Amene amakhulupirira kuti moyo wathu ukulamulidwa ndi mphamvu yapamwamba amavomereza kuti palibe zochitika mwamwayi m'moyo. Ngakhale akatswiri amavomereza kuti chilichonse chimachitika pazifukwa. Izi zimakhala zabwino kwa anthu omwe amabwera m'miyoyo yathu mosiyanasiyana, pamagulu osiyanasiyana. Pali kugwirizana kwa cosmic komwe kumamanga maubwenzi a anthu ndikulamulira nthawi yomwe munthu amakhala m'miyoyo yathu komanso ntchito yomwe amagwira.
Zina zimatigwedeza, zina zimatikhazika mtima pansi, zina zimatipatsa malingaliro atsopano, zina zimathyola mitima yathu, zina zimatithandiza kuchiritsa - ndipo zimayenera kuwoloka njira yathu pazifukwa. Chilengedwe chimawatsogolera kwa ife ndipo amatikonzekeretsa kuti tiziwalowetsamo.
Ngakhale sizingamveke choncho pakadali pano, palibe msonkhano wamtsogolo womwe ulibe cholinga. Sitikumana ndi aliyense mwangozi. Kulumikizana kwa cosmic, kwenikweni, ndiko lingaliro lapadera la uzimu lomwe limagwirizanitsa nzeru zakale ndi sayansi, kupanga njira yodzizindikiritsa tokha pamitundu yamaubwenzi omwe timakhala nawo m'moyo wathu komanso chifukwa chake.
Kodi Cosmic Connection ndi chiyani?
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Monga Paulo Coelho akunenera, "Mukafuna chinachake, chilengedwe chonse chimakonzekera kukuthandizani kuti muchite." Inde, chilengedwe chili ndi njira yake yopangira chiwembu kutithandiza m'njira zomwe sitingamvetsetse, ngakhale popanda phindu la kuyang'ana m'mbuyo, ndipo zimatibweretsera zinthu kapena anthu omwe mwina sitikuwayembekezera. Ndicho chiyambi cha mgwirizano wa cosmic.
Mawu oti 'cosmic' amatanthauza 'cha chilengedwe chonse'. Chifukwa chake, kulumikizana kwa chilengedwe chonse kumatanthauza kulumikizana komwe timapanga ndi munthu wina wotsogozedwa ndi chilengedwe chonse. Kukumana kwamtsogolo, ngati mukufuna. Mwauzimu, kulumikizana kwa chilengedwe chonse ndi chiwonetsero cha momwe timakhalira bwino mkati mwa kayendedwe ka mphamvu yapadziko lonse lapansi, kulumikiza miyoyo yathu ndi mphamvu ya chilengedwe. Komabe, kulumikizana kwa chilengedwe kumapitilira patali kuposa kupeza mnzathu wamoyo.
Pali umboni wokwanira wosonyeza kuti palibe chimene chimachitika mwangozi m’miyoyo yathu. Sitikumana ndi aliyense mwangozi, sitipanga zisankho - zabwino kapena zoipa - mwa kufuna kwathu, sitisankha njira ya moyo popanda chifukwa. Ulendo wathu wamoyo ndi anthu omwe amakhala mbali yake ndi chiwonetsero cha mphamvu zakuthambo zomwe zimatizungulira.
Mfundo yakuti mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya anthu imabwera m'miyoyo yathu nthawi zosiyanasiyana ndikukhala kwa nthawi yeniyeni, imakhala ndi cholinga. Ndizo zimene timafunikira panthaŵiyo m’moyo wathu, ndipo chilengedwe chimazindikira chosoŵa chimenecho mogwirizana ndi zimene tingakhale tazifotokoza modziŵa kapena mosadziŵa.
Tonse timapanga mitundu yosiyanasiyana yolumikizirana zakuthambo m'moyo wathu ndipo chilichonse chimakhala chofunikira pakukula ndi kupita patsogolo. Sizinthu zonse zolumikizana zakuthambo zomwe zimatha moyo wonse - kwenikweni, zambiri sizingakhale ndipo zina zitha kukhala zosakhalitsa - koma zimatha kusintha njira yaulendo wathu kwamuyaya. Momwemonso, si kulumikizana kulikonse kwa chilengedwe komwe kumakhala kuwala komanso chizindikiro cha chiyembekezo.
Izi zitha kukhala anthu ovuta kapena maubwenzi oopsa omwe amatisokoneza kuti tithe kusintha kukhala anthu abwino. Chinthu chimodzi chomwe chimakhala chofala m'mitundu yonse ya kulumikizana kwa chilengedwe ndikuti zimatithandiza kusintha njira ya miyoyo yathu mwa kutipatsa njira yatsopano yowonera zinthu.
Mukakhala olumikizidwa mwachilengedwe ndi munthu, chikoka chawo pa inu chidzawoneka. Akhoza kusokoneza njira ya moyo wanu, akhoza kukuthandizani kuti muthe kutaya kwambiri, kapena angakhalepo kuti akuphunzitseni phunziro, mwa zina. Chomwe sichisintha, komabe, ndikuti amasiya chizindikiro.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Ubale wa Karmic - Momwe Mungadziwire Ndi Momwe Mungachitire
Ngakhale mungakhale ndi chiyanjano ndi wina, simungazindikire mphamvu zake pamoyo wanu nthawi yomweyo. Okonda poizoni akalowa ndikusiya moyo wathu, chinthu chomaliza chomwe timaganizira ndi zomwe adatiphunzitsa. Panthawiyo, mumasangalala kuti anachoka.
Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti kugwirizana wopenga cosmic zonse zoipa, Komabe. Ngati munakumanapo ndi chibwenzi chosayenera, mwina mumavomereza mfundo yakuti simukanakhala munthu yemweyo ngati simunakumanepo ndi zimenezi. Mwina mungakhale mukudumphirabe m'mipikisano yatsopano komanso yomwe ingakhale yowopsa.
Ndi zomwe zanenedwa, kukoka kwa cosmic si chinthu chomwe titha kuchithawa. Pamene chilengedwe chikukonzekera, chidzabwera kwa inu. Tsopano popeza mukudziwa tanthauzo la kulumikizana kwa chilengedwe, tiyeni tiwone mitundu yomwe mungakumane nayo m'moyo wanu wonse, ndi zonse zomwe zingakupatseni mwayi wokumana nazo.
Cosmic Connection - Mumakumana ndi Anthu 9 Awa Pazifukwa
Munthu amene anakuswani mtima m'njira zomwe zinakusinthirani kwamuyaya. Mphunzitsi amene anakukakamizani kuti mulembetse ku koleji imeneyo simunaganizepo kuti mungalowemo koma munatero. Mlendo amene munali naye paubwenzi wabwino kwambiri amene anakupatsani malingaliro atsopano okhudza chikondi ndi moyo. Izi ndi maubwenzi achilengedwe omwe amabwera m'moyo wanu kuti akulitse malingaliro anu.
Zina zimakhala ngati mpweya wabwino, zina zimakhala ngati mapiritsi owawa omwe muyenera kuwameza kuti mukhale bwino. Onse ofanana zofunika paokha. Tiyeni tiwone mitundu yosiyanasiyana yolumikizirana zakuthambo kuti timvetsetse chifukwa chake sitikumana ndi aliyense mwangozi:
1. Amene amakukumbutsani cholinga chanu
Aaron anali kuvutika ndi pulogalamu yake yokhalamo, nthawi zambiri amadzimva ngati sangathe kupirira komanso sangathe kusankha ntchito yapadera. Adali maganizo oti asiye kusuta pamene dokotala wamkulu dzina lake Dr. Tom anamugwira m'mapiko ndikumulondolera njira yomwe sanapeze yekha.
Mwina Dr. Tom sankadziŵa n’komwe za mmene Aaron wachichepereyo amaonera. Mwina amangofuna kuthandiza ndipo malingaliro oti "olumikizidwa mwachilengedwe" sanabwere m'maganizo mwake. Ngakhale zinali choncho, pamene ankathandiza Aaron kuti asamayende bwino pachipatala chimene ankagwira ntchito, anamuthandiza kuti ayambe kuyamikira moyo.
Kaya akudziwa kapena ayi, mlangizi wa Aroni anali wolumikizana ndi chilengedwe adatumiza njira yake kuti amukumbutse za cholinga chake chenicheni ndi mayitanidwe ake. Kulumikizana kwamtundu uwu kumakuthandizani kuti mukhulupirire mwa inu nokha ndikukupangitsani kuti mulumikizane ndi maluso omwe simunadziwe kuti muli nawo.
Mwina sangakhale anzanu auzimu , ndipo sangakhale m'moyo wanu kwamuyaya, koma amakhala gawo la moyo wanu kwamuyaya. Monga momwe Aaron adakumbutsidwira cholinga chake, mwina pakhala nthawi ina m'moyo wanu pomwe mudapeza kuyamikira kwatsopano njira yomwe mukutsatira. Mwina mudakumana ndi mphamvu yachilengedwe, kapena mwina wina anali wokoma mtima mokwanira kutsogolera njira.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Zizindikiro 10 Zosonyeza Kuti Bwenzi Langa Lapamtima Ndi Mnzanu Wapamtima
2. Amene akukulimbikitsani
Anthu awa ndi mphamvu yachilengedwe mwa iwo okha, ndipo kupezeka kwawo m'moyo wanu kumakulimbikitsani kuti mukhale munthu wabwinoko. Mukakumana ndi anthu omwe akukhala moyo womwe mukufuna, mumalimbikitsidwa kuti musinthe.
Mitundu iyi ya kugwirizana kwa cosmic imatha kupangidwa kangapo, pazigawo zosiyanasiyana za moyo. Ndiwolimbikitsa kwambiri omwe amakupangitsani kuti mukhulupirire kuti palibe chosatheka mukayika malingaliro anu.
Okonda cosmic ali ndi kuthekera kwakukulu kukulimbikitsani ndikukuthandizani paulendo wanu kuti mukhale mtundu wabwino kwambiri wa inu nokha. Koma zimenezi sizikutanthauza kuti okondana okha ndi amene angakulimbikitseni. Kukhala wogwirizana ndi wina aliyense sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala naye pafupi.
Wodwala khansa akumwetsa mzimu wa carpe diem, wopunduka akukweza mapiri ndikusalola kulumala kwawo kuwafotokozera, mayi wosakwatiwa akuyesera kuthana ndi zonsezi ndi joie de vivre, ndi zitsanzo za anthu omwe angakulimbikitseni kuti musunthe malire anu ndikukhala bwino.
3. Amene akuphunzira kwa Inu
Sikuti kugwirizana konse kwa cosmic kumatanthauza kukupatsani chinachake; ena akhoza kubwera m'moyo wanu kuti atenge maphunziro kwa inu. Mwina simungadziwe n’komwe mpaka maganizo anu atakopeka.
Mtsikana wamng'ono m'banjamo amene akubwera kwa inu ndikukuuzani momwe amasilira kudzidalira kwanu ndi kulimba mtima kwanu, ngakhale mutakhala kuti mukudzikayikira mkati, ndi mgwirizano wa chilengedwe womwe umadutsa njira yanu kuti muphunzire ndikukula. Mwachidule, ndi umodzi mwa maubwenzi abwino kwambiri omwe mungakhale nawo.
Mwanjira ina, zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi chilengedwe zimatha kupereka ndi kutengana wina ndi mzake. Ngakhale maphunziro omwe mumaphunzitsa munthuyu ndi owoneka bwino, mwina amakupangitsani kuzindikira kuti pali zambiri kwa inu kuposa momwe mumaganizira. Pamene mukuyang'ana zovuta zomwe moyo umakubweretserani - ngakhale movutikira komanso kudzikayikira - mumakulitsa kudzimva komwe kumakuthandizani kuthana nazo.
Ndipo ikayamikiridwa mu mawonekedwe ake enieni, kukoka kwa cosmic kumakhala kosavuta kumveka. Mwinamwake mumakumbutsa munthu uyu za cholinga chake, kapena mwinamwake mumawalimbikitsa pokhala inu. Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, zimangowonetsa kuti kugwirizana kwa chilengedwe ndi munthu kungathe kusintha miyoyo. Kulumikizana kumeneku kumakupangitsani kuzindikira kusiyana kwakukulu komwe mungapange m'moyo wa munthu popanda kuganizira.
4. Omwe akukukumbutsani zomwe mulidi
Miyoyo sikumana mwangozi, imayenera kuwoloka njira yathu pazifukwa. Chifukwa chimodzi chotere ndicho kukukumbutsani kuti ndinu ndani. Nthawi zambiri, pamene moyo umakhala wokhotakhota pa inu, mumalephera kukhudza mbali yanu yomwe ili yoyera, yaiwisi, komanso yowona.
Chilengedwe chili ndi njira yotumizira anthu olondola omwe angakuthandizeni kuti muzindikirenso mbalizo. Khalani wokonda zakuthambo, kapena wina amene ali pano kuti akuthandizeni, ngati mukulolera kuvomereza zomwe amaphunzitsa ndipo ngati muli ndi mwayi, mudzakhala ndi chiyanjano ndi inu nokha mosiyana ndi kale lonse.
Rosette, wachinyamata amene anapulumuka kugwiriridwa , anaiwala kuti kale anali munthu woganiza bwino komanso wopanda chiyembekezo. Pa nthawi ya chithandizo chake, anazindikira mbali imeneyi ya moyo wake ndipo zimenezi zinamupangitsa kuzindikira, koyamba patatha nthawi yaitali, kuti anali woposa zomwe zinamuchitikira.
5. Omwe amakupatsani mphamvu
Mutha kuwatcha anthu awa kuti ndi okondedwa amtundu wina. Iwo sangabwere m'moyo wanu ngati okondana nawo kapena zokonda zachikondi, koma amakhazikitsa mgwirizano wamphamvu ndi moyo wanu. Iwo amakukhulupirirani kwambiri moti chikhulupiriro chawo chimakukhudzani inunso, zomwe zimakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu wamphamvu komanso wamphamvu kuposa kale.
Mosakayikira, kulumikizana kwachilengedwe pakati pa okonda kukupatsani mphamvu, koma awa atha kukhala anthu omwe akhala gawo la moyo wanu - makolo, abale, alangizi, abwenzi - omwe amatenga udindo wa kupatsa mphamvu panthawi yomwe mukuzifuna kwambiri pamoyo wanu. Kapena atha kukhala anthu omwe amayenda m'moyo wanu munthawi yoyenera ndikukuthandizani kuti muyang'anire tsogolo lanu.
Susanne amaona bwenzi lake laubwana lomwe adasiya kulankhulana nalo kwa zaka zambiri ngati bwenzi loseketsa kwambiri m'moyo wake. Bwenzi lake, Tara, linabwereranso m'moyo wake pamene Susanne anali kulimbana ndi chibwenzi chomuzunza . Ndi chithandizo ndi chilimbikitso cha Tara, Susanne potsiriza anatha kutuluka ndikuyambanso moyo watsopano. Tsopano akukhulupirira kwambiri kuti miyoyo sikumana mwangozi.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Momwe Mungadzikondere Wekha - Malangizo 21 Odzikonda Wekha
6. Omwe amakupatsirani ululu
Chibwenzi chimene chinakusiyani pa guwa. Mkazi amene anagona ndi wantchito mnzake ndipo anapereka nsembe zaka za chikondi ndi mabwenzi kwa mphindi zochepa za chisangalalo chauchimo. Kholo limene linadula inu. Izi zonse ndi zitsanzo za kulumikizana zakuthambo zomwe zimatipyola ku mtambo wachisanu ndi chinayi ndi lonjezo lawo lachikondi ndi chikondi kutichotsa pamphepete pomwe sitikuyembekezera.
Zimatipweteka kwambiri, zimatisweka mtima ndiponso zimatipweteka, koma pochita zimenezi zimatiphunzitsanso zinthu zina zofunika kwambiri. Apanso, mitundu iyi ya kulumikizana kwa cosmic imatha kupangidwa kangapo, ndikutisiyira phunziro losiyana nthawi iliyonse.
Komabe, zimenezi sizikutanthauza kuti si bwino kulola anthu kuyenda ponseponse pa inu chifukwa ndi mmene chilengedwe anafunira kapena kuswa mtima wa munthu chifukwa chanu mwina cosmic kugwirizana ululu. Kumbukirani kuti nthawi zonse muzichita zabwino nokha ndi ena.
Ngakhale zili choncho, yesetsani kuti musayang'ane m'mbuyo mwa mkwiyo mukamakumbukira masiku omwe munamvetsa bwino tanthauzo la ululu, mwina pamene munkayesa kupitirira popanda kutseka. Kulumikizana kwa chilengedwe ndi kulumikizana kwa mzimu kungakhale kofanana pang'ono, ndipo n'zotheka kuti mzimu wanu ukhoza kukuvulazani.
Panthawi imeneyo, mwina simukuganiza zambiri za chilengedwe kapena chikhalidwe cha karmic cha zonsezi, mukungoyesa kudutsa tsiku lina popanda kuphwanya. Koma zonse zikanenedwa ndikuchitidwa, mumazindikira kuti zomwe zidachitikazo - ngakhale zidawoneka zowawa - zonse ndi gawo limodzi laulendo wathu.
Chifukwa chake musatemberere mwayi wanu pazokumbukira zomwe simumayang'ana m'mbuyo mwachikondi. Itchani kulumikizana kopenga kwa cosmic, phunzirani kuchokera pazomwe mungathe ndikuyitcha tsiku.
7. Omwe amakusautsani;
Izi zitha kukhala zamphamvu kwambiri pakati pa mitundu yosiyanasiyana yolumikizirana zakuthambo, chifukwa zimasokoneza moyo wanu ndikukukakamizani kuti muwunikenso zomwe mwasankha. Mutha kugawana nawo kapena osalumikizana ndi anthu omwe amakusangalatsani ndikugwedeza malingaliro anu adziko lapansi koma zotsatira zake zimakhala zokhalitsa komanso zakuya.
Amakukumbutsani zomwe mumayendera, amatsegula maso anu kuti muwone zopanda chilungamo, amakulimbikitsani kuchitapo kanthu popanga dziko lapansi kukhala malo abwino kapena amangokuphunzitsani kuyamikira mphatso ya moyo.
Jennifer, woimba wazaka 25, zinkamuvuta kufotokoza maganizo ake pankhani ya kusalungama kwandale komwe kumamuzungulira, poopa kuti mkwiyo ungawononge kutchuka kwake komanso momwe amaonera zinthu. Koma Jake, yemwe ndi katswiri wodziwika bwino pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, atalowa m'moyo wake, sankadziwa kuti zinthu ziyamba kumuyendera. Popeza anali woopa kudzipereka , poyamba ankaopa kumulola kuti alowe.
Koma mothandizidwa ndi maziko a otsatira ake, kutchuka kwake sikungowonjezereka, koma anamulimbikitsa kuti apeze mawu ake ndi kulengeza kupanda chilungamo kumene anali kuchitira umboni. Kubwerera mmbuyo komwe ankawopa kunkaoneka ngati kochepa poyerekezera ndi ufulu umene anakumana nawo. Amakhulupirira kuti Jake ndi iye ali olumikizana mwachilengedwe, ndipo adabwera m'moyo wake kuti amuwonetse kuti kukhala woona kwa inu ndiye kofunika kwambiri.
Mwina Jake amakumananso ndi mphamvu zakuthambo kuchokera kwa Jennifer, popeza atha kukhala munthu yemwe amamuphunzitsa kapena kumulimbikitsa.
8. Omwe achoka
Pali anthu omwe amabwera m'moyo wanu ngakhale sanayenera kukhala. Angawoneke ngati okonda zakuthambo, koma gawo la inu - ndi iwo - amadziwa kuti izi siziyenera kukhala. Pa nthawi yomwe amagawana nanu, amatembenuza moyo wanu pamutu pake.
Zitha kukhala ngati chikondi cham'mutu chomwe chimakupangitsani kuti muchepetse chenjezo lililonse, ndikukusiyani kuti mupeze kuti mwatsala nokha kuti muyang'ane zotsatira za zomwe mudagawana. Kapena ngati chiwonetsero chambiri chaubwenzi woyipa pomwe mumamva kuti mukumenyedwa ndikukanikizidwa pansi mpaka chikhumbo chofuna kusiya kugonja.
Ndi chifukwa chake mukudziwa kuti muyenera kuwasiya. Kulumikizana kwa cosmic komwe sikunapangidwe kukhala kokhalitsa, kumasiya maphunziro atsopano ndi maphunziro awo.
Kulumikizana kwa dziko lonse pakati pa okondana sikutanthauza mgwirizano wabwino. Monga mukudziwa kale, mwina ndi gawo la moyo wanu kukuphunzitsani maphunziro ofunikira omwe mwina munkathawa.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Chikondi vs Ndalama: Kusankha Chikondi M'malo mwa Kukonda Zinthu Zakuthupi
9. Omwe akukhala
Awa ndi anzanu aku cosmic omwe akugwirani kwa inu, kukuthandizani ndikukukondani munjira iliyonse. Ndiwo amene muyenera kugawana nawo ulendo wa moyo wanu. Iwo ali ndi nsana wanu sitepe iliyonse ya njira, koma musazengereze kukuuzani inu pamene muyenera kukonza njira.
Kaya zinthu zikuyenda bwanji, amakhala nanu pafupi. Okonda nthabwala awa amathanso kuonedwa ngati chizindikiro cha ubale wanu ndi awiri , ndipo nawonso, mumamva ngati mwapeza kwanu. Kulumikizana kwa chilengedwe ndi mgwirizano wa moyo ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe zidzakusonyezani nthawi zonse kuti ndinu wokhoza kukhala mtundu wabwino kwambiri wa inu nokha.
Tsopano popeza mukudziwa tanthauzo la mgwirizano wa chilengedwe chonse, komanso kuti mgwirizano uliwonse m'moyo wanu si wongochitika mwangozi , tikukhulupirira kuti mudzakhala osamala kwambiri za ubale womwe umabwera kwa inu.
Kulumikizana kulikonse kwa cosmic - zabwino kapena zoyipa - zimabwera pazifukwa. Simungathe kulimbana nazo kapena kuziletsa, choncho lolani kuti mulandire zomwe mwakumana nazo, muzisangalala nazo ngati zili zabwino, phunzirani kwa izo ngati sizili choncho. Kudziwitsa za kulumikizana kwa zakuthambo kungakuthandizeninso kudziwa zauzimu kudzera paulendo wodzifufuza nokha, kukuthandizani kupanga mtundu wabwino kwambiri wanthawi yanu padziko lapansi.
Osho Pa Chikondi Monga Matenda Ndi Kusinkhasinkha Monga Mankhwala
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
