Mwamuna Wanga Wolamulira: Ndinadabwa Kuwona Mbali Ili Yake

Titakwatirana, ine ndi Seth tinalonjezana tsogolo lodzala ndi chikondi ndi chimwemwe. Sitinkadziwa kuti zikhala nthawi yochepa ndipo posakhalitsa ndikhala ndi mwamuna wondilamulira. Pang’ono ndi pang’ono, zinthu zinayamba kusintha m’banja langa ndipo ndinaphunzira za mbali ina yatsopano ya mwamuna wanga, yemwe ndinkaganiza kuti ndimamudziwa bwino. Kodi mungatani ndi mwamuna wolamulira? Chabwino, ndinaphunzira movutikira.

Kulamulira Pakhomo Mu Ukwati

Patadutsa miyezi itatu kuchokera pamene tinakwatirana ndipo mnzanga wapamtima, Kayley, anabwera kunyumba kwanga usiku wa atsikana. Tinkacheza momasuka mpaka anandifunsa za ubale wanga ndi Seth. Kumwetulira nthawi yomweyo kunabwera pankhope yanga ndipo ndinamuuza momwe zinalili zosavuta kukhala ndi Seth. Koma chimene chinayamba monga kuyamika, posakhalitsa chinasintha. Pamene ndikufotokozera za ubale wanga ndi kutsegula kwa Kayley, ndinapeza kuti panali njira imodzi yaikulu.

Ndinadabwitsidwa pang'ono ndi kuzindikira kokhumudwitsako. Koma zimene zinachitika pambuyo pake zinali zokhumudwitsa kwambiri. Ndinamva phokoso losasangalatsa kuchokera panja, wina akukuwa dzina langa, "Amy! Amy!" ndipo chochititsa mantha chinali chakuti ndinadziwa mawu.

Ine ndi Kayley tinathamangira ku khonde langa ndipo ndinaona Seth akukangana ndi alonda a nyumba yomwe timakhala. Ndinatenga foni yanga ndikutsika mofulumira. Screen yanga idawunikira ma missed call 40 ochokera kwa Seth. Sindinazindikire kuti foni yanga inali pa silent ndipo ndinali nditaiwala kumuuza Seth za plan yanga ndi Kayley.

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Podziwa kuti ndili ndi mwamuna wolamulira

Nditangotsika ndinamufunsa Seth kuti chavuta ndi chani? Anandiuza kuti woyang'anira nyumbayo sakumulola kulowa m'nyumbamo mpaka atatsimikizira kuti akudziwana ndi m'modzi mwa anthu okhalamo. Ndinamuuza mnyamatayo kuti Seth ndi mwamuna wanga ndipo abwera kudzakumana nane.

Nthawi iliyonse Seth akapita kuntchito, ndinkabwerera ku nyumba yanga yakale komwe ndinkakhala ngati mkazi wosakwatiwa , ndikukhala ndi anzanga kapena kusangalala ndi nthawi yanga yochita zinthu zomwe ndimakonda. Nthawi ino, Seth anali ku New York kwa sabata imodzi ndipo ndinkamva ngati ndili ndekha popanda iye kunyumba, choncho ndinabwerera kunyumba kwanga kwa kanthawi.

Zitachitika izi, ndinaona kuti akupsa mtima. Anandisiya mwachiwawa dzanja langa. Anayamba kukuwa, kundifunsa komwe ndinali komanso chifukwa chomwe sindinayankhe mafoni ake.

Ndinayankha mwamantha kuti ndinali ndi Kayley ndipo tinali ndi usiku wa atsikana omwe ndinaiwala kumuuza. Anayamba kukuwa kuti ndinamunyalanyaza komanso kumunyoza. Sanasiyiretu pamenepo, anayamba kunditukwana chifukwa chakusamvera kwanga n’kuchokapo.

Ndinadabwa kuona mbali iyi ya iye. Mwanjira ina, ndinadzitonthoza ndipo ndinayesa kunyalanyaza chifukwa chakuti anali ndi tsiku loipa. Ndikutanthauza, ndani amene alibe mikangano paubwenzi ? Aliyense ali nayo, kotero palibe vuto!

Kumvetsetsa zoona zake za mwamuna wanga

Koma kwenikweni, palibe chomwe chinali bwino. Kuyambira tsiku limenelo, ulamuliro wapakhomo wa Seti unayamba kuonekera kwambiri. Chilichonse m’moyo wanga chimene sichinamukhudze chinamukwiyitsa. Ankachita zinthu ngati bwana, akundiuza kuti ndiyenera kucheza ndi ndani kapena ndisamacheze naye.

Ndikadakhala otanganidwa osayankha komwe ndimakhala, amandiimbira foni nthawi zosawerengeka ngati munthu wamaganizo. Ndipo anali wankhanza komanso wankhanza. Pansi pa chovala cha munthu wowoneka bwino ameneyo anali atabisalira munthu wongonjenjemera, yemwe sakanalekerera kukanidwa kapena kusakhala pakati pa chidwi.

Pasanathe chaka nditakhala m'banja, ndinadziwa kuti ndiyenera kuthetsa chibwenzi chotere. Popeza Seth anali wovuta kwambiri, ndinakonza zothetsa nkhaniyi modekha. Ndinamupangira khofi ndipo ndinamuuza kuti sizikuyenda ndipo tikuyenera kukhala padera ndikuti ndibwerere ku nyumba yanga yakale kwa kanthawi. Ulamuliro wapakhomo m’nyumba mwathu unali kundimiza.

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Iye analeka

Anayamba kundipempha kuti ndisamusiye ndipo anapemphanso mwayi wina. Ndinali kumva chisoni chifukwa cha mmene ukwati wathu unakhalira, koma chifukwa cha ziwawa zimene ndinadutsamo miyezi 7-8 yapitayo, sindinathe kulimba mtima kuti ndimupatsenso mwayi wina.

Ndinamuuza kuti ndikufunika malo muubwenziwu ndipo ayenera kuulemekeza. Sindinali wotsimikiza ngati ndikanafuna kusudzulana panthawiyo koma ndinkafunadi kuchoka. Pamene ndinayamba kutuluka kukhitchini, anagwira dzanja langa n’kulikanikiza patebulo mwamphamvu. Anayamba kundifuulira chifukwa chomukana.

Kusiya mwamuna wanga wondilamulira

Ndinkachita mantha ndipo ndinkada nkhawa kuti adzachita zachiwawa n’kumachita chiwawa. Mwamsanga ndinadzitulutsa m’manja mwake, ndikutuluka m’nyumba mwathu ndipo ndinabwerera kunyumba, ku nyumba yanga kumene ndinadzimva kukhala wosungika, ngakhale kuti ndinali wosweka mkati. Ndinalira kwambiri chifukwa chogonja kwa munthu wotere yemwe sankandilemekeza.

Koma ndinapeza mpumulo kuti, potsirizira pake, mwamunayo wasiya moyo wanga. Zonse zinali zitatha. Koma zinali zisanathe kwa iye. Kwa milungu ingapo ankandizembera, kuwaimbira foni anzanga komanso kundinyoza. Anayesanso kuthyola m’nyumba mwanga ndipo ndinachita madandaulo okhudza iye, koma kenako anasiya.

Pamapeto pake, tinasudzulana koma sindinayambe ndamva kuti zinali zovuta kumutsimikizira kuti achite chimodzimodzi. Lero, patha zaka ziwiri kuchokera pamene anasiya moyo wanga koma sindingathe kuiwala miyezi yoopsa yomwe ndinakhala naye, ndikukhulupirira kuti zonse zinali chikondi. Moyo wanga pambuyo pa kusudzulana tsopano ndi wabwino kwambiri ndipo ndikumva bwino nditasiya mwamuna wanga wolamulira.

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