Zizindikiro 17 Zomwe Zimawululira Kuti Mwakumana Ndi Amapasa Anu Abodza

Chifukwa chake, mwakhala mukuyembekezera munthu yemwe ali theka lanu lina. Osati zabwino kapena zoyipa, koma mapasa anu. Wina yemwe muli ndi ubale ndi mzimu kotero kuti amakuwonetsani bwino. Koma mungatsimikize bwanji? Munthu watsopanoyu yemwe mwayamba kugwirizana naye kwambiri, kodi ndi mnzanu wapamtima, "winawake wapadera", kapena ndi munthu yemwe amangomva ngati mapasa anu enieni koma kwenikweni amapasa amapasa abodza?

Chisokonezochi sichachilendo. Pakufufuza kwathu kolimbikitsa zachikondi kwa munthu wapaderayo, titha kukumana ndi mapasa angapo abodza poyamba mgwirizano weniweni usanabwere. Koma, nchifukwa ninji timakumana ndi amapasa amapasa abodza nkomwe? Kodi pali cholinga chilichonse chofunikira? Ndipo wina amasiyanitsa bwanji?

Kaya mukuyesera kutsimikizira kuti zomwe muli nazo sizongotulutsa zomwe mukufuna, kapena mukungoyesera kudziphunzitsa nokha, tili pano kuti tikuuzeni zonse zomwe muyenera kudziwa zalawi labodza vs lawi lamapasa. Kupatula apo, muyenera kudziwa komwe mungagwiritse ntchito mphamvu zanu, komanso komwe mungaphunzire ndikupitilira.

Kodi False Twin Flames Ndi Chiyani? 

Kuti muzindikire kuti lawi la mapasa abodza ndi chiyani, choyamba muyenera kudziwa momwe lawi lenileni lingawonekere paulendo wanu wauzimu. Polankhula pankhaniyi, katswiri wa zakuthambo Kreena adauza kale Bonobology momwe amafotokozera ubale woterewu m'mawu osavuta, "Chikondi chiyenera kuyenda mopanda malire pakati pa malawi enieni. Ndi munthu amene amakukwaniritsani, munthu amene amakupangitsani kumva bwino."

Kugwirizana ndi zofanana zomwe mapasa amagawana zimawalola kukhala oyenerana wina ndi mnzake. Ndi mtundu wa ubale womwe anthu amawona ndikupita, "Wow, adapangidwira wina ndi mnzake." Ndiyetu n’zosadabwitsa kuti banja lotereli limakopeka kwambiri. Kukhazikika kotereku kumamveka kokonzedweratu ndipo kumawonetsa kulumikizana kwakukulu kwauzimu, thupi, ndi malingaliro.

Kumbali ina, moto wa mapasa wonyenga ndi mnzanu amene mumaganiza kuti ndi moto wa mapasa anu koma kwenikweni si choncho. N'zosavuta choncho! Ubale ndi moto wa mapasa wonyenga umamveka bwino pachiyambi, koma pang'onopang'ono mutha kumva kukangana. Mosiyana ndi moto weniweni wa mapasa, komwe okwatiranawo amagwirizana bwino m'miyoyo ya wina ndi mnzake ngati zidutswa ziwiri za yin ndi yang , wonyengayo amatha kunena mawu monga, "Wow, amakondana kwambiri , sichoncho?" Tiyeni tiwone kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa awiriwa.

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False twin flame vs real twin flame

Monga mukudziwira pofika pano, lawi la bodza lamkunkhuniza kwenikweni ndi munthu yemwe amabisa mawonekedwe a malawi amapasa pomwe iwo sali. Popeza kuti kugwirizana koteroko kungathenso kumva kwambiri ndi kukonzedweratu pachiyambi, ndikofunikira kudziwa kusiyanitsa pakati pa ziwirizi kuti musadzipangire nokha kudziko lakumva zowawa. Nawa kusiyana kwakukulu kwabodza vs kwenikweni mapasa amoto:

False Flame Connection	True Twin Flame Bond
Padzakhala mkangano mu ubale wamapasa onyenga mosasamala kanthu momwe unayambira. Sizidzawoneka ngati zosavuta	Kukopa kwa maginito pakati pa malawi amapasa enieni kumayendetsa mnzawo wina mopanda mphamvu. Zochitika zambiri zosayembekezereka zimachitika kuti ziwabweretse pamodzi
Kutengeka kwamphamvu kwa mapasa kumakhudza kwambiri kulamulira kwa kugonana komanso kunena kuti munthu winayo ndi wake	Ubale weniweni wa mapasa ndi mgwirizano wamalingaliro, ndipo mgwirizano wakugonana ndi gawo limodzi lazinthu zazikulu zaumulungu komwe mumamva kuti ndinu wofunika umunthu wanu.
Popeza malawi abodza sali olumikizidwa kwenikweni mu uzimu, amapereka mwayi kwa mphamvu ngati limerence kugwira	A ubale wauzimu wangwiro komanso waumulungu monga momwe zimakhalira ndi mphamvu zamapasa sizidalira kutengeka komanso kutengeka mtima kuti zikhale zolimba.
Mapasa abodza amagwira ntchito ngati chothandizira kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chanu chachikulu chifukwa adzayambitsa "kuyeretsa" mwa inu pobweretsa mabala osachira.	Mabala anu akachira, cholinga chanu chachikulu m'moyo uno chidzaonekera ndi mapasa anu enieni, omwe angakuthandizeni pa ntchito yanu.
Mapasa abodza amatchedwanso ma vampires amphamvu chifukwa amakusokonezani m'maganizo komanso mwakuthupi	Mapasa anu enieni adzakudzazani ndi mphamvu kuti mukwaniritse luso lanu la kulenga. Muzakwaniritsa zambiri palimodzi kuposa momwe mudachitira mukakhala kutali

Zingamveke ngati poyamba, koma mfundo ndi yakuti, ndi mapasa abodza, nkhanizo zidzadutsa ming'alu, kufooketsa maziko onse a mgwirizano wanu. Popeza malingaliro anu otengeka angakhale akuyesera kukutsimikizirani kuti zomwe muli nazo sizingakhale zabodza, ndizovuta kuwona mbendera zofiira. Mwachidule, chirichonse chowonadi cholumikizira chalawi lamoto ndi, mapasa abodza alawi si. Izi zikutanthauza kuti m'malo moyesa kuyesa kwamoto wamapasa amapasa mutha kuyesanso kuyesa kwamoto wamapasa m'malo ndikuwona ngati zomwe muli nazo ndi zenizeni kapena zabodza.

Kodi amapasa amapasa oopsa?

Mapasa abodza (kapena ngakhale ubale wa karmic) siwowopsa kwenikweni koma ndi magawo ofunikira a kukula mpaka mutakonzeka kuwona zizindikiro kuchokera ku chilengedwe chonse kuti mukukumana ndi mapasa anu enieni. Ndipotu, akatswiri ena a zamatsenga ndi okhulupirira sagwirizana ndi tanthauzo loipa la mawu oti "abodza" pachifukwa chomwecho. Amanena kuti mapasa abodza ndi munthu amene amakwaniritsa cholinga chabwino m'moyo wanu, kukukonzekeretsani ulendo wanu, musanakumane ndi mapasa anu enieni.

Mwachitsanzo, wogwiritsa ntchito wina akunena pa Quora kuti, “Timakumana ndi ogwirizana a karmic ndi anthu omwe amatiphunzitsa maphunziro kuti tikule mwauzimu komanso kuti tidzuke. Anthu awa amatitsogolera ku mapasa athu.” Maubwenzi abodza akhoza kukhala “osayembekezereka”, “osakhazikika” kapena “opanda chikondi”. Kapena angamve ngati sakuyenererani. Zotsatira zake n’zakuti ubalewo udzapitirira ndipo udzatha.

Pokhapokha, ubale wanu ndi mapasa anu abodza umakhala wankhanza m'chilengedwe chomwe mumamva ngati simukuchidziwa, osayamikiridwa, osamalidwa bwino, komanso ogwiritsidwa ntchito molakwika, palibe chifukwa chochitira mantha komanso kuda nkhawa. Pakali pano, zonse muyenera ndi molondola kuzindikira ubale wanu kuti mopanda kuwononga mphamvu zanu poyesa kupanga inauthentic amapasa lawi ubale ntchito pamene sikutanthauza kutha. M'malo mwake muyenera kuyang'ana kwambiri kuyesa kuwonetsa mapasa anu enieni lawi.

Mukawona zambiri za ma synchronicities abodza alawi lamoto, m'pamenenso mutha kuwona zizindikilo zomveka bwino kuti si malawi anu amapasa. Zisanafike zovuta kwambiri, tiyeni tione zizindikiro za kugwirizana zabodza.

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Kulumikizana kwanu sikunama chifukwa choti nonse munamenyanako pang'ono. Mungadabwe kupeza kuti ngakhale moto wamapasa wowona amatha kuchitika ndewu zazikulu komanso kupatukana (ngakhale nthawi zonse amapeza njira yobwererana). Ndiye, mungadziwe bwanji zomwe muli nazo? Mothandizidwa ndi zizindikiro zabodza zamoto zomwe takupatsani, ndi momwemo. Tiyeni tifike pamenepo: 

1. Sizimva kukhala wolemetsa 

Ngati mungafotokoze bwino ubale wanu ndi bwenzi ngati, "Ndi zabwino. Ndi munthu wabwino", mwina sikuyenera kukhala mapasa enieni. Ubale wakuya, wophatikiza zonse wauzimu nthawi zambiri umakugwirani mu ubale wotere, zonse popanda kukupangitsani kutengeka. 

Ngati zikuwoneka ngati kusweka komwe sikumakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu gawo la chinthu chachikulu kuposa inuyo, ndicho chizindikiro chabodza chamoto. Ayi, sikuyenera kumverera choncho kuyambira tsiku loyamba lokha. Koma ngati miyezi isanu ndi umodzi pansi pamzere muyenerabe kudabwa ngati muli kulunzanitsa kapena ayi, ndiye mwina inu simuli.

2. Malo aumwini amamva bwino kwambiri 

Malo anuanu ndi omwe amalimbitsa ubale wanu . Ngakhale mutakhala ndi nthawi yosangalatsa yomwe mwapeza mnzanu wina, kusangalala ndi nthawi yomwe mumakhala nokha ndikwabwino. Palibe vuto kukhala nokha kumapeto kwa sabata kapena kukhala usiku umodzi kapena awiri mukumatirira pazida zanu.

Koma pamene mukuyang'ana malo aumwini muubwenzi wanu kuposa momwe mukufunira, zingatanthauze kuti chanu sichiri 'gawo lonse lachinthu chachikulu' champhamvu. Pamene inu mwachangu kufunafuna kukhala kutali ndi mnzanuyo, inu subliminally kudziuza wekha kuti wanu ndi zabodza amapasa lawi kugwirizana. 

3. Kusatetezeka kwanu kumapitilirabe 

Ubale wangwiro monga womwe tikukamba lero susiya malo aliwonse kuti mude nkhawa ndi zolepheretsa zomwe mungakhale nazo. Kaya mukukumana ndi wokondedwa wanu kachitatu kapena 30, malingaliro monga "Kodi ndavala bwino?", "Kodi angandikonde?", "Kodi akuganiza kuti ndine wachilendo?" mulibe malo mu malingaliro anu. 

Zikadakhala kuti zidachitikadi, mukadakhala ndi chidaliro pakhungu lanu. Mukakhala ndi nkhawa chifukwa cha kusatetezeka kwanu mpaka kuwongolera zochita zanu, mwina ndi nthawi yoti muyitane zokumbira. Kukhala wokhazikika m'malingaliro abodza amoto kumakupangitsaninso zowawa zanu zam'mbuyomu, ndikusiyirani kudzikayikira nokha ndi zonse zomwe zikuchitika kuzungulira inu.

4. Kodi zokolola zatsopano ndi ubale wanu zikufanana bwanji? Palibe zilembo

N’chifukwa chiyani timakumana ndi mapasa abodza? Mwina chifukwa chilengedwe chikukupatsani mwayi wina woti mufufuze amene ali ndi cholinga chenicheni kwa inu. Mukudziwa kuti ndi nkhani yabodza ngati mnzanu akuopa kwambiri kudzipereka , zomwe zimabweretsa vuto lalikulu pa moyo wanu.

Pamene mphamvu yanu ilibe chizindikiro, mumakhala ndi chinthu china chofanana ndi zokolola zatsopano: komanso sizikhala nthawi yaitali. Kuperewera kwa zilembo kumatha kulepheretsa kukula kwa ubale uliwonse ndikuyandama poyesa 'kuyenda ndikuyenda' kumangokufikitsani kumadzi opunduka. Mmodzi mwa akuluakulu amapasa onyenga mbendera wofiira ndi pamene simukudziwa chomwe mungatchule chirichonse chomwe muli nacho. 

5. Otsutsa amakopa, koma osati pa nkhani ya mapasa enieni 

Okhulupirira kwambiri za ' zotsutsana zimakopa ' sadzakondwera kwambiri ndi izi. Chimodzi mwa makhalidwe abwino a ubale weniweni wa mapasa awiri ndi kukhalapo kwa kufanana kwachilendo m'malingaliro, zosangalatsa, ndi umunthu. Chifukwa chake, nthawi ina wina wa inu akafuna kupita ku makalabu pomwe winayo angakonde kuwerenga buku ali kunyumba kwawo, mwina simuyenera kudzitcha kuti mapasa awiri.

6. Kugwirizana pakugonana ndizomwe zimakugwirizanitsani

Inde, kukhala ogwirizana pogonana ndi zomwe zimayendetsa ubale uliwonse ku mlingo wotsatira (kupatula ma kugwirizana ogonana), koma ndithudi si chinthu chokhacho chomwe chimagwirizanitsa maubwenzi pamodzi. Mu mgwirizano weniweni wamoto, kugonana ndi gawo limodzi chabe la moyo wokongola kumene okwatirana amakula mwanzeru ndi nyonga palimodzi, kugwirana manja, kugonjetsa zopinga zilizonse.

M'malo mwake, ngati muwona ubale wanu wamapasa onyenga pamaso pa ubale weniweni wa mapasa amoto, mudzawona kuti zonse zomwe mumachita mukakumana ndi kuponya zovala zanu pansi ndikulunjika kuchipinda chogona. Tsopano zitha kuwoneka ngati mwapeza nyenyeziyo ku rom-com yanu, koma mwina sichinthu chomwe mungatchule kuti kulumikizana kwauzimu. 

7. Kapena, pali kugwirizana kochepa pakugonana

Mukawerenga mfundo yomaliza ndikunena kuti, “Ha! Chabwino, osati kwenikweni. Ubale weniweni wa amapasa umakhala pakatikati pakati pa kusagwirizana kocheperako pakugonana komanso pomwe ubwenzi ndizomwe zimafunikira. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kugonana kumayenera kuchitika, pokhapokha ngati malawi enieni alibe kugonana. Kumbali ina, mapasa onyenga angakhale ndi zilakolako za kugonana koma amawapeza osakwaniritsidwa muubwenzi wabodza.

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8. Zolinga zamtsogolo sizingakhale zosiyana

Mudzakumana ndi maubwenzi ambiri abodza a mapasa anu asanafike. Ndipo chimodzi mwa zinthu zochepa zomwe zidzakhale zofala pakati pa onyenga ndi kusagwirizana pa momwe tsogolo lanu lidzakhalire kwa awirinu. Zotsatira zake, mwina simudzakhala osangalala muubwenzi wanu.

Ngati wina akufuna kukhala ndi kampu ndikuyenda kuzungulira kumidzi ndipo wina akufuna nyumba pansanjika ya 30 ya nyumba ya New York City, mwina simunapangidwire wina ndi mnzake. Ganizirani izi ngati zizindikilo zomwe sizikuwombana ndi mapasa anu enieni ndipo mwina ndi nthawi yoti muganizirenso za vuto lanu.

9. Simudzidalira pa wokondedwa wanu

Dzifunseni nokha, kodi munganene motsimikiza kuti mnzanuyo amakukondani, amakudalirani, amakulemekezani, ndipo amakusilirani? Kudzinamiza sikuloledwa, ndizomwe zidakulowetsani muubwenziwu poyamba. Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu zonyenga zamapasa ndi pamene simuli otsimikiza za zomwe mnzanu akukumvani. Paulendo wamapasa amapasa, muyenera kukhala ndi chitetezo chosagwedezeka komanso kutsimikizika pa ubale wanu, makamaka munthawi zoyesa.

10. Moto wamapasa wabodza udzakupatsani nkhawa

Ndewu ndi zachilendo. M'malo mwake, kusakhalapo konse kwa ndewu nthawi zambiri kumawonetsa mgwirizano womwe sunakumanepo ndi kuthekera kwake kwenikweni. Kodi mungadziwe bwanji munthu wina pokhapokha mutamuyendetsa mpaka kufika pothyola china chodulacho? Koma chizindikiro chachikulu chosonyeza kuti chibwenzi sichili chenicheni ndi pamene mnzanuyo akupatsani nkhawa. Ngati nthawi zonse mukuda nkhawa kuti chinachake chikulakwika, m'pofunika kumvetsa kuti si mbali ya kukhala mu ubwenzi wachikondi. 

11. Lawi lanu labodza lidzalola kusatetezeka kulamulira zochita zawo

Polankhula za inu, tiyeni tisunthire chidwi chathu kwa mnzanu. Mwina sakusangalala kwambiri ndi nkhaniyi. Mukapeza kuti muli ndi 'mnzanu wina', mudzakhala pachibwenzi choipa , inu ndi mnzanuyo mudzalola kuti nkhawa zanu ziyambe kulamulira. Dziwani momwe mnzanuyo alili wodzidalira, momwe amamvera bwino pakhungu lawo, komanso momwe amachitira zinthu ali pafupi nanu.

12. Nkhani za kukhulupirirana ndi nsanje zidzakhala zokhazikika 

Inde, nsanje pang'ono ingakhale yabwino muubwenzi ngati nonse mukudziwa momwe mungachitire bwino. Koma khalidwe la nsanje yabodza ndi pamene mphamvu zanu nthawi zonse zimakhala ndi nsanje ndi kudalirana mpaka kufika poti bwenzi lililonse limakhala 'chiwopsezo'. Nkhani zodalirana zimakhala zoopsa zomwe zimachitika mobwerezabwereza paulendo wabodza wa nsanje.

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13. Ubale wanu umasokonekera pamene mukukula 

Ubale wabwino umalimbikitsa kukula kwa ubale wanu pamene nonse mukukula payekhapayekha. Pali chifukwa chomwe amatchedwa mzimu wanu wagalasi. Koma mukakumana ndi moto wabodza wa mapasa musanayambe ubale weniweni wa mapasa, mudzazindikira kuti kukula kwanu kumatha kusokoneza mgwirizano, chifukwa cha mawu monga "Mwasintha". Iyi ndi imodzi mwa magawo odziwika bwino a ubale wabodza womwe mudzadutsamo.

14. Mukukayikira kukhala nokha 

Palibenso wina wamapasa amapasa abwinoko kuposa momwe amafananira ndi awa. M'malo mwake, mudzakhala osadzidalira nokha ndipo mgwirizano wanu udzakula bwino. Muubwenzi wovutitsidwa ndi kusatetezeka, komabe, muganiza nthawi miliyoni musanapange nthabwala zopepuka za kavalidwe kabwino ka mnzanu.

Zolumikizana zabodza zamoto zidzasokoneza kudzikonda kwanu. Nthawi zina, mutha kudzipeza kuti mukuzungulira mnzako chifukwa ali ndi mphamvu zamatsenga zomwe zimakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu wolakwa komanso kutenga udindo wonse pamavuto aliwonse omwe ubale wanu uli nawo. M'kupita kwa nthawi, mkhalidwe wopanda thanzi uwu udzakufooketsani kwambiri, ndipo kuchoka pamoto wamapasa onyenga kudzawoneka ngati chiyembekezo chabwinoko.

15. Sipadzakhala cholinga pa zomwe uli nazo 

Chinthu chachikulu chomwe chimapangitsa kuti pakhale mgwirizano weniweni wa awiriwa ndi cholinga chomwe amafikira: kukhala panjira yopita ku kuunikiridwa ndi wina ndi mnzake. Amawonetsa makhalidwe onse a ubale wabwino ndipo amavomerezana pa mfundo zonse zoyambira. Koma cholinga cha mphamvu yanu ndi kupulumuka chaka chimodzi kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino kwambiri pakati pa anzanu, ndi nthawi yoti muganizirenso zinthu.

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16. Simumva kupezeka kwawo pomwe palibe

Dikirani, koma si zosatheka mwakuthupi? Chabwino, inde, ife mwachiwonekere sitikutanthauza zimenezo m’lingaliro lenileni. Mukakhala paubwenzi ndi theka lina, mumamva mphamvu zawo ndi inu, ngakhale simuli nawo mwakuthupi. M'malo mwake, telepathy yokhala ndi mapasa onyenga imakhala ndi mphamvu zowononga zopatsa mphamvu zopanda mphamvu ndikusokoneza malingaliro anu osazindikira kuti musinthe malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu mopotoka.

Mu chikondi chenicheni, nthawi zonse padzakhala kulumikizana kwamphamvu kwauzimu kapena kulankhulana ndi ena , kotero mutha kumva malingaliro amkati mwa munthu wina akamakuganizirani. Kugwirizana kwauzimu kotereku sikubwera kawirikawiri, choncho musataye mtima ngati kulumikizana kwachinsinsi kumeneku sikunakhalepo komwe mudakumvapo.

17. Pamene kusuntha sizimamva zosatheka 

Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zazikulu za false twin flame ndichakuti zinthu zikayamba kutha, sizotheka kupitiriza. Tiyeni tiwongolere izi, kutha kwa banja kumakhala kovuta, ndipo kusiya munthu amene kale munkamukonda si chinthu chophweka kuchita. Koma ndi false twin flame yeniyeni, kutha kwa banja ndi njira yopweteka kwambiri. Ngakhale zaka zitapita, adzagwirizananso ndikukhala limodzi. Komabe, kutha kwa banja kuchokera ku false twin flame kumayamba nthawi yomwe mwasankha kugwiritsa ntchito lamulo loti musalumikizane.

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Cholinga chachikulu chokumana ndi malawi abodza ndikudutsa muzochitika zina zoyipa ndikubweretsa zosintha zina mwa inu nokha, kuti pamapeto pake zikuthandizeni kufikira pakudzuka. Pakadali pano, mutha kudziwa zomwe zimakugwirirani pachibwenzi komanso zomwe zidalakwika m'mbuyomu.

Ngati kuwerenga zizindikiro zonse zomwe tazilemba pamwambapa zakusokonezani kwambiri pazomwe muyenera kuchita, takuuzani. Ukuganiza kuti tingokusiya uli chopachika tikakuuzani kuti mnzako ndi mapasa abodza? Ndiye, kodi munganene kuti adieu ndikuwona momwe mungachotsere lawi labodza, kapena kuvomereza kuti zili bwino ngati zanu sizikuyenda bwino kwambiri padziko lapansi? Kodi muyenera kutsatira njira zawo zokonda nyama mukakhala wamasamba, kapena mosemphanitsa? Tiyeni tifufuze. 

1. Chotsani pad yovomerezeka yachikasu, ndi zabwino ndi zoyipa nthawi

Tsopano popeza mukudziwa kuti mnzanu mwina si munthu amene mungamutche 'mnzanu wina' (pokhapokha mutanama kwa anzanu), kapena mnzanu paulendo wanu weniweni wa mapasa, mungaganize kuti palibe chiyembekezo chilichonse pa moyo wanu. Koma kodi mumadziwa kuti mapasa ndi osiyana ndi mnzanu wauzimu ? Izi zikutanthauza kuti, chifukwa chakuti wina si mapasa, sizikutanthauza kuti simungathe kugwirizana naye.

Tiyeni tinene motere: Sikuti aliyense amakumana ndi mapasa awo. M'malo mwake, amakhulupirira kuti mumangokumana ndi mapasa anu enieni kamodzi pa moyo wanu. Chifukwa chake, mwayi wanu wongothamangira nawo kudutsa msewu siwokwera kwambiri poyambira. Iwalani zonse za mawonekedwe onyenga amapasa amoto ndikusanthula zabwino ndi zoyipa za ubale wanu. Dzifunseni mafunso monga: 

• Kodi mnzanu amakusangalatsani? 
• Kodi yanu ndi yathanzi labwino? 
• Kodi pali kukhulupirirana, kulemekezana, kulankhulana, ndi chikondi? 
• Kodi mungakonde kukhalabe muubwenziwu? 
• Kodi mukukhulupirira kuti uyu ndiye munthu amene mungathe kukhala naye? 

Ngati mayankho akhala abwino, palibe chifukwa choti musapitirire. Kumene, ngati inu muli gehena-amayesetsa kupeza amapasa anu enieni lawi, ndinu olandiridwa kuyesa ndi kupeza munthu uyu. Zabwino zonse pofotokoza izi kwa mnzanu wapano, ngakhale. 

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2. Dziperekeni ku chilichonse chomwe mwasankha

Chisankho chilichonse chomwe mungapange, kaya mothandizidwa ndi abwenzi kapena poyang'ana m'mbuyo mopanda umulungu, onetsetsani kuti mwadzipereka. Ngati mwaganiza zokhala, musakhale pazibwenzi zomwe zikuyesera kupeza mapasa anu enieni. Ngati mwaganiza zosiya moto wanu wonyenga chifukwa cha moto wanu weniweni, chitani zimenezo moona mtima, ndipo musagwirizane ndi wakale wanu.

Kufikira wanu yabodza amapasa lawi ex amaganiziridwa, mungaone kuti kwa iwo n'kosavuta kuti pa kutha ndipo iwo sadzakhala akuvutitsa inu kwambiri. Ayenera kuti adayambitsa ubale watsopano womwe umakhala kale ndi chiyembekezo chonyenga mosavuta, kuganiza za ubalewo ngati mgwirizano wawo weniweni.

3. Kudula zingwe ndi malawi onama amapasa

Ngati mwasankha kuthetsa chibwenzi ndi mapasa anu abodza, kapena ngakhale ubale wa karmic , dzikumbutseni chifukwa chake mwasankha kuchita zimenezo. Malawi abodza akhoza kukhala ma vampire amphamvu, kukuchotsani mphamvu. Mukuchita bwino poyang'ana pakukula kwanu kwauzimu ndikukhalabe okonzeka kukhala mapasa anu enieni. Kuti mudule zingwe ndi malawi abodza, samalani izi:

• Muziganizira kwambiri chifukwa chake mukuchitira zimenezi. Sungani zizindikiro zonse zomwe mudaziwona muubwenzi wanu pano zikukuuzani kuti mukuchita ndi wabodza. Mudzazifuna
• Khalani okonzeka kukangana. Mukangouza mapasa anu apano kuti sangakhale mnzanu weniweni wapamtima, zitha kukhala zodabwitsa kwa iwo chifukwa atha kumverera mosiyana ndi inu. Adzayesa kukutsimikizirani mwanjira ina
• Khalani okonzeka kumva zambiri zakukhosi. Mwinanso mungaganize za chisankho chanu pang'ono mukamawona zomwe mapasa anu achita

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Chifukwa chake, mutatha kufananiza zalawi labodza motsutsana ndi mawonekedwe amoto amapasa, ngati mwaganiza zokhala, zabwino kwa inu! Tsopano onetsetsani kuti ndinu bwenzi lapamtima lomwe mungakhale. Koma ngati mwaganiza zochoka, muyenera kuyamba kuchoka pamoto wanu wamapasa kuti muyang'ane msipu wobiriwira kumene mungathe kukumana ndi galasi lanu. Koma kusiya kulumikizidwa kozama ngakhale sikunakhale kugwirizana kwa mzimu sikophweka. Mudzafunika thandizo. Samalani izi:

• Kuvomereza mkhalidwewo: Muyenera kuvomereza kuti ubale watha. Kusudzulana kukupweteketsani kwambiri koma muyenera kuvomereza kuti ululuwo ndi gawo la njira yofikira gawo lotsatira. Osakana zomwe zangochitikazi
• Kuvomereza kukhudzidwa kwanu: Palibe vuto kumva chilichonse chomwe mukumva. Ngakhale anali mapasa onyenga omwe mudasiyana nawo, unali ubale wolimba kwambiri moti umamva ngati mgwirizano wozama. Lolani kuti mukhale ndi chisoni. Dzipatseni nthawi yomwe mukufuna
• Pitani ku dongosolo lanu lothandizira: Osadzipatula pakali pano. Funsani anzanu ndi abale anu. Kupatula nthawi ndi iwo ndikugawana momwe mukumvera kukupatsani chitetezo ndi chikondi chopanda malire chomwe mukufuna pakali pano
• Yang'ananinso kwina: Chitani zinthu zomwe mumakonda kuchita. Iyi ndi nthawi yabwino yoganizira zolinga zatsopano kapena zosangalatsa. Ganizirani za kukhala ndi zizolowezi zabwino ndi kudzikuza
• Dzisamalire: Kudzikonda ndipo kudzisamalira kungakhale mbali zamtengo wapatali za njira yochira. Atha kukuthandizani kuti muchoke mu gawo lachisokonezoli. Dzichitireni chifundo. Idyani bwino. Samalani thanzi lanu
• KUKHALA: Koposa zonsezi, muyenera kukhala ndi chiyembekezo. Musalakwitse chiyembekezo chakutengeka ndi zomwe zichitike pambuyo pake komanso kuti mapasa anu enieni ali kuti. Muyeneranso kukhala ndi chikhulupiriro mu mphamvu yanu yamkati kuti zinthu zidzakuyenderani bwino komanso kuti mudzapeza woyenerana naye panthawi yoyenera. Ndiyeno asiye nkhawa zanu

Ngati mutayang'ana mmbuyo paulendo wanu, mudzazindikira momwe mwayendera. Kuzindikira kenako kusiya kukwiya kwa mapasa abodza ndi gawo la njira yochiritsira. Kuyesetsa kuphunzira ndikusintha nthawi zonse ndiyo njira yokhayo yomwe mungakulitsire kuyanjana kwamalingaliro ndi kugonana ndi mnzanu amene mumasankha. Musamaganizire kwambiri za kukwiya kwa mapasa; yesani kupeza munthu amene angakupangitseni kumva bwino. Zingakhale zosavuta choncho!

Nkhaniyi yasinthidwa mu February 2023.

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