He hapa noa te tirotiro i te waea a tō hoa. Heoi, ko te nuinga o tātou (ngā wāhine mate, ngā wāhine pōrangi, ngā wāhine matekiri, ngā wāhine tūpato) kua mahi i tēnā. He hē i ngā taumata maha, engari i ētahi wā he pai ake te whakama i te pouri i muri mai.
He aha tatou ka mahi ai?
Ripanga o Ihirangi
Mā te tirotiro i te waea a te tangata ka kitea tōna ao, e huna ana pea ia i a tātou, kāore rānei. Me mahi rānei tātou i tēnei? Kāore rawa. Engari he mea tika? He wāhi pōuriuri tēnei, nō reira, ki te mea kei te haumaru koe i roto i te whanaungatanga, kāore koe e hiahia ki te mahi i tēnei. Nā te mea kāore he pai e puta mai i tēnā.
Heoi anō, he hunga tino hē tātou, ā, ina mākūkū ō tātou ringa ka tirohia te waea a tō tātou hoa, koinei ngā whakaaro e whakapōuri ana i ō tātou hinengaro.
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Nō reira, kāore au i te tino hiranga hei kupuhipa māna, āe?
Ehara i te rā whānau mōku, ehara hoki i te rā huritau mō tā māua huritau, engari ko tana kupuhipa tōna rā whānau! Me pēhea rā ia e kore ai e aro? Kāore ia i te mōhio ka mamae tōku ngākau ina kite ahau i tēnei ina tirotiro haere ahau?
Me tīmata ahau ki a WhatsApp?
Kua tuwhera inaianei, ā, kei ōku ringa te khajana! He tini ngā kōwhiringa kōrerorero, engari me tīmata ahau ki hea? Te āhua nei ko WhatsApp te wāhi tika. Me panuku tātou ki raro!
Āe, tini ngā whakamōhiotanga! Me tirotiro e au tētahi, e rua rānei? Ka mōhio ia?
He aha rā te nui o ngā whakamōhiotanga e tatari ana ki a ia? Kāore ia e tirotiro i tana waea? He āhua kē te kaupapa īmēra. Me tirotiro e au? He aha i pai ai tana hoa o mua ki tana pikitia i runga i a Pukamata? Me tirotiro e au tehea pikitia? Tērā pea ka hopukina ahau? Āe, he mea whakama rawa tēnā!
No te aha ahau e mahi i tenei?
Kei te taumaha haere taku whakama. He aha ahau i pēnei ai te hiahia nui? He aha tāku e hiahia ana kia kitea? Āue!
Ko wai tēnei kōtiro e tuku karere ana ki a ia 'Mōrena'?
Kia arotahi tātou. He aha te take e hiahia ai tēnei kōtiro ātaahua ki a ia i ia rā? I mukua rānei e ia ngā kōrerorero mōrearea nā te mea i mōhio ia ka tirotiro ahau? He aha ahau i pēnei ai te mataku, engari?
Āe…Ngā karere kuputuhi…
He tawhito pea ia, ā, e takaro ana ki ngā karere kuputuhi. Panuku, panuku, panuku…kāore he aha! He aha te mahi i muri mai?
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Aue, e te Karaiti tapu! Nā wai rā i pupuri i te tini o ngā whakaahua pōrangi i roto i tana taiwhanga whakaahua?
Kei te moemoeā ia mō rātou i a ia e mahi tahi ana me au? Kei te pai ia ki te titiro ki ēnei wāhine ātaahua me ā rātou ure tahanga i a ia e mirimiri ana? Kaua ianei ia e whakaaro noa ki ahau, ā, me pupuri noa i aku whakaahua tahanga ki tana taiwhanga whakaahua? Āe, kei te ngaro koe ināianei, e hine!
Āe! Kāore anō kia tangohia e ia a Tinder!
Āe, taihoa, kei a ia tonu te Tinder kua tāutahia. Me whakamārama mai ki ahau tēnei. He mea nui tēnei. Kāore rānei?
He aha ia kāore i te tino hohe i roto i tana rōpū Whānau?
He wā tōna mō āna rōpū 'tāne katoa' engari kāore mō ngā katakata a tōna matua kēkē? Engari, e hine, ehara i te mea māu!
Arotahi!
He tini ngā taupānga, he tini ngā karere, he iti noa te wā, ā, kei te ngaro taku arotahi nā te mea kāore he mea!
Kei hea te paru?
Haere mai, e hoa, kei hea koe e pupuri ai i ō paru? Ka mukua e ia ngā karere mōrearea? Me whai ipu para anō hoki ngā waea. Āue!
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Ka mārama ia?
Kei te waiho e au tētahi tohu? Ka mōhio rānei ia i tirotirohia e au tana waea? He aha taku whakamārama? Āe, kāore rawa taua tirohanga e ataahua!
Kāore au e pai mēnā ka tūhuratia e ia taku waea pūkoro.
Me te mea nei kāore ia e whakawhirinaki mai ki ahau. He takahi i tōku tūmataitinga. Ko tōna tikanga kei te haere ia i muri i ahau ki te tirotiro i tōku ao. Ka riri rawa ahau ki a ia mēnā ka tirohia e ia taku waea i muri i ahau. Taria! He aha taku mahi ki tana waea?
Me pēhea rā ia e mā ai?
Ko ia te tangata pono rawa atu! Me pēhea rā e ora tonu ai tētahi tangata pēnei?
Me pērā ahau!
E whakama ana ahau ki te mahi i tēnei. He pai ake ahau i tēnei.
Ka puritia e au ki tōna āhua o mua, ka whakaaro me te mea kāore tēnei i tupu. Ātaahua!
Kua mukua ngā tohu katoa, kua raka te waea, ā, ka whakaaro noa ahau kāore au i mahi i tēnei. Kua tirohia tō waea? He waea aha? Kāore anō ahau kia kite i tō waea i roto i tōku ao katoa!
I tirotirohia e koe te waea a tō hoa? I kitea e koe tētahi mea whakakatakata? Tuhia mai ō wheako ki ngā kōrero i raro nei.
FAQs
1. He hē te tirotiro i te waea a taku hoa?
E kiia ana he takahi i te tūmataitinga, ā, ka taea te whakararu i te whakawhirinakitanga i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga. Ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero tuwhera te mea nui.
2. Ā, mēnā ka kitea e au tētahi mea whakapae?
He mea nui kia kōrerohia ō āwangawanga i runga i te marino, me te tika ki tō hoa. Kaua e whakapae, engari kia arotahi ki te mārama ki te āhuatanga.
3. He aha ahau i hiahia ai ki te tirotiro i tana waea?
He maha ngā wā ka puta mai tēnei hiahia i te koretake o te māia, te kore whakawhirinaki, ngā wheako o mua rānei. He mea nui kia arohia ēnei take matua hei hanga i tētahi whanaungatanga hauora.
Thoughts Final
Ahakoa he kaha te whakamatautauranga ki te tirotiro i te waea a tō hoa, he mea nui kia mahara ko te whakawhirinaki me te whakaute ngā tūāpapa o tētahi whanaungatanga hauora. Ka taea e te tirotiro puku te whakaiti i taua whakawhirinaki me te waihanga pakanga koretake. Mena kei te pōuri koe, kei te whakapae rānei, he mea nui kia aro atu koe ki aua kare ā-roto ki tō hoa, kaua ki te mahi huna.
He mea nui te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero tuwhera, pono hoki. Mā te whakatairanga i tētahi wāhi haumaru hei whakapuaki i ngā āwangawanga me ngā ngoikoretanga, ka taea e koe te hanga hononga kaha ake, me te karo i ngā mahanga o te kore whakawhirinaki me te whakapae. Kia maumahara, ko ngā whanaungatanga hauora e hangaia ana i runga i te whakaute tetahi ki tetahi, te māramatanga, me te whakapau kaha ki te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero tuwhera.
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I ēnei rā, kua horapa ngā whakaahua ki ngā pāpāho pāpori, ā, ka kitea ngā hoa e tirotiro ana i ā rātou waea. Kei reira tonu te mana pupuri i roto i te whanaungatanga. I ētahi wā ka whakaaro tātou mēnā kei te tinihanga tā tātou hoa i a tātou. Ka tirohia e tātou te waea a tā tātou hoa, ā, me mutu tā tātou tirotiro i tā rātou waea! He ara kino tēnei mō te aituā! Ka whakamāramahia e ia ētahi take he aha te tangata e mana pupuri ana.