5 ngā huarahi hei mutu te whai i tō hoa o mua i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori

Nō reira, kua wehe kē koe i tō hoa o mua. Me pēhea taku mōhio? Nā te mea, ko te tūponotanga kei te whaiwhai koe i a rātou i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori te mea tino teitei mena kua wehe kē kōrua i roto i ngā marama 3-6 kua hipa. Kei te whakaaro tonu koe ki a rātou me te tumanako kia kitea he tohu e ngaro ana rātou i a koe, e whakaaro ana hoki ki a koe. Ahakoa he tangata pōrangi rawa tō hoa o mua, me whakaatu tonu e pouri ana rātou me te kore koe, nā te mea ka taea e koe te whakamanamana me te harikoa!

Taria! Whakaarohia… kua kite koe i tētahi e whakapuaki ana i ō rātou ngākau ki runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori mō tō rātou pouri? KĀORE. He maha ngā tāngata e tuku kōrero ana mō te harikoa o ō rātou ao ahakoa he rerekē te āhua tūturu. Kia mōhio koe, tērā pea kua pērā anō tāu mahi hei whakaoho i tō hae o mua! Nō reira, kāore koe i te whakaaro i te wā e whaia tō hoa o mua i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori Kei te whakarite koe i a koe anō mō ​​ētahi atu mamae?

Kati tēnei whiu i a koe anō i tēnei rā! Ka whakamārama atu mātou me pēhea!

1. Whāia te tauira o te waranga

Āe, kei te waranga koe – kei te waranga koe ki te manukanuka nui ki a ia; He waranga ki te kore e tino mokemoke i a koe e tū ana i mua i a koe; he waranga ki te mura o ngā neuron i roto i tō roro e whakamahara ana i a koe ki ngā wā pai i noho tahi ai kōrua ko tō hoa o mua. Nō reira, me whawhai koe ki tēnei me te mea he waranga koe ki tētahi waranga. Mā te kore e tukua ki ngā hiahia, me te tango i ngā tohu katoa e whakaoho ana i te whanonga waranga. Me mahara anō hoki koe i ngā wā katoa ka tae mai ngā hiahia, ka haere atu pērā i ngā ngaru, ā, ka piki ake ia ngaru kaha i roto i te 3 meneti te roa. Nō reira, i te wā e whai ake nei ka hiahia koe ki te tirotiro i tā rātou kōtaha Facebook, Instagram rānei, whakangawari i a koe mō te 5 meneti noa iho, ā, tera pea ka pahemo te hiahia, tae noa ki te wā e whai ake nei. Me mahi tēnei i roto i ngā horopeta iti, ā, ka kite wawe koe ka roa haere te āputa i waenga i ngā hiahia.

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2. Whakaarohia te kino

Āe, i tika tāu i rongo ai. Kia mahara ki tā tātou i kī ai, ina whaia e koe tō hoa o mua, ka maumahara noa koe ki ngā wā pai, ā, ka hiahia koe ki a rātou? He aha? He mānumanu tēnā. Nō reira, i ia wā ka ngaro koe i a rātou, me whakamahara koe i a koe anō ki ngā take tika katoa i wehe ai koe, ā, i aha ai te... kāore i angitu te whanaungatanga.

3. Whakaarohia he tikanga whakakori tinana

Nō reira, ina tīmata koe i tētahi kaupapa whakangungu tinana hei whakapakari tinana, he tino uaua i te tīmatanga engari ina kite koe i tō tinana e anga whakamua ana i roto i te whakaata, ka tīmata koe ki te pai ki tēnā. Me mahi anō hoki koe i te mea kotahi. Puritia he maramataka i tō tēpu mahi, ā, hoatu he tohu koura ki a koe anō mō ​​ia rā e whakahaere ana koe i a koe anō, kaua hoki e whai i tō hoa o mua, ā, i te mutunga o ia wiki, atawhai i a koe ki tētahi mea pai. Whakanuia mārire taua roanga ki te rua wiki, ki te toru wiki, ki te marama. Kia tae koe ki te marama, ka iti ake te pehi i a koe!

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4. Haere mārire

Ki te hiahia koe ki te mutu, he taahiraa nui tēnei māu. Whakamutua te whai i ā rātou whāngai purongo, wete i te hoa mai i ngā wāhi katoa. Ina hoki, mō tētahi wā, wetehia te whai i ngā whāngai purongo a ō hoa kia kore ai koe e whakamatautauria. E mōhio ana mātou ka whakamatautauria koe ki te hoki ki te mahi, engari ahakoa ka pena koe, haere tonu, wetehia anō te whai.

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5. Kia atawhai ki a koe ano

Ahakoa te aha, ko te whakamutu i tēnei whanonga he rite ki te whai i tētahi kai iti. Me whai tikanga me te whakahaere i a koe anō, ā, he uaua. Engari, ki te mahara tonu koe ka taea te whakarerekē i ngā whanonga katoa, ā, he wā poto noa iho ia whanonga, ia hiahia rānei, ka taea e koe te wikitoria i tēnei. Ā, ki te mea kua whai koe i tētahi kai iti mō ngā rā e 20 engari kua tinihanga mō te rā kotahi, ehara i te mea ka maumauria te mahi uaua o aua rā e 20. He rerekētanga tonu. Nō reira, kia kaha atawhai ki a koe anō ā, murua ō hapa iti. Mā tēnei ka māmā ake!

Kia ora tō mahi whakakore i te paitini o tō hoa o mua!

Thoughts Final

Ka uaua pea te neke atu i muri i te wehenga i runga i te pāpāho pāpori, ina koa ka tata te whakamatautauranga ki te tirotiro i tō hoa o mua. Mā te whakatakoto rohe, te whakakapi i te whanonga ki ngā mahi pai, me te arotahi ki te tipu ake i a koe anō, ka taea e koe te whakahaere me te kimi i te rangimārie.

Mena kei te raru koe ki te tuku i a koe anō, ki te hiahia rānei koe i ētahi atu tautoko, whakaarohia te kōrero ki tētahi kaitohutohu. Ā mātou kaiwhakaora hinengaro ka taea te ārahi i a koe ki te whakaora, ki te kimi anō i tōu mana ake, me te kimi huarahi hauora hei anga whakamua. Whakawhiti mai ki a maatau i tenei ra hei tīmata i tō haerenga whakaora-ā-koe me tō tipu.

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