Anali ndi Ufulu Wachuma Koma ALIBE Ufulu Wazachuma

Ufulu wachuma ndi wosiyana kwambiri ndi ufulu wachuma. Koma dziwani kuti zonsezi ndi zofunika kwambiri. Muukwati kapena pachibwenzi, pamene mungapereke gawo lanu kwa munthu wina, pazachuma muyenera kukhalabe ndi zingwe.

Ziribe kanthu zomwe zingachitike, kukhala ndi ndalama komanso ufulu wabwino wazachuma ndizofunikira kuti munthu aliyense azitha kudzisamalira. Maubwenzi, amuna, okondedwa - onse amabwera ndi kupita. Ngakhale kuli kwabwino kukhala ndi chidaliro paubwenzi, munthu ayeneranso kuganizira zodziyimira pawokha pazachuma. Ufulu wachuma udzakuthandizani kupanga zosankha zanu kuti musamadalire wina aliyense.

Kufunika Kwa Ufulu Wachuma

Ndinasangalala kwambiri! Moyo wanga wosamukasamuka monga mkazi wa mkulu wa asilikali tsopano unali kunditengera ku Mumbai, mzinda umene mlongo wanga ankakhala. Moyo wa usilikali ndi wapadera. Palibe mzinda umene timakhala alendo kapena malo omwe sitili ndi banja lathu la asilikali. Mnzanga nayenso anali munthu wodziwa zinthu - ndithudi ndi umodzi mwa makhalidwe omwe munthu ayenera kuyang'ana mwa mwamuna wake. Koma tsopano zinthu zisintha pang'ono. Mlongo wanga anali pafupi kwambiri!

Ndinamudziwa kuyambira tsiku limene anatenga pakati. Zili choncho chifukwa tinakhala m’malo amodzi kwa miyezi isanu ndi inayi tikukankhana ndi kukankhana mpaka ndinam’thamangitsa kwa mphindi khumi kuti ndimupatse mwayi wokhala wamng’ono kwambiri m’banjamo. Koma tikuthokoza kuti sitinali ofanana.

Ndipotu, panalibe chilichonse chofala pakati pathu. Ndinali kamphepo kofewa pamene iye anali chimphepo. Ndinali msungwana wamanyazi, womvera, ndi wodekha ndipo iye anali wosiyana. Ndinkasirira kwambiri kuti anali wodziimira paokha komanso ankakonda ntchito yake. Nthawi zonse ndinkamunyadira.

Mlongo wanga anathamangitsa maloto ake, ndinawagwetsa

Chinthu chokhacho chodziwika pakati pathu chinali makolo achikondi ndi banja lolamulidwa ndi amayi apakhomo. Inde, banja la matriarchal. Nthawi simayenda. Imadutsa pa liwiro lomwelo. Koma inde, moyo ukakhala wabwino umakhala ngati wawuluka. Nafenso moyo wathu unayenda mofulumira ndipo tisanatopene ndi anzathu tinali ku koleji. Anapita kukaphunzira zachuma, ndinasankha mabuku.

M’chaka chake chomaliza cha MA, anakwatiwa ndi injiniya wogwira ntchito m’bungwe la boma. Ndinakhala mkazi wa msilikali ndipo tinapitirizabe ndi moyo. Sindinadabwe konse kuti pamapeto pake adayimba CAT ndikulowa nawo kusukulu yodziwika bwino ya IIM kuti apitirize maphunziro ake. Komabe, anadabwa kwambiri nditamuuza kuti ndikuthetsa maloto anga komanso zolinga zanga za ntchito zokhala ndi mwamuna wanga.

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Sindinachite nsanje chifukwa cha kupambana kwake

Nthawi inapita ndipo moyo unapita patsogolo, ifenso tinapita patsogolo. Anamaliza maphunziro ake, anapatsidwa mwayi wabwino ku Mumbai ndipo anakumananso ndi mwamuna wake patatha zaka ziwiri ali paukwati wautali. Anakumana ndi mavuto paubwenzi wautali , koma anali mkazi wolimba mtima.

Ndinasangalala atandiuza za galimoto yonyozeka imene anagula pamene tinali kuyendabe m’galimoto yathu ya Maruti 800. Ndinasangalala naye nditamva kuti anagula nyumba yokongola kwambiri m’dera lolemera pamene tinali kuŵerengera ndikusunga ndalama zogulira nyumba yaing’ono. Koma sindinamuchitire nsanje.

Analigwira ntchito molimbika ndipo adapeza gawo lililonse la moyo womwe anali kusangalala nawo. Iye anali ndi ufulu wachuma ndipo zimasonyeza. Kwa iye, panalibe chilichonse m'moyo wanga chochitira nsanje. Ndinali ndi ufulu wanga, ndinali paubwenzi wabwino komanso ndinali wokondwa.

Ndinali wokhutira ndi kukhala mkazi wankhondo, kusuntha kuchoka ku mbali ina ya dziko kupita ku ina, osati kungochezera kokha komanso kukhala kumadera akutali, zimene sindikanalingalira konse zikanakhala kuti sindinakhale m’gulu lankhondo. Ndipotu, posakhalitsa ndinaiwala kuti nthawi ina inenso ndinali ndi maloto odziimira pazachuma.

Anapeza ndalama zambiri kuposa mwamuna wake

Ine ndi mlongo wanga sitinakumane bwino titakwatirana. Zimene tinkadziwana zinali makamaka pa maulendo athu a sabata iliyonse Lamlungu ndi maholide kapena kudzera mwa makolo athu. Sizinali chinsinsi kuti mu ukwati wake, mkazi ndiye anali kupeza ndalama zambiri kuposa mwamuna wake.

Kupatula apo, anali katswiri pazachuma ndipo anali kugwira ntchito pakampani yamitundu yosiyanasiyana pomwe mwamuna wake anali wogwira ntchito m'boma yemwe anali kuyembekezerabe komiti ya 6 yolipira.

Ndinapita kukacheza ndi mlongo wanga ku Mumbai

Titafika ku Mumbai, mwamuna wanga ankangokhalira chipwirikiti akudikirira katundu wathu, choncho ine ndi mwana wanga tinapita kukakhala ndi mlongo wanga kwa masiku angapo. Unali mwayi woti tizikhala m’nyumba imodzi patapita nthawi yaitali. Ndinapita kumeneko ndi mapulani osavuta ocheza ndikupita kukapeza "mankhwala ogulitsa" monga momwe tinkachitira tisanakwatirane.

Kukhala ndi maloto oyenda mu paki, kuyang'ana ana athu akusewera limodzi, kudandaula za iye kusamukira ku banja limodzi kapena moyo wonse, ndi kukumbukira ubwana wathu ndi kusangalatsa ana athu ndi nkhani. Ndinali ndi zilakolako zosavuta kwambiri kuyambira nthawi yathu pamodzi.

Nthawi zonse ankabwera kunyumba, kuntchito

Koma zenizeni zinali zosiyana kwambiri. Ngakhale kuti anali atachoka ku ofesi, ankangokhalira kulankhula pafoni kapena pa laputopu. Kamodzi kutali ndi chida, inali homuweki ya mwana, kuyang'anira adzakazi, kukwaniritsa zofuna za apongozi ake ndi kupereka chakudya kwa banja.

Kusiya zokambirana zathu pakati adathamangira kukapezeka pa foni iliyonse, akuluakulu kapena achibale. Ndipo ndinamuwona akugwira ntchito tsiku lonse ndipo ndinadikirira kuti ndidye naye chakudya chabwino.

Kodi okwatirana sakuyenera kukhala ndi ufulu ngakhale m'banja?

Chifukwa chotopa ndi zochita zake, ndinakonza zopitako tonse awiri. "Mawa tipita kukadya chakudya chamasana ndiyeno undiwonetse mzinda wako." Ndinapereka oda yanga patebulo la chakudya. Ndinkafuna kukhala ndi nthawi yabwino ndi mlongo wanga. Kutacha ndinamva akucheza ndi mwamuna wake. Amamupempha ndalama kuti agulire mphatso ya ine ndi mwana wanga.

Palibe chifukwa chowononga ndalama. Mulipira kale chakudya chamasana. Komabe, ngati mukufuna kumupatsa chinachake, yang'anani m'sitolo. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mudzapezamo chinachake kuchokera ku mphatso zotsala za Diwali zomwe timalandira," anatero mwamuna wake.

Mlongo wanga anati, “Wabwera ndi mphatso kwa aliyense m’banjamo, ngakhale makolo ako, ndikufuna…chonde…”

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Zokambirana zomaliza za ufulu wake wazachuma

Nthawi ya 'ife' yomwe tinkayembekezera kukhala limodzi idatsitsidwa mwakachetechete. Tinali titakhala phee patebulo lapakona ya lesitilantiyo, tikudikirira chakudyacho mwakachetechete. Kenako ndinagwira dzanja lake modekha.
Ndinamuyang'ana koma amapewa kundiyang'ana.

"Pepani, ndamva zomwe mwakambirana. Simukuyenera ... palibe mwambo pakati pathu." Ndinalankhula modekha, ndikuthyola chete.

"Komatu ndikudabwa kuti ngakhale utakhala wodziyimira pawokha pazachuma, koma umalandira ndalama zambiri kuposa mwamuna wako, umayenera kumupempha ndalama? Munali mkwiyo m’mawu anga.

"Sindimalandira, komabe sindiyenera kufunsa ndalama kwa mwamuna wanga ndipo sangandifunse komwe ndagwiritsa ntchito ndalama zamalipiro ake," ndinatero. Ndinali ndi nkhawa za iye. Monga katswiri wogwira ntchito komanso mnzake wofanana muubwenzi, adayenera kukhala ndi ufulu wandalama muubwenzi wake.

Iye anali kupewabe kuyang'anana maso ndi maso. Ataima kaye, anati, “Ndi za mtendere… mtendere m'banja. Kupereka ndalama ndi ukwati sikophweka.”

Anayang'ana m'maso mwanga. "Uyenera kusamala kwambiri ndi 'chidziŵitso chachimuna'. Simungachivulaze."

Nkhani yodziwika

“Si ndalama zimene zimandisangalatsa ayi, koma ntchito yanga ndiponso kutchuka kwanga n’zimene zimandipatsa ufulu wodzilamulira. Anamwetulira koma maso ake anali atatuluka.

"Zomwe amuna amadzipereka kuti akhazikitse mtendere m'banja ndi zakumwa zingapo komanso maola ochulukirapo ndi abwenzi. Zomwe amayi amadzipereka ndi chisangalalo, ulemu, ulemu ... ndipo inenso ndimayang'anira ndalama zanga komanso ufulu wazachuma. Nthawi zina ndimakuchitirani nsanje komanso moyo womwe mukukhala. Koma ndimaganizira za ntchito yanga ndi ntchito yanga. Osachepera, ndidapeza mwayi wopeza ntchito, koma adandilimbikitsa kuti ndipeze ndalama."

Atapuma kwa nthawi yayitali anati, "Ndine wokondwa kuti ndili ndi chizindikiritso changa. Tiyeni tinene zoona. Ngakhale nditagwira ntchito molimbika bwanji, ufulu wodziyimira pawokha pazachuma wa amayi udakali patali. Palibe vuto, koma tikufika. Ndimadziwika kudziko lonse lapansi ndi dzina langa osati monga Mayi Roy. Ndi poyambira. Tipeza ufulu wathu wazachuma posachedwa." Ndipo iye anatsinzina.

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