ki te mea kei te whakaipoipo noa kōrua, he hoa rānei kei a kōrua ngā painga, mā te whakaoti i te wāhanga tuatoru o te turanga ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakanui ake i ō tupono ki te kawe mai i te aroha ki te kāinga. Ki te mea kei roto koe i tētahi whanaungatanga pakeke, he pai ake te kōrero tuwhera ki tō hoa mō tēnei mea, māna e kī atu ki a koe te wā ka taea e ia te moe tahi me koe, me ngā mea e hiahiatia ana kia tutuki ai i a ia taua hiahia.

Ki te mea kua tae koe ki tētahi wā kua pāngia ngā turanga pēhiporo katoa i roto i te whakaipoipo engari ko te mea whakamutunga, ko te mea anake me mahi e koe ko te takaro tika i ō kāri nā te mea he mārama kei te mahi tika koe. Me noho tonu ki te atawhai, me noho tonu hei tangata atawhai e whakanui ana i tā rātou hoa, ā, ka pai ngā mea katoa. PS: ko te nui ake o tō whakaatu i te mea ko te turanga tuawhā anake tāu e aro nui ana, ko te tawhiti atu ka mawehe atu koe i reira. Kaukau mātao, i nāianei.

Tohutohu Matua

  • Ko te turanga tuatahi he kihi, ko te turanga tuarua he whakatauira ringa (i runga ake i te hope), ko te turanga tuatoru he ira tangata ā-waha, ā, ko te turanga tuawhā, kāore e hiahiatia, he ira tangata uru.
  • Kāore rawa he rārangi wā mō ngā tūāpapa o tētahi whanaungatanga, ā, ka tae koe ki ia taumata i runga i te ahunga whakamua o tō whanaungatanga.
  • Ahakoa pēhea, ko tētahi o ngā mea nui ko te whiwhi whakaaetanga hihiri
  • Kia arotahi ki te hanga i ia turanga hei wheako ngahau mō te katoa

Thoughts Final

Kei reira, ko ngā kaupapa matua o te whakaipoipo e whakamāramahia ana i runga i te tikanga me te huarahi e taea ai e koe te tae atu ki reira. Ko te tumanako ka nui ake te whakahihiri o tō oranga whakaipoipo. Kia maumahara kāore koe e hiahia ki te patu i te oma hōnore. Ka taea e te whanaungatanga te whai hua, ki te kore e nui ake, ahakoa te kore he whanaungatanga ā-tinana. Ko te mea nui ko te ngana ki te hono atu ki tō hoa kia kore ai koe e hoha i tō rā tuawhā. PS: kaua e manukanuka rawa ki ngā kupu whakarite pēihipora kē atu, mena kāore koe e ngana ana ki te mahi ngaio. Arotahi noa ki te whakatutuki i te rā tuatahi!

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