Payton adalumbirira kuti sadzayang'ananso mwamuna. Kwa nthawi ya 100, adadzidzudzula - adachita chiyani? Anthu ena tsopano adadziwa - angakhale bwanji wosasamala? Ndipo ankaona kuti anthu ankamulankhula pamene ankatuluka. Nthawi ina anamva mkazi wina akunena kuti, “N’chifukwa chiyani anthu amangokhalira kukwatirana ngakhale kuti ali ndi moyo wabwino chonchi?
Tsiku lina iye anali kuthamanga pa treadmill mu oyandikana malo olimbitsa thupi ndipo atsikana awiri anayamba kuseka, kuyang'ana iye. Iye ankadziwa kuti iwonso ankamunena miseche. Nkhaniyi inkawoneka kuti yawononga moyo wa Payton ndipo palibe chomwe angachite.
Kodi mukufunadi kudziwa, chifukwa chiyani anthu ali ndi zochitika? Kenako imvani kuchokera kwa Payton mwachindunji. Nkhani yeniyeni imeneyi ndi yotsimikizirika kukupatsani chidziŵitso chozama pazochitika—chifukwa chake zimachitika ndi chimene chimapangitsa anthu kuchita nawo. Nayi nkhani yachibwenzi yomwe ingakuvutitseni.
Nkhani Yake Yabwino
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
"N'chifukwa chiyani ndinali ndi chibwenzi?" adadzigwetsa m'maganizo.
Payton adakumana ndi mnyamatayu pa kalasi ya yoga. Anali m’zaka zake za m’ma 40, ayenera kuti anali ndi zaka za m’ma 30. Anali ndi moyo wotanganidwa. Udindo woyang'anira ofesi ya amayi ake unatenga nthawi yake yambiri. Pambuyo pake, amasamalira nyumba yake. Mwamuna wake anali wabizinesi wopambana, wowoneka bwino, wachikondi, wosamala, ndi zina zambiri. Anathawa chifukwa chomuyamikira.
Koma ankafuna zinanso. Ndipo hunk wokongola uyu wochokera ku yoga adamupatsa zomwezo.
Iye anali wolemera kwambiri kuposa iye. Anali munthu wapakati kwambiri poyerekeza ndi iye, kotero nthawi zambiri amalipira zipinda za hotelo, masiku awo a khofi, mabotolo avinyo okwera mtengo omwe amamupeza kuti asangalale nawo. kugonana kwabwino. Mowa ndi kugonana ndizophatikizira zakupha. Ndipo amangokonda sekondi iliyonse ya izo.
Koma ngakhale ali ndi mwamuna wabwino kwambiri komanso moyo wotanganidwa, zomwe zidamupangitsa kuti azizembera motere ndikubera.
Zifukwa zake za chibwenzi
N’chifukwa chiyani anthu amakumana ndi mavuto? Munthu amene wachita chigololo angadzifunse kuti, “Kodi zinthu zimayamba bwanji?”, “Kodi zinatheka bwanji kuti ndigwidwe m’matope amenewa?”, “Mnzangayo ndi wangwiro. ndi "Chifukwa chiyani ndalakwitsa?"
Chibwenzi chakunja chimayamba kalekale munthu wachitatu asanabwere. Choyambitsa chake ndicho ming'alu yosaoneka bwino yomwe imayamba kusokoneza ubale wa okwatirana, zomwe zimapatsa mpata cholakwacho.
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Lingaliro la chibwenzi limagwira m'maganizo a mnzanu wachinyengo, pamene kudzimva kukhala wosungulumwa komanso wopanda pake muubwenzi kumakhazikitsidwa, kuwatsimikizira kuti palibe chiyembekezo chokonza chomwe chasweka. Maziko ovutawa akayalidwa, zimangofunika kuti munthu wina wokongola kwambiri adzaze dzenjelo. Misonkhano yochepa yokondana komanso malingaliro osatsutsikawa angayambitse nkhani yachibwenzi. Chidwi chimamveka bwino, pali kukopana kopanda vuto, ndipo posakhalitsa, munthuyo amadzipeza kuti wayamba chibwenzi, mosasamala kanthu za iwo eni.
Nkhani yake ya chibwenzi ndi nthano ya zilakolako zolusa
Zinalinso zosiyana ndi Payton. Poyamba, sanali wofunitsitsa kukumana naye kapena kumusamalira kwenikweni. Anali ndi zokwanira pa mbale yake. Koma tsopano? Ankafuna kumuwona nthawi zonse! Iye anakanthidwa kwathunthu ndi iye. Zinali zovuta kwambiri kukhala naye yekha ndikugonana, komabe adapeza malo. Nthawi zina hotelo mumsewu waukulu, nthawi zina mpando wakumbuyo wagalimoto, ngakhale zinali zovuta.
Nayenso anali pa banja ndipo onse analumbirirana kuti sakugonana ndi azibwenzi awo.
Payton ankakonda kudabwa ndi mahomoni ake okwiya. Kugonana kunali kwabwino, koma osati kopambana monga momwe zinaliri ndi mwamuna wake, chifukwa ndi iye sanali wamanyazi kufotokoza zomwe amafuna. Ndi chibwenzi chake, iye ankayesetsa kwambiri kusangalatsa, kunamizira, ngakhalenso orgasms zabodza, zomwe nthawi zina zimamutopetsa.
Amatha kukhala naye kwa maola ambiri ali pabedi ndikumuyang'ana, kuwerengera mamolekyu ake ndikukambirana chilichonse ndi chilichonse padziko lapansi. Ndipo ankalankhula za iye kwa maola ambiri.
Moyo unali wabwino kwambiri.
Kodi chibwenzicho chinatha nthawi yayitali bwanji?
Nkhani ya chibwenzi idayamba kumveka posachedwa. Mkazi wake anazindikira awo mameseji okopa ndipo adayimbira Payton ndikuwopseza kuti alengeza poyera. Anali atayamba kale kucheza ndi anzake wamba ndipo mphaka anali atatuluka m’chikwama. Payton anasiya kucheza ndi chibwenzi chake, ndipo chibwenzi chake chinatha. Mkazi wake adabwera kudzakumana naye ndipo adati amuuzanso mwamuna wa Payton zonse.
Poyamba Payton anachonderera ndikudandaulira, kenako, mopanda mantha, anati, "Chitani zomwe mukufuna. Uzani aliyense nkhani yanga yaubwenzi. Sindisamala."
Koma palibe chomwe chinachitika, nkhaniyo inafa, koma panali kuwonongeka pang'ono. Payton, pokhala wokoma mtima komanso wolemera, adamuyitana yemwe anali chibwenzi chake ndipo mowolowa manja adamupatsa paketi ya ndalama kuti agulire mkazi wake chinachake ndikumukhazika mtima pansi kuti asafike m'makutu mwa mwamuna wake. Komabe, chochitika chonsecho chinapatsa Payton chifukwa choganizira ndikumvetsetsa chifukwa chake anthu ali ndi zibwenzi komanso zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti azibera anzawo.
Kenako, mafunso onga akuti “Kodi zibwenzi zimatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji?”, “Kodi zibwenzi zakunja zimatha moyo wonse?” ndi "Kodi nkhani yanga ya chibwenzi ndi yachikondi?", idayamba kumutenga m'maganizo mwake. Anayamba kufufuza mozama za nkhaniyi ndipo anazindikira kuti panalibe mayankho osavuta. Kuchokera usiku umodzi maimidwe ku zochitika za nthawi yaitali zamaganizo, kusakhulupirika kunabwera m'mawonekedwe ndi maonekedwe osiyanasiyana. Chothandizira chimodzi chinawerengera nthawi yapakati ya chibwenzi pa miyezi 6. Mwakutero, Payton adaganiza kuti iye ndi chibwenzi chake adathamanga bwino.
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Pambuyo pa zolakwa zake, Payton adakonda kwambiri mwamuna wake. Iye ankamusamalira, ankamuphikira chakudya chimene ankachikonda nthawi zonse ndipo ankayesetsa kugwirizananso naye m’njira zatsopano. Ankaganiza kuti anali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mkazi wooneka bwino, woyenerera komanso wosamala.
Payton ndi mwamuna wake anali paulendo wapamadzi ndipo anali okondana kwambiri. Unali chisangalalo chawo chakhumi ndi chimodzi. Anapanga mabwenzi ndi banja lina m’sitimamo. Kugwirana chanza kwake kumatenga nthawi yayitali kuposa momwe amafunikira ndi Payton. Tsiku lina, atakhala pafupi naye, dzanja lake linakhala pa ntchafu yake. Payton anaseka koma sanachotse dzanja.
Mwanayo ananthunthumira, nati, “Ndiwe wonyansa kwambiri” ndikuseka. Moyo unali wosangalatsanso! Analinso wabwino kwambiri kwa mkazi wake.
Anapatsana manambala ndipo anali atalonjeza kuti amuchezera.
“Mwana, ndimakulakalaka nthawi zonse,” iye anatero.
Iye anali ataseka.
Malingaliro ake adabwerera ku funso lakuti: Kodi zibwenzi zakunja zimatha moyo wonse? Kodi pali zifukwa zomveka zokhalira ndi chibwenzi? Chabwino, mwina osati ndi munthu yemweyo, anaganiza choncho. Ndipo inde, ngati simunakwaniritsidwe muukwati wanu ndiye kuti icho chokha chimapangitsa kukhala chifukwa chabwino chokhalira ndi chibwenzi.
Anakumbukira lonjezo lake kwa Mulungu lakuti sadzalibwezeranso. Koma ankaona kuti ayi kunyenga wolakwa nthawiyi. Iye anaganiza kuti, “Moyo ndi waufupi kwambiri. Malonjezo amayenera kuthyoledwa, ndipo aka akadzakhala komaliza kotheratu. Ndili ndi zifukwa zanga za nkhani ya chibwenzi changa. Ndipo Mulungu amandidziwanso bwino. Adzakhalanso kumbali yanga.
N'chifukwa Chiyani Anthu Ali ndi Zochita?
Kugonana kunja kwa banja ndi kusakhulupirika nthawi zonse zimawonedwa ngati zopanda chilungamo komanso zoyipa kuchita kwa wokondedwa wanu. Mmodzi nthawi zonse amawoneka kuti amamvera chisoni munthu yemwe wakhala akupusitsidwa ndipo pamene izi ziri zolondola m'malo mwake, palibe amene amasamala kuti ayang'ane chifukwa chake mnzakeyo amawanyenga.
Tiyeni tiwongole chinthu chimodzi. Palibe amene 'akufuna' kukhumudwitsa wokondedwa wake kapena kuwapangitsa kudziona kuti ndi osakwanira pachibwenzi. Mwina n’chifukwa chake amawabisiranso nkhani zawo. Safuna kuwononga moyo wawo kapena malo awo amalingaliro ndichifukwa chake amasunga chinsinsi. Chomwe chimapangitsa kuti anthu azikhala ndi zochitika, ndikulephera kukwaniritsa ubale wawo wapano komanso m'moyo wawo. Ngakhale kunyong’onyeka muubwenzi kungapangitse munthu kukhala ndi zibwenzi.
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Pamene wina sali wokondwa, wokondedwa kapena wotsimikiza za ubale womwe ali nawo, amatha kutengera ena kuti amve kutsimikizika ndi chitetezo kuchokera kwa wina. Ngakhale kuti wokondedwa wawo wapano angakhale wokonzeka kuwapatsa dziko lapansi, pali china chake chomwe chikusoweka chomwe chapangitsa kusokonekera. Ndipo maubwenzi ena apambali ndi omwe amagwiritsa ntchito kudzaza chosowachi.
Mphamvu za maubwenzi ndi chikondi zimatiuza kuti palibe kukalipira 'koyenera' kapena 'cholakwika' pankhani ya chinyengo kapena zibwenzi zakunja. Koma munthu ayenera kuvomereza, kuti anthu ali ndi zifukwa zawo zochitira zinthu zomwe amachita. Ndipo sikuti nthawi zonse zimachokera kumalo oipa.
Ibibazo
Palibe nthawi yeniyeni chifukwa imasiyanasiyana munthu ndi munthu komanso zochitika ndi zochitika. Ngati wina ali wosasangalala m’banja mwawo, akhoza kuloŵerera m’zochitazo kwa nthaŵi yaitali. Ena angakhale akungofuna kuthawa mwamsanga n’kuzindikira kuti chinali chisankho choipa nthawi yonseyi.
Nkhani, chifukwa chake zimachitika - zonse zimatengera thanzi ndi mphamvu za banja kapena ubale womwe munthu alimo. Munthu amangokhala ndi nkhani ya chibwenzi akayamba kufunafuna china chake chakunja chomwe sakuchipeza.
Yankho lakuti 'N'chifukwa chiyani anthu ali ndi zochitika' kaŵirikaŵiri limakhala chifukwa limawapatsa malingaliro otsitsimula pa moyo wawo ndi kuwapangitsa kumva bwinoko pang'ono pakali pano. Mukakhala muukwati woipa, chizoloŵezi chotayirira kapena moyo wotayirira, zingamveke ngati zimenezo ndi zifukwa zabwino zokhalira ndi chibwenzi.
Maganizo Final
Kusakhulupirika si wakuda ndi woyera. Sikuti nthawi zonse zimakhala za anthu oyipa kupanga zosankha zoyipa - zimakhudza anthu, malingaliro, ndipo nthawi zina, kusasangalala kwakukulu. Koma ziribe kanthu chifukwa, zinthu zimabwera ndi zotsatira zake. Ngati mukulimbana ndi chibwenzi chanu, pali njira zabwino zothetsera ululu wanu kusiyana ndi kuyang'ana kunja kwake. Akatswiri athu ingakuthandizeni kuthana ndi zovuta zamalingaliro nthawi isanathe.
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Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Ndi chifukwa chake sitiyenera kukhululukira mnzathu wachinyengo.
Ndimadana nazo akazi akamachita misala chotere ndikuyesera Kuwononga nyumba ya munthu wina kuti angokhutiritsa kupanda kwawo magazi. Ndimadana ndi akazi otere. Yesani kugwira mnyamata yemwe sanakwatire komanso wosadzipereka. Grrrrr
Nde zili bwino ngati azibambo??? logic yake..!!! LOL.. Amuna ndi akazi omwe amachita izi amafunika kuphunzitsidwa.. osalangizidwa kuti agwire mtsikana/mnyamata osakwatiwa ndikuwononganso miyoyo yawo…