He maha ngā wā ka wareware tātou ki te kōrero mō te whakatoi ā-ira tangata o ngā tāne ina kōrerohia ana ngā raruraru ira tangata me ētahi atu take pāpori. Ahakoa he mea nui kia haumaru ake te hapori mō ngā wāhine, he nui hoki te ōrau o ngā tāne e whakatoi ā-ira tangatatia ana i tēnei ao o ēnei rā.
He wāhanga tēnei o tā mātou raupapa e haere tonu ana, e whai ana kia kite whakatoi puremu me te whakaeke mai i ngā koki katoa, me te kore he momo ira tangata. Ahakoa kei te whakaatuhia tonutia ngā tāne hei kaiwhakatoi moepuku me te kaitukino i roto i te hononga, te marena, te whanaungatanga rānei, me whakatuwhera ō tātou kanohi ki te mooni kua huri te hapori, ā, ehara i te mea ko ngā wāhine anake te take o te whakatoi.
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Ripanga o Ihirangi
He mea whakama rawa te kōrero mō ngā tāne e tukinotia ana i ēnei rā, kāore rawa e puta mai ki te whakapuaki i ō rātou wheako me ō rātou raruraru. Ahakoa i te mahi, i te kāinga rānei, kāore ngā tāne o ēnei rā i te tino haumaru pērā i tā tātou e whakaaro nei. Ahakoa he kaha ake ō rātou tinana, engari i ētahi wā kāore anō kia ranea.
"Kāore te wahangu e rite ki te kaha—kaua rawa ngā tāne e whakama ki te kōrero mō te whakatoi."
Te whakatoi ā-ira tangata Ehara i te mea hou te mahi i te mahi, engari he mea miharo ki a mātou te rongonga i tēnei mea nā te kore o ngā kōrero mōna. Ahakoa te take, kāore e taea te whakakore i te meka - kei te tupu tonu te tukino a te wahine i te tāne i roto i tō tātou ao i ēnei rā.
Nga tane i te mahi
Ka haere tātou ki ngā rūma poari umanga kanapa, kei reira ngā wāhine e noho ana i ngā tūranga rangatira me ngā tūru mana. Ka taea e te wahine kei roto i te tūranga mana te whakatoi ā-ira me te ā-hinengaro i tētahi tāne e ripoata ana ki a ia?
Ae, he maha tonu te tūponotanga o tēnei āhuatanga i roto i te ao pakihi. Tērā pea ka pātai atu koe, ā, e tino mōhio ana ahau ka kitea e tātou he maha ngā take ka amuamu ai te tāne mō tana rangatira wahine mō te moepuku, mō te mahi taikaha hoki. whakatoi hinengaro ia.
He aha te rerekētanga i waenganui i te tāne e whakatoi ana i tētahi kaimahi wahine me te wahine e whakatoi ana i tētahi kaimahi tāne
I roto i te maha o ngā whenua, e tiakina ana te wahine e te ture, i runga i te pepa, engari ko te tāne, kāore pea i te tiakina pērā ahakoa e pāngia ana hoki e te tukino kare ā-roto me te moepuku.
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Kāore he ture e ārai ana i tēnā
I Inia, ko ngā ture whakatoi moepuku e pā ana ki ngā wāhine anake. Kāore he ture pēnei hei tiaki i ngā tāne. Kāore he aratohu e wātea ana mō te mea me mahi ina whakatoi te wahine i tētahi tāne kei roto i te tari. He huarahi kē atu mā te tāne i tua atu i te wehe mārire i te mahi me te piko o tōna mahunga? Kāore.
Ko tētahi atu tauira anō tēnei e whakahāweatia ana ngā ture, e kī ana ko ngā tāne, hei ira tangata 'kaha', e kore rawa e taea te taka ki te wāhi o te whakatoi moepuku. nga mahi ira tangata tuku iho kua kore e whakamahia i ēnei rā, ā, me whakaata anō hoki ēnei i roto i ā tātou ture. Me hoatu e au ki a koutou ētahi tauira e toru o te whakatoi ā-ira tangata e te rangatira wahine (nā aku hoa tata katoa i kōrero, ā, he wahine ngā rangatira).
Kua whakarerekētia ngā ingoa i ngā kēhi e whai ake nei hei tiaki i te tuakiri.
- Raina Āwhina mō te Tūkino ā-Whare ā-Motu (Īnia): 1800-102-7222 kua hangaia ēnei rauemi hei tautoko i ngā tāne e pāngia ana e te whakatoi, e te tukino rānei. Kaua e mangere ki te tono āwhina mēnā he tāne koe e pāngia ana e te whakatoi—kāore koe i te mokemoke, ā, he tika ō wheako.
Case 1
I mua i tana tīma, ka karanga noa a Pam i a Adam 'he kaute ngāwari'. Hei tauira: "Kei hea te kaute ngāwari? Me tono atu ki a ia kia haere mai ki taku kāpata inaianei." He mea whakama tēnei, ehara i te mea mō Adam anake, engari mō te katoa o te tīma.
I tētahi rā, kāore i taea e Adam te manawanui atu, ā, ka kī atu ia ki tōna rangatira kāore ia i pai kia karangatia ia ki taua ingoa. I roto i ngā marama e ono, ka ngaro te mahi a Adam nā te mahi kino i muri i te tukunga atu e tōna rangatira i ngā īmēra tekau mā toru ki te HR mō tōna tutu me tōna āhua ngāwari ki te mahi. I karanga tonu ia i a ia he 'kaute ngāwari' ahakoa i roto i ngā hui ā-ture i tēnei wā katoa.
Case 2
I tētahi pāti tari, i tono te rangatira o Nick kia inu tahi rāua ko ia, kia kanikani tahi rāua. I roto a Nick i te rāngai ratonga hangarau mōhiohio, ā, nō tētahi whānau Katorika matatika ia. I kuraina ia i roto i tētahi hapori tino piri, ā, kua moe wahine, ā, tokotoru āna tamariki. I māharahara a Nick ki te noho ki ngā pāti tari, ā, kāore i te tino mārama ki te kanikani.
I tana whakakāhoretanga ki te kanikani me tana rangatira haurangi, kāore ia i tino aro atu, nā te mea i huri te 'whakakāhoretanga' hei momo kata i roto i te tari, me te mea nei kua whakapaetia ia. te whakaipoipo i tētahi hoa mahiI panaia a Nick i tana mahi nā te mea kāore ia i te pai ki te mahi tahi me te kapa i roto i te marama i muri i te aituā.
Ehara i te mea koinei anake te take whakatoi moepuku i ngā tāne i roto i tēnei tari. Engari i muri i te pōuri o Nick, kāore tetahi i maia ki te amuamu mō ngā rangatira i te wāhi mahi.
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Pene 3:
I mahi tahi a Sia rāua ko tana tāne i te tari kotahi. Kāore i pai te whanaungatanga o Sia rāua ko tana rangatira, ā, i whakaarohia ko Shefali te kaiwhakahaere poutū e whai ake nei (o tētahi atu poutū). Ko tā Sia ka tīmata te rangatira ki te whakatoi tana tāne ki te whakaako i a Shefali i tētahi akoranga.
He maha tonu tana noho tata, me te pa atu ki a ia i a ia e tirotiro ana i tētahi mahi toi. I ētahi rā, ka awhi noa ia i ōna pakihiwi, ka awhi rānei i a ia, kāore he take e kitea ana. I ripoata a Sia i te whanonga ki te HR, ā, i roto i ngā marama e toru i muri i te aituā, kāore he mahi a tana tāne.
I whakapaehia tana tāne mō te whakatoi moepuku i tōna rangatira. Ae, i te pātai a te HR ki te rangatira, i teka ia mō te kaupapa katoa, ā, i tito i tētahi kōrero māna ake. I te wā i ngana ai rātou ki te whawhai me te whakawā i te kamupene, i whakaatuhia e te rangahau te ōrau o ngā tāne e whakatoi moepukuhia ana i ia tau, ā, i mōhio rātou kua hinga rātou i te keehi ahakoa kāore i whawhai.
Ki tō whakaaro, e toru ngā mahi i runga ake nei e taka ana ki roto i te wāhanga o tētahi wahine e whakatoi ana i te tāne? I panaia katoatia ngā kaimahi tokotoru i runga ake nei i ā rātou mahi, ā, i te tuatoru o ngā mahi, kāore i tukuna he whakawātea honore ki te kaimahi.
He mea pōuri te āhua o te whakatoi tāne e ngā rangatira wahine i roto i te ao pakihi. He maha ngā wāhine rangatira e whakatoi ana i ā rātou kaimahi tāne, engari he onge te puta mai o te hunga i ora mai i te mahi.
He maha ngā aituā engari kāore he otinga. Me whakaae tātou kāore e taea te hara te aro ki te ira tangata – ka taea e ngā tāngata o ngā ira tangata katoa te whakatoi, ā, ko te tangata i pāngia he tangata whakama rawa, he tangata wehi rawa rānei ki te ngaro i tana mahi, ki te kōrero.
Me whai ture kore-ira tātau mō te whakatoi ā-ira tangata? Tukuna mai ō whakaaro mā te tuku kōrero.
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FAQs
1. He pēhea te auau o te whakatoi a ngā wāhine ki ngā tāne?
Ahakoa he nui ake te pūrongo mō te whakatoi tāne, ehara i te mea onge te whakatoi wahine ki te tāne. E whakaatu ana ngā rangahau he maha ngā momo whakatoi e pāngia ana e ngā tāne, tae atu ki te whakahaere kare ā-roto, te whakatoi moepuku, me te tukino tinana, ahakoa he maha ngā wā ka ārai te whakama o te hapori i a rātou ki te pūrongo.
2. He aha ngā momo whakatoi e pāngia ana e ngā wāhine e ngā tāne?
He maha ngā āhua o te whakatoi, tae atu ki ngā mahi whakatoi ā-ira tangata kāore e hiahiatia, te tukino ā-roto, te riri ā-waha, te whakahaere ture, me te tutu ā-tinana i ētahi wā. Tērā pea ka pāngia ngā tāne e te whakatoi i te wāhi mahi, i te ipurangi, i roto rānei i ngā whanaungatanga.
3. He aha i iti ake ai te pūrongo mō te whakatoi a ngā wāhine i ngā tāne?
Ko ngā whakahāwea pāpori me ngā momo ira tangata e whai wāhi ana ki te iti o te pūrongo mō te whakatoi i waenga i te wahine me te tāne. He maha ngā wā e tumanakohia ana kia "kaha" ngā tāne, kia "kaha hoki," ka arahi ki ngā kare ā-roto o te whakama, te whakama, te wehi rānei kei kore e whakaponohia.
"He roa te wā i noho tahi ai a Arun me tana hoa wahine, a Maya. I te tīmatanga, i pai te āhua o tā rāua whanaungatanga, engari i te roanga o te wā, ka huri a Maya hei tangata tinihanga i ngā kare ā-roto, hei tangata tukino hoki. Ka whakahē tonu ia i a ia, ka whakahaere i te hunga e noho tahi ana rāua, ā, ka whakaiti i ōna kare ā-roto. Kāore a Arun i whakaaro ka taea e ia te kī he whakatoi—nā te mea, me pēhea te noho hei patunga o te tāne? Engari i muri i tana kōrero ki tētahi kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro, ka mōhio ia ko te mea e pāngia ana e ia he tukino kare ā-roto. Nā te tautoko, ka mutu tana whanaungatanga, ā, ka tīmata te ora."
Thoughts Final
Ka taea te pā te whakatoi ki te tangata katoa, ahakoa te taneKo te whakama e pā ana ki te whakatoi i waenga i te wahine me te tāne he maha ngā wā ka ārai i ngā tāne ki te whakapuaki i ō rātou whakaaro, ka arahi ki te wahangu me te mamae. Pērā i te whakatenatena a te hapori i ngā wāhine kia kōrero mō te whakatoi, me whiwhi hoki ngā tāne i te māramatanga me te tautoko ōrite ina pāngia rātou e te whakatoi. Kaua rawa e whakamanawanuitia te whakatoi kare ā-roto, ā-waha, ā-ira tangata, me te ā-tinana, ahakoa te ira tangata o te kaihara. Kua tae ki te wā ki te wawahi i te tapu me te waihanga i tētahi ahurea e noho haumaru ai ngā tāne ki te ripoata i te whakatoi me te rapu āwhina me te kore whakama, te kore whakahē rānei. Ā mātou kaiwhakaora hinengaro Kei konei mātou hei whakarongo, hei tautoko, hei ārahi i a koe ki te whakaora. Ahakoa he whakatoi kare ā-roto, he whakatoi ā-waha, he whakatoi tinana rānei, kei te wātea te āwhina.
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
Heoi anō, i ētahi wā ka pāngia ngā rangatira wahine i te kāinga e ēnei momo whanonga i te mahi, ina pehia ana rātou e ā rātou hoa rangatira i te kāinga.
Ahakoa he iti noa ngā aituā i pā ki ahau i a au e mahi ana me ngā wāhine kaiārahi. Ahakoa ehara i te mea mō te moepuku, te tinana rānei. I pāngia ahau e ētahi whakatoi. Ā, i whiwhi ia i te tautoko katoa mai i ngā rangatira.
Me whai ture me ngā whakaritenga hei whakatau i ēnei momo whakatoi.
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