Ingabe Kufanele Ususe Izithombe Ze-Ex Yakho Ku-Instagram Yakho?

Ingabe ukuhlanzwa kwentwasahlobo kuhlelekile, noma kufanele ugcine izikhumbuzo ezithile eduze? Uma ungazikhumuli, ungase uthole nje ezimbalwa ezithi “Awukakadluli nge-ex yakho?!” Uma uzikhipha ngosuku olungemva kokuhlukana kwenu, kunikeza u-Taylor Swift amavayibhu amakhulu athi “Asisoze sabuyelana”. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ususe izithombe ze-ex yakho ku-Instagram yakho? 

Indaba ende kafushane, isinqumo sincike ngokuphelele esimweni sakho somqondo, umlando wobudlelwano nokuthi kubaluleke kangakanani okuphakelayo kwakho kwe-Insta kuwe (ingabe uwuhlobo oluhlanganisa imibala yokuthunyelwe ngakunye?). 

Ngakho-ke, yini okufanele uyenze ngezithombe ze-ex yakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana? Ake sibheke zonke izinto okufanele sizikhumbule, ukuze ungasho ukuthi “Hhawu, ngidinga ukuthola ukuthi ngenzenjani ngalezi zithombe” njalo uma uvula inkundla yakho yezokuxhumana. 

Ingabe Kufanele Ususe Izithombe Ze-Ex Yakho Ku-Instagram Yakho? Izinto Okufanele Uzikhumbule 

Uma utshele othile eminyakeni eyishumi edlule ukuthi amandla obuhlobo angachazwa ngokuthi bashesha kangakanani ukuya ku-" Instagram official ", cishe bangabiza i-psych ward. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi, izinkundla zakho zokuxhumana zibonisa ukuthi ungubani, futhi izinto ozithumelayo ngezinye izikhathi zingaba nokubaluleka okukhulu kunezinye.

Uyasikhumbula isiqephu SABANGANE lapho u-Rachel, uMonica kanye no-Phoebe baqale khona umlilo efulethini labo ngesikhathi bezama ukushisa izithombe ezindala kanye nezikhumbuzo zamalangabi abo amadala? Hhayi-ke, yilokho kuphela okwenzayo - sans fire. Bobathathu bagcine bethole izinsuku ezintsha kusukela kuso sonke isipiliyoni, futhi ungase futhi lapho lonke uhlelo lwakho lokusebenza lokuthandana lifana nokuqaphela konke ukuhlanza okwenzayo. 

Kodwa kuthiwani uma ufuna ukuwagcina ekhona ngenxa yezikhathi zakudala? Noma mhlawumbe zisho nje iholidi elihle olithathile, futhi umuntu obunaye akasenandaba ngempela? Ake sibheke zonke izinto okufanele sizikhumbule ngenkathi sizama ukuphendula umbuzo othi, “Ingabe kufanele ususe izithombe zomuntu owake wathandana naye?” 

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1. Uma uzazisa izinkumbulo, zigcine 

Ukususa izithombe ku-Instagram kungaba yinto ebuhlungu, ikakhulukazi uma izithombe zisho lukhulu kuwe. Ngemva kwesikhashana, leso sithombe sakho ne ex yakho e-Europe akusho ngempela zifanekisela okuningi mayelana nobuhlobo, futhi kungase nje ukukhumbuza ukuthi uhambo emangalisayo waqhubeka. 

Uma uzama ukuthola ukuthi wenzeni ngezithombe zomuntu owake wathandana naye, into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukuthola ukuthi zikwenza uzizwe kanjani. Ingabe izinkumbulo zikwenza umomotheke? Uma ingekho imizwa eqinile futhi ungathanda ukugcina izithombe ezinhle ziseduze, asikho isizathu sokuthi kungani ungafanele.

Lokho-ke, uma usumdlulile umuntu wakho wangaphambili . Sithemba ukuthi umuntu wakho wangaphambili akekho ezithombeni zakho zephrofayela. Uxolo, kodwa lokho kumane kunuka amasonto amaningi amazwi athi “ngicela ubuye”

2. “Ukukhanya Kwelanga Kwaphakade Kwengqondo Engenabala” Kubo 

Okusho ukuthi, yisho i-adieu ezithombeni zesikhathi esedlule bese ususa uthuli ezandleni zakho. Uma izithombe zikukhumbuza izikhathi ezimbi, udinga ukuzisusa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungase kube buhlungu kangakanani ukwenza kanjalo. 

Okuthunyelwe kwe-Instagram akufani ne-tattoo. Kulesi simo, inhliziyo kadoti onayo engalweni yakho ingasulwa ngokuchofoza okumbalwa. Noma leyo tattoo butterfly oyithole emhlane wakho ophansi ingasulwa ebusweni bomhlaba. Okufanele ukwenze ukushaya u-“susa manje” 

Impela, ungasigcina ngoba “sikufundise isifundo” kodwa udinga ngempela ukukhunjuzwa leso sifundo njalo uma uvula i-Instagram?

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3. Uma umlingani wakho omusha enenkinga nayo, xoxa ngayo 

Ake sixoxe ngesizathu esenza abantu abaningi bazithole sebezindla ngokuthi, “Ingabe kufanele ususe izithombe zomuntu othandana naye ku-Instagram wakho?” Uma uzakwenu wamanje esho into efana nokuthi, "Akumnandi kakhulu lokho ukuthi ungakubona. Ucabanga ukususa lokho?" (Akusikho lokhu ngomusa). Kungase kube okokuqala ucabanga ngokubaluleka kwezithombe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.

Kusobala ukuthi ukubona izithombe zakho uqabulana nomuntu wakho wangaphambili kungamcasula kanjani umlingani wakho wamanje. Izithombe zeholide lolwandle kanye nezithombe ezinhle zokugonwa zingase zikwenze uzizwe sengathi awusathandi – noma ngabe bazi ukuthi okwedlule akunandaba.

Uma kumkhathaza kakhulu umlingani wakho futhi ungenandaba nezithombe, kufanele uzisuse, ikakhulukazi lezo ezinhle. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi, ekugcineni, kuseyi- Instagram yakho . Ukuthi nje kukhona umuntu othandana naye endaweni ethile akusho ukuthi awumthandi, noma ukuthi ucabanga ngaye.

Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana nayo iwukuba nengxoxo eyakhayo nomlingani wakho. Babuze ukuthi yini ebakhathazayo, futhi uchaze umbono wakho ngokuthula. Ingabe i-Instagram yakho ikufanele ngempela ukulwa nayo? 

4. Ukususa izithombe ku-Instagram zomuntu othandana naye kungase kukusize uqhubeke

Akunakuphikwa ukuthi ukuhlukana kunzima. Uma ubona othile efaka izithombe ze-ex ngemuva kokuthi behlukene, awukwazi ukuzibamba kodwa ucabange, “Oh sthandwa, udinga ukuqhubeka." Futhi, uma izinto ezinjengokuthi, "Ingabe kufanele ngikuthande okuthunyelwe kwe-Instagram ye-ex yami?" ubulokhu ugijima engqondweni yakho, udinga umthamo onempilo wokuhlolwa okungokoqobo okuvela kumngane omkhulu noma ngaphezulu. 

Nakuba ungase usebenzise umthetho wokungathintani futhi unqamule ukuxhumana nomuntu othandana naye kuzo zonke izinhlangothi, kubalulekile ukwenza inkundla yakho yezokuxhumana ibe mahhala ngangokunokwenzeka uma ulwa nokuqhubekela phambili. 

5. Ukuba nazo kungase kumenze abe nenzondo 

Uma i-ex yakho ingumuntu othanda ukuzenzela, nakanjani ucabanga okuthile ngokuthi, “Hawu, akakakazehliseli phansi izithombe zami. Uyangifela; uyahlanya.” 

Ikakhulukazi uma usesikoleni samabanga aphezulu noma ekolishi, uthambekele kakhulu ekuthintekeni yizitatimende nezinkolelo ezinjalo. Nakuba impendulo yokuthi kufanele ususe izithombe zomuntu othandana naye wangaphambili akufanele ifunwe kulokho okushiwo noma okwenziwa abanye, ungase ufune ukuzisusa ukuze uvale umuntu othandana naye wangaphambili oshisayo nobandayo.

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6. Ekupheleni kosuku, uthatha isinqumo 

Okufanele ukwenze ngezithombe zomuntu owake wathandana naye kuyisinqumo okufanele usenze uwedwa (ngosizo oluncane oluvela kumngane wakho omkhulu ongenamsindo). Akufanele kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abanye bathini ngawe noma imiphi imibono abangase babe nayo ngawe. 

Nakuba ungagcina engqondweni lokho abakucabangayo, akufanele kukwenze uzizwe kabi ngesinqumo sakho. Isibonelo, okufanayo okulandelayo okuthola ezinhlelweni zokusebenza zokuphola kungase kukuhlole i-Insta yakho bese uthatha ngokuthi awudluli i-ex yakho, kodwa isinqumo sokuyikhumula noma ukuyigcina sisasele kuwe. 

Ngethemba, manje usunombono ongcono wokuthi yini okufanele uyenze ngalezo zithombe ezihlupha (noma ezithuthukisa) okuphakelayo kwakho kwenkundla yezokuxhumana. Iseluleko sethu? Ungacabangi kakhulu ngakho. Kuyi-Instagram nje, hamba ugxile ku-LinkedIn yakho.

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