I whakaatu ia i ngā tohu hoa whakataetae engari i aroha nui ahau ki a ia…

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He hoa piripono a Titir rāua ko Annu mai anō i taku mahara. He maha ngā āhuatanga ōrite o rāua. He wahine takatāpui rāua, he maha ngā momo ā-ira, he tauira mātauranga tangata, he hunga hihiri hoki. Engari e whakaatu ana rāua i ngā tohu hoa whakataetae.

I ētahi atu mea, he tino rerekē rawa rāua. He rite tonu tō rāua whakahoahoa ki te ekenga tere me ngā pikinga me ngā hekenga me ngā takahurihuri: engari i te mutunga ka mutu tahi rāua. Ko tētahi o ngā tino take o te pakanga ko ngā hiahia aroha e tohaina ana, ā, anei te putanga a Titir mō ā rāua pakanga.

(I korerotia ki a Stotropama Mukherjee)


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Kaua e pohehe! He aroha nui tōku ki a Annu. Engari i ētahi wā he tamaiti amuamu ia. Tukua ahau kia kōrero atu mō tēnei kōtiro i tūtaki ai tāua, a Rita.

Nō reira, i reira tētahi huihuinga Harry Potter i whakaarohia māua ko Annu kia haere tahi, engari i tomuri a Annu. I reira ka tūtaki ahau ki a Rita. I tino pai ahau ki a ia, ā, māua tīmata tonu te takaroI te taenga mai o Annu, ka whakamōhiotia ia e au ki a Rita. I tino kitea te aroha o Annu ki a Rita. I te mutunga o te hui, ka hoki māua me te miharo.

Kotahi marama i muri mai ka waea mai a Annu ki ahau me te kī mai, "Rita" i tuku karere ki a iaKa mea atu a Annu, “Kei te mōhio koe, e Titir, ki taku whakaaro kei te hiahia ia ki ahau.” Ka mea atu ahau, “Tērā pea engari kua moe kē māua.”

Kāore he take mō te whakaaro i te riri o Annu ki ahau. Engari i kite koe i whai wāhi ahau, ā, i whakamahia e au: Me pēhea ahau e whakapaetia ai mō tēnā? Tērā pea ka kīia e koe hae kāore rānei, tera pea karanga mai ki ahau he paitini engari i pai ahau ki te noho ki runga ake i a ia i roto i te whakataetae.

Koinei te āhua o te nuinga o te wā. He pono, e whakahīhī ana ia ki ahau mō taku toa me taku kaha ki te whai i ngā mea katoa, engari i te mutunga ka pā ki a ia. Ā, he tohu hoa whakataetae ēnei, tika?

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I tīmata i tēnei tangata

I tīmata katoa tēnei raruraru i tētahi tama, pērā i te tikanga. I a au tētahi 'hoa whai hua' te māramatanga ki tēnei tangata ko Aritra te ingoa. Kāore māua i te huna i tō māua whanaungatanga, engari kāore hoki māua i te tino whakapuaki i tēnei. I a māua ehara i te mea motuhake, nō reira i te whakaipoipo anō hoki māua ki ētahi atu tāngata.

Ahakoa kāore au i te mōhio, ka tīmata tana whakaipoipo ki a Annu, ā, kāore a Annu i te mōhio mō māua ko Aritra. I noho tahi māua katoa i te nuinga o te wā, ā, i whakapae a Annu he mea kei waenganui i a māua ko Aritra.

Nā reira i pātai tika mai ia ki ahau mēnā he aroha tōku ki a Aritra. Ka mea atu ahau, "Kāore au i te aroha ki a Aritra engari he aroha tāua." piia atu i ētahi wā.” I te tīmatanga ka riri ia nā te mea kāore au i kōrero ki a ia mō taua mea, engari kātahi ka mōhio ia ko Aritra te tangata wā takirua tatou.

I whakaae a Annu kei te aroha ia ki a ia, ā, i kihi rāua. I mea atu ahau, "E Annu, ko koe taku hoa, ā, he mea nui ake koe ki ahau, ka motuhia e au te hononga katoa ki a Aritra, ki te mea koinā tāu e hiahia ana." Engari ko Annu i te mea kua tinihangatia.

Nō reira, i whakatau tahi māua kia motuhia ngā hononga katoa ki a Aritra. Ki taku whakaaro kei te whakapae tonu ia i ahau mō tēnā; he iti noa iho.

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Engari koinā te mea: Ka whiriwhiria tonutia e māua ko Annu tetahi i tetahi, kaua ko tetahi kotiro, tama rānei e ngana ana ki te whakararu i a māua. He nui te rārangi tae noa ki te tama whakamutunga, e Samrat. Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai kei te whakataetae tetahi hoa i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga? Kei te whakaaro ahau ki tēnā.

He aha tāu e mahi ai mēnā he hoa whakataetae tōu?

He kairīpoata whakaahua hihiko a Samrat i tae mai ki roto i tō mātou ao, pērā i te hau mātao o te raumati. I tūtaki ahau ki a ia i tētahi huihuinga mā roto i ngā hoa noa. I haere mai ētahi o ōku hoa ki tētahi toa kai ohorere, ko Samrat te kai tunu.

I haere ahau ki reira hei tautoko i ōku hoa, ā, i tino aroha ahau ki te kai. E maumahara ana ahau miri I taku kitenga tuatahi i a Samrat, i taku kitenga ko ia te tangata i muri i te tunu kai reka. I tae mai a Annu i taua ahiahi, ā, i whai i taua tikanga anō. Kāore ia i awhi i a Samrat, engari i aroha tonu ia ki a ia.

I mea ia kei te waea atu ia ki ngā dibs i runga i a Samrat. Kei te waea atu ki ngā dibs? He pono? He aha tāua, 12? Engari kāore au i aro ki taua wā. Kāore au i aro tae noa ki te tukunga mai a Samrat i tētahi tono hoa ki ahau i runga i a Pukamata.

Kāore i roa ka noho mātou ngā hoa i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori ā, ka tīmata te kōrero mā roto i ngā tuhinga. I aroha ahau ki tana mahi hei kaiwhakaahua ngaio, ā, he 'hononga tuhinga tawhiti' tā māua.

Kātahi ka uru atu ia ki taku whare wānanga i muri i ngā marama e ono, ā, i whai wāhi māua ki te noho tahi. I reira ka tūtaki ia ki a Annu, ā, ka noho hei hoa mōna. Tata ki te tau i muri mai, ka kōrero mai a Annu kei te aroha ia ki a Samrat, ā, kei te ārahi tonu a Samrat i a ia, ahakoa kāore i te tino tata ki a ia.

Nā, he aha taku i kite ai? Ngā tohu hoa whakataetae! Me aroha tonu ia ki te tangata i pai ai ahau? He hae tēnei, kāore?

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I taea e au tēnei mā te aroha ki a Annu. Ae, me kī atu ahau i paku hae ahau i te wā i whakakitea ai e Annu te hiahia o Samrat ki a ia. I pātai atu ahau ki a Samrat he aha te mea e tupu ana. I whakamana mai a Samrat kāore he mea pērā, ā, he hoa noa iho rāua ko Annu.

Engari i ia wā ka titiro atu ahau ki a ia, ko te mamae anake o Annu i kitea e au. I whakaatu ia i ngā tohu hoa whakataetae engari kāore he mea i taea e au te mahi i tua atu i te aroha nui ki a ia.

Kāore i taea e au te manawanui atu. takahia ki a ia, ā, kāore i kōrero ki a Annu mō te whanaungatanga ki a Samrat mō te tau me te hawhe. I wehe atu hoki a Annu i a ia, ā, he tino whakamarie tēnei mōku.

Kua oati ahau kia kaua e tukua tetahi atu tama, kotiro rānei kia haere mai i waenganui i a tātou anōAhakoa pērā tonu, ka whiriwhiria tonutia e au a Annu i runga ake i te katoa. Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai mēnā he hoa whakataetae tō hoa ki a koe? E mōhio ana ahau mā roto i aku kare ā-roto he whakataetae a Annu ki ahau, koia ia i aroha ai ki ngā tāngata katoa e pai ana ahau ki a ia. Engari e aroha ana ahau ki a ia, ā, ināianei kei te ngahau noa ahau ki te mea i a ia e hae ana.

I te mutunga o te rā kei reira ia mōku, ā, kei reira anō hoki ahau mōna.

I whakaaro ia he pai tana noho i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga tuwhera, tae noa ki te tīmatanga o ngā feaa.

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