Mō te Marenatanga me te Noho Tahi Harikoa me tō Hoa

"Kāore he whanaungatanga tino tika. Tokorua noa iho ngā tāngata tino hē e kore e pai ki te whakarere tetahi i tetahi." Kāore he mea e whakarapopoto ana i te mauri o te hononga roa i waenganui i ngā tāngata e rua e tūtaki ana i roto i te aroha atu i tēnei whakataukī. Kia ako koe ki te tiro i tō whanaungatanga me tētahi hoa aroha mai i tēnei tirohanga, ka māmā ake te whakatere i ngā pikinga me ngā hekenga o te ao, te whakaae ki ngā āhuatanga me ngā hapa o tetahi ki tetahi, me te kimi i tō harikoa ake ake. He tauira tika tēnei pūrākau mōna.

Te Mea Ngaro ki te Hononga Harikoa

Kua tae a Fali Kekobad ki reira, kua mahi i tēnā, ā, he nui ngā mea i akohia e ia i roto i te tukanga. Hei tauira, i ako ia i tana marena tuatahi me pēhea te pupuri i te whanaungatanga. "He tino ngāwari te hē," tana kī. "He tino āwhina te mea kua marenatia ahau i mua," te kata a Fali, e kata ana, mō tana mahi tahi me Geetha, tana wahine kaitoi nō Karnataka. "He wā pai tā māua. Kei te koa tonu māua ki ngā mea katoa."

Te pārekareka ki ngā mea iti

E whai ana a Fali i ngā kōrero, ā, e koa ana ki ngā mea iti o tōna ao me Geetha me tā rāua tamāhine a Mili. Kei te mau tonu tōna wairua atawhai ki tana wahine o mua, ahakoa he onge tā rāua tūtaki. He maha ngā wā ka uru atu tana tama a Varun ki te whānau hou o tōna pāpā mō te tina, mō ngā hararei rānei i ētahi wā.

Te pumau me te marino o te pūtea

E whakapono ana a Fali kia marino i ngā mea katoa. E whakapono pū ana hoki ia, "mā te noho pai i te taha pūtea ka āwhina i te marena. Me noho pūmau te tāne, me te whakatau i ngā taha pūtea. Tērā pea ka puta he raruraru mēnā kāore tēnei."

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Te oranga takakau me ōna akoranga

I te tekau tau pea te roa o te noho takakau a Fali i mua i tana marena ki a Geetha, he maha ngā wāhine i tūtaki ia ki taua wā. "Koinei te wā tino pai o tōku ao," tana whakaae me te ngākau māhaki. Heoi, nā tēnei wā i ara ake ia ki ngā painga o te marena . "He pai te whānau me ngā tamariki. Ka whiua koe; ka whakatakoto koe i ētahi here ki a koe anō. Kāore e taea e koe te kī, "Āe, ka hoki mai ahau ki te kāinga i te 3 i te ata." Kia whakaae koe ki tēnā, ka tīmata koe ki te pārekareka ki tēnā. Ko te mea nui ake, whakaaetia te āhua o tō hoa, kātahi ka tīmata koe ki te pārekareka ki tēnā."

Tāne whānau me te whakapakari tinana

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Te aroha ki te haereere me te puoro

Neke atu i te 100 kiromita te tawhiti e haerea ana e Fali i ia rā, ā, e aroha ana ia ki ngā wāhanga katoa o taua waiata. "He pai ki ahau taku waiata, i mua he pai ki ahau te jazz, ināianei ka whakarongo ahau ki ngā mea katoa kei runga i te reo irirangi FM," tana kī. He nui ake te hihiri o Geetha ki ana waiata, ā, ka kohi waiata mā rāua tokorua. "Ka meinga ahau kia whakarongo ki reira," te whakaahua a Fali me te ngākau māhaki. "Kei te kohikohi tonu ia i ngā mōhiohio i runga i tana waea me te kōrero mai ki ahau mō ngā mea e tupu ana puta noa i te ao. He whatunga tana puta noa i te ao."

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Te huarahi ki te marena

He mārama, nō te momo tangata ia e whakapono ana ki te whakatata mārie me te mohio ki te marena. "Me whakahaere e au te whānau kia pai. Nō roto mai. Kāore e akiakihia," tana kī mārire. Ko te ngāwari tētahi atu āhuatanga kua hangaia e rāua ki roto i tō rāua whanaungatanga. "E kī atu ana ahau ki a Geetha, haere ki hea koe e hiahia ana ki te haere. Mā māua ko Mili e whakatau."

Tau me te whakapono

Kāore he hiranga o ngā tatauranga pāpori mō tēnei tokorua rerekē. Mō te rerekētanga tau i waenganui i a rāua , ka kata ia, ka mea, "He iti ake tōku hinengaro i a ia. Ki te tika tāu mahi, kāore koe e koroheke. Hei tauira, kei waho o te tāone mātou e noho ana, ā, he nui tō mātou pāmu. Ka oma au i reira i ia rā i muri i te mahi."

Mō te whakapono me te kī a Geetha kua nui ake tōna whakapono i muri i tana marena i a ia, ka kata ia, "I pā mai ngā raruraru ki ahau me te tari taake." I muri i tērā, ka tīmata ia ki te 'mahi i tetahi mea iti'. "Ki taku whakaaro he āwhina. Ka haere ahau ki te whare tiaki kararehe, ka hoki mai, ka tīmata te whakatau i ngā mea." Heoi, e whakapono ana tēnei tangata aroha ki te taiao ki tētahi mana teitei ake, nā te mea "kāore i tupu noa mai ngā tipu, ngā kararehe, tēnei ao katoa."

I whakapuaki ia i tana kupu whakaari mō te noho tahi harikoa me te hoa rangatira – "He pai kei roto i a tātou katoa. Ngāna kia kitea ngā mea pai o te tangata. Kāore he aha ngā mea kino. Engari, kia pono. Ki te kore he whakawhirinaki, kāore he mea e puta. Ko reira anake ka tipu ai te aroha."

Thoughts Final

He haerenga whakahoahoa, he tipu, he māramatanga hoki te marena. Ehara te noho tahi harikoa me tō hoa rangatira i te korenga o te pakanga engari ko te noho tahi o te whakawhirinaki, te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, me te whakaute. Mā te whakataurite i te takitahi me te noho tahi, te poipoi i te whanaungatanga ā-hinengaro me te ā-tinana, me te whakarite i ngā whāinga tahi, ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te hanga i tētahi hononga kaha, whai hua. Kia mahara, he tukanga whanake te marena angitu—he mea hanga i ia rā, i ia rā me te aroha, te manawanui, me te whakapau kaha. Ka taea e ā mātou kaitohutohu mātau te āwhina i a koe me tō hoa rangatira ki te whakapakari i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, te whakatau i ngā pakanga, me te hanga i tētahi whanaungatanga harikoa, whai hua.

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