Te Whakaipoipo i ngā Tāne Poto: Ngā Painga, Ngā Huakore, me Ngā Tohutohu Hei Whakaoti

He tino rongonui te whakaipoipo i ngā tāne poto i tēnei wā, nā te ahua o te puna poto o TikTok (me Tom Holland anō hoki). Whakaarohia tēnei: ​​Kei te mātaki au i te The Sex Lives of College Girls , ā, ka kite au i te wāhanga, The Short King . I konei, ka tūtaki a Bela Malhotra ki a Wes, he mema nō te tīma kapa tāne. Anei te huringa: he poto ake tēnei wahine ātaahua i te toenga. I tana whakatata atu ki a ia, ka mea noa ia, "Kei te tīma kapa koe? Engari, kāore koe i te poto?" Ka whakahoki a Wes, "Ko au te kaiurungi. Ka whakarite ahau kia mutu te poti i te tuatahi, ā, ka taea e au te mahi i te mea kotahi māu." He kōrero mō te BDE, āe?

I muri i tana whai i a Wes i runga i te Instagram, ka whakaaro ia he "tino ātaahua" ia. I tētahi rā, ka tukuna atu e ia he karere kuputuhi ki a ia, "Kua whakaarohia e koe te painga o te moe tahi me tētahi tāne e rua inihi te poto ake i a koe?" I a rāua e piripono ana, ka karanga a Bela, "Aue, he rite ki te panga tāua!" I muri mai ka kōrero ia ki ōna hoa noho whare wānanga, "He tika tāku hoa wahine a Zendaya, ko ngā tāne poto te mea nui!"

Ki te kitea koe i roto i tētahi āhuatanga werawera pērā i a Bela – te piri atu ki tētahi kingi poto, te aroha nui atu rānei ki tētahi, te tautohetohe noa rānei mēnā me piri atu koe ki tētahi tāne poto – kei konei mātou hei whakautu i ō pātai katoa. Āe, kia rite ki te ruku ki te ao o ngā kingi poto. Ka tūhuratia e mātou ngā painga me ngā huakore, ā, āe, ka tukuna atu ētahi tohutohu whakamiharo mō te piri atu ki tētahi tāne poto.

5 Ngā Painga Matua o te Whakaipoipo i ngā Tāne Poto

E kī ana tētahi kaiwhakamahi Reddit , "E 5 putu 8 inihi te roa o taku tāne. He poto ake taku tāne i ahau, ā, e kiia ana he tangata "poto ake". Kāore ia i te aro ki tōku teitei, ki tōna teitei rānei. He tino pakeke ia i te taha hinengaro me te taha hinengaro, ā, ehara te teitei i te raruraru. He hoa rangatira ia, he tangata manaaki, tautoko hoki."

Engari kia pono tātou mō te aro nui ki te roa i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. Kei te whakapono te hapori ko te roa he rite ki te rangatira, te kaha, me te māia. I roto i tā tātou aro nui ki ēnei momo whakaaro pāpori, ka warewarehia e tātou ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te āhua me te hototahi o te whanaungatanga (he mea nui tēnā, tika?). Engari, kei konei mātou hei whakarerekē i ngā mea, hei whakaatu ki a koe i ngā painga whakamiharo o te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto ake i a koe.

1. He maha ake ngā wā ka moe tāne poto

E mōhio ana koe ki te ariā: he roa, he mangu, he ātaahua – koinei te tohu o ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e te wahine i roto i te tāne. Kua arahina tātou ki te whakapono ko te teitei te tohu ira matua o te oranga tinana me te hiahia, e tohu ana i te rangatira o te moepuku. Engari mātakitaki mai? Ehara te teitei i te pūtake o te moepuku me te ahuareka.

Ina hoki, e ai ki te The Journal of Sexual Medicine , he nui ake te moepuku o ngā tāne poto ake i ō rātou hoa roa ake. I whakahaerehia tēnei rangahau me te 531 ngā tāne takatāpui, ko te nuinga o rātou he 25 ki te 29 tau te pakeke. I kitea "he nui ake te auau moepuku i waenga i ngā tāne he iti iho i te 175cm te roa" (5'9" me raro iho).

Kei te hiahia koe ki te mōhio ki te mea nui? E kōrero ana a Fiona (28), nō Boston, he aha i pai ake ai ngā tāne poto i te moenga, "He pai ki ahau ngā tāne poto. He poto taku hoa tāne, ā, kua toru tau māua e whakaipoipo ana. Ki taku whakaaro he tino pai māua, ehara i te mea ko te kare ā-roto anake engari ko te tinana hoki. He tino mīharo te hototahitanga o tā māua moepuku ! Arā, he tino ōrite ō māua wāhanga, kāore māua e hiahia ki te noho pōuri i te wā e moe ana i te kaukau. He tino ngāwari, ā, he nui ake te ngahau! Koinei te take he pai ake ai ngā tāne poto i te moenga." Koinei te mea e kīia nei e au he hoa i hangaia i te rangi - kei reira te wai e rere ana, e puhake ana te ngahau. Kia mau tonu aua kaukau werawera, e Fiona!

Pānui e pā ana: He aha te ataahua o ngā tāne pakira? 9 ngā take

2. E mōhio ana rātou ki te patu me te māia

Kua whakaaro kē koe mō te rerekētanga o te teitei toharite i waenga i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine? Kei te āwangawanga koe mō ngā tohu o te mate tāne poto? Āe, he mea noa te whakaaro pōuri mō te teitei i roto i ngā whanaungatanga (ina koa kei te whakaipoipo koe i tētahi tangata iti). Nō reira, ki te āwangawanga koe kei uaua te kōrero a ngā tāne poto ki ngā kōtiro, ki te māharahara rānei koe mō te āhua o te tū tahi me tētahi tāne poto, kia aro mai.

Me tīmata tātou ki tētahi kōrero whakamere: kua rongo kē koe mō te Napoleon Complex? Ko te kupu nei e whakamahia ana hei whakaahua i tētahi tangata tino hiahia nui. I roto i tēnei horopaki, me kōrero atu e au ētahi mea mō ngā tāne poto:

• I ētahi wā, ka whakaaro pea rātou he mea hei whakamātautau mā rātou, ā, e tama, e whakaatu ana rātou i tēnā
• Ina tae ki te angitu ngaio, ka patua e rātou te kēmu
• He maha ngā wā ka noho ko rātou hei toa pono mō te whakaaro nui ki a rātou anō me te angitu. Arā, tirohia ngā tāne me ngā wāhine whakamiharo pērā i a Joe Jonas rāua ko Sophie Turner.

E ai ki tētahi kaiwhakamahi Reddit , "I mua i te wā i whakaipoipo ahau i tētahi tāne he poto ake i ahau i te 4 inihi. He tino māia ia, he karismānawa hoki. I tawai ana hoa ki a ia mō te rerekētanga o te roa, ā, ka tahuri noa ia me te kī, 'kia aha rā?' I riro tonu i a ia te kōtiro. He roa ake ahau i ana hoa katoa lol."

E kī ana tētahi atu kaiwhakamahi , "E 5′ 6″ te roa o taku tāne, ā, he māia ia ki a ia anō. Koinei te mea i tino ātaahua ki ahau. He āwhina anō hoki tēnei kia pakari ia. He pakari tōna tinana, ehara i te mea kikokore. Engari ko tōna māia ki a ia anō te mea i tino ātaahua ki ahau. Waihoki, ko aua uaua o te uma me te uma. He aha taku e kī atu ai, he pai ki ahau te paku uaua. Ā, he wera te māia."

Pānui e pā ana: 18 Ngā Tohu Whakaipoipo Moata e Pai Ana Ia Ki A Koe

3. E ai ki ngā rangahau he roa ake tō rātou oranga

I roto i tētahi rangahau i whakaputaina ki te PLOS One , i whakamāramahia he "ira roa" pea e mōhiotia ana ko FOXO3. E kitea ana ko tēnei ira whakamiharo e hono ana ki te roa o te ora me te iti o te tinana. Ā, mātakitaki mai? Kua toa ngā tāne poto. E kī ana tēnei rangahau ka roa pea rātou ki te ora mō ētahi atu tau! E ai ki tēnei ariā, ko te hunga kei raro iho i te 5 putu te roa te roa ko rātou ngā toa tūturu i te kēmu roa.

4. Poroporoaki ki ngā pakanga rūma waewae

Āe, whakaarohia tēnei: ​​kei te haere koe i tētahi rā moemoeā me tō hoa rangatira roa (he Zac Efron pea), e kai ana i tētahi tina whakamarie, e inu ana rānei i tētahi inu i roto i tētahi pāpa pukumahi. He tino pai te āhua o te ao tae noa ki…pā! Ka whana pōrearea tō hoa aroha i a koe i raro i te tēpu. I kitea ko ia kei te rapu nui i tētahi wāhi waewae anō! Āe, ehara i te pō rā aroha i tumanakohia e koe, tika? Āe, kaua e mataku, nā te mea he otinga tāku māu: he aha e kore ai e whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto ake?

Ko te whakaipoipo i ngā tāne poto te tikanga o te poroporoaki ki ō raruraru katoa mō te wāhi waewae. Engari, mihi atu ki tētahi ao e taea ai e kōrua te noho humarie ki hea, ki hea rānei. Ko tētahi o ngā painga nui o te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto, tika?

Whakaarohia tēnei: ​​kei te noho humarie koe i runga i te tūru, e matakitaki ana i ētahi wāhanga o Breaking Bad me tō hoa poto. Kei te harikoa ōna waewae ki te totoro, e noho ana i te nui o te wāhi e tika ana. Ā, mātakitaki mai? Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakaari he tino whakamarie koe i a koe e piko ana hei pōro iti hei uru ki te wāhi e wātea ana ki a ia. Kāore, ka taea e koe te tino okioki, te totoro i ō waewae, me te pārekareka ki te whakamarie. He tino harikoa, kāore?

5. Kāore rātou e tinihanga i a koe

Kei te whakaaro koe ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto ake i a koe? Kei te āwangawanga koe mō te whakatau i ngā raruraru whakaipoipo e pā ana ki te mate tāne poto? He pūrongo kei a mātou hei whakahari i tō wairua, inā koa mēnā he pai ki a koe ngā kīngi poto. I whakaatuhia e tētahi rangahau a te paetukutuku take ipurangi a Ashley Madison:

• He hoa pono ake ngā tāne poto
• E rua ngā wā ka nui ake te tūponotanga o ngā tāne roa ki te tinihanga, ki te whakaritea ki ngā tāne he iti iho i te 5 putu 10 inihi te roa
• Koinei te take ka kitea ai e ngā wāhine roa e rapu ana i ngā tāne poto te hototahitanga me te harikoa whakamiharo i roto i ēnei whanaungatanga.

Engari, i mua i te peke atu ki ngā whakatau, kia mahara ko ngā rangahau pēnei me ata whakaaroaro. He maha ngā āhuatanga o ngā whanaungatanga, ā, ko te tikanga, kāore te roa e kī taurangi i te pono. Ara, kei reira ngā tāne poto e tinihanga ana, ā, he tino pono ngā tāne roa ki ā rātou e arohaina ana. Ahakoa poto, ahakoa roa, ki te rapu koe i tētahi whanaungatanga pono , ko te mea nui ko te kimi i tētahi tangata ka taea e koe te whakawhirinaki me te hanga hononga pakari ki a rātou.

Pānui e pā ana: 160 Ngā Pātai Tino Pai mō te Aroha mō ngā Tāne me ngā Wahine

4 Ngā Huakore o te Whakaipoipo i tētahi Tāne Poto

"He pai ki ahau ngā tāne poto, engari e kore rawa ahau e whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto."
"E mōhio ana ahau ki ngā raruraru o te whakaipoipo i te tangata poto, nō reira e kore rawa ahau e whakaipoipo anō i te tangata poto."
"He maha ngā ngoikoretanga o te whakaipoipo a te wahine roa ki ngā tāne poto."

Kia tūhuratia tēnei. Ngā tāne poto me ngā hoa wahine roa – he aha ngā raruraru nui rawa atu o te whanaungatanga? He aha ngā ngoikoretanga o te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto ake i a koe? He aha ngā arai hei wikitoria i roto i te whanaungatanga wahine roa ake me te tāne poto ake? Anei ētahi ngoikoretanga o te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto hei aro atu:

1. He mea tūturu te kore e tino haumaru te teitei

Ka hiahia koe ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto? E kī ana tētahi kaiwhakamahi Reddit , "Kāore au e aro ki te roa o tētahi tāne - kāore e whai wāhi ki te whakaaro kei te hiahia ahau ki a rātou. Heoi, ko ngā tāne poto kua whakaipoipohia e au i roto i tōku ao te āhua nei he āhuatanga rerekē kei a rātou, ā, i meinga ai rātou kia tino toa hei utu, kia riri nā ō rātou āwangawanga, me ētahi atu. Kua pāngia rānei tētahi atu e tēnei wheako, he mea noa iho rānei tēnei e au?"

Kua tūtaki pea koe ki tētahi rautaki huna i runga i ngā taupānga whakaipoipo ipurangi : te tinihanga i te teitei. Ko te mea kē, ka huna e ētahi tāne ō rātou teitei i runga i ngā taupānga whakaipoipo (ka teka rānei mō taua mea). Ka kiia tēnei he "heightfishing" – ina tumanako koe ki tētahi tāne roa engari ka mutu ko tētahi poto.

Engari ko te rongo pai, kua puta mai i tētahi waitohu kākahu tāne poto ko Ash & Erie te ingoa, he otinga tino pai: Teititanga ki a Short King! He rite tēnei taupānga ki tētahi piringa mō ngā kīngi poto katoa me te hunga e aroha ana ki a rātou. "Kua tawhito te roa, te mangu, me te ātaahua, ā, he iti ngā kīngi. Kaua e tukua te roa kia arai i te aroha pono," te whakamanamana a tēnei paetukutuku teititanga tāne poto.

2. He titiro whakahāwea, he titiro whakahē rānei

Ina whakaipoipo koe i ngā tāne, i ngā wāhine rānei kua pakeke ake, ka ara ake ngā tukemata o te tangata. Pērā anō hoki ina whakaipoipo koe i ngā tāne poto ake. E mōhio ana tātou katoa he whakahē ētahi i te roa o te tangata – i te kura, i te whare wānanga, tae noa ki te wāhi mahi. Engari koinei te mea: kāore he pānga o te roa ki te uara o te tangata, ki tōna kaha rānei hei hoa rangatira.

Whakaarohia tēnei: ​​ka tūtaki koe ki tētahi tāne poto, ā, ka taea e koe te rongo i taua mura tūturu. Engari, taihoa, kei reira ētahi tāngata o waho me ngā titiro pākiki me ngā kōrero kino. He pai ki te ngaro i tētahi hononga pai? Kāore, tika? Nō reira, i te wā e tūpono ai tēnei, kia mahara:

• Tukua rātou kia titiro noa, kia kōrero noa iho
• Kāore he aha o rātou whakaaro kino ina he hononga pakari tōu ki tō kingi poto.
• Ko tō kōrua whanaungatanga e pā ana ki a kōrua, ehara i te whakaaro o ētahi atu
• Nō reira, tukua te hunga e kino ana ki a koe kia kino i a koe e ora tonu ana i tō oranga pai me tō hoa aroha

3. E aroha ana ia ki a koe…kia mau rā anō koe i aua rekereke

E kī ana a Jessica (22) nō NYC, "I tūtaki ahau ki a Robert i tētahi hui whakanui whare. He tangata tino ataahua ia. He rite tonu te roa o māua, ā, kāore au i whakaaro he āwangawanga ia mō tēnā. I tētahi rā, i haere māua ki tētahi hui tina papai. I whiriwhiria e au tētahi kākahu ataahua me taku takirua rekereke tino pai mō tēnei hui. I muri i taku mau rekereke, kua roa ake ahau i te rua inihi.

"Engari i a māua e tata ana ki te tomo ki te wharekai, ka mea mārire mai a Robert ki ahau, "E tama, ko wai tāu e ngana ana ki te miharo mā te mau i ngā hū rekereke teitei? Me mau noa ō hū papatahi ina haere tahi tāua." I kōrero pono māua mō tōna koretake ki te teitei, engari i ngana ia ki te takaro noa. Kāore au i aro nui ki tēnei take. Engari i te haere o ngā rā, ka tīmata a Robert ki te whakararuraru i ahau. Ka mataku ia mēnā ka mau ahau i ngā hū rekereke teitei. Ka huri ia hei tangata whakahaere, ā, he maha ngā tautohetohe mō te whanaungatanga i puta . I wehe māua i muri i ētahi wā, ā, e harikoa ana ahau kua waatea ahau."

E harikoa ana mātou kua kite a Jessica i ngā tohu kino o tana hoa rangatira, ā, kua kore ia e noho i roto i taua āhuatanga kino. Ko te mea nui, ahakoa he maha ngā tāne poto e māia ana, e manaaki ana, tera pea ētahi tāne e māharahara ana mō tō rātou roa, ā, ka ngana ki te whakahaere i a koe (i ō rekereke rānei). Engari, ehara i te mea ko ngā rekereke anake te take. I te nuinga o te wā, ko tēnei hiahia mō te whakahaere ka arahi pea ki te whanonga tukino i muri mai i roto i te whanaungatanga.

Pānui e pā ana: 11 Ngā Tohu Tūatahi o te Tangata Whakahaere me te Me pēhea te Whakatau i a Ia

4. Kei te whakamārama tonu koe i a koe anō he aha koe i piri tahi ai me ia

POV: Kua tūtaki koe ki tētahi tangata tino pai. He āhua tōna e whakamārama ana i te rūma, he ataata e taea ai te rewa i ngā ngākau, ā, he kata hopuhopu. Ae, kei te kōrero tātou mō te katoa o ngā mea i konei – engari he poto ia. Nā te mea koinei pea, ka:

• Whakaarohia tonu ngā painga me ngā huakore o te noho tahi me ia
• Me whakaaro tonu mēnā kei te whakaae koe ki te iti iho nā te mea he poto ia
• Akiakihia koe kia aro nui ki ōna āhuatanga pai, kaua e aro ki te teitei.

Nā te mea ka whakama te wahine roa e whakaipoipo ana ki ngā tāne poto mō tāna i whiriwhiri ai, nā runga i ngā momo āhua pāpori me ngā whakaritenga. Ko te tumanako ka mōhio wawe koe ki te koretake o ēnei āwangawanga.

7 Ngā Tohutohu mō te Whakaipoipo Angitu me te Tāne Poto

Ngā tāne poto me ngā hoa wahine roa – he aha te mea e puāwai ai te whanaungatanga pēnei me te harikoa? He aha ngā tohutohu pai mō te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto ake i a koe? Whitikihia ō whitiki, kia rite hoki mō ētahi tohutohu whakamiharo hei whakapakari i tō whanaungatanga wahine roa me te tāne poto ake!

1. Kaua e kata mō tōna roa (ina koa i te rā tuatahi)

Ina haere koe ki te whakatau i tētahi tāne poto, anei ētahi tohutohu: kati te kōrero mō te roa, inā koa i ngā wā tōmua o te whanaungatanga . Anei te take: kei te mōhio tonu kōrua tetahi ki tetahi, ā, he uaua ki te mōhio ki te wairua whakakatakata o tetahi me te mea e tino whakahihiri ana i a rātou. Nō reira, whai i ēnei tohutohu:

• Whakaarohia ōna āwangawanga pea
• Kia tūpato ki tōna rohe whakamarie
• Tukua kia rere noa te kōrero, ā, ki te kore ia e kōrero mō te rerekētanga teitei o te whanaungatanga, kāore he take e noho roa ai ki taua kōrero.
• Kia maumahara, he mea nui te mārama ki ngā kare ā-roto o tō hoa, me te whakaatu i te aroha ki ngā whanaungatanga. Waiho ngā katakata mō te wā e pai ai te whanaungatanga, ā, ka taea e kōrua te kata tahi.

Pānui e pā ana: 9 Tohutohu a te Tohunga hei Mōhio i tāu e Hiahia ana i roto i te Hononga

2. Whakakorikoria tō kāhua me te māia

Ina whakaipoipo koe i tētahi tangata nohinohi, ka taea e te rerekētanga teitei te noho hei mea tino nui. Kaua e manukanuka, kaua hoki e whakama, engari me māia ki te whakakakahu i tō kākahu. Whakanohoia ki roto i aua hū tino pai, ki roto rānei i aua rekereke whakamiharo – nāu te whiringa! Whakapono mai, ina awhi koe i tō tuakiri, ka noho wātea koe, ā, kāore e taea te aukati.

3. Arotahi ki ngā painga tahi

Kaua e aro nui ki ngā rerekētanga teitei, engari kimihia ngā mea iti (pēnei i ngā hiahia ōrite me ngā mahi a te tokorua) e hari ai kōrua. Whakaarohia ngā mea noa katoa e whakamārama ana i tō kōrua ao. Ka taea te piki maunga, te tunu kai reka tahi, te mātakitaki rānei i ā kōrua whakaaturanga tino pai. Whakapono mai, i a kōrua e ngahau ana i a kōrua e tūhura ana i ō kōrua hiahia ōrite , ka memeha haere aua rerekētanga teitei ki muri.

Pānui e pā ana: 55 Ngā Hākinakina mō ngā Tāne me ngā Wahine kia Whanui ake ai, kia Whakapakari ake ai hoki i te Hononga

4. Hoatu he wā ki te kore koe e tino mōhio ki ō kare ā-roto

Ka hiahia koe ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto? Kāore koe i te tino mōhio ki ō kare ā-roto mō tētahi tāne poto e tūtaki ana koe? Mēnā koinei te āhua, whai i ēnei tohutohu āwhina:

• Hoatu he wā ki a koe, kaua e hohoro te whai hononga
• Kia mōhio ake koe ki a ia, kia kitea ōna āhuatanga me ōna ngākau nuitanga
• Kia maumahara ahakoa he roa, he poto rānei te tāne, ko te mea nui i te mutunga o te rā ko te hononga whakamiharo.
• Nō reira, manawa hōhonu, ka ako atu mō tetahi ki tetahi. Tērā pea ka whiwhi koe i tētahi hoa rangatira e meinga ai koe kia rite ki te mea kei runga koe i te kapua iwa.

5. Kaua e aro ki ngā kaiwhakahē

E mōhiotia ana a Cameron Diaz mō tōna roa (5'9″), engari kāore i aukati i a ia ki te moe i a Benji Madden (5'6″). Tērā pea he mea pouri, he mea whakapouri hoki i ētahi wā, engari ki te mea he tokorua kōrua he rerekē te roa, ka kōrero te tangata. Tērā pea ka kōrero koretake, ka whakatau kino rānei rātou. Kia mahara kāore he aha ō rātou whakaaro mēnā kei te aroha nui koe ki tētahi tāne poto. Engari, karapotia koe e ngā hoa tautoko me te whānau e whakanui ana i ngā mea e tino harikoa ai koe.

6. Kaua e whakawhāiti i a koe anō

Me kōrero tātou mō te whakaipoipo i ngā tāne poto ake, me te wetewete i aua rohe i whakatakotoria e rātou anō. Anei ētahi tohutohu ka taea e koe te whai:

• Maka atu ngā hū papatahi, ka whakatōkia ngā rekereke kua roa koe e titiro ana
• Haere ki ngā kōnohete, wikitoria i ngā papa whakangahau, ā, awhia te harikoa me te kore e manukanuka ki ngā kōrero a ētahi atu
• Tukua ngā here, ka waihangahia ngā maharatanga whakamiharo me tō hoa rangatira, he poto rawa hoki te ora hei pupuri. Nō reira, haere atu, kia maia, kia ngahau hoki me tō hoa aroha!

7. Kia maumahara ehara te teitei i te tohu mō te whanaungatanga harikoa

E kī ana a Suzanne (36), he kaiako whakaipoipo nō Brooklyn, "He maha aku tūtakitanga ki ngā tāne e whakaaro ana me pēhea te noho māia hei tāne poto, ā, e mataku ana ki te whakauru atu ki ngā pae whakaipoipo tāne poto pai rawa atu. E mōhio ana hoki ahau ki ētahi wāhine e whakaaro puku ana: "Me pēhea te awhi i tō hoa tāne poto me te māia?" Āe, he aha te hiranga o te teitei ki a koe?"

"Kāore te roa me te whakaipoipo e haere tahi i roto i ngā āhuatanga katoa. Ā, me pēhea mēnā he poto ake, he kikokore ake taku hoa tāne i ahau? Kāore he rohe o te aroha! Ā, hei whakautu i te pātai nui: He poto te 5'2" mō te tāne? He poto te 5'10" mō te tāne? Me kī noa, ko te āhua o tō kaha ki te whakaatu i ō pūkenga, ā, ko te māia te kī matua ki te angitu i roto i te ao whakaipoipo!"

Kua tae ki te wā hei whakatika i te take: ko te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto ehara i te mea he whanaungatanga pouri , pērā i te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne roa kāore e kī taurangi i te harikoa mutunga kore. Kia pono tātou, kāore he pānga o te teitei ki te hauora me te harikoa o tētahi whanaungatanga. Nō reira, koinei te take: ina noho tahi kōrua ko tō tāne poto, arotahi ki ngā mea tino nui. Awhihia tōna wairua whakakatakata, tōna wairua manaaki, me tōna ngākau aroha. Ka ruia tō ao e ēnei āhuatanga, ka hanga rerekētanga i roto i tō whanaungatanga, he rerekē ki te rerekētanga teitei, kāore e tino pārekareka.

Hei whakamutunga, he pai noa iho te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne poto ake i a koe! Ko te harikoa tūturu e ahu mai ana i tētahi hononga hohonu, ehara i te roa o tō hoa tāne. He tau noa iho te roa, ā, ko te mea nui ko te hononga, te hononga, me ngā uara e rite ana i waenganui i ngā hoa aroha e rua. Ki te kite koe kei te hiahia koe ki tētahi engari kei te ruarua koe nā tōna roa, kaua e tukua kia arai i tētahi whanaungatanga whakamiharo. Awhitia te whai wāhitanga, swipe matau ki taua tāne poto ātaahua, ā, ko wai ka mōhio? Tērā pea ka kitea e koe tāu ake Tom Holland!

25 Ngā Tohu Reo Tinana e Aroha Ana Te Tāne Ki A Koe

8 Ngā Pae Teití Pai rawa atu mō ngā Kaumātua ki te Kimi i te Aroha me te Hoa

25 Ngā Kēmu Whakangahau mō te Whakawhanaungatanga Tawhiti hei Whakatata i te Aroha

Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.