Mwambi wodziwika bwino - zotsutsana zimakopa - zidakwaniritsidwa kwa ine ndekha. Izi zisanachitike, ndimaganiza zopita pamasiku osavuta, kucheza ndi anthu ochepa kunali kokwanira kuti ndiyambe kukonda munthu. Komanso, ndikakhala pachibwenzi, nthawi zambiri ndinkayang'ana zokonda zofanana kusiyana ndi zotsutsana poyesa kupeza mnzanga yemwe ndingakhale naye.
Mwachisoni, zonsezi zinapita pachabe. Nditatha kupatukana, ndinazindikira kuti zinali zovuta kukumana ndi munthu yemwe anali mtundu wanga ndipo adagwirizana nane pa zinthu zomwe ndimasamala nazo. Ndinkakhumudwa pang'ono chifukwa ndidayambanso kudabwa ndi zomwe ndimayang'ana mwa mwamuna.
Kodi Zotsutsana Zingakopeke?
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Sindinkadziwa zomwe zikubwera pamene amayi anga ananditenga mokakamiza kuti ndikachezere katswiri wa manambala. Ine ndine wosakhulupirira Mulungu. Ndimakhulupirira Mulungu koma osati zonse zomwe zimawonekera ndipo sindimakhulupirira nyenyezi, manambala ndi zina zotero. Koma apa ndinali kupita kwa 'Azakhali' awa kuti ndikaone tsogolo langa. Amayi anga ankaona kuti ukwati wanga ukuchedwa ngakhale kuti ndinali ndi ziyeneretso zonse zoti ndigwirizane bwino komanso ndinkayesetsa kwambiri kuti ndikwatirane. Amaona kuti ndinaphonya basi ndili ndi zaka 23.
Chifukwa chake Aunty Numerologist adandifunsa manambala ena mwachisawawa omwe adalemba muzolemba zakale. Anatipempha kuti tibwerenso pakatha 2 days kuti tidzapeze zotsatira. Sindinafune kupita kukatenga zotsatira, chifukwa sindikanakhulupirira zomwe anganene ndipo mwina ndikhoza kumuseka. Aunty anandiumiriza kuti ndiwaperekeze mayi anga. Ndipo chigamulo chake chinali chakuti ndikwatiwa posachedwa, zomwe zinapangitsa kuti mayi anga akhazikike mtima pansi. Koma panali kugwira kwa izo. Sitingakhale banja loyenera kapena banja lofanana.
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Ndinali ndi mafunso ambiri
"Ndiye kuti?" ndinafunsa.
Ananena kuti tidzakhala osiyana thupi kapena tidzakhala osiyana. Izo zinali kuchitika, ine ndikuganiza. Ngakhale mwachilengedwe, ndizotheka kuti kukhala otsutsana kumakopa okwatirana kuti azikwatirana.
Mwachitsanzo, popeza ndine wamfupi, amakhoza kukhala wamtali kapena popeza ndine wabwino, amakhala wakuda ndi zina zotero. Zinthu izi zinkawoneka zachiphamaso komanso zopusa kwa ine poyamba kotero zinali zovuta kukhulupirira zonse zomwe anali kunena. Ngati ndikunena zoona, ndapeza kulongosola konseko kukhala koseketsa. Tiyerekeze kuti tikhala m'modzi mwamabanja otsutsana omwe anthu amangokhalira kudabwa nawo ndikuti - "Kodi awiriwa adathera bwanji limodzi?"
Kenako chinkhoswe chinabwera
Mofulumira ku tsiku langa lachinkhoswe.
Amene adzakhale mwamuna wanga ndi ine tinali chitsanzo chowonekera bwino cha pamene zotsutsana zimakopa. Tinali osiyana kwambiri moti achibale athu anali ndi nkhawa. Ma horoscope athu anali atangofika kumene pamlingo wa 50% wofananira, popanda unyinji wowonekera pamenepo. Ndinachita bwino kwambiri pamene anali wakuda kwambiri. Ndinali wamfupi ndipo iye anali wamtali. Anatifunsanso ngati tinkafunadi kukwatirana, poganizira kuti tinkaoneka osamvetseka.
Makhalidwe amenewa sankandivutitsa ndipo ndinkamukonda ndi mtima wanga wonse. Ndinkafuna munthu wachikondi amene angakhalenso bwenzi langa lapamtima. Motero, ndinakwatira mwamuna amene ndimadziwa kuti ndiye woyenera kwa ine. Ndinakwatira mwamuna wanga wamtali, wakuda komanso wokongola yemwenso anali wosiyana kwambiri ndi ine.
Titakwatirana, tinapeza mbali zambiri za wina ndi mnzake. Tinali osayerekezeka. Osati mwakuthupi, komanso m'maganizo. Makhalidwe athu anali osiyana kotheratu.
Kodi Anthu Otsutsa Amakopa Anthu?
Ndimaleza mtima, pamene akulephera kukwiya akangotaya chipewa. Ine ndine wophika woipa kwambiri, pomwe iye ndi waluso pophika ndipo amatha kuphika lasagna yoipa tsiku lililonse la sabata. Ndine woipa pankhani ya ndalama, pomwe iye ndi ngwazi pothetsa mavuto azachuma.
Ndine wosalongosoka ndipo ndimakonda chipwirikiti. Sindichita mantha ndikakhala ndi nthawi yomaliza kapena kupsinjika maganizo, chifukwa zimabweretsa zabwino mwa ine, pamene iye amachita mosamala pa chilichonse chimene amachita. Amakonzekera mbali iliyonse ndipo adzakhala ndi ndondomeko B ndi ndondomeko C kuti asamalire zolakwika zilizonse. Amafuna kuti zinthu zikhale pamalo enaake. Amakonda kusunga zolemba. Mwachidule, iye ndi wokonzeka kwambiri, pamene ine ndimakhalapo ndikuchita zinthu pamapeto omaliza.
Munthawi zovuta, ndimakhala womasuka kuposa iye; werengani nthawi zogonera m'chipatala, zadzidzidzi, zantchito. Ndimakonda kuyenda komanso kukhala panja, amasangalala kukhala m'nyumba. Kunyumba ndiye hangout yomwe amakonda kwambiri. Ndine wokonda kuwerenga; sali ndipo amangowerenga nyuzipepala kuti adziwe zomwe zikuchitika padziko lapansi.
Tilinso mu ntchito zosiyanasiyana. Ali mu zomangamanga, zomwe sindikumvetsa nkomwe. Samvetsetsa makompyuta ndi mapulogalamu, pamene ine ndine katswiri wa IT ndipo ndimakonda ntchito yanga. Ndiye chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa umunthu kochuluka, munthu amangodabwabe kuti: Kodi kukhala otsutsana kotheratu kumakopa okwatirana kubwera pamodzi ndi kukhala pamodzi? Ndipo ngati inde, ndiye bwanji?
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Inde, kukhala otsutsana kumakopa okwatirana kubwera pamodzi
Ndiye tikukamba za chiyani kunyumba? Muyenera kuganiza kuti sitigwirizana, osatchula zifukwa zokondana. Koma zimenezi si zoona. Tili ndi zambiri zoti tikambirane ndi kuphunzira kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake. Chifukwa cha zokonda zathu zosiyanasiyana, nthawi zonse timapezana wina ndi mnzake.
Ngakhale sakonda kuwerenga, amakonda kumvetsera nkhani zanga. Ngakhale samvetsa makompyuta, amakonda kudziwa zomwe zikuchitika pankhani yaukadaulo. Ndimakonda kumvetsetsa ndale kuchokera kwa iye. Popeza sindikonda kuphika, nthawi zonse ndimayamikira akatenga udindo kukhitchini pamene ine ndikugona. Takhala m'banja kwa zaka zoposa 17 ndipo sipanakhalepo nthawi yosangalatsa m'banja lathu losangalala.
Kodi aunty anali olondola? Ndife osagwirizana komanso otsutsana kwathunthu. Koma tsopano aliyense akandifunsa kuti, 'Kodi zotsutsana zingakopeke?', ndiyankha kuti inde! Kuchokera pamitengo ya maginito kupita kwa okonda ngati inu ndi ine, inde, kukhala otsutsana kotheratu kumakopanso maanja.
PS Izi sizikutsimikizira za manambala kapena 'Aunty' akatswiri owerengera manambala. Sindikukhulupirirabe ndipo sindinabwererenso kuti ndikawerengenso.
Ibibazo
Zochitika zonsezi zili ndi zabwino ndi zoyipa zake. Komabe, zotsutsana zikakopa - maanja amaphunzira zambiri. Amakhala akusintha nthawi zonse ndikusintha ubale wawo chifukwa cha zovuta zambiri. Koma kuthana ndi zovutazo kumafunika chikondi chochuluka ndi chifukwa chake mudzazindikira kuti maanja otsutsana, amakondana kwambiri.
Modabwitsa, inde. Si zofanana zomwe zimapanga ubale koma momwe okwatirana amayenderana. Chifukwa chake ndizotheka kuti umunthu womwe uli wotsutsana umakopa ubale ngakhale ukuwoneka wosiyana kwambiri kutsogolo. Chikondi sichibwera ndi bukhu lamanja ndi lamanja. Simungathe kuthandiza amene mumakonda!
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Pakhala pali kudabwa chifukwa chake zotsutsana zimakopa. Komabe, timauzidwa kuti maubwenzi amakhala olimba komanso osavuta mukagawana zambiri. Koma kodi zimenezo n’zoona?
Nkhaniyi ikutiuza kuti, inde!
Banja lodabwitsa!
Nonse ndinu odala kukhala wina ndi mnzake 🙂