Ananamizidwa Ndipo Ana Ake Anatengedwa

Kupwetekedwa mtima chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kungapangitse nthaka ya pansi pa mapazi a munthu kusanduka mchenga wa mchenga, kugwetsa munthu m'phompho laphompho la zowawa ndi kuthedwa nzeru. Ululu umachulukirachulukira pamene zoopsazo zikuphatikizidwa ndi kutaya zidutswa za iwe mwini - ana ake. Ngakhale chiyembekezo chokhala ndi moyo wanu chitembenuzire mutu wake monga chonchi ndi chokwanira kutumiza kuzizira pansi pa msana. Kwa ine, ndizochitika zamoyo. Pomaliza ndaganiza zouza ana anga awiri omwe adandichotsa kwa ine ndi mwamuna wanga wachinyengo.

Kalata Ya Amayi Kwa Ana Awo Osiyana

(Maina asinthidwa kuti ateteze zidziwitso)

Wokondedwa wanga Romi ndi Rahul,

Mwina ndimalemba izi mochedwa kwambiri masana, zaka 14 mochedwa kuti ndinene zolondola, koma muyenera kudziwa zowona za ukwati wanga ndi abambo anu. Ntchito yaikulu ya amayi ndi kulera banja, makolo anga ankanena nthawi zonse, ndipo ndinkakhulupirira. Ndinavomera mosangalala ukwati wokonzedweratu. Unali moyo wosangalatsa; Ndinakhutira. Tinali olemera ndipo tinkakhala ku Mumbai. Moyo unayamba kuyenda bwino nditadziwa kuti ndili ndi pakati pa iwe Romi. Munabadwa chaka chimodzi ndi theka muukwati. Nditakuonani koyamba, ndinangotsala pang'ono kusiya kukuyang'anani.

Kutayika komvetsa chisoni ndi chiyambi chatsopano

Tinakonzekera mwana wathu wachiŵiri, ndipo tinadziŵa kuti anali mwana wamwamuna. Sinali mimba yovuta. Chotero chinali chododometsa kwenikweni pamene, pafupifupi panthaŵi yokwanira, ndinapita padera kochititsa mantha. Tataya mbale wako. Kholo linali litadzitulutsa lokha m’chibaliro, ndipo mwanayo anadwala matenda a mtima aakulu m’chiberekero. Tonse tinachita mantha kwambiri. Bambo anu anaima pafupi nane m’nthawi yovutayi, ndipo nana-nani wanu anatithandiza kuti tisamukire mumzinda wina. Kusamuka kumeneku kunatipatsa chiyambi chatsopano.

Ndinalowa sukulu imene mumaphunzira, Romi. Inali phukusi labwino, lokhala ndi anzanga oyamikira komanso chiyembekezo chochita bwino. Ndinasangalala ndi chizolowezi changa chachikulu, ndinapeza abwenzi abwino (omwe amalumikizanabe komanso oyandikana), ndipo ndinapezanso kuwonda kwanga pambuyo pobereka. Koma bambo ako analengeza kuti tikubwerera ku Mumbai. Palibe kukambirana, palibe malingaliro omwe amafunidwa; iye yekha anasankha atatufe, ndipo ndinayenera kumutsatira.

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Nkhaniyi

Kumeneko anamupeza. Sindikudziwa kuti zinayamba bwanji kapena liti. Ndinali otanganidwa ndi inu ndi ntchito yanga yatsopano yophunzitsa. Ankafuna kukhala ndi mwana wina. Sindinatsimikize choncho, koma zowongolera zidakhazikika, ndipo ndidavomera. Ndinanyalanyaza mfundo yakuti tsopano ndinkafuna zinthu zosiyanasiyana ndiponso kuti ndinali ndi ufulu wofuna zinthuzo. Thupi langa - chisankho chake. Ndiko kufanana koyipa.

Tinali nanu, Rahul, ndipo zinali zabwino, inde. Ndinakukondani nonse ndipo ndinkakondanso kukusamalirani. Ndinali otanganidwa kwambiri ndi kusewera amayi moti sindinaone cholakwika chilichonse. Chinthu chimodzi chimene ndinachiphonya chinali ntchito yanga. Popeza ndinali ndi ana aŵiri ndi nyumba yosamalira, ndinalibe mphamvu kapena nthaŵi.

Zizindikiro za kuperekedwa

Anayamba kubwera kunyumba mochedwa. Nthaŵi zonse ndikadandaula, ndinkauzidwa za chitsenderezo cha kuntchito. Ankayendera maulendo ambiri, ngakhale kumapeto kwa sabata. Anali pa foni pakati pausiku, ndipo nditafunsa, ndinauzidwa kuti kunali kwadzidzidzi kuntchito. Iye ankakhala yekha usiku. Ndinamva mtunda pakati pathu; zinali zenizeni.

Anasanduka wamwano ndipo anali ndi njira yondiletsa kulankhula . Sanandipatse ndalama ndipo anauza makolo anga kuti ndiyenera kubwerera kuntchito kuti ndipeze ndalama zowonjezera. Ndinayamba kuphunzitsa kunyumba, koma zinthu sizinali zophweka ndi ana awiri aang'ono. Pofika pano, ndinali nditayamba kuganiza kuti ndine amene ndingathe kuchita zambiri koma sindinkachita zimenezo.

Vumbulutso

Kenako, madzulo ena, ndinaona zironda za misomali pamsana pake. Nditamufunsa, adandiuza kuti ndi zikanda zachikwama chake cha laputopu. Kodi mukukumbukira momwe tinakumana ndi mayi uja kumsika? Anatidziwitsanso!

Nditapeza umboni wokwanira wa kusakhulupirika kwake , ndinamutsutsa. Anandinena kuti ndine wamisala, ananditumiza kwa dokotala wa matenda amisala, ndipo anauza aliyense kuti ndikumwa mankhwala. Anali wankhanza bwanji! Anakutsimikizirani nonsenu za matenda anga amisala. Aliyense, ngakhale banja langa, linamukhulupirira. Kenako panali chisudzulo.

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Pambuyo pa kulekana

Tinapatukana kale, ndipo ndinali kuvutika ndi ntchito zinayi kuti ndipeze zofunika pa moyo. Iye ndi mkazi uja anali limodzi, monga mukudziwa. Apa m’pamene anaonetsa mantha a umphawi m’maganizo mwa Romi, kumuuza kuti adzakhala ndi moyo pakamwa ndikakhala nane. Iwe unali mwana, wotengeka; munasankha kukhala naye. Anakunyengererani ndi zakudya zabwino ndi zovala. Romi anapangidwa kulemba zinthu zoipa zokhudza ine, zomwe zinaperekedwa kukhoti. Anabwera kuntchito kwanga n’kundiopseza kuti ndikaganiza zomulanda ana angandibweretsere mavuto. Anali ndi ndalama zochitira zimenezo.

Ndipo monga tikudziwira adazigwiritsanso ntchito! Ndikulola nonse kukhala naye. Koma iye sanalemekeze mbali yake ya malonda. Pa nthawi yochezeredwa yomwe khoti linapereka, simunabwere. Simunakhale ndi tchuthi chilichonse ndi ine. Ndakhala ndikulumikizana ndi Dadaji wanu kuti ndisamve za inu nonse. Ndimagwiritsa ntchito surname yathu yomwe timagawana kuti ndikhalebe olumikizana nanu.

Bambo anu anakwatiranso pasanathe miyezi isanu ndi umodzi chisudzulocho. Ndinasiya kuyesera kugwirizana nanu kuti ndikutetezeni chifukwa ndikudziwa, Rahul, kuti anakumenyani pamene mumayesa kulankhula nane pafoni. Tsopano ndili bwino kuti sindikulumikizana nanu konse. Ndipo inde, anthu anditcha ine mwala-mtima - ine ndinanyamula izo ndipo ndinapita patsogolo.

Ndikudziwa kuti sindinachiritse . Anayenera kundipatsa nthawi, malo, ndi ulemu kuti ndithane ndi vutoli. Chofunika kwambiri, sanayenera kukunyengererani nonse. Ndikuopa kwambiri Romi. Ndinali chitsiru, sindinkadziwa za ufulu wanga wovomerezeka, kapena lingaliro lokhala ndi ufulu wodzilamulira pazachuma muukwati . Ndikanakhala, ndikanakuphunzitsani moyenera. Ndikhulupirireni pamene ndikunena kuti ngati simukudziwa za ufulu wanu monga mkazi, simungathe kupulumuka.

Nkhaniyi imabwera mosadziwika bwino kuti musachite manyazi kapena kusokonezedwa. Ndinu akulu tsopano. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mutha kusiya izi kuti mukhale anthu osangalala komanso ochita bwino.

(Monga momwe adauzira Madhuri Maitra )

Maganizo Final

Kusakhulupirika ndi kutayika kungamveke ngati mapeto a zonse zomwe munkadziwa kale. Koma nkhani yanu siyenera kutha pano . Kuchiritsa, kubwezeretsa mphamvu zanu, ndi kupeza njira yatsopano n'kotheka. Simuli nokha. Tili pano kuti tikumvereni, tikutsogolereni, ndikukuthandizani. Konzani msonkhano wathu wachinsinsi lero ndikutenga sitepe yoyamba yopezera ufulu wamaganizo.

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