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E toru tau te harikoa o te marena a Nikhil rāua ko Arundhati. Kāore a Arundhati i tino harikoa ki te tono marena, engari i tukua e ia te whakawhirinaki ki te kōwhiringa a ōna mātua. He tino pai ngā mea katoa, i tua atu i tana whakaaro.
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Kāore rawa ia i kī 'Kāo' ki a ia. I tautoko tonu ia i ngā mea katoa i hiahia a Arundhati ki te mahi. I mahi rāua i te rā roa, ā, i hoki tahi anō i ngā ahiahi.
He kai tunu tā rātou. Ka hanga e Nikhil ā rātou tī o te ata, ka whakaarahia ia me te ataata. Koinei te wāhanga pai rawa atu o tōna rā… i ia rā, i ia rā.
Kātahi ka tūtaki ia ki a ia
He maha ngā wā ka tomuri a Arundhati i te mahi, ka whakarite kai tahi rāua ko ōna hoa mahi tari, ka whakarite kiriata rānei mō te pō, ā, kāore a Nikhil i pātai i tētahi pātai. I mōhio pai ia ki a ia, ā, i whakawhirinaki ki a ia. I whakaute a Arundhati i a ia mō tēnā. I aua rā, ka tata a Arundhati ki tētahi tāne i roto i tana tari. Ko Dhiraj tōna rangatira. He taitamariki ake ia i a ia , he tangata pai. He kōrero whai tikanga tā rāua i ia wā ka wātea rāua ki a rāua anō. I ngā tēpu tari, i ngā wharekai, i te kawhe o te ahiahi, ā, i ētahi wā, tae noa ki ngā tina… kāore rāua i tuku i tētahi whai wāhitanga kia ngaro.
He hoa wahine tāna, ā, he wahine kua moe tāne a Arundhati ; heoi, kāore i taea e rāua te whakahaere i ngā āhuatanga katoa i waenganui i a rāua.
I te taenga mai o Arundhati ki te kāinga, ka pōuri ia. Kāore i taea e ia te titiro kanohi ki tana tāne. Ā, ko te mea i mate ai ia, kāore ia i ruarua i a ia… kāore ia i whakapae i tetahi mea. I ētahi wā, ka whakawhitiwhiti karere a Arundhati me tana rangatira i te ahiahi, e takoto ana i te taha o Nikhil, engari kāore ia i ara ake te tukemata.
He rārangi ngaro kāore i whitihia e rātou
I te haerenga atu o Nikhil ki waho o te tāone ki te mahi, ka haere a Arundhati ki a Dhiraj. I noho tahi rāua i te pō katoa… e kōrero ana, e mātaki ana i ngā kiriata, e noho ana tetahi i roto i ngā ringa o tetahi, e kimi ana i te whakamarie i roto i te kamupene o tetahi. I whakawhitiwhiti kihi rāua i konei, i reira, ā, he maha ngā wā i awhi ai rāua, engari kāore he mea i tua atu i tēnā. He maha ngā pō i noho ai a Arundhati ki tōna whare noho, engari kāore rāua i moe tahi. Kāore tetahi o rāua i hiahia ki tēnā. I harikoa a Dhiraj ki ngā mea katoa i harikoa ai ia, ā, kāore ia i mahi i tetahi mea i whakamā ai i a ia.
I aroha rāua ki tā rāua hoa rangatira, engari kāore i taea e rāua te ātete tetahi i tetahi i te wā kotahi.
Nā te āhua o te hononga i waenganui i a rāua, nā te hononga kare ā-roto rānei i pā ki a Arundhati rāua ko ia, nā te āhua rānei o tana menemene me tana kata i a ia e tata ana. Nāna ia i whakapono ki ngā pukapuka, ki ngā tuhinga ipurangi me ngā pūrākau. I whakapuaki rāua i ō rāua wawata tino porangi, engari he rite tonu te pūnaha uara. He rite ki tētahi hononga kore e taea te whakamārama i whakapuakina e Arundhati ki a ia. Kāore anō a Arundhati kia pēnei te mōhio ki tētahi i roto i tōna ao, tae atu ki tana tāne, ā, he tino whakamarie, kāore i taea e ia te whakapuaki i aua kare ā-roto ki ngā kupu.
He rite ki tētahi hononga kotahi noa iho i te ao, he mea kāore i te maha o te tangata o te ao e wheako. Ko ia te kai mā tōna wairua, ā, ko ia anake te otinga mō ōna raruraru katoa.
Ka pokanoa te ao tūturu
I mōhio a Arundhati kāore i te tika te mea kei roto i tōna ngākau. I tētahi atu taha, kei te whakamahere rāua ko Nikhil ki te whakatū i tō rāua whānau. Kāore i te tika te mahi i tēnei ki a ia. Kāore e taea e ia te noho hei whaea me te moe tahi me tētahi atu tāne! He nui rawa tēnei mea e kore e taea te whakahaere.
Heoi anō, i whakamatea ia e te hara o ia rā, kāore tōna hinengaro i rite ki te manawanui.
Ā, koia te take i mutu ai a Arundhati. I ngana ia ki te wehe atu i a Dhiraj engari kāore i taea te noho tawhiti atu i tētahi i mahi tahi rāua i te rā roa.
I rihaina a Arundhati. I ohorere a Dhiraj, engari i mōhio ia ki ngā āhuatanga o tana mahi. Kāore e taea e Arundhati te mahi i tēnei ki tana tāne. Ā, he mea pai kia noho wehe rāua, ā, ka taea anake tēnā mēnā ka rihaina e ia tana mahi.
Kāore anō ia kia pēnei i mua, engari kāore i taea e rāua te haere tonu. Ināianei ko ngā maharatanga anake āna hei pupuri mō te wa katoa.
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He mea whakamīharo, kua tautokohia a Nikhil e ngā kaikōrero katoa. Kua whakaaro katoa rātou he tika ake a Nikhil i a Arundhati tinihanga. Nā, ko te pātai tēnei: me pēhea te mōhio o te tangata ka tinihanga tana hoa rangatira, ka motuhia te here? Kāore e taea te waiho mā te ao tūroa e whiu. Ko te wawahi i te whakawhirinaki o te tāne kāore i te mōhio ko te take nui tēnei. Engari, tera pea kei te pōuri te tāne. I muri i tana moepuku pēnei, e hiahia ana a Arundhati ki te whānau me tana tāne a Nikhil – te tāne tonu i tinihangatia e ia. He aha ia i hiahia ai ki te mahi pēnā ki a Nikhil? He aha ngā momo uara ka hoatu e ia ki āna tamariki? He pai te tinihanga mēnā kāore koe e mau? Nā te mea kua whakatau te Kōti Matua ehara te puremu i te hara taihara, ka piki haere ēnei mahi, nō reira e tumanakohia ana ka hinga rawatia te marena hei whare. He pātai roa tēnei: he take piki haere rānei te herekoretanga mātauranga me te pūtea mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine mō ngā moepuku i waho o te marena?
Me i kore rāua i whakamahere i te whānau, kua mau tonu tana moe tāne me te kore whakama. Ko te hunga pēnei i a ia e tika ana kia whiwhi tāne ki ngā wāhine, engari kāore i rite ki a Nikhil, he tāne aroha. Ko reira anake ia ka mōhio ki te uara. Ka ora te hunga tinihanga katoa i te kīwaha "Ghar Ki Chor Ko, ahakoa te Atua, kāore e taea te hopu". He rite te hunga tinihanga ki ngā pirinoa, ki ngā kutukutu rānei i roto i te tūtae, ka piri tonu rātou ki te marena, engari ka tinihanga me te kore whakama. Engari he ao tēnei, ko tāu e maka atu ka hoki mai ki a koe. Kua maka e ia he paru, he mea wā noa iho, ka mau tonu ia. Ko te wā me te pēhea he mea whakatau. Ka taea e te hunga pēnei i a ia te mōhio ki te uara o tana tāne ina mamae rātou mō āna mahi.
Ki taku whakaaro, ahakoa te tinihanga kare ā-roto me te tinihanga he hara e whiua ana e te matatika. Me i mōhio a Nikhil ki tēnei, kua pā mai he hua kino. Engari i tēnei wā, he tino ngoikore a Nikhil ahakoa te aha. Ki te pono, ko tana whakatau te marena ki a Nikhil, ā, he hara te whakatau ki a Dhiraj i muri i te marena. I hoatu e Nikhil te 100% ki tēnei whanaungatanga e ai ki te kōrero i runga ake nei, engari kāore i taea e Arundhati te whakahaere i ana hiahia moemoeā. Me tino aro tātou katoa tetahi ki tetahi ina tangohia e tātou te peke nui o te whanaungatanga e mōhiotia nei ko te marena. He maha ngā whānau me ngā whanaungatanga maha kua pakaru nā ēnei koretake. Ko ētahi pea he pānga roa ki ā rātou tamariki. Ka tono ahau ki ngā tāngata pēnei i a Dhiraj rāua ko Arundhati kia kaua e taka ki ēnei whanaungatanga nā te mea kei te whakangaro koe i te taurite i roto i te maha o ngā oranga.
He huarahi pai ki te kimi mēnā kei te tinihanga tō hoa rangatira, tō hoa rangatira rānei i a koe, mā te tutei i ā rātou waea pūkoro. Ko te rongo pai, ka taea e koe te mahi i tēnā me te kore e mōhiotia e rātou mā te utu i tētahi tohunga CEH. I taea e au te taumanutia te waea a taku hoa o mua i tinihangatia e au me te āwhina a tētahi tohunga CEH i utua e au i te ipurangi. Whakapā mai – INCFIDELIBUS i GMAIL dot COM, mēnā kei te hiahia koe ki tēnei momo ratonga, he tino ngaio, he pono hoki ia.
E koa ana ahau kua mārama ia, ā, kua whakamutua e ia. He uaua pea, engari mā te wā ia e āwhina ki te wikitoria.
E whakapono ana ahau ka ringihia e ia te aroha katoa ki tana tāne i ngā rā me ngā tau e haere ake nei,
He kōrero tino whakararuraru. I tino pouri ahau mō Nikhil, te wairua harakore. I puta katoa ēnei mea i tua atu i tana whakawhirinaki, ā, ka puta te wahine i tana ake wā. Ko Nikhil te tangata tino koretake nā tōna pono. E tika ana kia mōhio ia ki te pono. I ētahi wā, ahakoa he pai te noho marena, kāore e mārama ki ngā hiahia o ngā wāhine.
Kāre rawa i te tino mārama he aha te āhua o te tangata "tino tapu, tino tapu atu i a koe". Kei te kī pono mai ēnei tokorua kāore anō rāua kia titiro, kia aro atu rānei ki tētahi atu tangata i tua atu i ā rāua tāne, arā, mēnā kua moe tāne rāua. He tangata tāua, he mīhini rānei, ā, kotahi noa te mea kua whakaritea kia rongohia e koe? Kāore he tohu mō te āhua o te tangata, ā, ko ngā kare ā-roto he mea kāore e taea te whakahaere. He waimarie koe mēnā ka tūtaki koe ki te tangata hei hoa ora, hei hoa wairua hoki mōu. I tūtaki ēnei tāngata tokorua i roto i te pūrākau, ā, he rite ki te aituā mō te wā i noho tahi ai rāua. Engari i te mutunga ka whakatau rāua kia wehe rāua, kia mau tonu te rohe. Kaua e whakahē i a rāua mō te noho hei tangata. Ahakoa whakaae koe, kāore rānei, kua tinihanga katoa tātou i tētahi ara, i tētahi ara rānei, engari kāore i a tātou te maia ki te whakaae, ki te whakaae rānei. Kāore he tangata tino tika, kāore hoki te tangata, te hapori rānei e noho nei tātou.
He tino pono. I pā mai ki ahau i tēnei wā tonu. I whakaaro tonu ahau kāore e taea e au te aro atu ki tētahi engari ka wiriwiri tōku tinana ina pā mai ia. Kāore anō kia pēnei te āhua i mua.
He tinihanga noa iho tēnei ki ō rātou hoa. Kei te tinihanga tētahi ki tāna tāne, ā, kei te tinihanga tētahi ki tētahi hoa wahine ka taea te noho hei wahine māna ā muri ake nei. Kāore au i te mārama, he aha i whakanui ai ēnei paetukutuku i ēnei momo kōrero?
Aroha nui ki a Nikhil… He wahine anō hoki ahau… Me pēhea te whakaaro o tētahi atu wahine i a ia e whai tāne aroha ana, atawhai ana hoki??? ahakoa he mutunga harikoa tēnei kōrero… Ki taku whakaaro pono e tika ana kia whiwhi a Nikhil i tētahi wahine e whakanui ana i tōna pai, e aroha nui ana hoki ki a ia… Engari me aha māua… Ko taku tumanako ka aro nui tēnei wahine ki tōna oranga marena, kaua ki tana hoa tāne a Deeraj. Tērā pea ka moe tahi rāua ko Nikhil i te taha tinana… engari ki te mea kei hea tōna hinengaro… he tino nanakia…
I tēnei ao, kāore he uara o tetahi mea e hoatu noa ana. I whakamatau ia kāore he uara o te whakawhirinaki a te tāne. I haere tonu te tinihanga kare ā-roto i runga i tana hiahia. Ko te hunga kāore e taea te whakapau kaha ki te pono, te pono me te ngākau pono, kaua e haere ki te marena noa. He pai ake te haere ki te marena tuwhera. Ka taea e ia hoa te moe me tetahi atu i waho, kāore he raruraru, ki te kore ka noho takakau, ka koa. Anei ētahi tinihanga e rua e tūtaki ana i runga i te tuara o ō rāua hoa, ā, ka koa ki te utu o tō rāua whakawhirinaki. Kāore rawa a Nikhil e tika ki tēnei momo wahine. He matomato ake te tarutaru i tērā taha. Ina tae koe ki tērā taha, he matomato ake tētahi atu wāhi. He tinihanga, he mataku hoki ia. I roto i te ao ka puta ngā āhuatanga whakamatautau me ngā āhuatanga wero. He whakamātautau mō te ngākau pono me te whakapau kaha ki te hoa rangatira. He take tā te tahae ki te tahae. He take tā te kaikōhuru ki te kohuru. Nō reira, he take tā te kaikōhuru ki te tinihanga.