Ngā Tikanga Whakaipoipo—25 Ngā Ture Hei Whakarite i a Koe mō te Angitū 

Mena kei te rapu hoa koe i tēnei wā, kua roa rānei koe e whakaipoipo ana, e mōhio ana koe he uaua te huarahi ki te whakatere me ngā pātai pēnei i te aha te mahi i te whakaipoipo tuatahi, te aha te kore e mahi i te whakaipoipo tuarua, me ngā ture mō te whakaipoipo tuatoru? I roto i te whakaipoipo, he maha ngā wā ka nui ake te kōrero o ngā whakaaro tuatahi me ngā nekehanga ngawari i te kupu. Ehara i te mea ko ngā tikanga tuku iho anake te tikanga pai mō te whakaipoipo; engari ko te hanga hononga pono, te whakaatu whakaute, me te waiho i ia taunekeneke kia rite ki te mea e whai mana ana, e whakautehia ana. 

Kua whakarārangihia e mātou ngā ture whakaipoipo e 25, e tuku ana i ngā tohutohu hei whakanui ake i tō whakapono ki a koe anō, hei pupuri i a koe kia tū pakari, hei āwhina hoki i a koe kia karo i ngā mahanga noa. Ahakoa kei te tīmata noa koe ki te whakaipoipo, kei te rapu rānei koe ki te whakapai ake i tō huarahi, mā ēnei ture koe e whakarite kia angitu, kia whakarite hoki kia whakapau kaha tonu koe ki te whakaatu i tō āhua pai ki mua.

Ngā Tikanga Whakaipoipo—25 Ngā Ture Hei Tākaro 

Ka whai wāhi te tikanga whakatau hoa ahakoa kua maha ngā wā kua tae atu koe ki tētahi whakatau, kei te tūtaki rānei koe ki tō hoa mō te rā. te wā tuatahi i muri i te hui tuihonoMā te whai i ngā tikanga tika mō te whakaipoipo me te mārama ki ngā ture whakaipoipo ka āwhina i a koe kia pai tō wheako, kia wātea ai hoki he wāhi mō ngā hononga ā muri ake nei. Kia rukuhia tātou ki ngā ture e 25 ka taea ai te whakaipoipo kia pai ake, kia angitu ake hoki.

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1. Kaua e whakaroa

Ahakoa e tika ana mō ngā rā katoa, koinei tētahi o ngā ture matua mō te rā tuatahi. Ina whakaarohia te tokomaha o te hunga kāore e kite i te wā tika hei painga, kei te tihi tēnei o tā mātou rārangi tikanga mō te rā. Mā te tae atu i te wā tika e whakaatu kei te whakanui koe i te wā me te kaha o te tangata kē atu. Ahakoa ko tō rā tuatahi, ko tō rā tuatoru rānei, ko te tomuri ka whakatakoto i te reo hē. Kia tino whakarite koe kia tae atu i te wā tika, ā, ki te puta he āhuatanga ohorere, he mea maioha tonu ki te tuku karere tere hei whakamōhio atu kei te tomuri koe.

2. Whakanuia tō āhua 

Koinei tētahi o ngā kaupapa matua ngā tohutohu whakaipoipo mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine anō hoki. Ahakoa he tina whakahirahira, he tikanga rānei mō te hui kawhe tuatahi, ko te āhua o tō whakaaturanga i a koe anō te mea e whakatakoto ana i te wairua o te hui. Mā te kakahu tika e whakaatu te whakaute ki te kaupapa me te tangata kē atu. 

Ahakoa he āhua ōkawa, he āhua noa rānei, whiriwhiria he kākahu e māia ai koe, e whakamarie ai hoki. Mā te whakapaipai, pērā i te makawe ma me te kākahu ma, e whakaatu ana hoki kua whakaarohia e koe tō āhua, kia rongo ai te tangata e whai mana ana ia. Ehara i te mea he tino tika te āhua, engari he whakaatu kei te aro nui koe.

3. Kawea mai he koha ki a rātou

Ehara i te koha 'koha' — he tohu iti noa iho pēnei i te tiakarete, i te putiputi rānei, ka taea te hanga i tētahi whakaaro nui, ā, ka whakaatu hoki kua whakapau kaha koe. He tohu atawhai tawhito tēnei, ā, ka taea te āwhina i te wawahi i te hukapapa i te tīmatanga o te rā. Kōwhiria tētahi mea e tika ana mō te tangata mena e mōhio ana koe ki a ia, ki te piri rānei ki ngā kōwhiringa tuku iho, e maiohahia ana e te katoa. Kāore tēnei tohu iti e hiahiatia kia nui rawa, engari e whakaatu ana i tō whakaaro nui me tō whai whakaaro nui.

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4. Kaua e keri wawe ki ngā mea o mua

Koinei tētahi o ngā ture matua mō ngā rā tuatahi. Kāore i te tūtohutia kia kōrero wawe rawa mō ngā whanaungatanga o mua. Ina koa ka mōhio koe ki tētahi tangata hou, he pai ake te arotahi ki te wā o nāianei me te wā kei te heke mai. Ki te hiahia koe kia kaua e taea te karo i te kōrero mō ngā whanaungatanga o mua, waiho kia roa ake te wā i roto i te kōrero. Mā tēnei ka whakaatu i te pakeketanga o ngā kare ā-roto, ā, ka waihanga i tētahi āhuarangi pai mō te rā. Ina koa i ngā rā tuatahi, kaua e tuku noa i ngā kōrero maha, kaua hoki e pātai mō ngā whanaungatanga o mua ki te kore e tukuna. Koinei pea te mea nui rawa atu o ngā mea. ngā mea kāore e tika ana kia mahia i te rā tuatahi.

5. Kaua e whakamahi i tō waea

Puritia tō waea pūkoro ki roto i tō pēke, ki roto rānei i tō pēke, ā, arotahi ki te tangata me te kore he mea hei whakararuraru. He tangata pukumahi pea koe, he maha ngā waea me ngā karere kuputuhi e whiwhi ana koe. Engari ko tētahi o ngā mahi whakaipoipo hou ko te pupuri i tō wā me tō aro ki te tangata kē. He whakaatu tēnei i te whakaute, ā, he wāhanga nui o ngā tikanga whakaipoipo. Mēnā he āhuatanga ohorere, he māmā ake, he pai ake hoki te whakapāha i a koe me te whakaaetanga a te tangata kē, me te pupuri i te waea poto me te mārama.

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6. Kia noho koe

Me noho tonu koe i a koe anō i ngā wā katoa, i roto i ngā momo whakaritenga whakaipoipo katoa. Engari he mea nui ake tēnei mēnā i hono tuatahi koe ki te ipurangi. I te mea he maha ngā wā ka whakaari te hunga i runga i ngā taupānga whakaipoipo i a rātou anō, he mea nui tēnei tikanga whakaipoipo ipurangiKaua e whakanui rawa i ngā kōrero, kaua hoki e whakaari i a koe anō he tangata ehara koe i te tangata. Mā te mārama mai i te tīmatanga ka ārai i ngā māramatanga ā muri ake nei, ā, ka whakatakoto i te turanga mō tētahi hononga kaha ake.

7. Kaua e whakahaere i te kōrero

I te tīmatanga o te rere o te kōrero, he mea nui kia rongo kōrua tetahi i tetahi. He kōrero tēnei, ā, ehara tēnei wā i te mea mō kōrua anake. Kia rere tonu ai te kōrero, ka taea e kōrua te kōrero mō:

• Runaruna
• hiahia
• Ngā mahi a tetahi ki tetahi
• Ngā pukapuka me ngā kiriata tino pai

Ki te tīmata te kōrero ki te whakaaro he taha kotahi, pātai atu ngā pātai hei āwhina i a koe kia mōhio ake ki a rātou me te whakauru i a rātou ki te kōrero. Ko te tikanga tika mō te whakaipoipo ko te whakarite kia pai te noho o tō hoa, kia taea ai e rātou te kōrero me te kore he aukati.

8. Kia wawe rawa te karo i ngā kaupapa taumaha

Ko tētahi atu o ngā tohutohu nui mō te whakaipoipo mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ko te karo i ngā kaupapa taumaha i te tīmatanga. He wā tōmua te kōrero mō ngā herenga roa pēnei i te marena, te tamariki rānei i ngā whakaipoipo wawe. Ko te arotahi tuatahi me ako atu mō ngā āhua, ngā hiahia, me ngā uara o tētahi ki tētahi. E hangai ana tēnei ki ngā ture whakaipoipo tuatahi e āwhina ana ki te karo i te pēhanga koretake. He tika ēnei kōrerorero ina he kaupapa tūturu tā kōrua, ā, ka taea e kōrua te kite i tō heke mai me tēnei tangata. Ko te kawe wawe rawa i a rāua – inā koa i te whakaipoipo tuatahi – ka tino pā kino. kaiwhakakore whakaaetanga.

I kōrero mai a Natalie, he kōtiro 29-tau te pakeke, i tana wheako mō tētahi rā whakatā. "I haere ahau ki tētahi rā whakatā kawhe me tētahi tāne, ā, i pai te haere. He pai te kākahu o te tāne, ā, he rangatira katoa. Engari ki taku whakaaro kāore tētahi i whakarite i a ia mō ngā mea kāore e tika kia mahia i tētahi rā whakatā tuarua. Ahakoa he kōrero noa iho te rā tuatahi, ka tīmata ia ki te kōrero mō te whakapau kaha me tō māua heke mai i te rā tuarua anake. I mataku ahau, ā, i whakakahoretia e au tētahi rā whakatā tuatoru."

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9. Kia aro ki ngā tikanga taketake o te tēpu

Me horapa ō tikanga whakaipoipo ki te āhua o tō whanonga i te tēpu. Ngā tikanga māmā pēnei i:

• Ngaungau me te katia o te mangai
• Te whakatakoto i tō tauera ki runga i tō waewae
• Kāore e kōrero ana me te kī tonu i tō waha 

he huarahi nui ki te waiho i tētahi whakaaro pai. Ko te atawhai me te whai whakaaro i te wā kai he wāhanga o ngā tikanga whakaipoipo. Ahakoa ngā whanonga pāpori kino ka taea e koe te hanga kia kore e taea te whakawhanaunga.

10. Pātai atu hei whakaatu i te hiahia

He wā pai ngā wā whakaipoipo hei whakamōhio atu ki te tangata. Ahakoa kei te tūtaki kanohi ki te kanohi, kei te rapu tikanga whakaipoipo ipurangi rānei, ko tētahi o ngā ture whakaipoipo hei whai ko te whai wāhi atu ki te kōrero. Nō reira, me pātai atu koe i ngā pātai e tika ana ki tō hoa. Mā tēnei ka whakaatu kei te hiahia koe ki te ako atu mō rātou. Mā tēnei ka pai ake tō noho tahi. Ko ētahi tauira ko:

• "He aha te pukapuka tino pai ki a koe, ā, he aha ai?"
• "Mehemea ka taea e koe te haere ki hea, kei hea koe?"
• "He aha te mahi whakangahau tino pārekareka ki a koe?"

Mena kua kitea e koe he uaua ki te kimi i ngā pātai tika i mua, pānuihia he kōrero mō ngā pātai e tika ana kamata korero.

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11. Kaua e whakapehapeha

Ko tētahi atu o ngā ture whakaipoipo ngaro ko te kaua e whakamanamana. He maha pea āu whakatutukitanga hei whakamanamana. Tō mahi, tō motuka whakahīhī, tō whare noho papai, tō mana pāpori, tō mātauranga…ka pai katoa. Engari kāore tetahi e pai ki te whakapehapeha. Ko te ngākau mahaki te mea nui ina tae mai ki te te hanga i tētahi whakaaro tikaKa kitea pea te whakapehapeha he whakapehapeha, ā, ka kore e pai ki tō hoa. Arotahi ki te kōrero pono, kaua ki te ngana ki te miharo ki ngā taonga.

12. Kaua e inu nui rawa

Mā te inu nui rawa i te wā o te rā ka arahi pea ki ngā āhuatanga whakama me ngā pouri. Kia taurite te inu waipiro, kia mau tonu te mana whakahaere i ō whanonga. He whakaatu tēnei i te kawenga me te whakaute, ā, ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakatau pai ake i te wā o te rā.

I kōrero mai a Ethan, he tāne 25-tau te pakeke, i tana wheako ki tētahi kōtiro. "I tono ahau i tētahi kōtiro kia haere māua ki te kiriata, ā, i pai māua ki taua mea. Kātahi ka kī mai ia me inu māua. Ahakoa kāore au i te pai ki te inu i te wā tuatahi o te rā, i whakaae ahau, me te whakaaro he pai te inu i ētahi. I mutu ahau i ētahi engari i haere tonu ia tae noa ki te wā i haurangi rawa ai ia, ā, kāore i taea e ia te hikoi. Kāore i taea e au te waiho i a ia pērā, ā, kāore hoki i taea e au te kawe i a ia ki te kāinga, he rā tuatahi tēnei. He waimarie nōku i mōhio ahau ki tētahi o ōna hoa, ā, i whakapā atu ahau ki a rātou, ā, i whakaae ia ki te kawe i a ia ki te kāinga. He wheako whakamā, he iti noa iho."

13. Kia tuwhera tonu te hinengaro

He maha ngā wā ka huihuia ngā tāngata he rerekē ō rātou papamuri me ō rātou wheako i te wā e whakaipoipo ana. Mā te tuwhera o te hinengaro ka taea e koe te awhi i aua rerekētanga. Ki te mea he mea miharo koe mō tō hoa, kaua e whakaatu i te ohorere, i te whakahē rānei, inā koa i roto i ngā āhuatanga tikanga whakaipoipo ipurangi. Kia tuwhera te hinengaro, kaua hoki e whakahe i te tangata i runga i ngā take koretake - ki te kore ia e tino nui ki a koe.

14. Tū atu ina hiahiatia

Nō reira, ko te ātaahua, te whakaatu i ngā tikanga pai, te toa me te whakaatu i te putanga pai rawa atu o koe, ka kiia ēnei he tikanga pai mō te rā tuatahi. Engari, ki te whanonga kino tō hoa, ki te whakararuraru rānei i a koe, kaua e mangere ki te whakatika i te take. He mea nui te pupuri i ō ake rohe. Me āta whakaatu i tō whakararuraru, engari me te māia. Ehara i te mea ka tiaki noa i tō oranga engari ka whakatakoto hoki i te reo mō whakaute tahi.

Ko te whai i ngā tikanga tika, ehara i te mea ka whakamanawanui koe ki ngā mahi katoa a te tangata. Mēnā kei te whakaaro koe kua takahia e te tangata te rārangi, me kōrero pono koe. 

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15. Kia tupato ki to reo tinana

Kei te kōrero tō hoa i tētahi mea nui ki a rātou, ā, ka kitea koe e tirotiro ana i ētahi atu wāhine i roto i te wharekai. Tērā pea kei te anga atu tō waewae ki te tatau, ā, kei te whakaaro tō hoa e hiahia ana koe kia puta wawe atu. Ehara i te mea koinā tō hiahia, e tika?

He mea nui te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero kore-waha i roto i te whakaipoipo. Kia mataara ki tō reo tinana me te reo o tō hoa. He pai reo tinana ka taea te tohu i te pai o te rā tuatahi. Ka rite ēnei tohu ki:

• E okioki ana
• Te pupuri kanohi
• Te ataata i tō rā
• Te karo i ngā tūnga kati

16. Kia pai koe

Te manukanuka me te whakaipoipo He hononga tata tonu tēnei i te nuinga o te wā. Ahakoa te pai o te rā, me ngana kia ngahau. Kia maumahara i haere mai koe ki te ngahau. Mā tēnā ka āwhina i te whakaiti i te āwangawanga. Whakatenatenahia tō hoa kia ngahau hoki, kia kore ai kōrua e pouri mō tā kōrua whakatau ki te whakarite i tēnei rā.

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17. Kaua e ārahi i tō hoa ki te wā tika

Koinei te mea tino nui o te whakaaro nui mō ngā tikanga whakatau tata. Ki te kore koe e tino whakapono ka pai ngā mea i waenganui i a kōrua, kaua e ārahi i tō hoa. Kia mārama tonu ki tāu e hiahia ana mai i te whakatau tuatahi, kaua hoki e tuku i te tumanako teka ki te tangata kē. Koinei te huarahi ki te whakatau tata me te whakaute. Mā te mārama ka ārai i te whakapoauau, ā, ka taea e kōrua te neke whakamua mā te maeneene.

Ā, mō te tangata e whiwhi ana i te hoa, kaua e whakaaro he koretake tēnei. He kawenga anō tā te tangata kua whakaipoipohia e koe, ā, ehara i te mea he whakakorenga i a koe mēnā kāore tēnei whakaipoipo e arahi ki tētahi atu whakaipoipo.

18. Kia rite tonu ki te utu i te pire

Ko wai me utu i te rāI ngā wā o mua, he tikanga whakaipoipo te utu a ngā tāne, he tohu tēnei mō te rangatira. Heoi, i tēnei ao whakaipoipo hou, kua waiho hei tikanga whakaipoipo mā ngā wāhine te tuku utu. Ahakoa he tāne, he wahine rānei koe, kāore te tumanako e waiho hei taha kotahi. He tohu atawhai te tuku ki te wehewehe i te pire, ki te "haere ki te Tatimana" rānei, ā, he tohu ōrite.

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19. Whakaaturia te whakaute ki te hunga e karapoti ana i a koe

Ahakoa he hui kawhe, he inu me te tina rānei, ka rite tonu ngā ture mō te whakaipoipo. He tikanga atawhai taketake tōu ki te tangata kē, ahakoa e kōrero ana koe mō te teití noa tikanga, he whakaritenga whaimana rānei.

Ahakoa he kaimahi i te wharekai, he kaimahi ratonga rānei, ko ngā tikanga whakaipoipo me whakaute me te whakaute i te katoa. Ko te whanoke ki te hunga e karapoti ana i a koe me te kanga ki a rātou e whakaatu ana i te papaku o te āhua. Kāore tetahi e pai ki tēnā.

20. Whakahonoretia nga rohe 

Ahakoa he ā-tinana, he ā-hinengaro, he ā-kōrero rānei, me te whakaute ngā rohe whakaipoipo He mea nui rawa atu. Ki te kore tō hoa e pai ki ētahi kaupapa, ki ētahi mahi rānei, whakautehia ō rātou rohe. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe, "he pai te kihi i te rā tuatahi?" Ko te whakautu he āe mēnā he pai ki tō hoa. Tirohia ō rātou reo tinana, ki te kore rānei koe e tino mōhio, pātai noa ki a rātou he aha ngā mea e pai ana ki a rātou. Mā tēnei ka whakaatu i te pakeketanga me te aroha, ka āwhina i te hanga whakawhirinaki.

21. Kia mārama ōu whakaaro

Mai i te tīmatanga, he mea nui kia mārama te kōrero mō tāu e rapu ana i roto i te whanaungatanga. Ahakoa he hoa noa iho, he hononga nui ake rānei, mā te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero mārama ka ārai i ngā māramatanga kore. E whakaatu ana hoki i te pakeketanga me te whakaute i te wā me ngā kare ā-roto o te tangata. Mā te whakapuaki i ō whakaaro ka āwhina i a kōrua ki te whakatere i te whanaungatanga me ngā tumanakohanga ōrite, kia kore ai tetahi o te taha e pōhēhē, e pōhēhē rānei.

22. Meatia te mea e tika ana

He aha ngā tikanga mō te hui tuatahi ina tūtaki, ina poroporoaki rānei? Ka tukuna mai e koe tō nama waea? He pai te kihi i te hui tuatahi? Kia pēhea te roa i muri i te hui tuatahi ka tono ai koe mō te hui tuarua? I tēhea hui ka pai te moe tahi? 

Ahakoa he ture whānui mō te whakaipoipo, i te mutunga, ko koe anake te tangata e mōhio ana ki te ahunga whakamua o tō hoa. Ko koe anake ka taea te whakatau i te mea tika mō tētahi wā motuhake. Mena kei te aro mai tō hoa ki a koe, kua kite rānei koe ngā tohu i pai te haere o te rā tuatahi, ka taea e koe te whakaaro ki te mahi i te nekehanga e whai ake nei. 

I runga i te wāhi kei roto koe i te wā whakaipoipo, tera pea ko te kihi tuatahi, te haere ki tō rātou wāhi, ki tō wāhi rānei, te tono rānei kia moe tāne. Waihoki, ki te kore koe e hiahia, ka taea e koe te whakapuaki i te aroha me te mārama. Ko te mōhio ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi ko te whakaute i ō rātou kare ā-roto.

23. Whakaarohia te hui anō

Mena kua maha āu rā whakatā, ā, e rite ana tō wairua ki ērā, kāore he kino ki te kī atu kia tūtaki anō, i roto pea i tētahi wāhi whaiaro ake. Tērā pea kāore e ngāwari te whakatau i tēnei i te rā tuatahi. Mena he kaha te hononga, kaua e mangere ki te kī atu i tētahi atu rā. Kaua e whakaroa ki te whakaaro kia pēhea te roa i muri i te rā tuatahi me tono atu mō tētahi atu rā. Kia tika te kōrero mō tō hiahia, e kore e whakamārama noa i te koretake engari ka akiaki hoki i te tangata kia pērā anō. 

24. Me whai tonu i muri i te rā

Me whakapā atu ki tō hoa mā te waea atu, mā te karere kuputuhi rānei. Ahakoa e tika ana mō ngā hoa katoa, he tino pai tēnei. ra tuatahi ngā tikanga pai hei whakaatu i a rātou kāore koe i te whakapau noa i tō wā ki a rātou. Mā te tuku karere kuputuhi, waea rānei e whakaatu i tō maioha ki tō wā tahi. Ka hoatu hoki he wā ki a koe ki te aromatawai i te tūnga o ngā mea i waenganui i a kōrua. Ahakoa kāore ngā mea e pai ana, mā te tuku karere e whakaatu he tangata pai koe, ā, kāore he whakaaro ki te whara i tetahi.

25. Kaua e kimi i tētahi mea hei wairua mēnā kāore koe e hiahia ana 

Ahakoa kāore i rite te haere o ngā mea ki tā te mahere, i puta mai tētahi mea i te rā i whakapōrearea ai koe, i kore rānei koe i kite i tētahi hononga ki tō hoa, he pai ake te whakaatu mārire i te kore aro i te ngaro atu. Ka taea e te wairua te waiho i te tangata kē kia pōhēhē, kia mamae hoki. Engari, kia pono, kia mārama hoki, me te whai i ngā ture o te whakaipoipo me te whakaute.

Thoughts Final

Ko te angitu o te whakaipoipo he whakaute, he pono, he pono hoki. Mā te whai i ēnei ture e 25, ka whakarei ake koe i tō wheako whakaipoipo, ka whakapiki ake hoki i ngā tūponotanga ki te hanga hononga whai tikanga. Ahakoa kei te whakatere koe i ngā ture o te whakaipoipo tuatahi, kei te whakaaro rānei ki ngā ture o te whakaipoipo tuatoru, kia maumahara ki te noho tonu, kia ngahau, me te whakaute tonu i ngā rohe o te tangata kē.

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