Te Kimi i tētahi Tangata Motuhake i muri i te Marena i roto i te Hoahoa

Porohia te aroha

He mea ohorere te ao, ā, ki tonu i ngā mea e kore e tumanakohia! He rite ki te ekenga waka tere mō ngā whanaungatanga katoa. Engari ko ngā wā kāore i rangona i roto i te whanaungatanga ka noho tonu ki a tātou tae noa ki te matenga. I huri tōku ao i muri i taku kitenga i tētahi tangata motuhake i muri i te marena.

Mō ngā tau e rima, kāore au i tūtaki ki tētahi mea rerekē i roto i taku whanaungatanga me taku tāne. He tino pai, he rangimārie hoki ngā mea katoa, ā, i whakapono ahau koinei taku mutunga. I rite ki te rangi te marena, ā, i whakaaro ahau ko taku tāne te aroha tino tika i rapua e au. Kāore au i whakaaro ka puta ake he kare ā-roto ki ahau mō tētahi atu tāne i a au e marena ana. (E ai ki te kōrero ki a Shivi Goyal)

I mahara ahau he aroha pumau tonu tēnei. Engari he wairangi te āhua o te ao i ētahi wā. I roto ahau i te whakaaro o te aroha parakore tae noa ki taku tūtakitanga ki a Prithvi (kua hurihia te ingoa). I pā mai te manawa o te aroha ki ahau me ia, koinei te ahua tino parakore o te aroha, ā, i mahara ahau ka pumau tonu. E tino whakapono ana ahau he tokomaha o koutou ka taea te hono atu ki tā koutou ake haerenga!

He hoa māua kua marenatia e takaro ana

Ripanga o Ihirangi

He tangata ātaahua, he tangata mohio hoki ia (Prithvi) kua moe wahine. Ko ia taku hoa pai rawa atu ake ake. I mahi tahi māua i te kamupene kotahi, ā, i kōrero tahi māua mō ngā mea takitahi. Ko māua ngā hoa tino porangi rawa atu, ā, i te nuinga o te wā, i eke tō māua porangi ki ngā taumata teitei me te mōrearea me te ngahau.

I taua wā, kāore e kore ka aroha ki tētahi hoa mahi. I harikoa māua i roto i te marena, ā, ahakoa i uru māua ki te takaro takaro kino, he hoa kua marenatia e takaro takaro ana.

He tangata ngaro ia, he maha ngā take hei whakakatakata i ahau. Ko ngā tau o te whanaungatanga pono i waenganui i a māua ko Prithvi i huri hei kōrero aroha nui. Ki taku whakaaro kua whanake haere ō māua kare ā-roto tetahi ki tetahi. Engari me aha koe ina kua mārena koe, ā, kua kukume koe ki tētahi atu?

E tino whakapau kaha ana koe ki te kī atu ki a koe anō he kino rawa te hua o te moepuku i waenganui i te tokorua kua mārenatia. Nō reira, ahakoa ngā ngaru o te puku, i warewarehia e māua ō māua ake kare ā-roto, ā, i ngana ki te pupuri i te whanaungatanga. Kāore māua i whakaaro ka kitea e māua tētahi tangata motuhake i muri i te mārenatanga.

Te pānui e pā ana: Te hinga ki te aroha ki tētahi tāne kua mārenatia? Anei te āhua o tō teka ki a koe anō!

I kihi ia i ahau ki tōku rae

E maumahara ana ahau ki te pō o te marama katoa me ngā whetū e kanapa ana! I noho māua i runga i te taupee mō te kōrero roa, me te titiro atu ki te marama e whero ana. Kātahi ka puta he mea ohorere. He rerekē te āhua o ōna kanohi, ā, he pā ngawari ki ōna ringa. Kāore anō ahau kia pā atu ki tēnei i mua. I whakatata mai ia i ahau, i pupuri i ōku ringa, ā, i kihi i tōku rae.

I whakaaro ahau he mea pumau tēnei, he aroha tēnei? He hiahia noa iho rānei kia noho tahi? Tērā pea i aroha māua tetahi ki tetahi i a māua e hoa ana! I pātai tonu ahau ki a au anō, he pai rānei te aroha ki tētahi kua moe tāne? I mea mai tōku ngākau me haere noa i te ia, engari i mea mai tōku hinengaro he rerekē. I manaaki te pō i a māua ki tētahi kare ā-roto kāore anō kia kitea e māua i mua. Nā te wā i rongo ai ahau i te aroha me te ngākau nui kua whakairohia ki roto i ō māua wairua tetahi ki tetahi.

Te pānui e pā ana: Me pēhea taku aroha ki tētahi atu tangata ina koa kua harikoa taku marena?

Koinei te wā i whakaritea kia puta, i waiho mai ai māua me ngā mea maha kāore anō kia kōrerotia i roto i tō māua whanaungatanga. I rongo māua i te aroha korekore, ā, i kite ia he mea uaua ki te ārai i ahau.

I pahemo te pō, ā, he uaua ki a ia te tū atu ki a ia, me te rerekē hoki. Kāore māua i he, engari ko te aroha ngaro i whakaoho i roto i a māua i whakauaua ai māua te tū atu tetahi ki tetahi. I menemene ahau i roto, i whero te mata, ā, i rongo ahau i te mahana o te aroha, kāore i rite i mua.

Kua rerekē tā māua whanaungatanga

Mō ētahi rā, i pukumahi māua ki te mahi, me te whai wā mō māua anō. Engari kua rerekē ngā āhuatanga ināianei, ehara māua i te hoa noa iho, he maha ngā mea hei whakapuaki, hei kōrero mō te whanaungatanga i tūtaki māua me te aroha i puāwai i roto i ō māua ngākau, me te whakaaro me pēhea te ingoa.

Engari kāore i whai wāhi māua ki te whakaae, ki te karo rānei i te mea i mōhio māua. Ae, he nui ngā kōrero a ōna kanohi, he nui ngā kōrero a aku mahi, he nui ngā kōrero a āna karere kuputuhi e whakaatu ana kei te aroha ia. I mōhio ahau kua kitea e au taku hoa rangatira engari kua moe tāne ahau.

I hiahia ia ki te karanga nui ki te ao kei te aroha ia, engari nā ō mātou oranga o nāianei mātou i aukati. I kaha mātou ki te aukati i a mātou anō, kia kaua hoki e whakakorikori i te oranga o nāianei. Engari i te rangi tonu te aroha, ā, ko te kare ā-roto o te kimi i tētahi tangata motuhake i tēnei wā o te ao, he mea hou.

He hē te whai kare ā-roto mō tētahi atu tāne i a koe e marena ana

Kāore i roa ka mōhio māua ka whakararu tō māua whanaungatanga i ō māua oranga marena. He whakatau tino uaua engari i whakatau māua kia wehe. Nā te mea i mahi māua i te tari kotahi, he tino uaua ki ahau te wareware. wareware ki tētahi e kite ana ahau i ia rā. Na ka mutu taku mahi.

Kua pahure ngā marama, kāore māua e kōrero, e tūtaki rānei ināianei. Kei te noho pūmau tonu ahau ki ngā take whānau, ā, kei te pukumahi ia ki te mahi. E ngaro ana ia i ahau, e ngaro ana hoki ahau i a ia, engari nā te whakama o te hapori me te whakaute i ngā whānau o tētahi ki tētahi, me tō māua aroha, ka whakahaere māua i a māua anō.

I mua, i whakakīia e tō māua whanaungatanga te takoto kau o tō māua ao o nāianei. Ināianei kāore māua e whakapā atu, engari ko tāku e tumanako nei ka tae mai tētahi rā ka tangohia ngā rohe katoa, ka taea e māua te noho tahi anō pērā i mua, ā, ka taea e māua te tapa ingoa mō tō māua whanaungatanga.

Ka noho ko au anake, ka whakaaro ki a ia, he maharatanga anake kei te toe ki ahau, ā, ki taku whakaaro, pērā anō a Prithvi. Kāore māua e kite ana tetahi i tetahi, engari kei te ora tonu ahau i roto i te tumanako ka tūtaki anō māua ki a ia, ka whakapuaki i tō māua aroha tetahi ki tetahi, he mea e ora tonu ana. He mea noa te hiahia i waenga i ngā hoa kua mārenatia, engari he onge te kimi i tētahi tangata motuhake i muri i te mārenatanga. He waimarie ahau i kitea e au a Prithvi.

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