Mukudabwa za mitundu ya anyamata omwe akazi amadana nawo? Pankhani ya chibwenzi, tonsefe timakonda kuchepetsa zokonda zathu ku mikhalidwe ndi mikhalidwe yomwe timakonda kuona mwa anthu. Kusankha ndikwabwino, tikhulupirireni. Zikafika kwa amayi, mndandandawu umakhala wautali. Pali mitundu yambiri ya anyamata omwe amadana ndi zibwenzi ngakhale atangofufuza mwachisawawa. Mwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya anyamatawa, tiwona ena mwa mitundu yoyambirira yomwe ili yotsimikizika kuti ichotse mwayi uliwonse woti mupite patsogolo ndi ziyembekezo zanu za chibwenzi.
Pali amuna omwe akazi amawakonda ndi omwe sangawapirire. Kuti mudziwe zambiri za mitundu ya amuna omwe akazi amadana nawo pachibwenzi, muyenera kumvetsetsa zomwe mkazi amayembekezera kuchokera kwa bwenzi komanso pachibwenzi. M'nkhaniyi, tiwona mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya anyamata omwe amayi sakonda kukhala ndi chibwenzi kuti muwonetsetse kuti simugwera m'gulu la swipe-lamanzere.
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Ndimakonda anyamata. Ndimakondwera nawo, ndimawamvetsetsa, ndipo sindingathe kudikira kukhala ndi mwamuna m'moyo wanga. (Ngati ndikubwera ngati wosimidwa pang'ono, si choncho. Zoonadi, ndikungochita kuti ndikupopeni kuti muwerenge nkhani yanga.) Mwachidule, ndili ndi gulu lanu kwambiri, ndipo chifukwa chake zimandivutitsa pamene munthu wabwino samvetsa chifukwa chake watayidwa ndi mkazi yemwe anali naye kale kwambiri.
Ndicho chifukwa chake ndabwera kuti ndikupatseni pepala lachinyengo lomwe lingakuthandizeni tsiku Intaneti bwinobwino ndikumvetsetsa mtundu wa anyamata omwe akazi amadana nawo. Ndikuwuzani chifukwa chake ambiri a inu munatayidwa ndi akazi. Ngati mukuganiza kuti muli m'magulu otsatirawa, mutha kumvetsetsa chomwe chingakhale vuto.
1. Munthu wodana ndi ukhondo
Ukhondo ndi wofunika kwa ambiri a ife. Izi zimakhala choncho makamaka pankhani ya akazi. Mfundo ndi yakuti, sikokwanira kuti muzisamba tsiku lililonse. Pali anyamata omwe samadula zikhadabo zawo ndipo amakhala ndi dothi kapena choyipa, ma boogers, okhazikika pamenepo. Ndipo pali amuna omwe ali ndi dothi kumalo ena! Akazi amadana ndi chibwenzi ndi mnyamata yemwe amasankha kusadzisamalira. Anyamata amtundu uwu amatha kusiya akazi mosavuta ndipo mwayi wa ubwenzi uliwonse womwe ulipo pakati panu umachepa kwambiri.
Nthawi ina ndinakumana ndi munthu wodabwitsa, wanzeru komanso wosamala, koma anali ndi mzere wonyansa kumbuyo kwa khosi lake. Ndidaganiza zonyalanyaza poyamba, koma zikamakula mwezi uliwonse, ndimapempha kuti adieu. Ngakhale kuti si amayi ambiri omwe amayembekezera kuti amuna awo ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ambiri a iwo amafuna kuti azikhala aukhondo. Amakonda kupewa mitundu ya anyamata omwe nthawi zonse amakhala aukhondo ndipo amayembekezera kuti anzawo azichita bwino. Ayi, sizikuchitika.
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2. Mnyamata 'Ndikudziwa zonse'
Ngakhale kuti chidziwitso ndi luntha ndi mikhalidwe yabwino, Bambo Know-it-all akhoza kusiya chisomo posachedwa. Mkazi amakonda kukhala ndi mwamuna amene amaŵerenga bwino, wodalirika m’chidziŵitso chake, ndipo ali ndi kawonedwe kapadera ka zinthu. Ndizodabwitsa kugwa m'chikondi ndi malingaliro a wina. Komabe, pali mzere wabwino pamenepo.
Mwamuna kukhala wonyozeka kwambiri nthawi yomweyo amatha kusokoneza mkazi. Akazi amadana ndi chibwenzi ndi mwamuna yemwe nthawi zonse amafuna kukhala munthu wanzeru kwambiri m'chipindamo. Ndi kutembenuka kwakukulu. Muyenera kuti munakumanapo ndi anyamata amtunduwu omwe amakonda kudzitamandira mpata uliwonse womwe angapeze. Ndipo n’zosadabwitsa kuti akazi amatalikirana nawo mmene angathere. Ndi bwino kutero khalani kwa amuna awa ngati simufuna kuti makutu anu agwe ndi nkhani zawo zodzikuza.
Posachedwapa ndinakumana ndi mnyamata wowoneka bwino komanso mphatso ya gab. Kumapeto kwa tsiku loyamba, ndinadziwa kuti anali ndi chidziwitso chowopsya chokhudza khofi, njira yokonzekera, ndi zina zotero. Pa tsiku lachiwiri, Ndinadziŵa kuti anali wokonzeka bwino kuposa wotsogolera filimu imene tinali kuonera yonena za ma angle a kamera ndi mapepala a nkhani.
Tsiku lachitatu linandiunikira mmene womanga mzinda wathu anayenera kukambilana ndi mwamuna amene ndinali naye pachibwenzi za mmene angayale njira, misewu, ndi mayendedwe a metro. Patsiku lachinayi, nditangodya pitsa yotsekemera, yowutsa mudyo, yophikidwa bwino, ndidaunikiridwa momwe ma pizza a mumzinda wathu amayamwa komanso chifukwa chake munthu ayenera kupita ku Sicily kuti akasangalale ndi kagawo kakang'ono ka pizza. Sizokhazo, pofika kumapeto kwa tsikulo, ndinali nditaphunzira pa mbale yolembera galimoto yanga ndi chifukwa chake magalasi anga angayambitse matenda a mitsempha.
Ndinasanzika asanapitilize kundipatsa maphunziro opumira. Mumayamba kuyenda, sichoncho? Osayesera kuchita monga munthu wodziwa zonse. Palibe amene amakonda zoterezi mitundu ya anyamata. Ngakhale mutakhala Einstein, zomwe mwina simuli, akazi sangakhale pachibwenzi ndi Einstein wonyansa. Palibe amene amakonda kufotokozedwa m'mbali iliyonse ya moyo wawo.
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3. 'Mnyamata wokonda'
Patapita kanthawi, ndinakumana ndi mnyamata wosangalatsa kwa mnzanga. Ananditsatira pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndipo posakhalitsa tinali kutumizirana mauthenga. Ndinalodzedwa. Anali wogwira kwambiri ndipo mtima wanga unagunda pamene adanena kuti "Juhi". Koma m’maola angapo chabe, anachokapo kunditchula kuti ‘Juhi’ n’kuyamba ‘kukonda’ ndi kutumiza mitima ya anthu. Ndikutsimikiza kuti mudakumanapo ndi anthu otere kale. Mtundu womwe umayamba kukopana tsiku loyamba ndikufunsira lachitatu.
My kutumizirana mameseji nkhawa adakankhidwira mkati nthawi yomweyo. Sindinadziwe momwe ndingayankhire zizindikiro zake zachikondi. Tsopano, ndimadzikuza kwambiri, koma bwerani, sindine chitsiru chotere chofuna 'chikondi' ndi 'maso amtima' m'maola ochepa chabe. Mwachionekere, mmodzi wa mitundu ya amuna amene akazi amadana ndi amene ali wamng'ono kwambiri komanso wosakhwima.
Mtsikana amafuna kukondedwa, inde. Koma ndife anzeru mokwanira kuti tisagwere mwachangu izi. Ndiye anyamata ngati mulidi ndi chidwi ndi mtsikana chonde musabwere mwamphamvu. Mitundu ya anyamata omwe amayamba kuvomereza maganizo awo masekondi awiri atakumana ndi mkazi sangakhale wokongola, ziribe kanthu momwe akuyamikira kwambiri. Timakonda kuyamikiridwa ndi kukondedwa, koma pali njira yoyenera yofikira munthu.
Pakati pa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya anyamata omwe amakumana nawo, mtundu womwe umakhala wofunitsitsa kwambiri kuyambira msonkhano woyamba nthawi zonse umakwiyitsa akazi. Ngakhale angaganize kuti ndi okongola, amabwera ngati osimidwa komanso owopsa.
4. 'Wotola mphuno'
Ayi, sindikupanga izi. Ndi nkhani yowona. Zowonadi kuti nditha kupereka zolumikizira komanso ngakhale kopi yojambulidwa kuti itsimikizire mfundoyo. Ankawoneka wamkulu poyamba koma posakhalitsa ndinazindikira kuti anali ndi ziro chikhalidwe cha chibwenzi.
Ndinakumana ndi mnyamatayo ku kalabu ya mabuku. Anali wokoma, woyankha, komanso womvetsera wabwino. Chilichonse njonda. Pamwamba pake, anali kugwira ntchito ndi UN (bungwe la maloto anga) ndipo anali kuyendera makolo ake ku India. Tidalumikizana ndi mabuku omwe tonse tinali kuwerenga panthawiyo, olamulira apadziko lonse lapansi, komanso momwe amasamalirira mwana wamkazi wa mnzake kamodzi pa sabata. Mumadziwa mtundu wa anyamata omwe mumangowona m'mafilimu? Inde, munthu woteroyo.
Ndinayenera kudzitsina kuti nditsimikizire kuti sindimalota pamene ananena mobisa kuti kukhala paubwenzi wautali n’kothandiza ndi munthu woyenera. Ndikutanthauza, ndi munthu amene sachita mantha mavuto a ubale wautali ngakhale zenizeni? Tinaganiza zokumana kuti tidye chakudya chamadzulo choyenera usiku wotsatira. Anali wosamala mokwanira kuti asankhe malo pafupi ndi nyumba yanga kotero kuti sindinafunikire kuyendetsa galimoto kwambiri nditagwira ntchito tsiku lalitali.
Tsikuli linayamba bwino, ndipo posakhalitsa tinaika maoda athu. Nthawi yomweyo, ndikamakamba za mapulani anga atchuthi, ndinawona chala chake chakumanja chikufikira pamphuno yake ndikuchita zomwe sanaganizire. Pakati pa mitundu ya amuna akazi amadana nayo, ndi omwe sadziwa ndi osayenera.
Ndinaganiza zongonyalanyaza, koma zidachitikanso, ndidaganiza zongonyalanyaza koma zidachitikanso. Sindinathenso kudziletsa. Nthawi yotsatira pamene iye anali pafupi kufika kwa 'izo', ine analowerera. “Osatola mphuno,” ndinayesa kunena mwabwino momwe ndingathere. Chakudya chinabwera, ndipo munthu wosaukayo anayesa kuyambitsa ndi kupitiriza kukambirana koma chidwi changa sichinathe. Ndinadziimba mlandu kwambiri, ndipo monga njira yodzikhululukira, ndinalipira ngongoleyo. Koma chakudya chamadzulocho chinandisiya m’maganizo ndi m’kamwa mwanga.
Phunziro: yeretsani ma booger anu tsiku lisanafike. Ngati muyenera kuchita pa tsiku, ndiye pepani nokha ndi kupita kuchimbudzi. Musaganize kuti munthu amene ali patsogolo panu adzamva kuti wapindula mofanana ndi momwe mumachitira mukatola mphuno. Ndikhulupirireni, akazi sali achifundo chotero!
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Azimayi akamafunafuna mtundu wa anyamata oti akhale pachibwenzi, nthawi zambiri amakhumudwa ndi omwe sadera nkhawa za ukhondo wawo zomwe zimawabweretsera mavuto. Ngakhale palibe amene amayembekeza kuti muzikhala maola ambiri pamawonekedwe anu ndi ukhondo wanu, kusamala zamakhalidwe abwino ndikofunikira kulikonse komwe mungapite.
Mitundu Ya Anyamata Akazi Amakonda Kukhala Ndi Chibwenzi
Tsopano popeza tawona mitundu ya anyamata omwe akazi amadana nawo zibwenzi, ndizomveka kuyang'ananso mitundu ya anyamata omwe akazi amakonda kukhala nawo pachibwenzi. Amuna amenewa nthawi zambiri amaika chidwi chawo poyambira ndipo amakhala ndi makhalidwe abwino zomwe zimakopa mkazi kwa mwamuna, makamaka mu magawo oyambirira a ubale wawo. Ngati ndinu mkazi wowongoka ndikuganiza, "Kodi mwamuna wanga ndi ndani?" ndi "Ndiuzeni mtundu wa anyamata kukhala pachibwenzi chonde?", Ndiye gawo ili angakupatseni lingaliro la zimene mumaona wokongola kwambiri amuna ena.
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1. Mtundu wodalirika
Azimayi sangachitire mwina koma kukopeka ndi amuna omwe amadzidalira okha ndipo samawopsezedwa kapena kuchitiridwa nsanje ndi amuna ena pafupi nawo. Iwo exude umunthu wa mphamvu ndi mphamvu ndi zovuta kuti asagwere anthu otero. Tsopano, dziwani kuti pali mzere wochepa kwambiri pakati pa kudzidalira ndi kudzikuza. Sizitenga zambiri kuchoka pa kudzidalira mpaka kunyansidwa. Ngakhale kuti akazi ngati amuna amene amadziona kuti ndi angwiro mwa iwo okha, amapewa anthu amene amadziona kuti ndi aakulu kwambiri.
2. Mtundu waluso
Ndani sakonda kuyamikiridwa ndi kuyamikiridwa? Ndipo pali owerengeka pakati pa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya amuna omwe angachite zimenezo komanso mtundu waluso. Kodi mumakopeka ndi omwe ali opanga komanso omasuka ndikukhala munthawi yake? Ndiye mtundu wa amuna waluso ukhoza kukhala yankho la funso lanu, "Kodi mwamuna wanga ndi wamtundu wanji?" Zojambulajambula zimakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu apadera komanso apadera popanga zaluso zanu kapena kutengera inu. Tsopano ndani angakane chisamaliro chotere kwa iwo!
3. Mtundu wanzeru
Kodi mumakonda kucheza ndi anthu ena mwanzeru? Kodi mumakopeka ndi amuna anzeru ndipo angalankhule nanu mofatsa? Ngati mukudabwa kuti ndi mtundu wanji wa munthu, ndi mtundu wanzeru. Mtundu womwe umakupangitsani kuganiza, umakupangitsani kuseka, ndikuwonetsetsa kuti zokambirana zanu sizikhala zotopetsa ndizosatsutsika. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungapezere munthu wamtundu wanu, muyenera kuyang'ana munthu yemwe angakusungeni nthawi zonse ndikukusungani zala zanu, kuyankhula mophiphiritsa.
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4. Mtundu wachifundo
Mukuganiza kuti munthu wamtundu wanji? Kodi mumaona kuti kukoma mtima ndi limodzi mwa makhalidwe abwino kwambiri mwa munthu? Kodi mumakopeka kwambiri ndi amuna amene ali okoma mtima ndi oganizira ena ndiponso amene nthawi zonse amathandiza ena? Ndiye mtundu wanu wa mnyamata mwina ndi mtundu wachifundo, iwo amene ali ofunda ndi woganizira zakukhosi kwanu. Akazi amakopeka ndi amuna oterowo chifukwa amawapangitsa kudzimva kukhala apadera, omasuka, ndi otetezeka mwa kutchera khutu ku zolankhula ndi zochita zawo.
Pali zina zofunika zinthu zomwe mkazi amafuna kwa mwamuna pa chibwenzi ndipo kuzidziwa kale kumathandiza. Ndikukhulupirira kuti kugawana zomwe ndakumana nazo kudzakuthandizani. Mitundu ya anyamata omwe amai amakonda kukhala pachibwenzi komanso omwe amakonda kupewa ayenera kuwonekera pofika pano, mochulukirapo kapena mochepera, ndikuyembekeza. Mwa kuwonetsetsa kuti simukumana ndi anthu odzikonda kapena odetsedwa kapena ofunitsitsa kwambiri, mutha kuonetsetsa kuti zibwenzi zanu sizimadana nanu. Ngati ndinu mkazi ndipo mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungapezere mtundu wanu wa mnyamata, muyenera kukhala omasuka za makhalidwe omwe mumawakonda kuti muthe kuika patsogolo omwe ali nawo.
Kodi mukufuna munthu wachifundo komanso woganizira ena? Kenako ikani amuna amtunduwu patsogolo m'moyo wanu. Kapena mumakonda munthu wanzeru komanso wina yemwe angakutsutseni bwino? Ndiyeno muziika patsogolo khalidwe limeneli m’chibwenzi chanu. Amuna ndi akazi sali osiyana chotero; kotero nthawi ina mukatumiza zomverera kwa mtsikana, dziikeni nokha pamalo ake kwa mphindi imodzi ndiyeno chitanipo kanthu. Cheerio.
Ibibazo
Nthawi zambiri, mtsikana amafuna mwamuna wokoma mtima, woganizira ena, wanzeru, womuganizira ndi zosankha zake. Mwachidule, wina yemwe angamusunge kumapazi ake ndikumulemekeza koma osafuna kwambiri.
Mtundu wa Guy umatanthawuza mikhalidwe yodziwika bwino mwa munthu yomwe imatsogolera kwa iye kukhala m'magulu osiyanasiyana ndi zilembo zomwe munthu angasankhe. Mwachitsanzo, munthu wakhalidwe lokoma mtima ndi woganizira ena amagwera pansi pa mtundu wa munthu wokoma mtima ndipo wina wodzikweza adzalowa m'gulu la anthu odzikuza.
bwenzi chuma amatanthauza ena odalirika ndi padziko lonse ankakonda makhalidwe munthu kuti anthu ena amafuna chibwenzi. Pali zinthu zomwe mtsikana aliyense amafuna kwa bwenzi lake Kupatula zomwe amaika patsogolo, ndipo kukhala ndi zinthuzo kumakupangitsani kukhala pachibwenzi. Mwachitsanzo, munthu yemwe ali wachifundo, wokongola, ndi wodalirika m'mikhalidwe yamtundu uliwonse kaŵirikaŵiri amatengedwa kukhala chibwenzi ndi anthu oyandikana naye.
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