Mphindi imodzi amakupatsirani chidwi chake, kenako mumamuwona akukusiyani mukuwerenga, koma akukweza nkhani pawailesi yakanema. Mukuganiza zofunsa abwenzi ake, mwasanthula mauthenga ake mochulukirapo, ndipo "bwenzi lapamtima" lachimuna lomwe ali nalo likuyandikira kwambiri kuti litonthozedwe. Ndipo simunapezebe yankho loti "Kodi amandikonda?"
Zizindikiro zonse zomwe amakukondani sizipanga kusiyana ngati simukudziwa zomwe mukuyang'ana. M'malo mwake, mutha kuganiza mopambanitsa nkhani zake zonse zapa social media kuti mudziwe zambiri. Ayi, meme oseketsa pokhala wosakwatiwa amene adakweza sikutanthauza kalikonse.
Kodi amandikonda? Kodi amakonda kukhala ndi ine? Kodi ndingosungitsa matikiti athu okasangalala paukwati pompano? - Ngakhale sitingathe kukuthandizani ndi yomalizayi, tikukhulupirira kuti mndandanda wazizindikiro zomwe amakukondani kwambiri zitha kuyankha mafunso anu angapo ndikuchotsa kukayikira kwanu. Mothandizidwa ndi ubale komanso mphunzitsi waubwenzi Shivanya Yogmayaa (wovomerezeka padziko lonse lapansi munjira zochiritsira za EFT, NLP, CBT, ndi REBT), yemwe amagwira ntchito zosiyanasiyana zaupangiri wamabanja, tiyeni tiyankhe mafunso anu onse oyaka.
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“Kodi amandikonda?” mumadzifunsa nokha, pamene 'mtima umakhudzidwa' ndi chithunzi chanu chatsopano. Zowona, ndi manja abwino, koma tikukayikira kuti ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zomwe amakukondani (pepani).
“Kodi amandikonda?” mumadzifunsanso, pamene akukutumizirani "usiku wabwino", ndi mtima wofiira pang'ono pafupi ndi izo. Malingaliro anu onse otengeka angakuuzeni kuti amatero, ndipo mutha kumulota usiku womwewo, koma kachiwiri, tikukayika kuti ichi ndi chimodzi mwazizindikiro zomwe amakukondani kwambiri pamalemba.
Mfundo ndi yakuti, n'zosavuta kusokonezeka pakati chikondi ndi kutengeka mtima ndipo chiloleni kuti chikhale chopambana kwa inu. Ayi, kukumbatirana kumeneko komwe kunatenga masekondi angapo kuposa nthawi zonse si umboni wokwanira kuti amakukondani. “Sikuti zizindikiro zonse zimasonyeza kuti amakukondani. Ngati amangocheza nanu momasuka, ngati ali womasuka kwambiri, mumaona kuti sakukondani ngakhale pang’ono,” akutero. Shivanya.
"Kuti muyankhe mafunso anu monga "Kodi amandikonda?", muyenera kukhala wokhoza kusankha zizindikiro zachilendo kwambiri ndipo musalole kuti maganizo anu okhumba asokoneze maganizo anu.
Kuyankha "Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati mtsikana amakukondani?" ndizovuta. Pamene mulibe kalikonse pamenepo, mumangomva. Koma pakakhala chemistry yodzaza ndi zokambirana zonse zomwe mumakambirana naye, ndi nthawi yoti muyang'ane. Komanso ndikofunika kuzindikira kusiyana pakati pa 'chikondi' ndi 'ngati'. Ngakhale kupezeka kwa zizindikiro zingapo izi kungatanthauze kuti munthuyu amakukondani, mungafunike zambiri kuti zizitchedwa chikondi.
Ngakhale pamenepo, yankho la funso lakuti “Kodi amandikondadi?” ndi wake yekha kuyankha. Kuti muwonetsetse kuti simukhala ndi malingaliro abodza, zizindikiro zotsatirazi zomwe amakukondani kwambiri ziyenera kukuthandizani kudziwa zomwe zikubwera m'maganizo mwake.
1. Kukoma mtima pang'ono kumapita kutali
Chimodzi mwa zoyamba zazing'ono zizindikiro kuti mkazi ali m'chikondi ndi iwe akhoza kukhala kuti iye amakomera mtima kwa iwe. Ayi, sitikutanthauza funde laulemu la moni kapena kusanzika kuntchito, tikutanthauza kukoma mtima komwe kumawonekera bwino, ngakhale kwa omwe ali pafupi nanu. Shivanya anati: “Kukoma mtima ndi chizindikiro cha khalidwe labwino, osati chizindikiro chakuti amakukondani.” Komabe, ngati achita khama kwambiri kuti akuthandizeni, mukhoza kuchitapo kanthu.
“Kukoma mtima ndi chinthu chimene anthu amakhalidwe abwino amachita popanda kuganizira kwambiri. Koma ngati akuchita chinachake chimene chingam’thandize kuti akuthandizeni pa chinachake, kapena ngati akufuna kukumvetserani mpaka nthawi zosayembekezereka kuti akuthandizeni, makamaka ngati akukuchitirani chinachake chimene sakanachitira anthu ena kapena anzake, ndi chizindikiro.”
Kodi amalankhula nanu mofatsa komanso mokoma mtima? Kodi amakubweretserani donati kapena khofi mwachisawawa? Kodi amadikirira kuti mumalize nkhomaliro kuti muchoke patebulo limodzi? Zindikirani zochita zachifundo zachizoloŵezi ndi nthaŵi zimene amachita zotheka kuti akuthandizeni, ndipo mungakhale ndi yankho ku funso loyaka moto lakuti, “Kodi amandikonda?”
2. Amakulimbikitsani kuti muchite bwino
Pamene mkazi amakukondani kwambiri ndi kukukondani, iye adzasonyeza maziko a chithandizo ndikuthandizani kuti mukhale mtundu wabwino kwambiri wa inu nokha. Ngati muwona kuti akufuna kudziwa zolinga zanu zamtsogolo ndikukulimbikitsani kuti mukhale opambana, akuchita izi chifukwa amakuganizirani.
Shivanya akutiuza mmene zimenezi zingasonyezere m’khalidwe lake, kuti: “N’zoona kuti nthawi zonse sangagwirizane ndi maganizo anu, makamaka ngati akutsutsana ndi zimene amakhulupirira.
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3. Amakumvetserani pamene mukuyankhula
Nthawi zonse mukamacheza naye, mumamva kuti mumamva ndikutsimikiziridwa. Sizidzamva ngati akudikirira kuti musiye kulankhula, ndiye nthawi yake yoti akambiranenso. M'malo mwake, samangomvetsera zonse zomwe mukunena, komanso amayesa kukumbukira.
Shivanya akufotokozanso kuti: “Ngati mkazi akonda munthu wina, mumaona zizindikiro zonse zosonyeza kuti amakukondani. Adzakhala wamanyazi pang’ono pamaso panu, ngakhale kuti angayesetse kuti asasonyeze zimenezo. Mwina sangathe kukuyang’anizana ndi maso, koma thupi lake limasonyeza kuti ali ndi mantha kapena chidwi, koma chofunika kwambiri n’chakuti azimvetsera zimene muyenera kunena.”
Chotero, ngati ndinu mtundu wa munthu amene simukumbukira zimene munadya pa kadzutsa m’maŵa uno, kulibwino mutembenuzire manja anu ndi kumvetsera mwa mtundu womwewo kwa iye akamalankhula.
4. Thupi lake likhoza kukupatsani zizindikiro kuti amakukondani
Popanda kukambirana naye, mutha kudziwa ngati amakukondani kapena ayi. The zizindikiro za thupi lachikazi zokopa akhoza kukuthandizani kuposa momwe mukudziwira. Zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikudziwa zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana. Kodi amayang'ana mozama m'maso mwanu mukamalankhula? Kodi amatsamira kwa inu? Zizindikiro izi ndi zina zambiri zidzakuthandizani kupeza yankho la "Kodi amandikonda kapena ayi?"
Shivanya akufotokoza zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana. “Mkhalidwe wake wonse ukhoza kufuula zizindikiro zonse, ngakhale kuti sanganene chilichonse.” Njira imodzi yaikulu imene amachitira zimenezi ndi kudzera m’mawonekedwe a thupi lake, mmene amamvera akakuyang’anani m’maso, mmene amachitira manyazi ndi kumayang’ana kumbali, mmene amaseweretsa tsitsi lake pamene akulankhula nanu, zonse zidzaonekera bwino ngati mutayang’anitsitsa.
Ena angaone kuti thupi lake limamasuka kwambiri ngati palibe munthu amene amamufuna, koma pamene chibwenzi chake chili pafupi, amayamba kudzimvera chisoni, amaumirirabe.”
Nthawi zambiri, yankho la mafunso ngati "Kodi amandikonda kapena ndi zabodza?" angayankhidwe poona mmene thupi lake likuyendera. Ndipo ngati mwanjira ina simukunyalanyaza kusintha kwa machitidwe ake, anthu omwe akuzungulirani ayenera kuti adazindikira.
5. Kodi amasangalala kulankhula nanu?
Kodi kukambirana kulikonse kumawoneka ngati akuyembekezera mwachidwi kulankhula nanu, kapena amakuyang'anani ndi chidwi chofanana ndi momwe amayang'ana chizindikiro cha botolo la shampoo? Ngati ali wokondwadi kukambitsirana nanu, mwina mudzatha kuziwona chifukwa simuyenera kuziganizira. njira zopititsira patsogolo kucheza ndi mtsikana. Izo zidzabwera mwachibadwa kwa inu.
"Adzaonetsetsa kuti akulumikizana nanu kudzera m'mameseji ndi mafoni, angakonde kumva za zomwe mumachita nthawi zonse, ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala wokonzeka kudziwa zomwe mukuchita. Adzakhala akudikirira mauthenga anu ndipo adzayankha mwachidwi. Sangakusungeni kuyembekezera kwa masiku angapo ndikukupangitsani kudabwa ngati akukukondani kapena ayi, akufotokozera Shivanya kwambiri.
6. Iye amachitira nsanje pang'ono ndi akazi ena pa moyo wanu
Ngati muli ndi abwenzi ambiri achikazi kapena omwe abwera kale omwe amakutumizirani mameseji, akhoza kungowonetsa pang'ono zansanje mukawatchula. Angasonyeze chidwi chachilendo kwa bwenzi linalake ndi kubwereza ndi mawu ozizira kapena achipongwe. Akakutumizirani mameseji ngati “O, simukulankhula ndi mabwenzi anu masiku ano, sichoncho?
Sizingakhale chimodzi mwazizindikiro zomwe amakukondani kwambiri pamawu, koma nsanje imatha kuchokera ku maziko olonjeza. Komabe, chifukwa ali ndi nsanje pang'ono Kukhala ndi anzako achikazi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kudzikuza ndikudzifunsa zinthu monga “Kodi amandikonda mobisa?” Monga tanenera poyamba paja, yesani kuona zizindikiro zambiri osati chimodzi chokha.
7. Amayembekezera zinthu zochepa kuchokera kwa inu
Mukasowa ndi anzanu Lachisanu usiku, kungoledzera ndikumulembera kalata "Mwadzuka?" tsiku limodzi kapena awiri pambuyo pake, mwina sangasangalale nazo. Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zomwe mkazi amakukondani chimaphatikizapo pamene akuyembekezera zinthu zingapo kuchokera kwa inu monga kukambirana pafupipafupi, chifundo, ulemu, ndi ulemu wamba.
Koma ngati amangocheza nanu basi, mwina simungamuone akukwiyira kwambiri ngati simukumulembera mameseji kapena kumusiya.” Komanso ngati munamukwiyitsa pambuyo pochita zinthu zinazake zomwe zangotsala pang’ono kutha, mwina imeneyi si nthawi yabwino yofunsa kuti, “Kodi amandikonda?” akutero Shivanya.
8. Pali kulemekezana
Chikondi chopanda ulemu ndi a maubale oopsa. Kusalemekezana kudzadzipangitsa kuonekera mwanjira ina, ndipo kulemekezana kudzachititsa kuti nonse muzichita zinthu mwanzeru. Ulemu wofunikira ukaphatikizidwa ndi zizindikiro zina zomwe amakukondani, umakhala ndi mwayi wochitapo kanthu.
M'pofunikanso kudziwa kuti kusewera mwamasewera sikutanthauza kupanda ulemu. N’kutheka kuti amangofuna kuyandikirana nanu mwa nthabwala, ndipo chifukwa chakuti amakusekani mmene mumanenera mawu enaake sizikutanthauza kuti sakulemekezani.
9. Kodi akupereka zifukwa zoti alankhule nanu?
Mwina chimodzi mwazizindikiro zazikulu zomwe amakukondani kwambiri ndi pamene akupereka zifukwa ndikupeza chifukwa chilichonse chokuyimbirani. Kugona? Izi zimafuna kukambirana kwa foni kwa mphindi 5, eti? Wopanikizika kuntchito? Mwinanso kuyimbira foni kungakuthandizeni kumasuka.
Akasiya kuyesera kubisa zomwe akufuna kukuimbirani foni kapena kupeza zifukwa zoti alankhule nanu, funso loti 'kodi amandikonda' likhoza kupereka yankho labwino kwambiri.
10. Zizindikiro zoti amakukondani: Nthawi zonse amapeza njira zokumana nanu
Sadzataya nthawi yake yamtengo wapatali pa munthu yemwe sakonda kukumana naye, sichoncho? Ndipo ngati akukumana nanu popanda abwenzi ena aliwonse, icho chokha ndi chizindikiro chachikulu chakuti amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama nthawi yabwino ndi inu. Shivanya anati: “Njira imodzi yabwino kwambiri yodziwira ngati mtsikana amakukondani ndiyo kuonetsetsa kuti amakumana nanu nokha kangati.” Sangafune kugawana nanu gulu la mabwenzi chifukwa chakuti akuyesetsa kupeza njira zoyandirira kuti muyandikire ndipo adzaonetsetsa kuti nonse mukukhala limodzi,” akutero Shivanya.
Dziwani ngati akufuna kuti mupite naye kuzinthu zomwe angachite yekha. Zikutanthauza kuti angakonde kukhala pagulu lanu kuposa wina aliyense.
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11. Amafuna 'kwenikweni' kuti akudziweni
Pakukudziwani, sitikutanthauza zanthawi zonse, "Soooo, mumachita zotani?" kapena “Kodi ndinu mphaka kapena munthu wagalu?” Ichi ndi chikondi chomwe tikukamba pano, abale. Ngati ali m'chikondi ndi inu, adzafuna kudziwa chilichonse chokhudza inu, ndi zonse zakuya, zatanthauzo.
Shivanya akufotokozanso. “Ngati amakukondani, amakufunsani mafunso achindunji, amafuna kuti adziwe ngati muli ndi chibwenzi kapena mtundu wa atsikana/anyamata amene mumawakonda.
“Adzayesa kukufunsani, adzakhala wofunitsitsa kukudziŵani monga munthu.
Yembekezerani mafunso monga: Kodi ubale wanu ndi makolo anu ndi wotani? Muli ndi chiyani maubale akale akhala ngati? Kodi muli ndi anzanu otani? Akakufunsani zambiri za banki yanu, simuyenera kudzifunsa kuti, "Kodi amandikonda?" M'malo mwake, dziwani momwe mungasinthire maakaunti anu aku banki musanaberedwe.
12. Ngati ali wokonzeka kudzipereka chifukwa cha inu, ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro kuti amakukondani kwambiri.
Mwa kudzimana, sitikutanthauza mtundu umene mumauona m’mafilimu, pamene mnzawo wina amasiya ntchito yopindulitsa mumzinda wina kuti akakhale ndi mnzake. Nsembe apa zimawoneka ngati kuchedwa ku chinthu chomwe amayenera kupitako, kuti azitha kulankhula nanu kwakanthawi. Kapena kukuthandizani pa nthawi yakusowa kwanu, pamene anali ndi zolinga zina. Kapenanso kumawombera nkhomaliro ndi abwenzi ake, chifukwa mudanenapo kuti mukufuna thandizo posankha shelufu ya mabuku.
Monga momwe Shivanya ananenera, zindikirani pamene achitapo kanthu kuti akuthandizeni kapena kungokuthandizani. Mukamuona akuyesetsa kuti akukomereni mtima, simuyenera kuda nkhawa ndi mafunso monga akuti, “Kodi amandikondadi, kapena akundigwiritsa ntchito?”
Ngakhale, tiyenera kuwonjezera: Musayembekezere kuti adzipereke kwa inu, makamaka ngati simuli pachibwenzi. Zomwe tikukamba ndi zomwe amasankha kuchita mwakufuna kwake. Ngakhale zili choncho, nthawi zonse ndi bwino kusunga wanu ziyembekezo mu ubale osachepera.
13. Kodi akufuna kukuseketsani?
Ngati amakukondani, mwachiwonekere akufuna kuti mumukonde, sichoncho? Angayese kukusekani, ndipo amayesetsa kukhala oseketsa pafupi nanu kuposa pamene ali ndi anthu ena. Yang'anani zizindikiro ngati iye akuyesera kuchita nthabwala kapena kukuyang'anani pamene inu nonse mukuseka ndi gulu la anthu.
Ngati amakusekani, komabe, dzifunseni nokha "Kodi amandikonda kapena amandigwiritsa ntchito ngati zosangalatsa?" Tikuseka, ndithudi. Ngati amakusekani, bwenzi akuseka ndi zibwenzi zake.
14. Zizindikiro zoti amakukondani: Amamwetulira kuchokera khutu mpaka kumakutu akakuona
Ngati kumwetulira kowoneka bwino kochokera kwa iye mukakumana nonse sikungokhala maloto chabe komanso zimachitika m'moyo weniweni, pali mwayi woti amakukondani kwambiri. Pamene mawu akuti “Ndili pano” kapena “Tsegulani chitseko chanu, ndikubwera m’mwamba” malemba amatsatiridwa ndi kumwetulira kwaubwenzi ndi kukumbatirana kwautali pamasom’pamaso, tinganene kuti ndi imodzi mwamalembawo. zizindikiro kuti amakukondani kwambiri.
Shivanya akufotokoza momwe pali chizindikiro china chomveka chomwe mungachizindikire mukakumana ndi munthu uyu. Iye anati: “Ngati amakukondani, amangofunanso kuvala zovala zanu. Amaonetsetsa kuti akuoneka bwino akabwera kudzakumana nanu, ndipo sachita zinthu mwachisawawa.
Chifukwa chake, ngati nthawi zambiri amapita kukavala zotonthoza, koma mumuwona atavala chovala chabwino chadzuwa ndi tsitsi lake pansi pa kutentha kotentha kuti amwe khofi ndi inu, palibe chifukwa chodzifunsa nokha mafunso ngati "Kodi amandikonda kapena ndi zabodza?" Khama likuwonekera kuti muwone.
15. Nonse ndinu omasuka kwambiri wina ndi mnzake
Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zazikulu za kugwirizana ndi pamene anthu awiri ali omasuka kwambiri wina ndi mzake. Ngati mphamvu yanu ndi momwe mungagawire chilichonse ndi munthuyu, osaganiza kawiri zomwe mwanena musananene, ndi chimodzi mwazamatsenga kwambiri kunja uko.
Shivanya akufotokoza momwe zizindikiro za chemistry pakati pa inu awiri zidzaonekera. “Mukakhala ndi vuto lokopana m’manja mwanu, sizidzakhala zovuta kuona mmene zimapangidwira.” Mwachitsanzo, angayese kukhala pafupi nanu kapena angapitirize kukuyang’anani ngakhale muli pagulu.
Kotero, ngati mukudabwa, "Kodi iye amandikondadi?", Yesani kuyang'ana momwe iye aliri womasuka ndi inu. Kodi mungamve chemistry yomwe mwakhazikitsa naye?
16. Akuda nkhawa ndi inu
Kaya ndi thanzi lanu, ntchito yanu, kapena thanzi lanu, nkhawa zake zidzawonekera. Ngati amakukondani ndipo akufuna kukuwonani mukuchita bwino, pali mwayi waukulu woti akuda nkhawa mukapanda kuchita bwino.
“Mkazi akakhala ndi munthu, amasonyeza kudera nkhaŵa kwake ndi kusamala kwake mwachibadwa, sikudzaoneka ngati kukakamizidwa.” Makamaka ngati munthuyo sakuchita bwino kwambiri, angafunse mmene angathandizire kapena kuumirira kum’thandiza mwanjira inayake.
Akakupangirani supu mukadwala, siyani kuganiza kuti, “Kodi amandikonda?” ndi kungomukwatira kale. Chabwino, mwina kuyamba ndi kumufunsa. Mukakhala bwino, ndithudi.
17. Iye ali ndi inu pamene mvula iyamba kugwa
Osati kukugwirirani kwenikweni ambulera mvula ikagwa ndipo mukuthamanga monyowa. Tikutanthauza kuti adzakuthandizani munthawi yamavuto anu. Kodi ndi munthu amene mungadalire? Kodi nthawi zonse amakhala wokonzeka kuthandiza ngakhale atatanganidwa bwanji? Ngati akutero, n’zoonekeratu kuti n’chifukwa chiyani mungasocheretsedwe m’maganizo monga akuti, “Kodi amandikonda mobisa kapena amangosangalala?”
Komabe, ngati ndi munthu amene mungadalire ndipo akufuna kukuthandizani, ndipo ngati mwawona zinthu zina zambiri pamndandandawu pamakhalidwe ake, izi ndizizindikiro zomwe mkazi amakukondani.
18. Ndinu abwenzi apamtima
Akadakhala kuti anali chiyambi chabe chachikondi chamanyazi, pomwe mukuganizirabe ngati mumamukonda kapena ayi, ndizotheka kuti simungakhale mabwenzi apamtima. Komabe, ngati mwafika pamene mukuyesa kudziwa ngati akukukondani kapena ayi, kukhala mabwenzi apamtima kumaperekedwa. Ndipo tonse tikudziwa kuti abwenzi apamtima amalankhula kwambiri. Simungathe kukonda munthu amene simulankhula naye kawirikawiri, kodi mungatero? Ngati zikuwoneka ngati inu awiri ndinu mabwenzi apamtima ndi pang'ono chabe kukanika kugonana, ndi chizindikiro chachikulu kuti akukukondani kwambiri.
19. Amakuyamikani pafupipafupi
Ngati ndinu mwamuna mukuwerenga izi, sitinazolowere kuyamikiridwa, sichoncho? Chifukwa chake, tikalandira chiyamikiro, timapanga sabata yathu yonse. Koma mosasamala kanthu kuti ndinu mwamuna kapena mkazi, ngati amakukondanidi, pali mwayi woti waona kuti kuyamikira kumeneku kumakusangalatsani. Chifukwa chake amakuyamikani mwayi uliwonse womwe apeza, popanda kukhala wowopsa.
“Ngati m’chinenero chake chachikondi ndi mmene amayamikirira munthu winayo, ndipo ngati akulankhula momveka bwino, amamulimbikitsa, amamulimbikitsa, ndiponso amamuyamikira.” Ngati ndi mnyamata amene amayamikiridwa kawirikawiri, amamusangalatsa ndipo amayesa kutero. kumupangitsa kumva kuti amakondedwa komanso kuti ndi wapadera,” akutero Shivanya.
Komabe, ngati iye amakuyamikirani ndi Audi yanu ndi mawotchi anu okwera mtengo, mungafunike kudzifunsa kuti, “Kodi amandikonda kapena ndalama zanga?” kapena “Kodi amandikondadi kapena akundigwiritsa ntchito?” Muyenera kuyang'ana zizindikiro zoyenera, bwanawe, chifukwa awa ndi mafunso ofunikiranso.
20. Amayamikira maganizo anu
Kaya ndi kugula nsapato kapena zisankho zantchito, akufunsani zomwe mukuganiza ngati akufunikanso lingaliro lachiwiri. Mfundo yakuti amaona kuti maganizo anu ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa iye ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zabwino kwambiri zomwe amakukondani. Itha kukhalanso a chizindikiro chobisika cha kukopana, popeza amakudziwitsani kuti amakulemekezani ndipo akufuna kumva zomwe mukunena.
21. Anzake ndi abale ake akudziwa za iwe
Ngati ali pa foni ndi amayi ake ndipo mukumva akuwauza amayi ake kuti ali ndi inu, zikomo, chimenecho ndi chizindikiro chachikulu ngati china chilichonse kuti mtsikanayu amakukhulupirirani. Ngati mkazi auza abwenzi ake ndi/kapena makolo za inu, izo ndithudi chifukwa akuganiza kuti inu ndi amene azikakamira.
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22. Ndipo abwenzi ake sangaleke kukusekani awiri
Ndemanga apa, tag apo, "aww" pansi pa chithunzi cha nonse awiri. Anzake adzachita zonse zomwe angathe kuti akukokereni mwendo, ngati ali otero, ndithudi. Ngati abwenzi ake nthawi zonse amasiya malangizo kapena kuyesa kumuseka mukakhala pafupi, ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zomwe amakukondani kwambiri ndipo mwinamwake anauza anzake onse za izo.
23. Zizindikiro zoti amakukondani: Wanena zinthu motsatira zomwezo
Chabwino, kuvomereza kuti mwina sananene kuti, “Ndimakukondani” (simukadakhala mukuwerenga nkhaniyi), koma mwina akananenapo china chake chomwe mwachiphonya. "Ndimakonda kucheza nanu, nthawi zonse ndimasangalala kwambiri" kapena "Ndimakonda mukakhala pafupi" kapena "Ndimakonda kulankhula nanu tsiku lililonse" ndi zizindikiro zazikulu zomwe mkazi amakukondani.
Tikukhulupirira, podutsa muzizindikiro izi, tsopano mutha kuyika funso lanu loyaka moto - "Kodi amandikonda?" - kugona. Tikukhulupirira kuti mawu omwe mwafikapo ndi abwino, chifukwa cha inu. Ndipo ngati mwasokonezeka, pali chinthu chimodzi chokha choti muchite: kumufunsa. Ndi njira yachangu kwambiri yopezera yankho la "Kodi amandikonda kapena ayi?"
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