Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te aroha aroha tō rangatira ki a koe?

Kua aro nui mai tō rangatira ki a koe i ēnei rā? Kei te kite koe i a ia e titiro matatau mai ana ki a koe? Kei te whakaaro koe mēnā kei te aroha tō rangatira ki a koe? Kei te raru koe i te raruraru me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te aroha tō rangatira ki a koe? Kua pātai koe ki a koe anō, "Kei te aroha mai tōku rangatira ki ahau?" Mēnā ko tāu whakautu ki ngā pātai katoa i runga ake nei he āe, kāti e hoa, māu tēnei tuhinga.

I roto i tētahi īmēra nā tētahi o ā mātou kaipānui, a Jocelyn, e mea ana ia, "Kei te kite tonu ahau i taku rangatira e titiro mai ana ki ahau. Kua hurihia e ia taku tēpu ki te tēpu e tata ana ki tōna kāpata, ā, kei te tuku tonu mai i ngā karere whaiaro ki ahau. Kāore ia i uru ki tētahi mea e whakararuraru ai ahau, engari nā ēnei mea iti nei ka whakaaro ahau mēnā kei te aroha taku rangatira ki ahau. Kei te pātai tonu mai aku hoa mahi mēnā kei te pirangi ahau ki taku rangatira. Kāore au i te whakaaro pēnā. Kei te tino pōhēhē ahau. Me pēhea mēnā kei te hē taku pānui i te āhuatanga?"

I te mea he maha ngā hāora mahi me ngā huringa mahi tāpiri, ka pōuri haere te rārangi i waenga i ngā whanaungatanga ngaio me ngā whanaungatanga whaiaro. He mea maori te noho tata ki te hunga e noho tahi ana koe i te nuinga o te wā. Ka huaki anō hoki ngā tatau mō ngā whanaungatanga mahi kia piki ake ki te rohe aroha. He pai katoa tēnā, engari me pēhea te whakatau i te tūponotanga o te aroha o te tari me te rangatira? He uaua rawa ēnā.

He tini ngā taurangi e pā ana. Me pēhea mēnā ka pai tō rangatira ki a koe engari kāore koe e pai ki a rātou? Me pēhea mēnā ka pai koe ki a rātou engari kāore rātou e pai ki a koe, ā, kei roto noa i tō hinengaro ngā tohu katoa e hiahia ana tō rangatira ki a koe? Āe, kia tūpato! Kia marino, kei konei mātou hei āwhina i a koe ki te aromatawai i te āhuatanga. Me titiro tātou ki ngā tohu e pai ana tō rangatira ki a koe, me pēhea hoki e taea ai e koe te whakahaere mēnā ka pērā ia.

17 Ngā Tohu e Aroha Aroha Ana tō Rangatira ki a Koe

He uaua te rapu i tētahi hoa aroha pea mai i tō rangatira, ā, he pānga ngaio anō hoki. Mā te hē o te pānui i ngā tohu, mā te whakahaere pai rānei i tētahi hoa aroha o te tari , ka arahi pea tēnei ki ngā moemoeā kino mai i te tari HR me ngā kōrero pakiwaitara o te tari. Mena he hoa aroha tō tō rangatira ki a koe, ka tukuna e ia ētahi tohu mā te mōhio, mā te kore mōhio rānei. Kia tūpato noa ki ngā tohu e whakaatu ana kei te hiahia tō rangatira ki a koe.

Tuatahi, he mea nui kia noho puku koe i roto i ō kitenga, ā, kaua e whakapuakina ki te tari. Kia maumahara, i tēnei ao nanakia, kāore te nuinga o te tangata e aro ki ō painga, ā, ko ō ruarua i roto i ngā taringa hē ka taea te whakangaro i tētahi heke mai pai pea ka whiwhi koe i reira. I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka matapakihia e mātou ngā tohu 17 e aroha ana tō rangatira ki a koe:

1. He nui rawa tā rātou āwhina

Mena kei te kimi take tō rangatira hei taunekeneke ki a koe, hei āwhina i a koe i ngā hoa mahi kē atu, koinei pea tētahi o ngā tohu e aroha ana tō rangatira ki a koe. Tērā pea kei te whakaaro koe he kaiārahi pai tō rangatira, engari koinā anake te take o tēnei whanonga? Pātai atu ki a koe anō ēnei pātai:

• He māmā ake te whakarere a tō rangatira i ō hapa i ētahi atu?
• He manawanui ake rātou ki a koe, ā, he nui ake ā rātou whai wāhitanga ki a koe?
• E aro nui atu ana rānei ia ki a koe, ā, ko ētahi o aua aro kāore pea e hiahiatia?

E whakaaro ana koe, "Me pēhea taku mōhio mēnā e pai ana taku rangatira ki ahau?" Anei tō tohu tuatahi. Ina kaha te mahi a tētahi ki te āwhina (engari ka pau tōna wā me tōna kaha) ā, ka maha tonu te mahi pērā, tera pea he nui ake tō whakaaro. Kia tūpato, kaua e akiaki i tēnei whanonga āwhina nui rawa atu, nā te mea ka taea e tō rangatira te whakamārama he tohu tēnei e whakahoki ana koe i ō rātou kare ā-roto (ki te kore koe e hiahia).

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2. Ka homai e tō rangatira he koha māu

Mā te whakatere i te rohe uaua o te aroha me tō rangatira ka waiho koe me te mea kei roto koe i tētahi kōmeke aroha i te wāhi mahi. Ina koa mēnā kua marena rāua, kua piripono rānei ki tētahi hononga. Kia tūpato ki ngā aro motuhake, mai i te whiwhinga o ngā koha ohorere (kia ora, he mīhini tā ataahua!) ki te whiwhi i ngā painga motuhake pērā i ngā hāora mahi ngāwari, te pikinga paku rānei o tō utu i te mea e mātakitaki ana ō hoa mahi me te kore whakapono. He tohu pea ēnei kei te aro atu tō rangatira ki a koe.

Ā, ki te mahi tō rangatira i tētahi atu mea, ka hoatu he koha ki a koe, engari e hiahia ana kia huna, kāore koe i te hē ki te whakaaro mēnā he tohu ēnei e pai ana tō rangatira kua marena ki a koe engari kei te huna. Ahakoa ehara rātou i te tangata e pai ana ki te whakahari i a koe, e pai ana rātou ki te whakahari i a koe. Kia tūpato, ka puta he kōrero pakiwaitara mō te tari ina piripono koe ki tō rangatira kua marena. Ahakoa tērā, ka puta he maha ngā raruraru i te wāhi mahi, nō reira kia tino tupato i a koe e aro ana ki te atawhai motuhake o tō rangatira.

3. Kei te takaro tonu tō rangatira ki a koe

I mau ahau i roto i te raruraru "Ki taku whakaaro kei te aro mai taku rangatira ki ahau". Nā aku whakapae, ka pātai atu ahau ki taku hoa, "Me pēhea te mōhio kei te takaro tō rangatira ki a koe? Kei te kite tonu ahau i taku rangatira e titiro mai ana ki ahau. He pai te takaro hauora engari he nui rawa tana mihi ki ahau, ki taku whakaaro kei te aroha taku rangatira ki ahau." He tino urupare ahau i roto i ngā āhuatanga penei. "Ehara i te mea koinei tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea e pai ana tō rangatira wahine ki a koe engari kei te huna? He waimarie koe!" ka mea ia, ā, ka kata māua. Engari nā ēnei whakaaro ahau i akiaki kia aro ki ngā whanonga a taku rangatira, kia tae mai ki ngā māramatanga e whai ake nei:

• He tohu pea ngā kōrero whakakatakata a tō rangatira mō te hiahia aroha. Kei roto pea i tēnei ko ngā mihi, te whakatoi, ngā hui tūmataiti kāore e hiahiatia, me ngā kōrero whaiaro e neke atu ana i te ngaiotanga.
• He tohu anō hoki te pānga tinana, te ngana rānei ki te tata ki a koe, kei te hiahia koe.
• Tērā pea ka nui ake te hiahia o tō rangatira ki tō oranga whaiaro me tō oranga aroha.
• Ko tētahi atu tohu ko te wā e whakatairanga ana tō rangatira i ō hiahia, ā, ka whakapau kaha ki te whakamanawareka i a koe. Tērā pea ka tukuna e rātou he mana motuhake, he mahi rānei e hāngai ana ki ō hiahia.
• Tērā pea ka nui rawa te mihi a tō rangatira ki tō mahi, ā, ka tiaki, ka pupuri rānei i a koe

Ko ēnei mahi e tohu ana kei te ngana rātou ki te hanga hononga hohonu atu ki a koe i tua atu i te ao ngaio, e tohu ana i ngā kare ā-roto aroha pea.

4. Ka karangahia koe e tō rangatira mō te tina/inu

Mena he aroha tō rangatira ki a koe, tera pea ka hiahia ia ki te noho tahi me koe i waho o ngā hāora tari. Tērā pea ka noho roa rātou ki te āwhina i a koe ki te mahi, kātahi ka tono noa atu i a koe ki te inu i te pō, ki te kai rānei i ngā wāhi e pai ana ki a koe. Ka meinga e rātou ngā mea iti rawa kia rite ki te whakanui, ā, ko koe te tangata tuatahi ka karangatia e rātou.

Ahakoa kāore pea rātou e hiahia ki te tono tika atu i tētahi hoa mahi kia haere tahi , ko ēnei mahi e tohu ana kei te aro atu tō rangatira ki a koe, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki tētahi atu mea, ehara i te whanaungatanga mahi anake. Ko te āhua o tō urupare kei runga i ō ake kare ā-roto. Mena kei te aroha koe ki tō rangatira, kei te hiahia noa rānei koe ki te tūhura i te whanaungatanga, he pai tēnei hui hei whakamōhio atu ki a rātou. Ā, ko tētahi atu mea hei whakaaroaro māu i mua i te peke atu ki te poti aroha ko te āhua o te whanaungatanga o nāianei o tō rangatira. Kia tino mōhio ki ngā tohu e pai ana tō rangatira kua moe ki a koe engari kei te huna. Ka taea te tino raruraru, ā, i roto i te wā poto.

5. He maha ā rātou mihi ki a koe

He mea noa ki ngā rangatira te maioha ki ngā mahi me ngā pūkenga ngaio a ā rātou kaimahi. Heoi, ki te maioha tō rangatira ki a koe i tua atu i te ao mahi, ā, ka tīmata te aro ki ō āhuatanga tinana, tera pea he tohu kei te aroha tō rangatira ki a koe. Ko ngā kōrero pēnei i te "Ka whakamārama koe i te wāhi tari" me te "He tino ātaahua te āhua o te papura ki a koe" e kī ana kei te mātakitaki tō rangatira i tō āhua, ā, tera pea kei te kukume ia ki a koe. Hei whakaū i ō whakapae, ka taea e koe te whakamātau i tētahi whakamātautau.

• Hangaia he huringa ngawari ki tō āhua, pērā i te tapahi makawe hou, te hoko kākahu hou rānei, me te whakamātau i tētahi momo kākahu rerekē.
• Kia tupato ki te urupare a tō rangatira
• Ki te kore rātou e kite noa i ēnei huringa engari ka kōrero anō hoki mō aua huringa, he tohu kaha pea tēnei kei a rātou te aro nui ki a koe, ehara i te mea he mahi ngaio anake.
• Kia maumahara ki te tūpato me te whai whakaaro ki ō rohe me ngā āhuatanga o te wāhi mahi i mua i te mahi i tētahi atu mahi.

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6. Ka ngana rātou ki te noho tahi me koe i a koe anō

Ka whakatā koe mō te kawhe, ka puta mai rātou mō tā rātou, ka haere koe ki te momi hikareti, ā, ka uru atu rātou ki a koe. Ka tono atu rātou kia noho koe ki konei, kia haere mai rānei i ngā wiki mutunga, ā, ka utua koe mō tēnā. Ka whakapau kaha rātou ki te tiaki i a koe, ā, ka āwhina anō hoki i a koe ki te ako i ngā mea hou, me te kī, "Ka āwhina tēnei i a koe ki te piki ake i te arawhata umanga." Nā te mea e hiahia ana tō rangatira ki te noho tahi me koe, ā, kei te whakamahi i te mahi hei wā motuhake māu.

"Kei te aroha mai taku rangatira ki ahau?" Mena kei te pātai tonu koe i tēnei pātai, kua tae ki te wā kia tirohia te roa o te wā e whai ana tō rangatira ki te whai wā mokemoke māu. Mena kei te tino whakapau kaha rātou, ka tino kitea, kāore?

7. He whakapā ā-tinana

Mena kei te whakaatu tonu tō rangatira i ngā whanonga pēnei i te tū tata rawa, te mahi i ngā nekehanga tinana koretake pēnei i te awhi, te pā ringa rānei, te piko pinepine rānei ki a koe; me tangi te whakaoho kukume. Hei whakaū, mātakitaki i ngā tohu o te kukume, pēnei i te whero o te kanohi ina kite koe i tō rātou tata tinana. Ka taea e ēnei tohu te tohu kaha e hiahia ana tō rangatira ki a koe.

Kia tūpato mēnā ko koe anake tēnei manaakitanga. Ki te hiahia koe, ka taea e koe te whakaaro ki te whakahoki atu, engari ki te kore koe e pai ki ēnei mahi whakatairanga, kia mahara ka taea te kī he mahi whakatoi moepuku i te wāhi mahi, ā, kei a koe te tika ki te mahi i tetahi mea.

8. Ka kite koe i tō rangatira e titiro matatau mai ana ki a koe

Kua mea koe ki a koe anō, "Ki taku whakaaro i kite ahau i taku rangatira e titiro matatau mai ana ki ahau"? Mena kei te aro nui tō rangatira ki a koe, kua kite pea koe i a ia e titiro pōuri ana ki a koe. Ina aro nui tetahi ki a koe, ka titiro matatau mai rātou ki a koe nā te mea kāore e taea e rātou te ngata ki a koe. He mea noa te titiro matatau ki te tangata e arohaina ana e koe.

Whakaarohia te āhua o tāu takaro huna me te rapu kanohi ki tō hoa aroha tuatahi. He tangata katoa tātou, ā, mā ngā kare ā-roto aroha tātou e mahi i ngā mea rerekē. Nō reira, ki te kite koe i tō rangatira e mahi ana i ngā mea rerekē pēnei, ka taea e koe te whakatau he whakaaro aroha kei roto i ō rātou hinengaro.

9. Ka waea atu/ka tuku karere kuputuhi atu ki a koe, kāore he take

Ina he aroha tō te tangata ki tētahi, ka hiahia ia ki te kōrero ki tāna e aroha nei. "I karanga atu ahau ki a koe kia tukuna mai taua mea. Kua wareware noa ahau he aha taua mea." Ki te karanga mai tō rangatira i a koe i te kore noa iho, ā, ka kōrero pērā anō, ko te tikanga kei te hiahia ia ki te kōrero ki a koe engari kāore ia e mōhio me aha ia.

Ka tuatahi ia ki te hanga i ngā take mahi hei waea atu ki a koe, ā, ina mutu aua take, ka rapu huarahi rātou hei whakaroa i te kōrero. Koinei te tino take i waea mai ai rātou. He rite ki te tinihanga tawhito rawa atu o te pukapuka. Ki te nui ake tōna wā e whakaaro ana ki a koe i tō te whakahaere i te tīma, he tohu mārama tēnei e pai ana tō kaiwhakahaere ki a koe.

10. E ai ki tō kare ā-roto

Ka taea e tō puku te hopu i ngā tohu e aroha puku ana tetahi ki a koe . Ko ngā pātai pēnei i te, "Kei te aro mai taku rangatira ki ahau?", e taumaha ana i roto i tō hinengaro, ehara i te mea e puta noa mai ana i hea noa mai. Ko te hua tēnei o tō māramatanga tuaono e rapu ana i ngā tohu o te aro nui kāore i te kōrerotia i te mahi. Kia maumahara, ehara ngā kare ā-roto i te mea hanga noa. Ko tō hinengaro o roto e whakakotahi ana i ō rātou reo tinana, reo, me ngā kupu, me te whakatakoto i aua mea māu.

Ina mōhio koe kei te aroha tō rangatira ki a koe, ka waiho hei raruraru pea mēnā me mahi koe i tetahi mea mōna. Ki te hē tō mārama ki te reo tinana me ngā whanonga a tō rangatira, ka whakama pea, ā, ka ngaro tō mahi, tō rangatira rānei! He mea nui kia mataara tonu, engari kia tino mohio kei te aroha tō rangatira ki a koe i mua i tō mahi i tētahi mahi.

11. Te āhua nei kei te hiahia rātou ki tō oranga whaiaro, ā, ka pātai i ngā pātai whaiaro

Ina whakaatu mai tō rangatira i te hiahia pono ki tō oranga whaiaro, e hira ake ana i te kōrero noa iho mō tō oranga mahi.

• Tērā pea ka ruku hohonu atu rātou ki ōu hiahia, ōu wawata, ōu mahere mō te mutunga wiki, tōu tūnga whanaungatanga rānei, me te whakaatu i te hiahia pono ki te mōhio ki a koe hei tangata.
• Tērā pea ka uru atu ki tēnei te pātai mō āu mahi tino pai, te kōrero mō āu whāinga i waho o te mahi, tae noa ki te pātai mō tō whānau.
• Ka maumahara rātou ki ngā mea katoa i kōrerotia e koe mōu, ā, ka kore pea e aro ki te kī he pai noa iho ō rātou mahara.

Mā te whai wā ki te pātai mō ngā mea whaiaro, kei te tohu tō rangatira kei te whakanuia koe e rātou i tua atu i ō pūkenga ngaio, ā, kei te hiahia hoki rātou ki te whakatū hononga hōhonu ake. Ā, i tua atu i tēnā, ki te maioha tō rangatira ki a koe me ō tirohanga ki ngā take whaiaro me ētahi atu mea, he tino mārama te āhua o ō rātou whakaaro mōu, kāore?

12. Ka kitea e tō rangatira ngā take hei whakauru atu ki ngā kōrerorero kāore e pā ana ki te mahi

Ehara i te mea onge te kōrerorero noa a ngā hoa mahi i ētahi wā, engari ki te tīmata tonu tō rangatira i ngā kōrero e kore e pā ki ngā kaupapa mahi, he tohu tēnei kei te hiahia koe ki te hanga hononga whaiaro. Tērā pea ka aro atu ēnei kōrero ki ngā hiahia ōrite, ki ngā mahi whakangahau, ki ngā wheako whaiaro rānei.

Tērā pea ka kōrero mai rātou i ō rātou ake oranga, ka pātai atu rānei ki a koe mō ō whakaaro mō ngā take kāore e pā ana ki te mahi. Mā te whakatairanga i tētahi taiao marino, kei te ngana ia ki te whakamarie i a koe, ki te hanga whanaungatanga, me te whakapakari i te hononga i waenganui i a kōrua. Mena he mea noa iho, ehara i te mea nui, engari ki te rapu tonu ia i ngā take hei noho tahi me te kōrero, kāti me aro atu koe ki ngā tohu e pai ana tō kaiwhakahaere ki a koe.

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13. Ka whakapau kaha rātou ki te kimi i ngā hiahia, i ngā mahi whakangahau rānei e rite ana

Ina rapu kaha tō rangatira i ngā hiahia, i ngā mahi whakangahau rānei i waenganui i a kōrua, he tohu tēnei kei te whakapau kaha koe ki te waihanga i tētahi huarahi ōrite, ki te whakatū hononga kaha ake hoki. Tērā pea ka kitea e rāua he rite ngā mahi e pai ana ki a kōrua, he rite te hiahia ki tētahi hākinakina, he rite rānei te momo waiata, kiriata rānei e pai ana ki a kōrua. I roto i ngā kōrerorero, ka whakamārama pea rāua i ēnei hiahia, ka tūtohu i ngā ihirangi e pā ana, ka tūtohu rānei kia uru tahi kōrua ki ēnei mahi.

• Tērā pea kua kī atu koe ki a rātou he pai ki a koe tētahi momo waiata, kiriata rānei, tētahi kaitoi, kaiwhakahaere rānei, ā, ka tīmata rātou ki te whakarongo ki taua kaitoi, ki te mātaki rānei i taua kiriata kia whai wāhi ai rātou ki te kōrero ki a koe.
• Tērā pea kua kōrero koe mō tō pai ki tētahi kai, ā, ka kawea mai taua kai ki te tari, ka tukuna atu ki a koe, ko te tumanako ka hono atu ō kōrua hiahia kai.
• Tērā pea ka uru atu rātou ki te whare takaro tinana, ki te whare yoga rānei e rite ana ki a koe
• Tērā pea kua kōrero koe he pai ki a koe te pāti, ā, kua karanga tonu ia i a koe ki tētahi pāti, i muri i tētahi.

14. Ka noho puku tō rangatira, ka hae rānei ina taunekeneke koe me ētahi atu

Ina whakaatu tō rangatira i ngā tohu o te tiaki, te hae rānei , inā koa i ngā wā e taunekeneke ana koe me ētahi atu hoa mahi, e arohia ana rānei koe e ētahi atu, he tohu tēnei kua whanake pea ō rātou kare ā-roto aroha ki a koe. Tērā pea ka tiaki rātou i tō wā me tō aro, e whakaatu ana i ngā tohu ngawari o te kore whakamarie, o te riri rānei ina kite rātou i ētahi atu he tūmomo mōrearea pea.

Ko tā rātou whanonga pea ko te kōrero whakahihi, te ngana ki te whakahaere i ō kōrero, te whakaatu rānei i ngā tohu o te kore whakamarie ina kōrero koe ki ētahi atu. Tērā pea kua kite koe i tēnei whanonga, ā, kua whakaaro koe, "Kei te aro mai taku rangatira ki ahau?", ā, kāore i aro ki tēnā. Kia tūpato, ko ēnei mahi e whakaatu ana kei te kite tō rangatira i a koe ehara i te hoa mahi noa iho, ā, he hiahia nui tōna ki te pupuri i tētahi hononga tata ki a koe.

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15. Ka whakaatu rātou i ngā tohu o te manukanuka ina tata koe

I te aroaro o te tangata e arohaina ana e rātou, he mea noa te whakaatu a te tangata i ngā tohu o te manukanuka pērā i te nekeneke haere. Waihoki, ka whakaatu pea tō rangatira i ēnei whanonga ina tata koe. Tērā pea he uaua ki a rātou te pupuri i te titiro kanohi tonu, te āhua pōuri, te wiri rānei, te whakaatu rānei i ngā tohu tinana o te mataku.

E tohu ana ēnei tohu he nui tō pānga kare ā-roto ki a rātou, ā, ka piki ake te hiahia aroha ki a rātou, ka pā ki tō rātou marino. Tērā pea ko tō rātou mataku he hua nō te hiahia ki te waihanga i tētahi whakaaro pai, he kore rānei e tino mōhio me pēhea te whakahaere i ō rātou kare ā-roto ki a koe i roto i tētahi taiao ngaio.

16. Ka whero te kanohi o tō rangatira, ka pōrangi rānei i tō aroaro

Ina kite koe i tō rangatira e whero ana, e pōrangi ana rānei i tō aroaro, he tohu nui tēnā o tōna aroha. He urupare ā-tinana te whero o te kanohi e puta pinepine ana ina pāngia tetahi e te kaha o te kukume, e te pikinga rānei o ngā kare ā-roto. Mēnā ka kite koe i tētahi rerekētanga kitea i roto i ngā whanonga a tō rangatira wahine, ka kōrero koe mōna, ka whero tonu ōna paparinga, he tohu mārama tēnā o te momo pānga o tōu ki a ia.

I mua, tera pea he tohu ngaro kei te huna ia i a koe, engari e huna ana, engari he mārama rawa tēnei, kāore? Ki te whero tō rangatira, ki te pōuri rānei i a koe, he tohu tēnei he pānga nui tō aroaro ki a rātou, e whakaū ana i tō rātou hiahia aroha. He tohu tēnei kei te rongo pea rātou i te ngoikore, i te harikoa rānei i a koe, e whakaatu ana i tō rātou hononga kare ā-roto me te kukume.

17. Ka tīmata, ka whakautu pai rānei rātou ki ngā kōrero whakakatakata

Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te takaro tō rangatira ki a koe, kei te takaro noa rānei? Ko ngā kōrero takaro e neke atu ana i ngā rohe o ngā whanaungatanga ngaio noa he tohu mārama o te hiahia aroha mai i tō rangatira. Tērā pea ka tīmata rātou i te tawai takaro, ka whakamahi i ngā kupu takirua, ka uru atu rānei ki ngā kōrero whakakatakata ki a koe. He maha ngā wā ka uru atu ēnei taunekeneke ki te reo ngāwari, ā, i ētahi wā he whakaaro nui, e tohu ana i te hiahia ki te whakatū i te whanaungatanga piripono . Mā te whakauru atu ki ēnei kōrero, kei te whakamātautau tō rangatira i ngā wai me te whakaatu i tōna hiahia ki te kawe i te whanaungatanga ki tua atu i te ao ngaio.

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Me aha koe mēnā ka aroha tō rangatira ki a koe

Ki te mea he pono kei te aroha tō rangatira ki a koe, kāore e taea e koe te huna noa i tō rātou aroha, te tatari rānei kia memeha haere ō rātou kare ā-roto. Engari, ki te waihotia kia kore e arohia, ka raru pea ngā mea. Nō reira, anei ētahi mea ka taea e koe te mahi mēnā he aroha tō rangatira ki a koe.

• Kia mau ki ngā whanonga ngaio me ngā roheHe mea nui kia whakatairangahia te ngaiotanga me te whakatakoto i ngā rohe mārama ina mahi tahi me te rangatira he aroha aroha ki a koe. Āta karohia ngā whanonga ka taea te kī he whakahokinga mai, he whakatenatena rānei mēnā kāore koe e aro ki aua whanonga. Me haere tonu koe i roto i te whakaute me te ngaio, me te arotahi ki tāu mahi me te atawhai i tō rangatira pērā i tāu mahi ki tētahi atu hoa mahi, ki tētahi atu kaiwhakahaere rānei. Tāutuhia rohe hauora ā, kia mau tonu i a rātou ahakoa te utu.
• Whakawhiti marama i o roheKi te kore koe e pai ki ā rātou whanonga ki a koe, me kōrero tika pea koe ki tō rangatira hei whakapuaki i ō kare ā-roto me ō rohe. Whakapuakihia ahakoa e maioha ana koe ki ō rātou kare ā-roto, kāore kōrua e whai i te aroha kotahi. Whakanuia te hiranga o te pupuri i tētahi hononga mahi ngaio, me te tono atu kia whakaute rātou i ō rohe. Kia pakari engari kia atawhai i roto i ō whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, me te ngana ki te kimi i te taurite i waenga i te pono me te whakaaro nui.
• Rapua he tautoko mai i te HR, i tētahi kaiwhakahaere pono rāneiMena ka tīmata te āhuatanga ki te pā ki tō taiao mahi, he mea nui kia rapu tautoko mai i ngā Rauemi Tangata, i tētahi kaiwhakahaere pono rānei. Whakamāramahia te āhuatanga, me te whakarato i ngā taunakitanga, i ngā tuhinga rānei e tika ana. Ka taea e rātou te tuku tohutohu, te takawaenga i te āhuatanga, me te mahi i ngā mahi tika hei whakarite i tētahi taiao mahi whakaute, kore whakatoi hoki. He mea nui kia tuhia ngā aituā, ngā taunekeneke rānei e whakararuraru ana i a koe, kia tautokona ai tō take mēnā e tika ana.
• Haere tonu me te tūpato me te māramaMena kei a koe anō hoki ngā kare ā-roto mō tō rangatira, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki te anga whakamua, me āta whakahaere te āhuatanga, me te tino ngaio me te mārama. Tīmata mā te whakaaro ki ngā pānga o tō whanaungatanga i roto i te wāhi mahi me te pānga pea ki ō hoa mahi me ngā mahi a te tīma. Mena e whakaaetia ana i roto i ngā kaupapa here a te kamupene, me kōrero tuwhera, pono hoki ki tō rangatira ki te matapaki i te āhuatanga, te whakatū rohe, me te whakatau me pēhea te pupuri i tētahi whanaungatanga mahi ngaio me te whai i tō aroha ki a koe anō.

Ki te kitea koe i roto i tētahi āhuatanga e kore e taea te whakakorekore i te hiahia aroha o tō rangatira, ā, kua neke ō ruarua mai i te, "Me pēhea taku mōhio mēnā e pai ana taku rangatira ki ahau?", ki te tino mōhio, "Kei te aro mai taku rangatira ki ahau", kua tae ki te wā ki te pātai ki a koe anō, "Me aha ahau mō tēnei mea?" He mea tika kia whakatau koe i tō whakaaro, ā, kia mahi i ngā mahi e tika ana. Mā te kore aro ki tēnei mea ka arahi pea ki tētahi huringa mutunga kore o ngā taunekeneke whakamā i a koe e mahi ana, ka huaki he ao o ngā mea ka taea.

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