Mayi anga anandisiya ndili mwana n’kuyamba kuchita nawo chibwenzi

funso:

Wokondedwa Sir,

Mayi anga anandisiya ine ndi bambo anga pamene ndinali kusukulu kuti ndikhale pachibwenzi ndi akazi okhaokha. Sanandilumikizane nane kwa zaka zingapo.

Tsopano akufuna kudzakhalapo pa ukwati wanga ndipo achibale anga akundikakamiza kuti ndimulole kukhala pamwambowo. Ndakhumudwa komanso ndakwiya ndipo sindimufuna.

Anabwera ndikulira, kupempha chikhululukiro koma zinandikhumudwitsa kwambiri. Anandiononga ubwana wanga ndipo tsopano watsala pang'ono kuwononga tsiku langa lapadera. Ndakhumudwa kwambiri. Ndithana nazo bwanji zonsezi?

Chonde pangirani.

Aman Bhonsle akuti:

Wokondedwa mnyamata,

Amayi ako anasiya atate wako n’kukhala moyo wongofuna okha. Kufunafuna kwake chikondi chachikondi kunakulepheretsani chikondi cha amayi pamene mumalimbana ndi mphepo yamkuntho - umenewo ndi ubwana! Izi zikhala zovuta kwa inu kupanga chifukwa zingawonekere kuti simunawakhululukire amayi anu chifukwa chosowa paubwana wanu. Kukhululuka kumamveka ngati kuyenera kwapamwamba koma sikophweka kuchita. Kukhululuka kumafuna chifundo ndi kumvera chisoni kumafuna nthawi ndi chidziwitso.

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Mungafunike kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu kuti mucheze ndi amayi anu kuti mumvetse bwino zomwe zinachititsa kuti 'asaonekere' pa moyo wanu kuti mumvetse bwino zomwe zinachitika. Ngakhale iwowo sakanatha kumvetsa bwino momwe akumvera. Yesetsani kumvetsetsa malamulo oletsa anthu ogonana ndi akazi okhaokha m'masiku amenewo pamene amayi anu ankasankha chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo wawo. Ngakhale kuti zinali zovuta kuti mukule popanda iwo, mwina zinali zovuta kuti iwo azikhala ndi chidziwitso chakuti asiya 'winawake'?

Yesani kupeza njira yopezera mtendere wanu potengera chisankho chomwe tsopano 'muli ndi mphamvu zopanga', mwayi wotseka nonse awiri - ngakhale mutasankha kusiya njira - mobwereza bwereza.

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Mabala aubwana amafunika kuthetsedwa

Kaŵirikaŵiri mwana wamng’ono satha kuzindikira kuti mavuto ndi nkhaŵa za moyo zimapitirizabe ngakhale pamene akukula. Mwanayo sangathenso kuganiza kuti makolo ake ali ndi 'zolakwika zilizonse' kapena 'zovuta zilizonse' monga kukhulupirirana ndi kumvera - ndi mtengo wa 'kukhala ndi zosowa zanu nthawi zonse'. Mwanayo amamva kuti alibe chidziwitso komanso osatetezeka - nthawi zambiri m'moyo wake.

Mwana amamva mantha ndi kusiyidwa m’njira zozama kwambiri kuposa mmene munthu wamkulu amachitira.

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Ikuti banyina bakali kulila akulomba kulekelelwa, citondezya kuti bakali kuyanda kubamba milalo iisyoonto. Iye ali mu nsautso. Kungoganiza kuti tsiku lanu lapadera lidzawonongeka ndi lingaliro losavuta. Inunso mumakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi amayi anu.

Muli ndi mphamvu yosankha kupeza chigamulo ndi amayi anu ndikuchiritsa mabala akumakwinya malinga ndi kutha kwa amayi anu ndi kuwonekeranso mwadzidzidzi. Chilichonse chomwe mungasankhe, dziwani kuti monga amayi anu ‘anachoka’ m’banja lawo, inunso mungasankhe ‘kuchokapo’ ngati munapeza mwayi wokonza zinthu nawo. 'Pochokapo' mungataye mwayi wabwino wochiritsa monga momwe amayi anu anataya mwayi wokudziwani bwino ndi kukhala 'amayi' anu.

Mulimonsemo, sizikhala zophweka.

Zabwino zonse!

Aman Bhonsle

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• Tsimikizirani malingaliro anu: Ndi bwino kumva kuwawidwa mtima, kusokonezeka, kukwiyitsidwa, kapena kutayidwa. Zomverera zanu ndizovomerezeka, ndipo ndikofunikira kuvomereza ndikuzikonza.
• Fufuzani chithandizo: Lankhulani ndi abwenzi odalirika, achibale anu, kapena wothandizira za zomwe mwakumana nazo. Kugawana malingaliro anu kungakhale kothandiza kwambiri pakuchira.
• Yang'anani kwambiri pakudzisamalira: Ikani patsogolo thanzi lanu lakuthupi ndi lamalingaliro. Chitani zinthu zomwe zimakupatsani chisangalalo, yesetsani njira zopumula, komanso kukhala ndi moyo wathanzi.
• Ikani malire: Khazikitsani malire abwino ndi amayi anu ndi okondedwa awo. Sankhani mtundu wa kulumikizana komwe mungakhale nako bwino ndikufotokozera zosowa zanu momveka bwino komanso motsimikiza.
• Yang'anani zamtsogolo: Ngakhale kuti zomwe munakumana nazo m'mbuyomu zingakuuzeni, sizimakufotokozerani. Ganizirani za kumanga moyo wokhutiritsa nokha, mozunguliridwa ndi anthu omwe amakukondani ndi kukuthandizani.

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Kumbukirani, zakale zanu sizikutanthauza tsogolo lanu. Muli ndi mphamvu komanso kulimba mtima kuti mukhale ndi moyo wokhutiritsa wodzala ndi chikondi ndi mgwirizano. Landirani chithandizo chomwe chilipo kudzera m'magawo athu ophunzitsira ndipo yang'anani paulendo wanu wochiritsa.

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