Momwe ndingadutse mwamuna wokwatiwa yemwe ndimakopeka naye

Kukopa, kugwirizana ndi kugwa m'chikondi - zonsezi zikuwoneka ngati zosapeweka. Koma bwanji ngati mwakopeka ndi mwamuna wokwatira? Zikumveka zovuta eti? Tsopano m'mutu mwanu, mutha kuyesa zabwino ndi zoyipa za chibwenzi ndi mwamuna wokwatira koma chowonadi ndichoti zitha kukhala tsoka nthawi zambiri. Chifukwa chakuti, n’zokayikitsa kwambiri kuti mwamuna wokwatira angasiye mkazi wake ndi banja lake kuti adzakhale nanu, mosasamala kanthu za momwe akulonjeza kutero. Koma zidzakuvutani kuti mupambane ndi mwamuna wokwatirayo.

Momwe mungapitirire kukopeka ndi mwamuna wokwatira

Kuthetsa kukopeka ndi mwamuna wokwatira kumaoneka kukhala kovuta chifukwa mwanjira ina m’maganizo mwathu timalakalaka zipatso zoletsedwa koposa chirichonse. Mtsikana ameneyu anali ndi funso loti afunsire kwa mlangizi wake pamizere yomweyi.

Anamudziwa monga bwenzi la banja lake kwa moyo wake wonse. Ubwenzi wawo unakula kwambiri kwakanthawi ndipo china chake chachikondi chinali kumera koma kenako adakwatirana ndikukhala ndi ana. Nthawi zina amabwerabe kudzakumana naye ngakhale kuti ndi wokwatira.

Ngakhale kuti panalibe chibwenzi pakati pa awiriwa, mtsikanayo amavomereza kuti amakopeka ndi malemba ake ndipo amakopeka ndi kupezeka kwake pafupi naye. Ngakhale kuti akukumana ndi mavuto m’banja lake, mkaziyo amafuna kuthetsa zimenezi. Sakufuna kuzama mu izi kuposa momwe alili kale. Ngati zili choncho, akuyesetsa kuti athetse mwamuna wokwatiwayo.

Mlangizi wathu amamulangiza momwe angapitirire mwamuna wokwatira. Onani vidiyoyi kuti mudziwe zambiri…

Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.

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