Ki te mea kua aro nui koe, kua huri ngā kupu whanaungatanga i ngā wā tata nei mai i te mea he rite ki te tātai matū ki te mea kāore e tika kia waiho hei kupu. Ka pōhēhē koe i ētahi o ngā kupu, ā, kāore e kitea te "bae" i ēnei rā! Kua ngaro kē ngā rā i whakamahia ai ngā kupu whanaungatanga tino hou, uaua hoki ko te "rohe hoa" me te "hoa me ngā painga". Nā te mea kei te whakahaerehia te ao whakaipoipo e te Gen-Z, me tumanako ka rerekē anō ngā kupu.
"Nā wai rā i tito ēnei kupu mō te whanaungatanga? Nōnahea i pēnei ai te pōhēhē! He aha rawa ēnei kupu rerekē mō ngā whanaungatanga?" E mōhio ana mātou kei te pehia koe e ēnei āwangawanga, inā koa kei waenganui koe i te 20 tau. Engari kaua e manukanuka. Kāore koe e manukanuka ki te tere haere o te kēmu whakaipoipo, ā, kei te waiho koe ki muri. Hopukia ngā kupu e whakamārama ana i te whakaipoipo hou me tā mātou rārangi i raro nei.
Ngā Kupu Whakawhanaungatanga e Whakarāpopoto ana i ngā Whakawhanaungatanga o ēnei Rā
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Ki te kite koe i te kupu "paraoa paraoa" i runga i te kōtaha o tētahi, ā, ka whakaaro tonu koe ki ngā tohutao me ngā paraoa paraoa, me pānui e koe tēnei tuhinga mai i te tīmatanga ki te mutunga. Ka kite koe i a koe anō e kī ana "āe, koinā te tikanga o tēnā!" me te "tāria...he aha?" puta noa i tēnei rārangi.
Engari kāore he take mō tetahi mea māharahara dating kia ngokingoki haere mai ki a koe nā te mea kāore anō koe kia rongo i ēnei kupu katoa mō ngā whanaungatanga. Kaua e tukua ō kupu whakaipoipo kāore i te mōhiotia kia arai i ō kupu "tāhae" (ka mōhio koe ki te tikanga o tēnei i te mutunga o tēnei tuhinga). Nō reira, me tīmata tātou!
1. Te huna/te pupuri i ngā taonga i roto i ngā pōke
Ko te pōke ko te wā e piripono ana koe ki tētahi tangata mō tētahi wā roa engari kāore anō koe kia whakamōhiotia ki ōna mātua, ki ōna hoa rānei. Kāore rānei koe kia whakamōhio i a rātou ki ō hoa. Kei te huna tonu rātou i a koe engari kāore he whakaaro tūturu ki te kawe i ngā mea ki mua ki a koe. Ae, i ētahi wā ehara ēnei kupu mō te whanaungatanga aroha i te 'aroha'.
Hei tirotiro mēnā kei te tahaetia koe, tonoa tō hoa rangatira kia tukuatu tahi me koe tētahi pūrākau Instagram. Mēnā ka mataku rātou, ka tahuri ke tō aro, kua mōhio koe kei te raru tetahi mea. Heoi, i roto i te maha o ngā whare o Āhia ki te Tonga, ka mahi tonu mātou i tēnei. E kiia ana ko te noho ora kia kore ai ō mātua e patu i a koe!
2. Te whakapoauau i te whanaungatanga – tētahi o ngā kupu whakaipoipo ipurangi e tino kitea ana
Ko te tikanga o te "paraoa paraoa" he rite ki te tangi. Te tuku i ētahi kongakonga me te oati anō kia nui ake, engari kāore i te whakatutukihia. He rautaki tēnei e whakamahia ana e te tangata hei pupuri i te aro o tētahi, kia mau tonu ai tō rātou hiahia. Tērā pea ka pahemo ētahi rā kāore he karere kuputuhi, ā, i tētahi rā ka huri katoa rātou ki te takaro me te hiahia anō ki a koe. E ai ki tētahi kaiwaiata rap, kaua e tangohia ngā kongakonga, haere ki te tiki i taua taro. Ki te kore te taro e paitini, me maka atu e koe.
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3. Piko
Whakaarohia tētahi e whakatata atu ana ki a koe i tētahi karapu, ā, ka mahi koe me te mea kei te karanga mai tō hoa ki a koe, kātahi ka mawhiti atu i te āhuatanga. Kāore koe i whakakorekore noa i te tangata engari ko koe kapi rātou. He rite tonu te mahi a te piko i roto i ngā whanaungatanga, ina wareware rawa koe ki tētahi kuputuhi flirty Ka tonoa koe e tetahi engari me haere tonu te kōrero. Nō reira, ehara i te mea nanakia pērā i te kī noa "kāo, kati noa. Āe," engari kei te mau tonu te whakakorenga.
4. Te āmiomio
He pakanga hinengaro tēnei e tino rite ana ki te Gen-Z. Ae, kua huakina e tēnei whakatupuranga he tatau ki tētahi ao o ngā momo whanaungatanga hou katoa. Ko te haereere ko te wā e huna ana tetahi i a koe, engari kei te noho tonu i runga i ō pāpāho pāpori. Mā te mātakitaki i ō kōrero, te pai rānei ki ō pou, ko te katoa o te shebang.
He mea pōhēhē tēnei engari he mea iti noa iho. He mea pea tohu e hiahia ana rātou kia kite koe i a rātouWhakaarohia kei te kōrero koe ki ō mātua mō te āhua o tō noho pōrearea. Ka whakaaro rātou kua porangi koe, ā, i te rā i muri mai ka pātaihia koe mēnā kei te hiahia koe ki te tūtaki ki taua "tamaiti pai i noho ki te taha, ā, kei te mahi inaianei ki Google".
5. Te ruku wai/te whakangao tūpāpaku
Kāo, ehara tēnei i te kēmu ataata hou e kōrerohia ana e tātou. Nō reira, e tūmanako ana mātou katoa e mōhio ana ki ngā kupu whakaipoipo pēnei i te ghosting, ā, ki te mōhio koe ki tēnā, he pai tēnā mōu. Ko te submarining me te zombieing e pā ana ki te wā e whakatau ana te tangata kua ghosting koe ki te hoki mai ki roto i tō ao, kāore he whakamārama.
Ki te pērā, pūhia te māhunga o te tūpāpaku, ā, me noho tawhiti atu i ngā waka ruku katoa, nā te mea ki te tukuna anō e koe tēnei tangata ki roto, ka kite noa koe i te mamae kotahi i pā mai ki a koe i mua.
6. Te wā whakapūmau
Kāore e oti tēnei rārangi kupu mō ngā whanaungatanga me te kore tēnei kupu rongonui! Ngā huarahi hei whawhai i te makariri: kia mau te kākahu, kia noho ki roto, kia awhi! Ko te wā awhi ko ngā wā makariri o te tau e whakaaro ana koe ka memeha haere ō raruraru katoa i roto i tētahi wā awhi pai.
He huarahi pai tēnei hei karo i te korenga o te whanaungatanga piripono ā, kua whakamātauhia e te pūtaiao ka hari ake koe i te awhi. Nō reira, āe, ka whakatauhia e rātou ō raruraru katoa. Tae noa ki te 9 i te ata, ko te tikanga. Me ngā momo whanaungatanga hou katoa o ēnei rā, e tino mohio ana mātou ka kitea e koe he hoa aroha i te wā o te awhi me te ngāwari.
7. Te tūnga nohoanga
"Kua whakanohoia koe ki te papa tākaro mō tēnei kēmu, kia ora anō koe i te wā e whai ake nei" – ka taea e ngā kaitākaro me ngā hoa aroha te hono atu ki tēnei rerenga kōrero. I roto i ngā kupu me ngā tikanga o te whanaungatanga, koinei te mea ka mamae hoki. Ko te tikanga o te whakanoho i tētahi ki te papa tākaro (he kupu whakarite) kia taea ai e koe te tiaki i a ia mō muri mai. "Me i noho tahi tāua, engari kei te taha ahau o tētahi i tēnei wā. Mehemea pea he takakau tāua, tika?" Kāo, kāo noa iho. Kei te whakanohoia koe ki te papa tākaro, kimihia tētahi atu tīma hei tākaro māu.
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8. Te urunga
Ko te tikanga o te whakangāwari ko te wā kei roto koe i tētahi hononga engari he pai ki te pupuri i ētahi kōwhiringa, mehemea ka hinga tō hononga. E mōhio ana koe kia taea ai e koe te whakangāwari i tō mamae mā te awhi i a koe e ngā ringa o tētahi i muri tonu i tō wehenga. Ki te whakaaro koe kei te whakamahia koe hei whakangāwari e tētahi, ko koe te mea e mōhiotia ana ko te te tangata aroha tūmatanui.
9. Puturi te memeha
He pai ake rānei ki a koe te haehae i te whitiki whakapiripiri, te āta tihore rānei, tera pea ka nui ake te mamae? Ko te hunga mataku e whiriwhiri ana i te mea whakamutunga, tera pea ka āta memeha haere koe. Nō reira, koinei tētahi o ngā tikanga o te whanaungatanga me āta mōhio koe. Ko te tikanga o te āta memeha haere ko te hoki whakamuri i te whanaungatanga i roto i te wā roa, kia iti ake ai te mamae o te wehenga. Ki te pātai mai koe ki a mātou, me whakatupu noa he tuaiwi, ka tangohia te whitiki whakapiripiri.
10. Āroira
Ko te kupu "Allosexual" te mea tino rerekē ki te kore-ira tangata. Engari, me pēhea rā te kupu "sexual", e pātai ana pea koe? Ko te kupu "sexual" e tohu ana kei te kaha koe ki te moepuku. Ahakoa ko te tikanga o te "allosexual" ko te wheako i te kukume moepuku ki tētahi, kāore e whakaahua ana i tāu e mahi ana mō taua kukume moepuku, te momo ira tangata e hono ana koe ki a koe, te ira tangata rānei e kukume ana koe. Ko tōna tikanga anake ko te rongo i te kukume moepuku.
11. Kia ora, inoi – hei tīmata kōrero i roto i ngā kupu whakaipoipo
Nā, he aha rawa te ingoa e karangatia ai rātou, me pēhea te tīmata kōrero i roto i ngā kupu whakaipoipo, me pēhea rānei te uru atu ki ā rātou karere whaiaro? E mōhio ana koe kei te whakaaro nui koe ki te karere tuatahi tino nui hei tuku ki te hoa rangatira i kitea e koe. He maha ngā hāora kua pau i a koe ki te whakaaro i ngā huarahi hei whakakatakata, hei whakakatakata, hei aha rānei hei whakaoti i te mahi.
Kia maroke katoa ngā whakaaro, ka mutu ka tukuna atu e koe he "tēnā!" me te inoi kia whakautua mai. A te wā e whai ake nei, tukuna atu ētahi atu taupānga whakaipoipo hei tīmatanga kōreroKaua e tuku kupu "kia ora". Ko te whakautu atu tēnā he mea tino hoha rawa atu.
12. Te hī ika punua
Koinei ngā tāngata e kitea ana e koe i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori, he āhua pai rawa atu, kāore e taea te whakapono. He Harvard, he Stanford, he Oxford?! Āe, he tino pūkenga. I roto i ēnei kupu me ngā tikanga whanaungatanga katoa, he tino tinihanga te kupu "Kittenfishing". E pā ana ki te tangata e teka ana i runga i tana kōtaha kia puta ai he ātaahua ake i a ia anō. Nō reira, kua mutu te mahi, e ngā tāne 5'11 te teitei. Ki te tuhi koe i te 6' i runga i ō kōtaha, kei te hopu koe i tētahi wahine.
13. Te pōma aroha – tētahi o ngā kupu whanaungatanga aroha tino nui
Aroha poma Ko te wā tēnei e ringihia ana e tētahi e piri tahi ana koe te aroha nui me te whakaū pai ki a koe, ā, ka huri hei tangata tinihanga, hei tangata tukino i muri i tō aro nui ki a rātou. Tērā pea ka whakaatu rātou i tētahi putanga pai o rātou anō hei toa i a koe, hei pupuhi i a koe ki te aroha, kātahi ka tahuri ki a koe ka whakahaere i a koe ki ngā mea kāore koe e hiahia ki te mahi. O ngā momo whanaungatanga hou katoa, koinei pea te mea tino mamae, ā, ko tētahi o ngā kupu whanaungatanga aroha tino nui.
14. Pansexuality – mō ngā momo whanaungatanga hou o ēnei rā
Ko te tangata pansexual he tangata e aro ana ki ngā ira katoa. Ko te rerekētanga mai i te bi-sexuality ko te tikanga o te bi-sexuality he aro nui koe ki ngā ira e rua. Ko te pansexual he kupu e whakaae ana, e whakawhanaunga ana hoki, e taea ai e koe te aro ki tetahi, ahakoa kei hea rātou i roto i te whānuitanga o te ira tangata. E ai ki a David Rose i Schitt's Creek, "He pai ki ahau te waina, ehara i te tapanga."
15. Te hopu manu
Ka kitea e koe tō hoa kua roa e tinihanga ana i a koe, ā, i te wā i tūtaki ai koe ki a ia, ka kī ia kāore ia i te mōhio he motuhake kōrua. He mamae tēnei nā te mea i whakaaro koe ko te motuhaketanga he wāhanga nui o te whanaungatanga nui kei roto i a kōrua. Tērā pea ka pērā anō. ka arahi ki te rama hauPērā i tāu mahi ki tētahi pepeke i kitea e koe i roto i tō whare, me pei atu e koe taua tangata i roto i tō ao.
16. Mahanga matewai – tētahi o ngā kupu whakaipoipo ipurangi e tino kitea ana
Ko te mahanga matewai he whakaahua whakaohooho e tukuna ana ki runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori me te whakaaro ki te kukume i ngā kaiwhaiwhai i roto i te moepuku, i raro i ētahi atu whakaaturanga. Ko te whakaahua o tō hoa tāne i kitea e koe e kai ana i te aihikirīmi i te takutai moana, me te kore he hāte, me te whakapiko i ōna uaua? Ae, he mahanga matewai tēnā. I tino hiahia koe ki te whakapiko i ō uaua katoa kia kitea te rama tino tika mō te whakaahua o koe me te aihikirīmi?!
17. Tinihanga iti
Ngā mea kāore e taea te kī he tinihanga, engari he mea tonu e kore e pai kia mahia e tō hoa. Ina whakautu tō hoa ki te tangata i uru atu ki ā rātou karere whaiaro me te hiahia moepuku, ka taea te kī he ngā tohu o te tinihanga moroiti. Koinei ngā kupu mō ngā whanaungatanga kāore pea koe e tika kia wareware.
18. Te hī ika i te ara
Ko te Wokefishing he wā e kīia ai rātou he wahine whai mana, he kaiwhaiwhai mō ngā tika o te hunga takatāpui, he tangata e haere ana ki ngā porotēhi, e karanga ana i ngā pepeha, engari ko te rerekētanga te āhua. Ae, he mea nui kia mōhio koe ki ēnei kupu mō ngā whanaungatanga whakaipoipo kia taea ai e koe te wehewehe i te tangata rūpahu mai i te tangata pono ki a koe.
Ina whakamātauria koe e te wokefishing, tera pea ka mōhio koe ki ō rātou whakaaro tūturu i roto i ngā wiki, i ngā marama rānei i muri i tō tūtakitanga ki a rātou, ā, ka tere tonu te wehenga. He raruraru tēnei e piki haere ana, nō reira kia mataara tonu koe.
19. Te whakakore – tētahi o ngā kupu me ngā tikanga hou o te whanaungatanga
He mihi whakamihi i hangaia hei whakaiti i a koe, hei tono kia whakaaetia koe e te tangata nāna i kōrero. Tērā pea ka arahi te kore aro ki tētahi whanaungatanga kino. "He ātaahua tō makawe. He pai ki ahau te āhua o tō whakarerekētanga mai i tō momo āhua noa", e tohu ana kāore i te tino ātaahua te āhua. Ngā mihi, engari kāo, me mawehe atu koe i tēnei tangata.
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20. Kai Maamaa
Ki te kī mai tetahi kei te āhua koe me te kai reka, koinei pea te mihi nui rawa atu ka taea e te tangata Gen-Z te hoatu ki a koe. Ko tōna tikanga he tino ātaahua tō āhua, e ai ki te Gen-Z, "on fleek".
21. Te Whakamāmā
Ko te kupu me ngā tikanga rongonui o te whanaungatanga i tēnei wā ko te simping. Ko te tikanga o te simping he kōrero mō ngā tāne e mahi ana i ngā mea katoa hei tiki i te aro me te aroha o te wahine e hiahia ana rātou ki te moepuku/aroha. Ka whakarērea e ngā simps ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e rātou kia whai wāhi ai rātou ki te tiki i te aro iti noa iho mai i te wahine, e kore nei e aro nui ki a rātou. He mahi pea te simping. he tohu e hiahia ana ia ki te nui atu i te whakahoahoa.
22. Hononga Kuputuhi
He aha te mea e kiia nei he kōrero whakaipoipo engari kāore e tutuki hei tūtakitanga tūturu? He hononga kuputuhi. Ka puta tēnei ina kore e taea e kōrua te whiti atu i te wā tuku karere kuputuhi, ā, kāore rawa he hua o ngā mahere tūtaki. Ka kite koe i te hunga whakama e tino uaua ana ki te puta atu i tēnei wā.
Me i whiriwhiria e tātou tētahi kupu hei whakamārama i ngā whanaungatanga o ēnei rā, koinei te kupu. Kāore he aha ki te tangata whakama e mahi ana i ngā mahi pēhi-ake, e mau ana i ngā karapu mekemeke, e mahi ana i te mekemeke hau mō te haora. Kei te whakarite ia ki te waea atu!
23. Tirohanga Rā
I roto i ngā kupu katoa mō ngā whanaungatanga, koinei taku tino pai. "Kei te rapu koe i tētahi mea nui? Kei te hiahia koe ki ngā tamariki? He aha tāu e mahi ai hei whakaoti i te pakanga o Iharaira-Parehiatina?" Āe, ehara pea i te mea whakamutunga, engari ki te mea kei roto koe i tētahi uiuinga nui atu i te wā whakatā, kei te pāngia koe e te mea e kiia nei ko te "daterview".
Tērā pea ka mau ohorere koe i ngā pātai kaha kāore koe i whakaaro i te rā tuatahi. He tino mahi te whakahaere i tētahi arotake rā. hapa i te rā tuatahiKi te mea i mua i tō paunga i te kete taro whakamihi, ka pātaihia koe kei hea koe e kite ana i a koe anō me te "whanaungatanga" i roto i ngā tau e 5, haere atu.
24. DTR
Tikanga: tautuhia te whanaungatanga. Kotahi noa te karere ka nui hei tuku i ngā ngaru ohorere ki tō tuarā mēnā i whakaaro koe he mea noa iho i waenganui i a kōrua. Koinei tētahi o ngā kupu me ngā tikanga whanaungatanga kāore pea koe e tino hiahia ana ki te whiwhi mēnā kāore anō koe kia whakaaroaro i te whanaungatanga. Ki te whiwhi koe i tētahi karere DTR, kia rite ki te whai i tētahi o aua kōrero hei whakapakari, hei whakakore rānei i tō "whanaungatanga" (tērā pea ka tāpirihia ētahi kupu whanaungatanga tuwhera whakapoauau ki roto i te kōrero hei hopu i a rātou i te ohorere?).
25. Te tuku karere puhoi
Tērā pea i tika tāu i whakaaro ai mā te ingoa. Ko tōna tikanga, ina tae mai he karere kuputuhi tino puhoi, kāore he take e kitea ana. Tērā pea he pukumahi noa iho, he tika rānei tō manukanuka nui rawa, ā, ka memeha haere tō wairua (panuku ake ki te kore koe e mahara). Ki te tūtaki koe ki a rātou, tera pea ka ahua hiahia rawa koe, arā, he tangata mataku. Ki te kore koe e mahi i tetahi mea, tera pea ka memeha haere tō wairua. Ko te Hopu Tuturu 22 tēnei. Kia ora, i whakaarohia kia kōrero noa mātou ki a koe mō te kupu, kaua e hoatu ngā whakautu katoa ki a koe.
Nā, kei reira! Ngā kupu nui katoa mō ngā whanaungatanga me mōhio koe. Kāore koe e wehi i ēnei kupu e whakamārama ana i te whakaipoipo hou. Haere inaianei ki waho ka kimi i tētahi kai reka e pai ai koe i te wā whakaipoipo.
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